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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was chatting to a girl last week who hates guys with skinny legs, I know some don't like facial hair, Or even hairy pubic areas, I personally I'm not a big fan of smoking or poor hygiene!! But what puts you completely off a meet??

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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ugly men. gave one a try and he's been a huge let down. at least i tried something different though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was chatting to a girl last week who hates guys with skinny legs, I know some don't like facial hair, Or even hairy pubic areas, I personally I'm not a big fan of smoking or poor hygiene!! But what puts you completely off a meet??"

Skinny legs, dirty finger nails, dirty shoes, yikes I could go on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vests and smelly armpits xxx

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Matty un washed hair. Bad odour and dirty finger nails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive got skinny legs

come on its not my fault?

and I'm ugly

I'm currently sporting facial hair and down below ive got the sticking out of a birds nest look

I remember once this lass had a strange smelling pussy, I fucked her a bit then she sucked my cock then I fucked her a bit more and as I kissed her I could taste her pussy....

later I realised it was cos her guy had come inside her shortly before I arrived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad hygiene

dirt under the fingernails

excessive facial hair..

massive beer belly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty finger nails and pubes are a big turn off for me xx

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Smokers, short men, small cocks, women haters, bad breath, football T shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dreadful shoes..trendy,long,pointy,dreadful shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene in all its forms, and being a knobhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An over confident guy!

I like a confident man but definitely not arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gold chains- can't explain why, they just do

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dirt under the fingernails is definitely a sign it aint gonna be too clean down below!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thin arms and wrists

Overly muscled guys in them t-shirts where the neck goes down to their navel

'Lego man' hair dyes

Poor tribal tattoos

Big noses esp where the chin is three inches further back

Seeing someones ribs

Knees fatter than the rest of the legs

Big guys with pale skin and no body hair (porpoises)

Bigheads

Skinny cocks with huge bell ends

Straggly bollock pubes

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Black or missing teeth

Long dirty nails

Bad manners or attitude.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk with bad teeth huge turn off

Dirty nails and folk that smell.no need for any of them

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By *cottishsurprise5Couple
over a year ago

East Ayrshire

I (female) am very fussy I have to be physically attracted to the person I'm meeting. Bad hygiene would also turn us off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad hygiene! Teeth gotta be clean and the mouth has gotta be fresh . Also a sense of humour goes a long way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People with really, really long lists of what they dislike...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"People with really, really long lists of what they dislike... "

Yes - keep it short and sweet, tell me what you want, not what you don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad shoes, bad attitude, racist, sexist, people who think the world revolves around them and liars. Pretty much covered everything lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's people who judge others without knowing them you can trust no one here i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it's people who judge others without knowing them you can trust no one here i think "

Including you ?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I would say it's people who judge others without knowing them you can trust no one here i think

Including you ? "

The internet does funny things to people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scruffy people, skinny guys or bad hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Poor hygiene in all its forms, and being a knobhead."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ginger pubes n smelly un shaved people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Muscly women

Big Hairy fannies

Hairy arm pits

Bad attitudes

Judgemental

Anyone who writes lists.. Hang on a minute

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Depends I'm put off even having a social meet when they ask me what I'm wearing now, or what I'm going to wear, or if they ask me where I want them to....you know.

At a sex meet the obvious poor hygiene in particular mank toenails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it's people who judge others without knowing them you can trust no one here i think

Including you ? "

nope it does not because i'm to honest and friendly and tell it like it is..

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

For lots of people on here their turn offs seem to be my face, my body and my personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soooo many things. But here's two:

Beards and certain political opinions.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Soooo many things. But here's two:

Beards and certain political opinions."

Would you fuck a beardy Trump??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Soooo many things. But here's two:

Beards and certain political opinions.

Would you fuck a beardy Trump?? "

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

People with long profiles giving out theres do's and don'ts like it's a lecture .

Dimply arses

Stomachs that resemble the moons surface ..

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Smelly breath

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smokers, poor hygiene, bad breath, bad manners.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

Oh god yeah smokers !!

And messy houses

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By *angerman85Man
over a year ago

preston

Anyone that watches , or been on or resembles anyone off Jeremy Kyle !

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

There are many, many things that put me off. Too many to list here.

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

So much dislike for skinny guys and I can't help not being able to put on weight, also I like my facial hair because I look like I'm 15 without it

Anyway as long as you aren't ancient, ugly, or a crack whore then you're just fine in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene & untidy home

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

The cold

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

God .... loads. The sort of things which should go without saying really:

Poor personal hygiene - *every* last bit of you should be squeaky clean and fresh

Bad manners and rudeness

Spite and unkindness

Sexism, racism, extreme political views, bigotry

People who do nothing but talk about themselves

People only interested in *their* pleasure

Arrogance

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Poor hygiene and poor manners are at the top of the list. I also don't like boasting of any sort, and people that think the world revolves around them and their opinions.

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Crude and rude, over familiarity, assuming that because I swing I am a tart who will shag absolutely anyone who says hello.

Most if not all of my meets have been with people who have taken time to cultural a friendship.

And swearing, nit a fan of this either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was chatting to a girl last week who hates guys with skinny legs, I know some don't like facial hair, Or even hairy pubic areas, I personally I'm not a big fan of smoking or poor hygiene!! But what puts you completely off a meet??

Skinny legs, dirty finger nails, dirty shoes, yikes I could go on."

Dirty finger nails yuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PEOPLE WHO SHOUT IN THEIR PROFILES and dirty untidy houses........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman's attitude is very off putting. I'm tolerant to a degree with lots. But unless I think your a nice person inside. Then it's a non starter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of effort in all aspects of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much pubic hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ugly men. gave one a try and he's been a huge let down. at least i tried something different though."

One persons ugly is another persons attractive.

Certainly is on fab anyway. Lol

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By *relanddirectMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Hygiene is top of the list x people come in all shapes sizes and personalities and it's amazing what can be attractive x a bigger woma with confidence and dressed well can be just as sexy as a slim woman etc gorgeous eyes a sexy smile an electric touch they all provide appeal but to not make an effort with simple hygiene is unforgivable

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Profiles not photo-verified.

Profiles with too many play meet verifications.

Profiles with photos from years ago.

Profiles with "Oh didn't I get lucky again!" statuses.

Friend requests without any messaging first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a meet is planned, the number one thing that puts me off is constant messaging. Especially the chatty "morning, how are you?" "How's your day been?" "What you wearing?" "Send me a pic bbe" type every single day. We only need to chat when the meet is imminent!

I've cancelled quite a few guys because of this.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"I was chatting to a girl last week who hates guys with skinny legs, I know some don't like facial hair, Or even hairy pubic areas, I personally I'm not a big fan of smoking or poor hygiene!! But what puts you completely off a meet??

Skinny legs, dirty finger nails, dirty shoes, yikes I could go on.

Dirty finger nails yuck"

Dirty, thick, long toenails even worse!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"If a meet is planned, the number one thing that puts me off is constant messaging. Especially the chatty "morning, how are you?" "How's your day been?" "What you wearing?" "Send me a pic bbe" type every single day. We only need to chat when the meet is imminent!

I've cancelled quite a few guys because of this. "

Agreed it gets overwhelming doesn't it.

You strike up a conversation, he seems nice.

You agree a meet occasionally it maybe a case of waiting a few weeks until you can nail down a definite date.

Suddenly it's ten messages a day of inane questions.

I realise they are just trying to be nice.

But there are a large number of people who have the.

Wear them down approach to getting meets

Whatever happened to playing it cool?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The merest hint of bad hygiene or lack of respect.....gone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they don't look like there pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a meet is planned, the number one thing that puts me off is constant messaging. Especially the chatty "morning, how are you?" "How's your day been?" "What you wearing?" "Send me a pic bbe" type every single day. We only need to chat when the meet is imminent!

I've cancelled quite a few guys because of this.

Agreed it gets overwhelming doesn't it.

You strike up a conversation, he seems nice.

You agree a meet occasionally it maybe a case of waiting a few weeks until you can nail down a definite date.

Suddenly it's ten messages a day of inane questions.

I realise they are just trying to be nice.

But there are a large number of people who have the.

Wear them down approach to getting meets

Whatever happened to playing it cool? "

That's exactly how I like guys to be - cool.

When you say you can't meet for x amount of weeks, I don't want to talk until like a few days before that.

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By *ummyluvvahMan
over a year ago

cove


"Profiles not photo-verified.

Profiles with too many play meet verifications.

Profiles with photos from years ago.

Profiles with "Oh didn't I get lucky again!" statuses.

Friend requests without any messaging first."

Status beginning with @

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

Must be freshly showered and teeth cleaned. And no face fuzz at all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have seen some horrendous profiles it amazes me how some can be fussy at all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad breath.

Bad body odor.

Dandruff (head & shoulders sorts that out easy enough.)

Dirty fingernails.

Generally untidy/unflattering clothing.

Big bushy beards.

And that's all before he gets naked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People with really, really long lists of what they dislike... "

This made me laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from the obvious (hygiene)

I find people talking about what they don't like about themselves and when they highlight their body parts there're not happy about.

It just isn't sexy!

Be proud of yourself and ooze sex appeal!

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By *he_batmanMan
over a year ago

Gotham

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By *orth South DivideCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Aside from the obvious hygiene things.

Milky white skin and cocks which are so pink they look raw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have seen some horrendous profiles it amazes me how some can be fussy at all lol "

This

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

Fisting.

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