For me it's all about the tease, the more wound up I am, the more I'm going to enjoy it when I finally get what I want.
When it comes to my clit, it's so sensitive I can't touch it directly myself, if someone simply tries to lift up the hood and start "rubbing" it's guaranteed to make me want to stop play.
I know I am not alone in this, and I know a fair few women like me have found that the "shaft" of the clit is where we need the attention, for me when that is firmly but gently played with, the result is that the hood moves over my clit in the most delightful of ways. Variations on this are what will make me personally cum.
Things can never be too wet down there, feel free to spread my juices around, or to add something to help matters, but dry skin on dry skin is painful after a while.
When it comes to insertions, I go back to point one, it's all about the tease - things will open up all by themselves, subconsciously I'll thrust my hips upwards when I want something inside me. Too much, too soon and it hurts.
Finally in my case, when I am cumming stop if I try and hold you in place stop what you are doing. I can't tell you how many orgasms I've had ruined by guys thinking this is the point to go harder and faster. It really, really isn't!
So there's some of my personal hints and tips - ladies, do you have any to add, are you completely different? What works for you?
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