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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. " don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too " Bless you lol.......I've been to many a party, where the white husband sits holding his wife's handbag, whilst she's shagging every black man she can get hold of. ........maybe it's a thing? But I don't get it. | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab " I know lol....fab is a strange place. | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place." It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place. It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. " See!!!!!!! This is what I mean!!!!! She wouldn't shag a black guy in real life????????? Doesn't make sense, and watch out, she might leave you for a black guy one day (only joking ) | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " Because marriage isn't about just fucking. It's not about skin colour. It's about love. Choosing the right person you want to spend ur life with to raise kids , build a home together and take care of you through thick and thin. And if swinging is part of it where they can have a black guy fantasy then it's not your business to try and understand or decipher. What married people get up to is no one else business. | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place. It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. See!!!!!!! This is what I mean!!!!! She wouldn't shag a black guy in real life????????? Doesn't make sense, and watch out, she might leave you for a black guy one day (only joking ) " She did have a Half cast boy friend before we met. but then we met and fell in love and had kids. When I said the real world I meant as a normal couple we wouldn't be fucking anyone else but as we're swingers we can so sometimes she likes a change and has some black cock just like she licks pussy so does that mean she should of married a lived happily ever after with a women as she's probably licked more pussy than had black cocks lol. As for leaving me she might enjoy playing with black cock other white cocks and pussy but no one in the ten years has satisfied her like I do in bed because we have much more than just sex :- | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Because marriage isn't about just fucking. It's not about skin colour. It's about love. Choosing the right person you want to spend ur life with to raise kids , build a home together and take care of you through thick and thin. And if swinging is part of it where they can have a black guy fantasy then it's not your business to try and understand or decipher. What married people get up to is no one else business." | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " Using your logic if you're bi, why not have a poly relationship all under the same roof and live happily ever after. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too Bless you lol.......I've been to many a party, where the white husband sits holding his wife's handbag, whilst she's shagging every black man she can get hold of. ........maybe it's a thing? But I don't get it. " What's to get? Do we have to "get" other people's preferences? | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place. It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. See!!!!!!! This is what I mean!!!!! She wouldn't shag a black guy in real life????????? Doesn't make sense, and watch out, she might leave you for a black guy one day (only joking ) She did have a Half cast boy friend before we met. :- " I think you'll find that people of dual heritage are "mixed race" not half cast. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " Why marry any guy if you want more than one man sexually? I would say it's because sex and love are not the same thing. | |||
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"I am against white women and black guys " But you're not against white men and 'black' women, are you? | |||
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"I am against white women and black guys " Any reason for that? | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " It's a fantasy. And the most popular on here. It's like an epidemic. And predominantly from fat old women! | |||
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"I am against white women and black guys " oh dear, with that one sentence you have just put yourself on so many people's' not on your nelly 'list | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Because marriage isn't about just fucking. It's not about skin colour. It's about love. Choosing the right person you want to spend ur life with to raise kids , build a home together and take care of you through thick and thin. And if swinging is part of it where they can have a black guy fantasy then it's not your business to try and understand or decipher. What married people get up to is no one else business." bang on | |||
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"It's about having your cake and eating it to and the fact is its about dominance on the woman's part if your into black men get one and marrie him but you won't as most black guys are not monogomous and because you know that its good to have your sub white husband who will look after all your financial need I've have many black mates just be honest lady'a " Too harsh | |||
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"It's about having your cake and eating it to and the fact is its about dominance on the woman's part if your into black men get one and marrie him but you won't as most black guys are not monogomous and because you know that its good to have your sub white husband who will look after all your financial need I've have many black mates just be honest lady'a " Hey found another expert on black males (he has black friends) so by his post white men don't cheat and black guys are financially unstable. Mmm yep we got another one on the loose. C mon guys can you please keep your idiots secure. Many thanks. | |||
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"It's about having your cake and eating it to and the fact is its about dominance on the woman's part if your into black men get one and marrie him but you won't as most black guys are not monogomous and because you know that its good to have your sub white husband who will look after all your financial need I've have many black mates just be honest lady'a Hey found another expert on black males (he has black friends) so by his post white men don't cheat and black guys are financially unstable. Mmm yep we got another one on the loose. C mon guys can you please keep your idiots secure. Many thanks. " On the contrary, I like these threads. They expose people | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place. It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. " Exactly I sometimes meet men who are gym bunnies but could not muster more than a two brain cells to rub together. They are fun to meet as a fetish but I wouldn't want to spend an entire day with them, let alone have a relationship This place is all about fulfilling fantasies for me; nothing more | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Using your logic if you're bi, why not have a poly relationship all under the same roof and live happily ever after. " Bi people MUST marry both a man and a woman! | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know." *married | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *married" why would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Because marriage isn't about just fucking. It's not about skin colour. It's about love. Choosing the right person you want to spend ur life with to raise kids , build a home together and take care of you through thick and thin. And if swinging is part of it where they can have a black guy fantasy then it's not your business to try and understand or decipher. What married people get up to is no one else business. " | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *marriedwhy would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. " But would you fuck someone elses wife or girlfriend? | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *marriedwhy would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. " That comment will go down well with couples | |||
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"It's about having your cake and eating it to and the fact is its about dominance on the woman's part if your into black men get one and marrie him but you won't as most black guys are not monogomous and because you know that its good to have your sub white husband who will look after all your financial need I've have many black mates just be honest lady'a Hey found another expert on black males (he has black friends) so by his post white men don't cheat and black guys are financially unstable. Mmm yep we got another one on the loose. C mon guys can you please keep your idiots secure. Many thanks. " You're not really surprised by some of these views are you?!! | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. " We're a white couple and I like black guys, mixed race guys and white guys....maybe I just like guys haha I don't have a preference on colour providing I'm attracted to him | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *marriedwhy would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. But would you fuck someone elses wife or girlfriend?" Only if I'm invited too | |||
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"I am against white women and black guys " Lots of men are ... | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *marriedwhy would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. " FabS is going to be a loosing PostCode lottery for you now | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *marriedwhy would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. But would you fuck someone elses wife or girlfriend? Only if I'm invited too" . So you wouldn't let anyone fuck your wife or girlfriend but you would theres but hypocritical | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *marriedwhy would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. FabS is going to be a loosing PostCode lottery for you now " I ??? | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place. It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. See!!!!!!! This is what I mean!!!!! She wouldn't shag a black guy in real life????????? Doesn't make sense, and watch out, she might leave you for a black guy one day (only joking ) She did have a Half cast boy friend before we met. :- I think you'll find that people of dual heritage are "mixed race" not half cast. " Yeah, half-caste is derived from the Latin Castus, meaning pure. It's not a good thing to be saying. | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *marriedwhy would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. But would you fuck someone elses wife or girlfriend? Only if I'm invited too. So you wouldn't let anyone fuck your wife or girlfriend but you would theres but hypocritical " well fab can be ... | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " I'd hazard a guess that it has something to do with the objectification of black males. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " You could just as easily ask why get married if you want to fuck other people. Marriage and sex are two different things. You may look for certain qualities in the person you decide to marry and look for different qualities in the people you want to play with. Being married does not prevent you enjoying sex from other people, we have been swinging as a couple for roughly 35 years and we both get enjoyment from seeing the other enjoying themselves with different partners. Sometimes they are black sometimes white we have been with many "races" and each individual is different from the next. Note different not better not worse, different. It is not about looking for someone to share your life with but sharing an experience with. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? I'd hazard a guess that it has something to do with the objectification of black males. " I meet Black guys except those who fetishise themselves as BBC. I want to meet a man, not a c*ck on a leash | |||
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"I have sex with men, both black and white. Would I marry anyone I've met?......only one. Totally different thing having sex and fulfilling fantasies with someone to spending the rest of your life with someone. I thought people narrrird for love, not just because of skin colour, but what do I know. *marriedwhy would i let others fuck my gorgeous wife or girlfrend for a start ...??. That comment will go down well with couples " Comments like that don't bother either of us. Swinging isn't for everyone, not everybody can separate love and sex or love and ownership nor would they want to. Obviously if we catch a sniff of that opinion from someone we wouldn't meet them but we're all different in how we conduct our relationships. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? I'd hazard a guess that it has something to do with the objectification of black males. I meet Black guys except those who fetishise themselves as BBC. I want to meet a man, not a c*ck on a leash" Don't get me started. Really bloody winds me up when "BBC lovers" message us. Sir has never called himself that and I think it's rude of others to assume the label on his behalf. And besides that point I wonder - where would I fit into this scenario. Keeping the car warm outside | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? I'd hazard a guess that it has something to do with the objectification of black males. I meet Black guys except those who fetishise themselves as BBC. I want to meet a man, not a c*ck on a leash Don't get me started. Really bloody winds me up when "BBC lovers" message us. Sir has never called himself that and I think it's rude of others to assume the label on his behalf. And besides that point I wonder - where would I fit into this scenario. Keeping the car warm outside " "Keeping the car warm outside" Thankfully, there are lots of Black guys out there who have self-respect. Yes, they too are after a quick sh*g but atleast they don't sell themselves like circus animals. Those are the ones I meet and have had great fun with over the years. Apart from the sex, I get to discuss topics of mutual interest. There is one such man; very intelligent and intellectual; we discuss topics of mutual interest and have agreed to disagree with each other on each one of those topics | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place. It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. See!!!!!!! This is what I mean!!!!! She wouldn't shag a black guy in real life????????? Doesn't make sense, and watch out, she might leave you for a black guy one day (only joking ) She did have a Half cast boy friend before we met. but then we met and fell in love and had kids. When I said the real world I meant as a normal couple we wouldn't be fucking anyone else but as we're swingers we can so sometimes she likes a change and has some black cock just like she licks pussy so does that mean she should of married a lived happily ever after with a women as she's probably licked more pussy than had black cocks lol. As for leaving me she might enjoy playing with black cock other white cocks and pussy but no one in the ten years has satisfied her like I do in bed because we have much more than just sex :- " "Half cast boy" You know I expected OPs thread to be stupid, but it does actually raise an interesting question. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " That's a funny question to ask, we are swingers this is a swingers site. Swingers are people that want their cake and eat it. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " It's part of the women/man/couple's fantasy/fetish. Prehaps for the white lady marring a white man they get along well and have a lot in common and actually share their love for each other on a wholly relationship package basis, but at times she may miss the Black dick either out of preferences or fantasy (often derived from the husband). Basiclly she just wants that extra moments of fun from someone other then her main man due to her or his or their fetish fufullments. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? That's a funny question to ask, we are swingers this is a swingers site. Swingers are people that want their cake and eat it. " I question whether anyone can really have their cake and eat it. There is a reason why swingers/"alternative lifestyle couples" have divorce rates which can get as high as 80%. | |||
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"Also, if I am being completely honest, most "BBC lover" couples/types tend to be ignorant trash. Who are we really fooling, the worst culprits being the "BBC only!!! Absolutely no white/asian men!!!" Always end up finding out their "preference" is nothing but some thinly veiled racist fetishism with some low life who gets off on "defiling" his wife with the "black phallus". Its funny because u get those nights when you get a message and the couple looks half decent but then, five minutes into the conversation, they're already chatting shit about their weirdo race based fetishes and u just end up getting put off yet still having blue balls. " Bit harsh, not everyone is like that you know | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place. It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. " News flash ... if it is happening in real life, it is real life ... since when is what you do with your own body not real life? | |||
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"It's about having your cake and eating it to and the fact is its about dominance on the woman's part if your into black men get one and marrie him but you won't as most black guys are not monogomous and because you know that its good to have your sub white husband who will look after all your financial need I've have many black mates just be honest lady'a " So the white women are using white men because they have money? Haven't you heard of women who are financially independent? | |||
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"I just try to get my head round these white couples, where the wife is into black guys!!!!! And I can never understand it. don't try get your head around it, you'll never understand everyone's choices especially on fab I know lol....fab is a strange place. It's down to fantasies just like women who like to play with women doesn't mean they want to spend there life with a women. My mrs plays with black guys we attend BMFC one in a while. But I also like seeing her with a black guy such a turn on watching. The excitement it brings for her is it's something that In real life she wouldn't do and that is partly what swinging is about adding extra and different fun to your sex life. See!!!!!!! This is what I mean!!!!! She wouldn't shag a black guy in real life????????? Doesn't make sense, and watch out, she might leave you for a black guy one day (only joking ) She did have a Half cast boy friend before we met. but then we met and fell in love and had kids. When I said the real world I meant as a normal couple we wouldn't be fucking anyone else but as we're swingers we can so sometimes she likes a change and has some black cock just like she licks pussy so does that mean she should of married a lived happily ever after with a women as she's probably licked more pussy than had black cocks lol. As for leaving me she might enjoy playing with black cock other white cocks and pussy but no one in the ten years has satisfied her like I do in bed because we have much more than just sex :- " Half cast?????!!!! Do people really still say that? So ignorant and offensive | |||
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"Also, if I am being completely honest, most "BBC lover" couples/types tend to be ignorant trash. Who are we really fooling, the worst culprits being the "BBC only!!! Absolutely no white/asian men!!!" Always end up finding out their "preference" is nothing but some thinly veiled racist fetishism with some low life who gets off on "defiling" his wife with the "black phallus". Its funny because u get those nights when you get a message and the couple looks half decent but then, five minutes into the conversation, they're already chatting shit about their weirdo race based fetishes and u just end up getting put off yet still having blue balls. " I have seen this a lot from white couples too .... they don't see my partner as an equal in any way, shape or form, and they don't want to even consider that this person could be. | |||
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"It's about having your cake and eating it to and the fact is its about dominance on the woman's part if your into black men get one and marrie him but you won't as most black guys are not monogomous and because you know that its good to have your sub white husband who will look after all your financial need I've have many black mates just be honest lady'a Hey found another expert on black males (he has black friends) so by his post white men don't cheat and black guys are financially unstable. Mmm yep we got another one on the loose. C mon guys can you please keep your idiots secure. Many thanks. On the contrary, I like these threads. They expose people " | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? " Seriously that's a question I've asked before Kinky | |||
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"Maybe I'll come back to this " Nothing interesting to add at this time? It's been rather enlightening so far. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Seriously that's a question I've asked before Kinky " To be honest, I don't understand it either. | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Seriously that's a question I've asked before Kinky To be honest, I don't understand it either." I think it stems back to the slave days and colonialism, when the wife used to sneak out to the barn for a bit of clandestine sex with the fit slaves. Like in North and South. Except, the husbands encourage it and watch | |||
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"Perhaps, these white women didn't come in contact with black men, when they were dating age. There were hardly any black people in my school as a teenager. I can only think of a few I went to school with. " you obviously weren't in the area you have on your profile I was the only white girl in my class for a while | |||
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"Perhaps, these white women didn't come in contact with black men, when they were dating age. There were hardly any black people in my school as a teenager. I can only think of a few I went to school with. you obviously weren't in the area you have on your profile I was the only white girl in my class for a while " I was very near the area on my profile and I'm quite a bit older than you I walked to Junior school with one of two black boys, in my year. There weren't many when I went up to Secondary school either. | |||
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"lt's funny how annoyed white women get when white men prefer black women to them (like myself) but are happy to slag off white husbands. Enlightening. " Which white women would this be? Have you met them? | |||
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"lt's funny how annoyed white women get when white men prefer black women to them (like myself) but are happy to slag off white husbands. Enlightening. Which white women would this be? Have you met them?" Yep. The dirty looks when you are with a black girl. The rudeness. Probably stems back to the slave days like you said when white men kept the white wives they disliked to maintain social standing but were having countless children with the black women they preferred. | |||
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"lt's funny how annoyed white women get when white men prefer black women to them (like myself) but are happy to slag off white husbands. Enlightening. " Absolutely never seen any of this. There are loads of mixed race couples I know, and it doesn't make any difference to anyone white woman I know. | |||
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"lt's funny how annoyed white women get when white men prefer black women to them (like myself) but are happy to slag off white husbands. Enlightening. Which white women would this be? Have you met them? Yep. The dirty looks when you are with a black girl. The rudeness. Probably stems back to the slave days like you said when white men kept the white wives they disliked to maintain social standing but were having countless children with the black women they preferred." Is that a Scottish thing? | |||
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"Black men have big cocks and fuck better than white men. " Not always | |||
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"lt's funny how annoyed white women get when white men prefer black women to them (like myself) but are happy to slag off white husbands. Enlightening. Absolutely never seen any of this. There are loads of mixed race couples I know, and it doesn't make any difference to anyone white woman I know." l'm happy for you. l will, however trust my experiences over your since they are my own. | |||
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"lt's funny how annoyed white women get when white men prefer black women to them (like myself) but are happy to slag off white husbands. Enlightening. Which white women would this be? Have you met them? Yep. The dirty looks when you are with a black girl. The rudeness. Probably stems back to the slave days like you said when white men kept the white wives they disliked to maintain social standing but were having countless children with the black women they preferred. Is that a Scottish thing? " There aren't many black women in Scotland. lt's mainly from when lived in Brighton. | |||
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"I think another poster asked you for examples as it seems a weird thing .... but okay .." l gave examples. How much more detail do you want of incidence of 5 second scowls and abject rudeness being served at counters? Must only be white men that are capable of racism in your eyes. Not surprising. | |||
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"lt's funny how annoyed white women get when white men prefer black women to them (like myself) but are happy to slag off white husbands. Enlightening. Absolutely never seen any of this. There are loads of mixed race couples I know, and it doesn't make any difference to anyone white woman I know." Although it isn't as common to see white men with black women, I do know a few couples and they are treated no differently. Two very good friends of ours are a white man and black woman couple. | |||
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"I think another poster asked you for examples as it seems a weird thing .... but okay .. l gave examples. How much more detail do you want of incidence of 5 second scowls and abject rudeness being served at counters? Must only be white men that are capable of racism in your eyes. Not surprising." Why would this not be surprising? What do you know about how I see the world? Maybe they were scowling at something else, not what you were thinking? Maybe you see it when it isn't there? | |||
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"I think another poster asked you for examples as it seems a weird thing .... but okay .. l gave examples. How much more detail do you want of incidence of 5 second scowls and abject rudeness being served at counters? Must only be white men that are capable of racism in your eyes. Not surprising. Why would this not be surprising? What do you know about how I see the world? Maybe they were scowling at something else, not what you were thinking? Maybe you see it when it isn't there?" lt's not surprising because you speak of incidents of racism yet disregard my experiences of seeing white women not liking ''their men'' being with black women. lf l had a better sense of humour the irony might be hilarious. | |||
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"I think another poster asked you for examples as it seems a weird thing .... but okay .. l gave examples. How much more detail do you want of incidence of 5 second scowls and abject rudeness being served at counters? Must only be white men that are capable of racism in your eyes. Not surprising. Why would this not be surprising? What do you know about how I see the world? Maybe they were scowling at something else, not what you were thinking? Maybe you see it when it isn't there? lt's not surprising because you speak of incidents of racism yet disregard my experiences of seeing white women not liking ''their men'' being with black women. lf l had a better sense of humour the irony might be hilarious." I suppose I speak of racism which is more than a look, like someone hanging from a tree. I don't think a look is racist. The thing is, if you are talking about the white women who are in relationships with black men, why would they care who white men are with, because they wouldn't view white men as 'their men' as they have chosen not to date them. Are you sure their 'look' was about racism, that was what I was trying to clarify. Maybe something else was puzzling them? I don't understand why you are reacting with so much confrontation ?? | |||
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"I think another poster asked you for examples as it seems a weird thing .... but okay .. l gave examples. How much more detail do you want of incidence of 5 second scowls and abject rudeness being served at counters? Must only be white men that are capable of racism in your eyes. Not surprising. Why would this not be surprising? What do you know about how I see the world? Maybe they were scowling at something else, not what you were thinking? Maybe you see it when it isn't there?" Not singling out white women btw. Personally knew a girl with a Nigerian dad and English mum. Yet her dad had a big issue with her going with white men. Her brothers were cool with it though. Don't think it's the preserve of one race. | |||
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"I think another poster asked you for examples as it seems a weird thing .... but okay .. l gave examples. How much more detail do you want of incidence of 5 second scowls and abject rudeness being served at counters? Must only be white men that are capable of racism in your eyes. Not surprising. Why would this not be surprising? What do you know about how I see the world? Maybe they were scowling at something else, not what you were thinking? Maybe you see it when it isn't there? lt's not surprising because you speak of incidents of racism yet disregard my experiences of seeing white women not liking ''their men'' being with black women. lf l had a better sense of humour the irony might be hilarious. I suppose I speak of racism which is more than a look, like someone hanging from a tree. I don't think a look is racist. The thing is, if you are talking about the white women who are in relationships with black men, why would they care who white men are with, because they wouldn't view white men as 'their men' as they have chosen not to date them. Are you sure their 'look' was about racism, that was what I was trying to clarify. Maybe something else was puzzling them? I don't understand why you are reacting with so much confrontation ??" lf that's you definition of racism then there must only be racist incidents once every few decades. Yes l'm sure. When you are with someone over a period of time and contrast that with when you were with someone of your own race you can glean the differences between the experiences. A few incidents could be coincidence but not more. Never realised l was reacting with confrontation. lf you don't like it then stop talking to me. | |||
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"I think another poster asked you for examples as it seems a weird thing .... but okay .. l gave examples. How much more detail do you want of incidence of 5 second scowls and abject rudeness being served at counters? Must only be white men that are capable of racism in your eyes. Not surprising. Why would this not be surprising? What do you know about how I see the world? Maybe they were scowling at something else, not what you were thinking? Maybe you see it when it isn't there? lt's not surprising because you speak of incidents of racism yet disregard my experiences of seeing white women not liking ''their men'' being with black women. lf l had a better sense of humour the irony might be hilarious. I suppose I speak of racism which is more than a look, like someone hanging from a tree. I don't think a look is racist. The thing is, if you are talking about the white women who are in relationships with black men, why would they care who white men are with, because they wouldn't view white men as 'their men' as they have chosen not to date them. Are you sure their 'look' was about racism, that was what I was trying to clarify. Maybe something else was puzzling them? I don't understand why you are reacting with so much confrontation ?? lf that's you definition of racism then there must only be racist incidents once every few decades. Yes l'm sure. When you are with someone over a period of time and contrast that with when you were with someone of your own race you can glean the differences between the experiences. A few incidents could be coincidence but not more. Never realised l was reacting with confrontation. lf you don't like it then stop talking to me. " | |||
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"It's about having your cake and eating it to and the fact is its about dominance on the woman's part if your into black men get one and marrie him but you won't as most black guys are not monogomous and because you know that its good to have your sub white husband who will look after all your financial need I've have many black mates just be honest lady'a So the white women are using white men because they have money? Haven't you heard of women who are financially independent? " Shocking isn't it | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too Bless you lol.......I've been to many a party, where the white husband sits holding his wife's handbag, whilst she's shagging every black man she can get hold of. ........maybe it's a thing? But I don't get it. " Thats called a dirty slag | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too Bless you lol.......I've been to many a party, where the white husband sits holding his wife's handbag, whilst she's shagging every black man she can get hold of. ........maybe it's a thing? But I don't get it. Thats called a dirty slag" Really?! Think your on the wrong site | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too Bless you lol.......I've been to many a party, where the white husband sits holding his wife's handbag, whilst she's shagging every black man she can get hold of. ........maybe it's a thing? But I don't get it. Thats called a dirty slag" clearly you dont know what swinging is calling women dirty slags what you think happens on here we all sit playing tiddly winks lol | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Seriously that's a question I've asked before Kinky To be honest, I don't understand it either. I think it stems back to the slave days and colonialism, when the wife used to sneak out to the barn for a bit of clandestine sex with the fit slaves. Like in North and South. Except, the husbands encourage it and watch " Spot on !! You're definitely on to something, there's a lot of history behind all this stuff | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too Bless you lol.......I've been to many a party, where the white husband sits holding his wife's handbag, whilst she's shagging every black man she can get hold of. ........maybe it's a thing? But I don't get it. Thats called a dirty slag Really?! Think your on the wrong site" The idea of swinging is all parties get involved in my view thats being a slag | |||
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"Shock horror that a swinging couple should swing with a black guy or a girl like black guys! Personally I don't find blondes attractive, girls or boys! " | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? I'd hazard a guess that it has something to do with the objectification of black males. " | |||
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"I read that there was a study that black men are more prone to transferring std's compared to white men Of course " Oh and if you read a lot of black male verifications you most certainly find more than 60% have met tvs and participated in bareback sex Just stating facts dont get mad | |||
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"I read that there was a study that black men are more prone to transferring std's compared to white men Of course Oh and if you read a lot of black male verifications you most certainly find more than 60% have met tvs and participated in bareback sex Just stating facts dont get mad " It isn't a fact though, is it? You don't need to worry, unless you are having sex with a black man .... my partner and I regularly meet and play with t girls. Neither of us has had an STD .... | |||
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"I read that there was a study that black men are more prone to transferring std's compared to white men Of course Oh and if you read a lot of black male verifications you most certainly find more than 60% have met tvs and participated in bareback sex Just stating facts dont get mad " Are we a little upset that black men are getting attention and your not? | |||
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"I read that there was a study that black men are more prone to transferring std's compared to white men Of course Oh and if you read a lot of black male verifications you most certainly find more than 60% have met tvs and participated in bareback sex Just stating facts dont get mad It isn't a fact though, is it? You don't need to worry, unless you are having sex with a black man .... my partner and I regularly meet and play with t girls. Neither of us has had an STD .... " That you know about lol | |||
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"I read that there was a study that black men are more prone to transferring std's compared to white men Of course Oh and if you read a lot of black male verifications you most certainly find more than 60% have met tvs and participated in bareback sex Just stating facts dont get mad It isn't a fact though, is it? You don't need to worry, unless you are having sex with a black man .... my partner and I regularly meet and play with t girls. Neither of us has had an STD .... That you know about lol" Why wouldn't I know that? We get tested together? Do you have a concept of what being in a couple means | |||
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"I read that there was a study that black men are more prone to transferring std's compared to white men Of course Oh and if you read a lot of black male verifications you most certainly find more than 60% have met tvs and participated in bareback sex Just stating facts dont get mad It isn't a fact though, is it? You don't need to worry, unless you are having sex with a black man .... my partner and I regularly meet and play with t girls. Neither of us has had an STD .... That you know about lol Why wouldn't I know that? We get tested together? Do you have a concept of what being in a couple means" I fear my views are different from your own | |||
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"I read that there was a study that black men are more prone to transferring std's compared to white men Of course Oh and if you read a lot of black male verifications you most certainly find more than 60% have met tvs and participated in bareback sex Just stating facts dont get mad It isn't a fact though, is it? You don't need to worry, unless you are having sex with a black man .... my partner and I regularly meet and play with t girls. Neither of us has had an STD .... That you know about lol Why wouldn't I know that? We get tested together? Do you have a concept of what being in a couple means I fear my views are different from your own " Be interested to hear them | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too Bless you lol.......I've been to many a party, where the white husband sits holding his wife's handbag, whilst she's shagging every black man she can get hold of. ........maybe it's a thing? But I don't get it. Thats called a dirty slag Oooooooh that's rich. So you dnt go without anyone on this site then because if you do and you are calling them slags you must also be. Tut tut shsme on you " Darling sit back down with your prosecco youve missed half the story | |||
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" I know it's probably more complicated than I can imagine, but? Why marry a white guy, when you want black cock, why not get a relationship with a black guy, and be happy ever after? Not something I get personally either - I predominantly go with black guys, but all but one of my relationships have been with a black guy too Bless you lol.......I've been to many a party, where the white husband sits holding his wife's handbag, whilst she's shagging every black man she can get hold of. ........maybe it's a thing? But I don't get it. Thats called a dirty slag Oooooooh that's rich. So you dnt go without anyone on this site then because if you do and you are calling them slags you must also be. Tut tut shsme on you " | |||
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