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gentle or rough and hard sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what do u enjoy? and why?

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Gentle! because rough hurts..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either, it depends on who i'm with, it's their call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I could only have one, or the bloke could only do one, that would be really quite shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both love a nice hard finnish tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours is mostly role play full of rough sex, even when we attempt to be soft and gentle, 99% of the time it turns into kinky role play.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like soft gentle sex on occasion but much prefer rough hard dominated sessions... When I feel like I've had a good seeing to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough and treated badly. Specially on one off meets. Most enjoyable for me

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"If I could only have one, or the bloke could only do one, that would be really quite shit. "

I try for gentle but it never stays that way lol

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"Rough and treated badly. Specially on one off meets. Most enjoyable for me "

Oh that could definitely be done lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like both....don't make me choose!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentle until the pussy warms up then rough as fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"both love a nice hard finnish tho "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the guy, his cock and my mood! Ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood! And finding the right person to offer both!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rough and treated badly. Specially on one off meets. Most enjoyable for me "

good answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely depends on the mood, all 3 are good in the right circumstances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person and depends on the moment. Variety rules!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All if the above

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By *at1sevCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I like both. Depends on the mood and situation. Sometimes i need sensual, passionate sex with gentle kissing and touching and sometimes i need rough sex with slapping my ass and pulling hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't really belive anyone is a strict dom,bull, or what ever. I'd go more to say that the majority of people are switch. And alternate between the two, depending on what strikes there desires at the time.

Imagine a very desirable lady lands up on your doorstep, she tells you, she's delicate like a flower, she needs watering and not to break her petals. she wants your cock slid up in her pussy like she's royalty. Cause been fucked slowly, and caressed in return she will gush/squirt and and palpitations uncontrollably repeatedly.

You wouldent go nah, I'm a bull I fuck like a stream train. If you ain't got a ticket hop off the ride ??

He would switch. For definite

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does it always have to be one or the other? Don't you remember Kellogg's variety packs? Everyone had their favourite but you'd still want to sample the others now and again. Sex should be like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from Special K they had no place in my variety packs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All if the above "

I wish I lived in Dublin

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I prefer hard sex, once I have gotten used to them in me of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All if the above "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i perfer sensual sex to rough sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I'm in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the man, and the occasion..

because that's the way it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate for me

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I prefer sensual passionate. Usually gentle but occasionally rough.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Gentle to begin with. Leading up to rough once I am properly aroused. If you can't finish with a hard fuck, then fuck off xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely rough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on our mood. We can both be gentle. But we can also get rough, particularly if Amber gets disobedient or skittish. We both love either mood. Which does seem to be the consensus. X

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"what do u enjoy? and why?"

I enjoy both but it all depends on what my partner prefers. Sex is not a 'me, me, me' thing. It's more a case of what your playmate prefers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard and rough please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll take all three. Variety is the key!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of them! Variety is the only way. Sometimes you need to take your time and go slow Other times, like when you haven't see each other in a while, you both need it hard. And rough angry sex is awesome too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you go with the flow and you can sense by the woman's reaction whether to increase the tempo or not ... either way the shuddering when she comes give you the answer and multiple orgasms even better ... and then I release

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

With a huge cock you have to be gentle, passionate and a pleasure giver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each had their own time and place.

I do love a bit of hard doggy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each had their own time and place.

I do love a bit of hard doggy though. "

100% This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who I'm with, where I am & how I feel as to what I like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each had their own time and place.

I do love a bit of hard doggy though.

100% This "

Bend over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I err on the gentle side.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

Gentle because rough hurts. It can get a touch rough though, with hair pulling and hubby pounding me. But that's it. Sometimes you just fancy it a bit rough. I dont know why.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"Gentle to begin with. Leading up to rough once I am properly aroused. If you can't finish with a hard fuck, then fuck off xxxxx Suzi "

I can't finish without a hard fuck lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on who I'm with, where I am & how I feel as to what I like.

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Depends on the moment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a mixture of both....usually if it starts with intense rough sex I like to follow that with gentle soft sex and kissing

Or if it starts soft and romantic ....I love it when there is a point when it switches to rough and intense

J

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a mixture of both....usually if it starts with intense rough sex I like to follow that with gentle soft sex and kissing

Or if it starts soft and romantic ....I love it when there is a point when it switches to rough and intense

J "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like a mixture of both....usually if it starts with intense rough sex I like to follow that with gentle soft sex and kissing

Or if it starts soft and romantic ....I love it when there is a point when it switches to rough and intense

J "

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Both i am a Dom but a bit of an old romantic as well.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire


"Both i am a Dom but a bit of an old romantic as well."

Well said Sir x

My sentiments exactly!

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By *entleman.kMan
over a year ago

close by

Definitely gentle to start with carressing to entise the mind as well as the body, and then go with the flow,

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Why does it always have to be either or? Plenty of those threads where you're asked to choose one over the other. This is fab and we all love sex so why should I constantly limit my sexual needs, wants, desires, fantasies, preferences, positions etc etc.

Here's my answer in principle: I'm greedy and I want it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gentle to start but rough & dominant to finish

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By *is_Collared_SubWoman
over a year ago

London

Most guys don't know how to have rough sex to properly. Porn education is to blame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always starts soft and gentle with hubby but always ends hard and fast

When we play in club we always play soft, gentle and sensual

But yes depends who you are with at the time

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By *layalongCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I like both, but slow is lovely

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

All of the above and a bit more besides.....

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Definitely both

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Whatever my lover wants. I am quite eclectic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh hard fast and plenty of it that's what I like want and need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends - can't we have both?

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Both

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By *UFC9Man
over a year ago

Whitley Bay & Tamworth

Can't choose as it will always come down to the moment!

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I like it rough and hard ... a real pounding !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rough as fuck ... gentle for other moods with partner.. love a good pounding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The rougher and harder the better!! I love to end a session being left to feel completely used! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both - but rough has to be built up to - can take more then but id definitely say im more sensual type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rough and hard. I like to feel that ive been fucked

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"I like it rough and hard ... a real pounding ! "

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By *ittleblackdressWoman
over a year ago

Cambs

Gentle then getting harder as I get more excited

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Gentle then getting harder as I get more excited "

I love it when they beg for it. A good tease always please.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

The part with the most flexibility controls he system, well according to Korbzyski.

Either/or doesn't do it, "and" is a good word..,,,

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