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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's everyone's thoughts on everyone having to be a silver or gold member??

There so many fake profiles and timewasters on here that I think if people had to pay you would get rid of a high % of these people... Be interesting to hear what people think of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldnt make a difference lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's thoughts on everyone having to be a silver or gold member??

There so many fake profiles and timewasters on here that I think if people had to pay you would get rid of a high % of these people... Be interesting to hear what people think of this? "

You don't have to pay....but the site is better if you do...just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What's everyone's thoughts on everyone having to be a silver or gold member??

There so many fake profiles and timewasters on here that I think if people had to pay you would get rid of a high % of these people... Be interesting to hear what people think of this?

You don't have to pay....but the site is better if you do...just my opinion"

Yes I know you don't have to pay but that's what I'm getting at if you had to do you think it would get rid off the fakes and timewasters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really.

I'm not fake yet I can't pay for site supporter the way I used to. I wouldn't be willing to leave the site just because I'm not a site supporter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be willing to pay purely to prove I'm genuine but it'll have to wait til payday ....just gone on monthly pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a site supporter but I'm not meeting. Should I delete my account op? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems more fakes then ever on here so paying is not the answer ..4 us if have no pics no meets no veryifacations after 3 months u should be removed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a site supporter but I'm not meeting. Should I delete my account op? xxx"

No.. The question is directed at the fakes and time wasters on here..

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire

I can see your point so many profile not varified been on site 3 years. Also seen one that said varified by 1 person by 1 meet 8 years ago 8 years.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To be honest the fiver a month it costs wouldn't make a great deal of difference - there would still be a lot of those that we'd all rather not see around still signing up.

From other similar threads on this very subject people have said that other sites similar to this that charge much higher fees are still populated by the less desirable types - so I don't think forcing paid membership on anyone would make a jot of difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple solution for you... don't talk to the none paying members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a site supporter but I'm not meeting. Should I delete my account op? xxx

No.. The question is directed at the fakes and time wasters on here.. "

Good boy. Xxx

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

If you think it would make a difference, change your preferences so only site supporters can message you.

I've been messed about on sites that cost a lot more than £5 a month. Even idiots have spare cash.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I posted as a friend had a weirdo blocked and removed from the site.. She was told they wouldn't be able to open another account but they now have another account opened... I'm asking the question more in safety for females as they shouldn't need to put up with the crap they do receive from these kind of people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted as a friend had a weirdo blocked and removed from the site.. She was told they wouldn't be able to open another account but they now have another account opened... I'm asking the question more in safety for females as they shouldn't need to put up with the crap they do receive from these kind of people

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If this person keeps making new multiple profiles your friend can block newbies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I posted as a friend had a weirdo blocked and removed from the site.. She was told they wouldn't be able to open another account but they now have another account opened... I'm asking the question more in safety for females as they shouldn't need to put up with the crap they do receive from these kind of people

If this person keeps making new multiple profiles your friend can block newbies."

Yes you can initially.. The point is though there must be a better way that once these people are blocked they stay blocked from joining?? The whole point of paying a fee means that there personal details have to be given so it can be sense checked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a site supporter but I'm not meeting. Should I delete my account op? xxx

No.. The question is directed at the fakes and time wasters on here.. "

I am sure fakes and timewasters can find a spare fiver or tenner somewhere, how is that going to stop anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a site supporter but I'm not meeting. Should I delete my account op? xxx

No.. The question is directed at the fakes and time wasters on here..

I am sure fakes and timewasters can find a spare fiver or tenner somewhere, how is that going to stop anyone?"

I know it's not going to stop all.. The point I'm trying to get across is if people have to give there personal details if there are any issues there is answer on who that person actually is.. Surely ALL site members should be able to feel safe and not threatened..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We pay. We filter out non-site supporters. We also use common sense and carefully check verifications. We have NEVER in over 2 years of using this site knowingly come across a time-waster. And we probably play about once a month. In fact the only reason we know there are timewasters is because people keep banging on about them in the forums.

Mrs

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"It wouldnt make a difference lol."

+1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I posted as a friend had a weirdo blocked and removed from the site.. She was told they wouldn't be able to open another account but they now have another account opened... I'm asking the question more in safety for females as they shouldn't need to put up with the crap they do receive from these kind of people

If this person keeps making new multiple profiles your friend can block newbies.

Yes you can initially.. The point is though there must be a better way that once these people are blocked they stay blocked from joining?? The whole point of paying a fee means that there personal details have to be given so it can be sense checked? "

Fab doesn't keep personal details, and people can use their phones to top up by text, PAYG can be untraceable & some people use a different phone for fab.

Has your friend tried changing her name, location or hiding her profile for a while to try and shake him off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's everyone's thoughts on everyone having to be a silver or gold member??

There so many fake profiles and timewasters on here that I think if people had to pay you would get rid of a high % of these people... Be interesting to hear what people think of this? "

Most fakes wont be put off by £5 a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We pay. We filter out non-site supporters. We also use common sense and carefully check verifications. We have NEVER in over 2 years of using this site knowingly come across a time-waster. And we probably play about once a month. In fact the only reason we know there are timewasters is because people keep banging on about them in the forums.

Mrs"

Well said....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to belong to a site that charged £30 a month membership.

There were more fake profiles and timewasters there than you'll ever find on Fab.

M

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I agree ..

It's £5

Most people earn £20 - £25 an hour so it's pittance really .

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership "

It's £5 what else can you get for £5.

I've always been a site supporter

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London


"I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership

It's £5 what else can you get for £5.

I've always been a site supporter "

That's half a weeks worth of shopping for me, also I don't feel that I need any of the membership exclusive features.

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership

It's £5 what else can you get for £5.

I've always been a site supporter

That's half a weeks worth of shopping for me, also I don't feel that I need any of the membership exclusive features."

You spend £10 a week on shopping.

I'm not having that mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's a fiver if you can afford it and want it then pay it..if you can't afford it and want it sacrifice something to get it..it's that simple

a fiver ain't the earth infact it ain't even 2 pints I'm most pubs so what's the big deal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership

It's £5 what else can you get for £5.

I've always been a site supporter

That's half a weeks worth of shopping for me, also I don't feel that I need any of the membership exclusive features.

You spend £10 a week on shopping.

I'm not having that mate."

Perhaps he lives with his mum....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in that case I hope she's washing his wank socks for him

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

No I live with housemates lol, we share the shopping to keep the cost down

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Just ignore and filter out those that aren't already site supporters.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How you ment to get verified with so many times wasters haha

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

There exist sites where one must pay simply to read profiles and to send messages.

They have just as many fakes.

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"No I live with housemates lol, we share the shopping to keep the cost down"

Even if you share the shopping equally I don't believe anyone can live off £10 a week in 2017

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I would struggle to live off £10 a day and that's cooking my own meals

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

The timewasters probably have more money so still pay and the site should loose a lot of genuine people who do meet.

I've meet non paying non site supporters with great success

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership

It's £5 what else can you get for £5.

I've always been a site supporter

That's half a weeks worth of shopping for me, also I don't feel that I need any of the membership exclusive features.

You spend £10 a week on shopping.

Why not some people don't have much more than that I only have £15-20 for shopping means basics and special offers it can be done.

I'm not having that mate."

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership

It's £5 what else can you get for £5.

I've always been a site supporter

That's half a weeks worth of shopping for me, also I don't feel that I need any of the membership exclusive features.

You spend £10 a week on shopping.

Why not some people don't have much more than that I only have £15-20 for shopping means basics and special offers it can be done.

I'm not having that mate."

If I only had £15- £20 for shopping then I'd get my priorities right and stead of paying monthly phone bills or broadband and being on fab I would eat properly

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership

It's £5 what else can you get for £5.

I've always been a site supporter

That's half a weeks worth of shopping for me, also I don't feel that I need any of the membership exclusive features.

You spend £10 a week on shopping.

Why not some people don't have much more than that I only have £15-20 for shopping means basics and special offers it can be done.

I'm not having that mate.

If I only had £15- £20 for shopping then I'd get my priorities right and stead of paying monthly phone bills or broadband and being on fab I would eat properly"

Thanks for your judgement and assumptions

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

Yeah thanks for arguing about my lifestyle and not staying on topic guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would struggle to live off £10 a day and that's cooking my own meals"
Me too. I spend about fifty quid a week n that includes my daughters staying over at weekends. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I pay site supporters so I can have more pics up n look at hot pics. I also like to see whose looked at me. I'll contine to pay despite the fact I'm not meeting for the foreseeable. Use fab as you wish op. Xxx

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I don't feel particularly justified in using my student loan to pay for membership

It's £5 what else can you get for £5.

I've always been a site supporter

That's half a weeks worth of shopping for me, also I don't feel that I need any of the membership exclusive features.

You spend £10 a week on shopping.

Why not some people don't have much more than that I only have £15-20 for shopping means basics and special offers it can be done.

I'm not having that mate.

If I only had £15- £20 for shopping then I'd get my priorities right and stead of paying monthly phone bills or broadband and being on fab I would eat properly

Thanks for your judgement and assumptions "

I'm not judging, I am single Dad of three and and work for everything I've got. I find it hard believing you saying you can live off £20 worth of shopping a week. what I'm saying is if I was struggling I'm get my priorities right and make sure I eat properly

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"Yeah thanks for arguing about my lifestyle and not staying on topic guys "

Not arguing over YOUR lifestyle

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Yeah thanks for arguing about my lifestyle and not staying on topic guys

Not arguing over YOUR lifestyle "

I'm not arguing over anyone's lifestyle. I'm quite intrigued how someone can live off £10 a week.

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