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By *eorge horne OP   Man
over a year ago

Chichester

Apropos of nothing, today I have posted 4 pics and have had 150 people looking at my profile. I'd say 95% were men (or TVs/CDs), about 4% couples and the remainder women. Whilst I am flattered by the attention, I'm not really looking to meet guys!

What do I have to do to get the ladies to look at my profile?

George

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Maybe it's because you have more photos of women on your profile than of yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's because you have more photos of women on your profile than of yourself? "

This.

You have a profile of a single guy so what's with pictures of ladies?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Speaking purely for myself I don't enjoy 'action' pictures. As a general rule men are more visual than women too, maybe that's why they're looking and women aren't.

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By *eorge horne OP   Man
over a year ago

Chichester


"Maybe it's because you have more photos of women on your profile than of yourself? "

Fair point, but we're continually told not to post cock pics - "We know what one looks like".......I'm reluctant to display a face pic publicly, what would you suggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of a profile of a single man that shows more of the women he's played with than of him.

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By *eorge horne OP   Man
over a year ago

Chichester


"Speaking purely for myself I don't enjoy 'action' pictures. As a general rule men are more visual than women too, maybe that's why they're looking and women aren't."

Again a very fair point and explains perhaps why more don't look. However what would tempt women to click through to the profile? G

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe it's because you have more photos of women on your profile than of yourself?

Fair point, but we're continually told not to post cock pics - "We know what one looks like".......I'm reluctant to display a face pic publicly, what would you suggest?"

Your body. We don't show faces but we have an assortment of pictures that aren't close ups of genitals.

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By *eorge horne OP   Man
over a year ago

Chichester


"I'm not a fan of a profile of a single man that shows more of the women he's played with than of him.

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Fair enough, but it doesn't answer the question...what would tempt you to click through? BTW Love the Sydney Uni intro! George

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be glad your getting attention.

Ladies will choose who they want to meet. Every lady has about 100 men to choose from. On a 100:1 ratio. None lucky enough to meet me though.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Many of us don't find action pics appealing on a single guys ple (don't care for them much on a womans profile either TBH).

So more pics of you, less of the women you have had sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women like to think they are special by the one meeting them.. I guess if you show pics of you with women then they may not think they're as special as you're making out. They also may look and see that either they don't match with ones you meet and so won't respond.

Just a thought....women are very visual as well

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

Ladies look in stealth mode, more than men do so you cant see if they looked

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Maybe it's because you have more photos of women on your profile than of yourself?

Fair point, but we're continually told not to post cock pics - "We know what one looks like".......I'm reluctant to display a face pic publicly, what would you suggest?"

It's only really guys who are into cock shots Try some arty body shots of your bum / torso or legs. Some clothed in a suit, some more revealing. Take a look at the men's hottest pics for ideas. Obviously we don't all look like male models so work with what you have.

You obviously don't have a problem getting meets so don't worry too much about upping your photo fab count. Guys pics don't tend to rate very highly on here anyway. I once made it onto page 5 of the men's hottest pics with 7 fab's on a pic of my bum. Most of those were from guys.

Post the pics that you like on your profile and ignore the fab count.

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By *eorge horne OP   Man
over a year ago

Chichester

So more pics of you, less of the women you have had sex with.

Thanks for the suggestion QoT, presumably not cock pics....what would you suggest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fan of a profile of a single man that shows more of the women he's played with than of him.

Fair enough, but it doesn't answer the question...what would tempt you to click through? BTW Love the Sydney Uni intro! George"

Thanks I have looked at your profile, you wouldn't know because I look in stealth mode and a lot of women do this because men will see you've looked at their profile and will message you.

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By *eorge horne OP   Man
over a year ago

Chichester

Some very good suggestions, thanks for the input. G

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apropos of nothing, today I have posted 4 pics and have had 150 people looking at my profile. I'd say 95% were men (or TVs/CDs), about 4% couples and the remainder women. Whilst I am flattered by the attention, I'm not really looking to meet guys!

What do I have to do to get the ladies to look at my profile?

George"

Sorry, I looked, it's more like a cpls profile.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I've looked

And what everyone else said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought it might be due to the fact that ladies and couples display your verification and vice versa? Other gentlemen might be doing their homework on who your verifications have met in the past to see if they are compatible?

Her x

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By *inkynudeMan
over a year ago

London

Well, for what it's worth, I loved your pictures

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"Well, for what it's worth, I loved your pictures "

Proves the point they appeal more to men

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By *eorge horne OP   Man
over a year ago

Chichester


"Have you thought it might be due to the fact that ladies and couples display your verification and vice versa? Other gentlemen might be doing their homework on who your verifications have met in the past to see if they are compatible?

Her x"

Forgive me if I'm being thick Cindy, but I really don't see how your point would affect a woman's decision to click through to a profile from a posted pic. George xx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World


"So more pics of you, less of the women you have had sex with.

Thanks for the suggestion QoT, presumably not cock pics....what would you suggest?"

I have to admit that I am a bit of a sucka for a man in a suit pic, nothing stiff and formal, but a relaxed open collar comfortable in his skin type pic.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Women like to think they are special by the one meeting them.. I guess if you show pics of you with women then they may not think they're as special as you're making out. They also may look and see that either they don't match with ones you meet and so won't respond.

Just a thought....women are very visual as well "

If what you suggest is true a woman being visual won't work in the ops favour.

From what I read here a fair proportion of women do compare themselves to others however it doesn't need to be unfavourably.

For me I just don't find that kind of picture at all attractive. It doesn't mean other women won't though.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Apropos of nothing, today I have posted 4 pics and have had 150 people looking at my profile. I'd say 95% were men (or TVs/CDs), about 4% couples and the remainder women. Whilst I am flattered by the attention, I'm not really looking to meet guys!

What do I have to do to get the ladies to look at my profile?

George"

Take the lady's off your profile and add some pictures of yourself. I am not interested in seeing women getting fucked at all so wouldn't even fab the pictures.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"Speaking purely for myself I don't enjoy 'action' pictures. As a general rule men are more visual than women too, maybe that's why they're looking and women aren't.

Again a very fair point and explains perhaps why more don't look. However what would tempt women to click through to the profile? G "

Bum -back -arms -suits -jeans- shirts open tease tease ! Thighs -white boxers. Face pictures on request.

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By *eorge horne OP   Man
over a year ago

Chichester

Great suggestions thanks to all contributors. George

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women like to think they are special by the one meeting them.. I guess if you show pics of you with women then they may not think they're as special as you're making out. They also may look and see that either they don't match with ones you meet and so won't respond.

Just a thought....women are very visual as well

If what you suggest is true a woman being visual won't work in the ops favour.

From what I read here a fair proportion of women do compare themselves to others however it doesn't need to be unfavourably.

For me I just don't find that kind of picture at all attractive. It doesn't mean other women won't though."

I think most female responses here have indicated the visual of him openly playing with others not working favourable for him. This is what I was trying to say. I guess it was lost in translation.

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