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I'm beginning to resent my children lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everytime I have a day off or some free time one of my kids is ill. Argh it's driving me insane and I'm beginning to resent them. Bad mum I know

Anyone else have the same problem?

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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not bad at all. i've had 4 of them so can relate to wanting time to myself. and i do get that now, it's a lot better.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can empathise although I don't recall actively resenting our kids I did sometimes feel a bit hemmed in.

I know it feels like it but it truly isn't forever.

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham

They have a sixth sense for the worst time to be ill.

Ours are usually at their worst a week before a school holiday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sympathise.

I've had to call off meets because my children have been ill. I've been accused of lying and being a time waster, but they can go to hell!! They are my kids and they come first.

Doesn't make for a happy mummy, but I get over it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It was easier if they were ill when one of us had the day off. It used to become very difficult if we both had important stuff going on at work and they were ill but we usually managed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I sympathise.

I've had to call off meets because my children have been ill. I've been accused of lying and being a time waster, but they can go to hell!! They are my kids and they come first.

Doesn't make for a happy mummy, but I get over it. "

I was going out of my door to meet a bloke for a social, when my daughter's school rang and said she had been sick. Very last minute cancel XXX

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't think I ever really resented my daughter, although I did resent my ex for never babysitting so I never got time off to myself. However my daughter is now living with her boyfriend and I miss her every day, so make the most of them. You have plenty of time later t catch up on your shagging.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

I did when youngest was at preschool. The two schools are opposite each other in the same village but their start/finish times were 45mins different & the schools are 15mins away so I'd spend an hour half each day trying to find something to occupy, mad dash to Asda dragging a three year old along (not good) little play in the park (always tears when we'd leave)

Now same school, H takes them on the way to work & I have peace and quiet from 8:30 everyday

S

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Vote UKIP, return to the 19th century.

Send children to boarding school/down the mines.

Sorted.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Everytime I have a day off or some free time one of my kids is ill. Argh it's driving me insane and I'm beginning to resent them. Bad mum I know

Anyone else have the same problem?"

Lol know how you feel, our son keeps getting ill and sharing it with us.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Vote UKIP, return to the 19th century.

Send children to boarding school/down the mines.

Sorted.

"

Oh my God

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Everytime I have a day off or some free time one of my kids is ill. Argh it's driving me insane and I'm beginning to resent them. Bad mum I know

Anyone else have the same problem?"

I find I easier to dump them at the grandparents and don't feel a ounce of guilt by treating them to a fun day beforehand or after for that matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am a single dad so I get my fair share of childcare but again today on a day I'm not supposed to I now have my little one... ruined my evening plans seems every time I want to do seomyhing I get a short notice call from the ex

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By *andVBCouple
over a year ago

Wrexham


"Everytime I have a day off or some free time one of my kids is ill. Argh it's driving me insane and I'm beginning to resent them. Bad mum I know

Anyone else have the same problem?

I find I easier to dump them at the grandparents and don't feel a ounce of guilt by treating them to a fun day beforehand or after for that matter. "

When we found the second monster was on his way my parents moved to the other end of the country.

They say it was coincidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just console yourself with the thought that one day they'll probably be stupid enough to reproduce too.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Well I am a single dad so I get my fair share of childcare but again today on a day I'm not supposed to I now have my little one... ruined my evening plans seems every time I want to do seomyhing I get a short notice call from the ex"

You sure she hasn't got your login for here, multiple users can use the same logon at the same time, she could be following your mails

S

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By *vpamelaTV/TS
over a year ago

kinkville


"Everytime I have a day off or some free time one of my kids is ill. Argh it's driving me insane and I'm beginning to resent them. Bad mum I know

Anyone else have the same problem?

I find I easier to dump them at the grandparents and don't feel a ounce of guilt by treating them to a fun day beforehand or after for that matter.

When we found the second monster was on his way my parents moved to the other end of the country.

They say it was coincidence. "

Selfish oldies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime I have a day off or some free time one of my kids is ill. Argh it's driving me insane and I'm beginning to resent them. Bad mum I know

Anyone else have the same problem?"

I'm in Cornwall. grandchild imminent. Daughter Portsmouth wants me there babysitting while they go to a funeral. Sibling rivalry drives me crazy

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I sympathise.

I've had to call off meets because my children have been ill. I've been accused of lying and being a time waster, but they can go to hell!! They are my kids and they come first.

Doesn't make for a happy mummy, but I get over it.

I was going out of my door to meet a bloke for a social, when my daughter's school rang and said she had been sick. Very last minute cancel XXX"

i had a meet planned once, dressed as requested and was in the car oing there when the school rang and said i need to go. turned out she'd hit her nose so hard we needed to go to hospital. i got blocked for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say I resent them but they're a handful and definitely keep me busy!

11,10,6 and 2 I kind of want them to stop growing for a bit tbh it go's to fast

Then we're about to get down to some naughtyness and I hear "mom mom" ...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I watched my son die.

Resenting my remaining children so I can fuck strangers is totally alien to me, but we're all different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime I have a day off or some free time one of my kids is ill. Argh it's driving me insane and I'm beginning to resent them. Bad mum I know

Anyone else have the same problem?

I find I easier to dump them at the grandparents and don't feel a ounce of guilt by treating them to a fun day beforehand or after for that matter. "

Spare a thought for us poor grandparents who have to pick sick children up from school and cancel plans for babysitting duties.

It doesn't end at your children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I am a single dad so I get my fair share of childcare but again today on a day I'm not supposed to I now have my little one... ruined my evening plans seems every time I want to do seomyhing I get a short notice call from the ex

You sure she hasn't got your login for here, multiple users can use the same logon at the same time, she could be following your mails

S"

Now wouldn't that be sneaky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a stay at home dad and I totally feel your pain. .. christ knows how I had time to work....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep and ours are 18 arrrrrrgh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I watched my son die.

Resenting my remaining children so I can fuck strangers is totally alien to me, but we're all different. "

Sorry to hear that. Mayb you could explain your comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Children know...they just know!

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a lot of sympathy too, you're not alone for sure x

Many meets I have planned have had to be cancelled because of various things related to my kids.

Some guys think thats me messing about which is annoying

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Think it's relevant to point out that the op didn't even mention meeting/shagging - she was simply talking about time to herself!!

Until my ex and I split up, I was the kids' carer 24/7 as he had very little involvement in their lives, and when he did it was largely negative (though to be fair he's a better dad since we split!)

It's only now I'm single that I get a balance of time to myself and time with my kids - and I enjoy them all the more for it!

There are VERY few parents on here who don't put their kids first - so let's give each other hugs instead of criticism!

One positive when they're off school a bit poorly though - you get 1-2-1 time with them and lots of cuddles - and cuddles are my favourite thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think it's relevant to point out that the op didn't even mention meeting/shagging - she was simply talking about time to herself!!

Until my ex and I split up, I was the kids' carer 24/7 as he had very little involvement in their lives, and when he did it was largely negative (though to be fair he's a better dad since we split!)

It's only now I'm single that I get a balance of time to myself and time with my kids - and I enjoy them all the more for it!

There are VERY few parents on here who don't put their kids first - so let's give each other hugs instead of criticism!

One positive when they're off school a bit poorly though - you get 1-2-1 time with them and lots of cuddles - and cuddles are my favourite thing! "

Can very much identify with the sentiments expressed regarding the ex, and yes, being only human, we can all feel frustrated and resentful at having constant demands on our time. It doesn't mean we don't love our children.

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek


"I watched my son die.

Resenting my remaining children so I can fuck strangers is totally alien to me, but we're all different.

Sorry to hear that. Mayb you could explain your comment "

That comment doesn't need explaining!!

It's about perspective..

Im a single Dad and I've brought my 2 sons up on my own . And yes I've worked full time too as im not a dosser .

My boys are older now and don't need me anymore and i miss that .

Id gladly give up my free time to nurse them again through illness or miss out on meaningless sex because there poorly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is interesting im a single man one parent family and i work full time and it kicks my ass sometimes. When i do get alone time i waist most of it trying to work out what i actually want to do and normally it's too spontanious to be anything great anyway.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have had to cancel a meet because of daxs son. The bloke kicked off about it....block and move on.

We all have lives away from this place and people can either take it or not

We all feel like things are happening at the wrong time....it's just life. Enjoy the happy moments and forget the bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nicely put pete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I watched my son die.

Resenting my remaining children so I can fuck strangers is totally alien to me, but we're all different. "

I am sorry to hear you lost your son but the OP never mentioned fucking strangers ... I read it more that its overwhelming and sometimes she would just like some time for herself ... something i assume alot of parents can relate to ... i get parenting comes first but you are also a "person" as well as a parent and some time to connect with that and protect your own mental health is also important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always seems to be the way - my daughter suffers with a long term illness -no cure but not life threatening and took up a lot of my time - they grow up and leave home and then you get your space

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