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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wondering if there is actually a right or wrong way to swing and what people would define 'real' swinging as?

Does it really matter either way as long as it is fun for everyone involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging means different things to different people these days..

surely even you should know that OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"swinging means different things to different people these days..

surely even you should know that OP"

Yes I do know that.

I was going to google it but thought replies on here would be more interesting.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

It only really matters if you want to give yourself a reason to tell other people they're doing it wrong.

Otherwise, live and let live.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It only really matters if you want to give yourself a reason to tell other people they're doing it wrong.

Otherwise, live and let live."

I've been told many a time im wrong, that's what triggered my question actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think the term 'swinging' is outdated because there are so many permutations nowadays..

it needs updating ...

a new name..

answers on a postcard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think the term 'swinging' is outdated because there are so many permutations nowadays..

it needs updating ...

a new name..

answers on a postcard "

FFA? Fucking For All

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I don't care much for labels and putting people in boxes.

I'm a hopeless romantic so by that definition I'm a terrible swinger.

Yet, I'm still here..

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Wondering if there is actually a right or wrong way to swing and what people would define 'real' swinging as?

Does it really matter either way as long as it is fun for everyone involved?"

there's a right way for everyone. I don't really have a definition and I don't think it really matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging to us is about mutual sexual enjoyment & maybe compromise for all of those involved in the play, nothing more, nothing less, those just seeking sexual gain for themselves only (and there are many on here) are not swinging

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Ooooh, the OP had got a great big wooden spoon and is approaching the shit!

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

fuck who you like x

avoid who you don't like x

who cares, one life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagging around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooooh, the OP had got a great big wooden spoon and is approaching the shit! "

????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It only really matters if you want to give yourself a reason to tell other people they're doing it wrong.

Otherwise, live and let live."

This really.

Many people seem to think their way is the only way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think the term 'swinging' is outdated because there are so many permutations nowadays..

it needs updating ...

a new name..

answers on a postcard

FFA? Fucking For All "

well that's no good for those of us who enjoy the social side of it as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No right or wrong but we've found some people are better at it than others and some ways of doing it are more erotic to us than others. So there's definitely room for improvement if you want to get good at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest that as long as the boundaries are set and stuck to. Everyone is in agreement and happy.

Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us , swinging is having lots of sex with lots of people . Always NSA , never any drama , and always together .

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