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"Lol its seems like you not having a good day welcome to world of fab "We're having a great day | |||
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"I don't like action shots on a single guys profile, especially as most of the time you can usually only see a bit of his cock and nearly all of the woman "I call them 'hide the sausage pics', whether its someone he's fucking or the woman is giving a BJ to... either way they are very offputting to me | |||
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"Maybe his phone storage is full and has to keep them on fab (in answer to your first), and in answer to the second, it could be advanced planning; he will know you definitely like looking at his cock while messaging but also like the look of his face, so he's pretty much onto a winner. " They normal end up in the deleted pile  | |||
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"I don't like action shots on a single guys profile, especially as most of the time you can usually only see a bit of his cock and nearly all of the woman
I call them 'hide the sausage pics', whether its someone he's fucking or the woman is giving a BJ to...
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. " Would never ever ever have a face pic public | |||
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"It's a mystery, personally I find shots of said "single" males in an act with females to be very off putting. I will never reply to a man who I see in pics with a woman who is significantly slimmer or younger than I as it indicates to me he will not be interested. M" Totally this! | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public " We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. " . Because can be seen by anyone off the site , so really really not the best idea , especially with this site so much In the news lately , unless of course you don't care about your family or mrs smith and number 69 seeing . | |||
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"Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. " Personal preference springs to mind. | |||
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"Your profile clearly states that you don't like people that judge others.... hmmmmmmm Ughuo It was a question not judging. We haven't said there wrong or shouldn't do it. We're asking WHY if your advertising a single profile do you have pics of women on there and was asking if this appeals to others. 2nd question was if you've got your face pic public why not use it as your profile pic when it is commonly said on here by couples and single fem that they prefer to see something other than cock pics. So how is that judging " I have a single profile and pics of my FB I love them and get lots of fabs but equally have shots of me | |||
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"...Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. " Normal people? Not many of them around here, myself included  | |||
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"It's a mystery, personally I find shots of said "single" males in an act with females to be very off putting. I will never reply to a man who I see in pics with a woman who is significantly slimmer or younger than I as it indicates to me he will not be interested. M Totally this! " Me too! | |||
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"i hate action shots on single guys profiles. I hate cock pics as profile pics and finally i hate couples profiles where it is all or almost all shots of the woman. Couple mean 2 so should have balance of male and female pics" We have what we would regard as sufficient photos him. We could have stopped at sufficient photos of me, but I Iove having my photo taken and he likes taking it, so now we have an excessive number of photos of me. I can't see us swopping places in order to make it 50:50 - we just wouldn't enjoy that. | |||
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"Well me with 4 different men (who are not my husband) feature in 8 of our pics, so I don't think I'm going to complain if men do the same. In fact I quite like seeing what my competion is." "Competition" is an interesting choice of word? (Not judging or being critical) It's a good point though, we see plenty of couples profiles with "action shots" be it between themselves or with others. Can that be off putting of a couples profile too? | |||
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"Well me with 4 different men (who are not my husband) feature in 8 of our pics, so I don't think I'm going to complain if men do the same. In fact I quite like seeing what my competion is. "Competition" is an interesting choice of word? (Not judging or being critical) It's a good point though, we see plenty of couples profiles with "action shots" be it between themselves or with others. Can that be off putting of a couples profile too? " It is to me. How do I know which pics are of the couple? Maybe none of them are. Easy to avoid. | |||
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"Well me with 4 different men (who are not my husband) feature in 8 of our pics, so I don't think I'm going to complain if men do the same. In fact I quite like seeing what my competion is. "Competition" is an interesting choice of word? (Not judging or being critical) It's a good point though, we see plenty of couples profiles with "action shots" be it between themselves or with others. Can that be off putting of a couples profile too? " I said it a bit tongue in cheek, but I do like seeing my playmates with other playmates. | |||
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"Single women have action shots too, quite often barebacking which puts me off them." Mental note to self. Don't post a picture of my husband and I having bareback sex, because it puts people off. | |||
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"Well me with 4 different men (who are not my husband) feature in 8 of our pics, so I don't think I'm going to complain if men do the same. In fact I quite like seeing what my competion is. "Competition" is an interesting choice of word? (Not judging or being critical) It's a good point though, we see plenty of couples profiles with "action shots" be it between themselves or with others. Can that be off putting of a couples profile too? I said it a bit tongue in cheek, but I do like seeing my playmates with other playmates. "
We see now harm in it, although, as a previous poster said, some confusion can be had over trying to work out which people in the photo's belong to the profile lol
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"Single women have action shots too, quite often barebacking which puts me off them. Mental note to self. Don't post a picture of my husband and I having bareback sex, because it puts people off. " Lol, the problem is you don't know if it's their husband or not. With a couple profile it's more likely but with a single female profile which is what I was referring to it could be anyone. I'm not judging each to their own but I choose not to play with those who swing bareback so a barebacking pic will put me off. | |||
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"I don't like couples pics on single guy profiles. Though it's a good filter as this is the profile of a sad man, desperate to prove he's had sex at least once " | |||
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"Well me with 4 different men (who are not my husband) feature in 8 of our pics, so I don't think I'm going to complain if men do the same. In fact I quite like seeing what my competion is. "Competition" is an interesting choice of word? (Not judging or being critical) It's a good point though, we see plenty of couples profiles with "action shots" be it between themselves or with others. Can that be off putting of a couples profile too? It is to me. How do I know which pics are of the couple? Maybe none of them are. Easy to avoid. "The pics of the couple whose profile they are posted on don't have blanked out faces..... simples xxxxx  | |||
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"Well me with 4 different men (who are not my husband) feature in 8 of our pics, so I don't think I'm going to complain if men do the same. In fact I quite like seeing what my competion is. "Competition" is an interesting choice of word? (Not judging or being critical) It's a good point though, we see plenty of couples profiles with "action shots" be it between themselves or with others. Can that be off putting of a couples profile too? It is to me. How do I know which pics are of the couple? Maybe none of them are. Easy to avoid.
The pics of the couple whose profile they are posted on don't have blanked out faces..... simples xxxxx "The ones I'm thinking of have multiple people in the pics and none have heads. So impossible to know who is who. x | |||
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"Well me with 4 different men (who are not my husband) feature in 8 of our pics, so I don't think I'm going to complain if men do the same. In fact I quite like seeing what my competion is. "Competition" is an interesting choice of word? (Not judging or being critical) It's a good point though, we see plenty of couples profiles with "action shots" be it between themselves or with others. Can that be off putting of a couples profile too? It is to me. How do I know which pics are of the couple? Maybe none of them are. Easy to avoid.
The pics of the couple whose profile they are posted on don't have blanked out faces..... simples xxxxx "The action pics in ours are of other men. It's obvious to anybody who knows us, because my husband's bald. Don't know if we've put people off, but it sure as hell turns us on to post pics of me with various men. | |||
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"To be fair you can't please everyone on this site. As I've come to learn from my year or so here, it wouldn't matter what you do with your profile in terms of pictures and text, someone in the forum won't agree/like it. That's being said everyone is entitled to like or dislike whatever, as long as the person whose profile it is likes it what does it matter what other people think. Be happy love life and crack on "It was never a like or dislike it was more of a question | |||
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"To be fair you can't please everyone on this site. As I've come to learn from my year or so here, it wouldn't matter what you do with your profile in terms of pictures and text, someone in the forum won't agree/like it. That's being said everyone is entitled to like or dislike whatever, as long as the person whose profile it is likes it what does it matter what other people think. Be happy love life and crack on
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. " I guess people can run their profile how it works for them | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them "Witch was clear stated in the opening message | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
Witch was clear stated in the opening message "So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
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So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile "Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys | |||
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"guilty as charged and I dont really care, I've been getting compliments and future interest.Works for me and the people that like that kind of imagery....I see me posting meet pics no differently than couples who post pics with others they meet." good action shots | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. " I don't understand these either. Join the club of frustration.
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. I don't understand these either. Join the club of frustration.
Any of the above seen on a profile is an instant delete/avoid for me."And there's always the good old block button | |||
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"guilty as charged and I dont really care, I've been getting compliments and future interest.Works for me and the people that like that kind of imagery....I see me posting meet pics no differently than couples who post pics with others they meet. good action shots "Thank you hehe xx well fabbable yourselves | |||
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"guilty as charged and I dont really care, I've been getting compliments and future interest.Works for me and the people that like that kind of imagery....I see me posting meet pics no differently than couples who post pics with others they meet. good action shots
Thank you hehe xx well fabbable yourselves "Thank you! don't know why others are worried about other people's profiles, just move on to one that is compatible with your own, don't you think? | |||
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"Oh" I was gonna go for : * Dark Matter * Brexit ? | |||
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"Oh I was gonna go for : * Dark Matter * Brexit ?" Tut..... | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. I don't understand these either. Join the club of frustration.
Any of the above seen on a profile is an instant delete/avoid for me.
And there's always the good old block button "Oh yes, that too. | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. I don't understand these either. Join the club of frustration.
Any of the above seen on a profile is an instant delete/avoid for me.
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
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So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile
Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys "Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them. | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
Witch was clear stated in the opening message
So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile
Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys
Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them. "We don't meet many single guys now, but I think it would put us off, if they had lots of action shots on their profile | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
Witch was clear stated in the opening message
So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile
Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys
Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them.
We don't meet many single guys now, but I think it would put us off, if they had lots of action shots on their profile "Why??????? | |||
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"Action shots are the best, we have a few, and not sure if they put people off?? Couldn't care less to be honest. " Don't think that's a problem with couples, Op was talking about single guys with action shots | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
Witch was clear stated in the opening message
So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile
Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys
Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them. "there are a few reasons, it is normally single straight women who are put off by 'action' shots.It can be as simple as not liking sex imagery,thinking the guy is boasting about conquests,he might use the imagery on other sites,jealousy,insecurity and in some cases those who are looking for exclusivity. My point I have made for several years is really, there are thousands of couples posting pics of meets, and hardly anyone bats an eyelid...theres no assumptions that single men get. I have many types of pics and yes, not always sexual, or including other people..however my profile is as dynamic as I am when it comes down to the people I meet or want to meet. | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
Witch was clear stated in the opening message
So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile
Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys
Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them.
We don't meet many single guys now, but I think it would put us off, if they had lots of action shots on their profile
Why??????? "I suppose because would be interested in him, rather than who he had been with. | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
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So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile
Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys
Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them.
We don't meet many single guys now, but I think it would put us off, if they had lots of action shots on their profile "I understand action shots as we're swingers but you find a lot of profiles where it's just a willie with the same girl in different positions you can normally tell witch are action photos from swinging meets and ones where it's of the girl friend or ex. It's the ones that seemed to be off girlfriends or the ex that confuse me if there here looking for extra or different fun why use pics of there private life on here shouldn't that be kept away from here again it's not judging or telling people how to run there profile it's just generally inquisitive. | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
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So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile
Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys
Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them.
We don't meet many single guys now, but I think it would put us off, if they had lots of action shots on their profile I understand action shots as we're swingers but you find a lot of profiles where it's just a willie with the same girl in different positions you can normally tell witch are action photos from swinging meets and ones where it's of the girl friend or ex. It's the ones that seemed to be off girlfriends or the ex that confuse me if there here looking for extra or different fun why use pics of there private life on here shouldn't that be kept away from here again it's not judging or telling people how to run there profile it's just generally inquisitive. "If they're 'single' guys, I don't think they should have photos of their girlfriends or ex's on here. That is disrespectful to them. | |||
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"Action shots are the best, we have a few, and not sure if they put people off?? Couldn't care less to be honest. Don't think that's a problem with couples, Op was talking about single guys with action shots "But we are single ladies with action shots??? Doesn't seem to bother the guys, pics just seem to bother single ladies looking for single guys!!! | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
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So in answer to your question re single guys, you don't meet them ,so why does it matter what pics they have on their profile
Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys
Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them.
We don't meet many single guys now, but I think it would put us off, if they had lots of action shots on their profile I understand action shots as we're swingers but you find a lot of profiles where it's just a willie with the same girl in different positions you can normally tell witch are action photos from swinging meets and ones where it's of the girl friend or ex. It's the ones that seemed to be off girlfriends or the ex that confuse me if there here looking for extra or different fun why use pics of there private life on here shouldn't that be kept away from here again it's not judging or telling people how to run there profile it's just generally inquisitive.
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Would never ever ever have a face pic public We know a lot don't have public face pics witch is understandable but some have public face pics but don't use them as there profile pic was just wondering as is public anyway wouldn't it be best used as profile picture. Or is there a reason why why it's not set as the profile pic after all it can be seen by everyone anyway. I guess people can run their profile how it works for them
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Apologies, I can see you do meet single guys
Yes we do and have no problems with single guy it was a genuine question as to why and dose it put people of contacting them.
there are a few reasons, it is normally single straight women who are put off by 'action' shots.It can be as simple as not liking sex imagery,thinking the guy is boasting about conquests,he might use the imagery on other sites,jealousy,insecurity and in some cases those who are looking for exclusivity.
My point I have made for several years is really, there are thousands of couples posting pics of meets, and hardly anyone bats an eyelid...theres no assumptions that single men get. I have many types of pics and yes, not always sexual, or including other people..however my profile is as dynamic as I am when it comes down to the people I meet or want to meet."We never really thought of the action shot side of photos as yours clearly are of meets. The kind that we were asking about are the ones where most of the guy is hidden and you just see a pic of the same naked fem and maybe bits of his dick surly that doesn't help a single guys profile wouldn't it be more beneficial to post pics of him or pics that are connected to him and swinging. We did have action shots public on ours and see nothing wrong with them. | |||
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But we are single ladies with action shots??? Doesn't seem to bother the guys, pics just seem to bother single ladies looking for single guys!!! "Hey ladies, I don't think anything bothers the single guys | |||
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But we are single ladies with action shots??? Doesn't seem to bother the guys, pics just seem to bother single ladies looking for single guys!!!
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"Action shots are the best, we have a few, and not sure if they put people off?? Couldn't care less to be honest. Don't think that's a problem with couples, Op was talking about single guys with action shots
But we are single ladies with action shots??? Doesn't seem to bother the guys, pics just seem to bother single ladies looking for single guys!!! "As explained in previous replays there isn't a problem with anyone and totally get action shots did have a couple ourselves public. The question could of been asked differently but didn't think of action shots when starting the thread. In action shots you get to see everyone even if faces are blanked out but you see a few single guys profiles where it's the same girl naked in different positions and very little of the guy. The same question really for couples who have 30 public photos of the female but not 1 of the male. Why? Is it that most men just hate photos or is it they think that's what everyone wants to see. | |||
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But we are single ladies with action shots??? Doesn't seem to bother the guys, pics just seem to bother single ladies looking for single guys!!!
As explained in previous replays there isn't a problem with anyone and totally get action shots did have a couple ourselves public. The question could of been asked differently but didn't think of action shots when starting the thread. In action shots you get to see everyone even if faces are blanked out but you see a few single guys profiles where it's the same girl naked in different positions and very little of the guy. The same question really for couples who have 30 public photos of the female but not 1 of the male. Why? Is it that most men just hate photos or is it they think that's what everyone wants to see."I guess pussy is the bait. | |||
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"i hate action shots on single guys profiles. I hate cock pics as profile pics and finally i hate couples profiles where it is all or almost all shots of the woman. Couple mean 2 so should have balance of male and female pics" "Should"? Why? Most of the posts on this thread seem to be missing the point that a profile belongs to the owner not the viewer. If the profile works for the owner, whether a single or a couple, that is fine. The fact that you don't like it is imaterial - you just move on to another profile that appeals to you. No one should change their profile or photos to suit someone else's taste! | |||
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"Why do couples have a load of fenale pics and one or two token guy face/cock pics." I asked that myself but people were to busy turning the post into something is wasn't or making ludicrous comments like I thought you didn't judge. My definition of judging is where you form a bias personal opinion about someone or something. No where in the opening comment did I pass a bias opinion I asked a question but seems you can't do that with out the regular negative people turning it into something more. | |||
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"Why do couples have a load of fenale pics and one or two token guy face/cock pics." Because, we find that a token few pictures of Mr is all that is required, but its female pictures that people like to see. That and the fact that we get a kick out of taking pictures of me. | |||
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"Why do couples have a load of fenale pics and one or two token guy face/cock pics. Because, we find that a token few pictures of Mr is all that is required, but its female pictures that people like to see. That and the fact that we get a kick out of taking pictures of me. " But you do have pics of male half on your profile might not be as many as of you but looking though you get to see both of you some on here only have the women but advertising that they both play. Would people want to see both from a couple not just the female. There's always going to be more photos of the female as they can pose in so many more positions and get to wear sexy underwear. | |||
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"Why can't people just manage their own profiles however they like?" Why can't people read the OP and comprehend that it is a QUESTION? | |||
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"Why can't people just manage their own profiles however they like? Why can't people read the OP and comprehend that it is a QUESTION?" And the QUESTION was answered with a QUESTION | |||
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"Why can't people just manage their own profiles however they like?" They can indeed manage their profiles however they like. The OP isn't suggesting otherwise. | |||
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"I don't like action shots on a single guys profile, especially as most of the time you can usually only see a bit of his cock and nearly all of the woman "I don't mind action shots if he's clearly visible, but pics showing just his cock and every identifiable tattoo blurred whilst the woman is in all her glory...nah, off putting! | |||
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"Why do couples have a load of fenale pics and one or two token guy face/cock pics. Because, we find that a token few pictures of Mr is all that is required, but its female pictures that people like to see. That and the fact that we get a kick out of taking pictures of me. But you do have pics of male half on your profile might not be as many as of you but looking though you get to see both of you some on here only have the women but advertising that they both play. Would people want to see both from a couple not just the female. There's always going to be more photos of the female as they can pose in so many more positions and get to wear sexy underwear. " Yes absalutely. We will move onto the next if we have no idea what the male partner looks like. We need some token pictures. But it's the female pics that we enjoy. And that's true, it's limiting the pics that can be done of a man. | |||
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"why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them " Im a single man on a single mans profile, please point out the pics of the women you speak of....... | |||
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"Why can't people just manage their own profiles however they like? Why can't people read the OP and comprehend that it is a QUESTION?" This | |||
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"Your profile clearly states that you don't like people that judge others.... hmmmmmmm " This | |||
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"why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them Im a single man on a single mans profile, please point out the pics of the women you speak of....... " First of where was your profile ever mentioned... it wasn't secondly when was it said ALL single profiles it wasn't. Sadly your first attempt at trying to turn this thread it something it's not failed and now so has your second. | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. " Run your profile how you like and leave other members to do likewise... | |||
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. Run your profile how you like and leave other members to do likewise..." Going to put this on copy and paste..... again where does it say anything about the way a profile should be run. So many Hippocrates on here telling someone not to tell someone else what to do how does that workout. | |||
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"Why do couples have pics of them playing with others? Why do single fems? Why is OP only asking the question in relation to single men? Why is it then surprising that the perception of a negative connotation has arisen?" Because I thought that this was a adult site that asking a question about 1 sex wasn't going to be a big issue as 90% of our views come from single guys profile it means we notice more about there profiles apologies for asking a genuine question how insensitive of me for asking a question about grown men | |||
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"Why do couples have pics of them playing with others? Why do single fems? Why is OP only asking the question in relation to single men? Why is it then surprising that the perception of a negative connotation has arisen? Because I thought that this was a adult site that asking a question about 1 sex wasn't going to be a big issue as 90% of our views come from single guys profile it means we notice more about there profiles apologies for asking a genuine question how insensitive of me for asking a question about grown men " apology accepted, learn from your mistakes | |||
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"Why do couples have pics of them playing with others? Why do single fems? Why is OP only asking the question in relation to single men? Why is it then surprising that the perception of a negative connotation has arisen? Because I thought that this was a adult site that asking a question about 1 sex wasn't going to be a big issue as 90% of our views come from single guys profile it means we notice more about there profiles apologies for asking a genuine question how insensitive of me for asking a question about grown men " I was being rhetorical, but thanks so much for the sarcasm. | |||
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"Why do couples have pics of them playing with others? Why do single fems? Why is OP only asking the question in relation to single men? Why is it then surprising that the perception of a negative connotation has arisen? Because I thought that this was a adult site that asking a question about 1 sex wasn't going to be a big issue as 90% of our views come from single guys profile it means we notice more about there profiles apologies for asking a genuine question how insensitive of me for asking a question about grown men I was being rhetorical, but thanks so much for the sarcasm." I have explained in few messages through out the post as to what was meant and stated endless times it wasn't a single guy bash post and nothing negative was meant yet them messages aren't picked up on. People glance over the opening message and jump to conclusions with out reading the rest of the thread. As the most popular sex on this site is male then don't you think that the most popular threads are going to be about males. Yes there are a fair few negative ones but again as males out way any other sex then the negatives are going to out way any other sex. For example if you ask for a face picture with the first message and you have 100 messages of guys and 40 of them don't send a face pic but you only have 10 off a couple and 3 of them don't send a face pic and you only receive 1 message off a fem then the guys are going to get the negative feed back. How ever as stated before I was just inquisitive about what others thought about single guys having women on there profile just like I asked why some couples only have pics of the female I personally haven't seen any single fems profile where she is not in the pics but a guy is so would never ask that question | |||
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"Lol its seems like you not having a good day welcome to world of fab "PMT MAYBE? | |||
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"Lol its seems like you not having a good day welcome to world of fab PMT MAYBE?"Nice pictures Bro | |||
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"Not many people it seems want their face on show, myself being one of them. There are discretion and safety issues to be concerned about when displaying your face on a sex site for everyone to see." The question was if there face pic is in there public photos (so everyone can see it anyway) why not use it as there profile pic. Wouldn't that work more in there favour instead of a cock pic. | |||
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"Not many people it seems want their face on show, myself being one of them. There are discretion and safety issues to be concerned about when displaying your face on a sex site for everyone to see. The question was if there face pic is in there public photos (so everyone can see it anyway) why not use it as there profile pic. Wouldn't that work more in there favour instead of a cock pic. " Maybe they are purposely avoiding unwanted attention by posting a cock shot? Maybe they already have a group of buddies they play with and are not looking for more, Maybe they use this site for just the forums or too keep up with old friends? Maybe they like to read about up and coming events like socials or clubs meets Maybe their "cock shot" avatar is indeed working in their favour | |||
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"Lol its seems like you not having a good day welcome to world of fab PMT MAYBE?
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"I think ......we don't need to see pics of others on a single males profile when we are looking to meet one as I would assume they would know what they were doing and don't need to show us and it is them we would be wanting to see. I am aware that everyone can use their profile how they wish and can put up photo's of what they want but the OP was a question of which I answered." I totally agree I also think we don't need to see pictures of others on Single Female profiles or Single TV/CD profiles and dare I say it Cpls Profiles. when we are looking to meet them as I would assume they would know what they were doing and don't need to show us and it is them we would be wanting to see. | |||
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"I don't like action shots on a single guys profile, especially as most of the time you can usually only see a bit of his cock and nearly all of the woman
I call them 'hide the sausage pics', whether its someone he's fucking or the woman is giving a BJ to...
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"Ok we know that how a profile is set up is up to the owner but 2 things that We don't understand is why do single guys profile have so many pics of women in them does it appeal to people seeing a guy profile full of pics of him fucking other women. The other is you see a profile with a cock as the profile pic but loads of public pics of there face wouldn't it be better to have one of the public face pics as there public pic. Before the normal people start if you don't like don't look we're not saying we don't like or have a problem was just wondering what others thoughts on this was. " It's so you fab the pic on latest pics thinking "she is hot" not noticing its a single guy and then they pm you.. It's a honey trap. Then when you say you arnt interested they give you crap about "then why waste time fabing my pic" then they try to guilt you for time wasting, or run off to post a sympathy thread. | |||
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"Not many people it seems want their face on show, myself being one of them. There are discretion and safety issues to be concerned about when displaying your face on a sex site for everyone to see. The question was if there face pic is in there public photos (so everyone can see it anyway) why not use it as there profile pic. Wouldn't that work more in there favour instead of a cock pic. " I think the mentality is that they think women are desperate for cock. Men and women think differently. Faces are irrelevant to them, they just want to fuck a wet hole and so assume women are the same. | |||
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"I think ......we don't need to see pics of others on a single males profile when we are looking to meet one as I would assume they would know what they were doing and don't need to show us and it is them we would be wanting to see. I am aware that everyone can use their profile how they wish and can put up photo's of what they want but the OP was a question of which I answered. I totally agree I also think we don't need to see pictures of others on Single Female profiles or Single TV/CD profiles and dare I say it Cpls Profiles. when we are looking to meet them as I would assume they would know what they were doing and don't need to show us and it is them we would be wanting to see. "That is obviously your choice. As we don't or didn't look for couples. single femals or CD's when were looking then it wouldn't be those profiles that we would be checking out for a meet | |||
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"Id say its up to the person themselves how they want their profile to be " They didn't question that at all. | |||
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"Not many people it seems want their face on show, myself being one of them. There are discretion and safety issues to be concerned about when displaying your face on a sex site for everyone to see. The question was if there face pic is in there public photos (so everyone can see it anyway) why not use it as there profile pic. Wouldn't that work more in there favour instead of a cock pic. I think the mentality is that they think women are desperate for cock. Men and women think differently. Faces are irrelevant to them, they just want to fuck a wet hole and so assume women are the same. " So true. Worrying really. | |||
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"guilty as charged and I dont really care, I've been getting compliments and future interest.Works for me and the people that like that kind of imagery....I see me posting meet pics no differently than couples who post pics with others they meet." FaBBed! | |||
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