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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Even though I know the answer deep down would me being disabled put anyone off

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

If you are somebody's taste you'll get along famous, if not you you'll get passed by. Plenty of guys are on here so simply because you are disabled doesn't mean you'll get a meet any quicker than anybody else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought that to be the case it's just me not feeling my usual self confident self that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean would it put anyone off meeting someone who is disabled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me. Same rules apply as to anyone who isn't disabled though. . . As long as I like him and want to fuck him then disabled or not wouldn't be an issue. Disability doesn't define you, your personality and character does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I know I'm just having a down day that's all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you actually disabled? If you are having a down day posting in the forum is unlikely to cheer you up. In fact it will probably make you feel worse. Cheer up, put some music on or something. XXX

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I am actually disabled I wouldn't have posted If I wernt I've got cerebral palsy affecting my left leg x

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If you don't mind me asking, in what way are you disabled?

MrB

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they do on here only being honest because i have some Disabled too which people see in the way i write..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cerebral palsy affecting left leg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not bother us. We are attracted to personalities more than anything else. But we would want to know any restrictions that the disability may cause before play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not many restrictions was gonna message you but I can't as males are blocked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cerebral palsy affecting left leg "

I have slight Cerebral palsy which effects my left side so I know where you coming from..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had a meet just over a week ago! Most single guys haven't had your success, so you must be doing something right. Quit your jibba jabba boy

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By *onnyJohnMan
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Yeah I know I'm just having a down day that's all x "

Mate having a down day is normal, everyone has them now and again.

Thing is posting it on the forums could as has been said make you feel worse, there are some great people on here but there are some savages too.....

Chin up mate, look on the bright side it could be worse, you could be ginger like me

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

no, being Disabled does not put us off. xxx

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row

I'm guessing you one of many on here. I'd also give the Outsiders Trust they do a fantastic job, and are lovely people.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Even though I know the answer deep down would me being disabled put anyone off "

If we met single guys, no it wouldn't put us off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently chatted with a young man who was disabled and used wheel chair from here. Sadly he not on site anymore

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

No-one's perfect, and if they tell you they are, they're lying

It's not your shit, it's other peoples'.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Even though I know the answer deep down would me being disabled put anyone off "

Yes it would.

I'm here to fulfil my fantasy and my fantasy man doesn't have a disability. I'm over 50, Domme and fat...limited appeal. I look for those seeking me and accept I'll never have universal appeal.

That's why after seven years I'm still a happy bunny here...just a thought.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Would depend on the disability and the extent

Some are simple to get around, others not so much. And since I am here for my fun, I would take that into account. If it looks like hard work for me or reduces my enjoyment, then I will not be interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have got cerebral palsy affecting my left leg basically means I walk with a limp xx

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I have got cerebral palsy affecting my left leg basically means I walk with a limp xx"

I would not have a problem with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No your or anyone else with a disability we wouldn't be put off, its down to personality and if there's that spark between us all .

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some won't be bothered, others will.

Much like single men who question whether being black, being white, being Asian, being too tall, being too short, being too skinny, being too fat, being too young, being too old or the countless other variations of this question not everyone will find you attractive and focusing on what you can influence rather than blaming what you can't influence for a lack of success us always the way to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Not many restrictions was gonna message you but I can't as males are blocked x"

Being a single male is probably the biggest thing holding anyone back on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people won't be put off, some will. Anyone who is negative towards solely on the basis you have a disability (not the people who say they wouldn't meet you because of limitations your disability may put on an sexual activities) aren't worth your time of day.

No one is perfect, if your personality and attitude outshines your disability, I'm positive most people wouldn't give your disability a second thought.

Now go and do something you enjoy to cheer yourself up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I know the answer deep down would me being disabled put anyone off "

Wouldnt put me off.

If I liked the woman then thats all that would matter to me.

Being honest too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I am actually disabled I wouldn't have posted If I wernt I've got cerebral palsy affecting my left leg x"

Mrs has played with you in the past so don't worry and just go for it

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Some won't be bothered, others will.

Much like single men who question whether being black, being white, being Asian, being too tall, being too short, being too skinny, being too fat, being too young, being too old or the countless other variations of this question not everyone will find you attractive and focusing on what you can influence rather than blaming what you can't influence for a lack of success us always the way to go "

Simply: this!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could you verify me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could you verify me x"

HA HA classic gold !

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dependson on the disability for me, if it limits their sexual activities then probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldnt bother me i go for personslity more

i have a skin issue called vitiligo and the people who look at my skin first and not me arnt work meeting!!!! So dont worry just be you ....your hot anyway you shouldnt have a problem with meets xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they do not judge people with disabled i think they do because its twice as hard for them than normal men

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

This site is also about my fantasy so probably yes, it would be me off

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By *indmill and weetabixCouple
over a year ago

Kettering


"Yes I am actually disabled I wouldn't have posted If I wernt I've got cerebral palsy affecting my left leg x

Mrs has played with you in the past so don't worry and just go for it"

Louise has played with you as well, your disability didn't put her off

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I don't know to be honest,probably not if I found someone super fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You had a meet just over a week ago! Most single guys haven't had your success, so you must be doing something right. Quit your jibba jabba boy "
here here ur making me feel shite ur getting more pum pum than me stop ya moaning leave that to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no ones perfect we all have a disability of some kid mines a monday morning for work every excuse in the book lol, but we are all the same in bed unless you tell them whos to know half the time most have had a drink, i am going to get blasted for this but here you go mate your as good as the rest one here,

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By *ojo1964Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I think someone should grow a pair, what are you moaning for? You look as you're meeting people just fine.

I also have CP, I'm in a wheelchair, I live alone. Until recently, I worked full time for 27 yrs. Yet I send messages but I get blocked or I don't even get a reply back, even when they when promise to reply back, yet people judge me, that's fine but I know they'll miss out.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree due to having slight cp my self and people who say it does not put them off are lying i think.

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By *ojo1964Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Yesterday, I wrote to someone, when I checked this morning to I had a reply.

So I wasn't surprised to find that although the said person had read my message but also she had blocked me too.

I've been getting this lately and its also now feel my confidence is taking a knocking too. I feel now that I will never meet anyone again.

I always thought the Swinging Community was better than this where everyone was equal? It quite obviously not the case especially in the West Midlands area.

At the end on the day all I'm asking for is to be treated on an equal basis, OK you may not want to meet, fine but you could just write a quick reply but to block me, WHY? do you think I'm going to pester you? Well think again, you lose out. I'll just move on.

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By *itsmcgee4Couple
over a year ago

Central


"Yesterday, I wrote to someone, when I checked this morning to I had a reply.

So I wasn't surprised to find that although the said person had read my message but also she had blocked me too.

I've been getting this lately and its also now feel my confidence is taking a knocking too. I feel now that I will never meet anyone again.

I always thought the Swinging Community was better than this where everyone was equal? It quite obviously not the case especially in the West Midlands area.

At the end on the day all I'm asking for is to be treated on an equal basis, OK you may not want to meet, fine but you could just write a quick reply but to block me, WHY? do you think I'm going to pester you? Well think again, you lose out. I'll just move on."

But lots of people do pester you, so some people find it easier just to block to avoid that. And if they didn't want to meet you anyway then they're not really losing out are they?

Anyhoo chin up and keep trying

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