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Straight men and gay saunas

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By *ithASmile OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton

I have and always have been comfortable with my sexuality and I've been toying with the idea of going to a gay sauna ... mainly because if confidence issues

Am slightly weird? Because obviously people will be looking but because I've no interest it doesn't bother me ?

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

They cheaper than regular saunas and spas

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

What is it about a sauna that interests you? And what do you mean by confidence issues?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you try Bristol Gardens in Brighton? It's non-play (no touching in spa area) and the spa facilities are lovely. I go regularly just to relax.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How will going to a gay sauna improve your confidence issues ?

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By *ithASmile OP   Man
over a year ago

southampton

Well I used to be a tad chubby so I don't like being around women unclothed...

It's not the fact of a gay sauna helping confidence issues more being able to relax in a comfortable environment

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

I know it's easy to say, but I really wouldn't worry about it. Everyone is different and there are all sorts of shapes and sizes of people. Go somewhere like Kestrels and you will see all body types - in fact, there's probably a tendency towards the "fuller figure" types there. Really relaxed environment. Great place to go if you want to dip your toe, so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I used to be a tad chubby so I don't like being around women unclothed...

It's not the fact of a gay sauna helping confidence issues more being able to relax in a comfortable environment "

Gay men can be far more critical than women and far more vocal about it

The dynamic in a gay sauna is VERY different to in a swinging club

You can pretty much expect unsolicited touching and groping without introduction for a start

You cannot be clothed either once you are in. It is a towel or nudity, nothing else.

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By *eedsortingMan
over a year ago

Radley

There is something nice and liberating about being naked in a place like that though.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

From my experience I'd say that only going to use the facilities is not what 99% of the clientele are there for and you should be prepared for some unsolicited touching x

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