FabSwingers.com forum: Married part 2

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

hay I do hope this means you haven't given up trolling the trolls

you naughty sexy little minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You stick it to them OP.

Screw them if they don't understand, who cares anyway. We want like minded, free spirited fun seekers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

hay I do hope this means you haven't given up trolling the trolls

you naughty sexy little minx

I don't know what you mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You stick it to them OP.

Screw them if they don't understand, who cares anyway. We want like minded, free spirited fun seekers.

Not everyone has the knowledge or capability to see situations from a different view point, but live and let live I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

hay I do hope this means you haven't given up trolling the trolls

you naughty sexy little minx

People having a difference of opinion in threads does not make them trolls

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

hay I do hope this means you haven't given up trolling the trolls

you naughty sexy little minx

People having a difference of opinion in threads does not make them trolls

True.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I think I understand the point of the OP. Generally, we accept other's sexual preferences, although we may not share them: BDSM, bukkake,watersports, bareback,etc... Why don't feel arousal having sex with an attached person, feel the complicity, keeping it as a secret..?

She is not at all the only woman who thinks that way. Actually, from opinions of other women here, married men use to be more discreet and less pushing...

Awh, of course, the poor cheated wife/husband. Well, I would never dare to judge the reasons why someone looks for secret adventures. Are we all that honest?

There was a chap some years ago who said:

"Whoever is without sin among you, let him be the first to cast a stone at her".

Now, you can cast one at me for my words as well...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Just read the other thread.

What fun

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I love this passionate threads...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I love this passionate threads...

Is that an attempt at bumping?

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"I love this passionate threads...

Is that an attempt at bumping?

No, this is a subject that always will be controversial. But I couldn't post in the first thread and I do it now on this one.

On the other hand, I love good and passionate discussions..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love this passionate threads...

Is that an attempt at bumping?

No, this is a subject that always will be controversial. But I couldn't post in the first thread and I do it now on this one.

On the other hand, I love good and passionate discussions..

Thanks for your input, very well worded

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I love this passionate threads...

Is that an attempt at bumping?

No, this is a subject that always will be controversial. But I couldn't post in the first thread and I do it now on this one.

On the other hand, I love good and passionate discussions..

I don't actually think it's that controversial. If people can respect the idea that some will meet those who are cheaters and others won't, it's not actually that big a deal. I think it gets ' passionate' when people try to enforce opinions down one another's throats as facts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love this passionate threads...

Is that an attempt at bumping?

No, this is a subject that always will be controversial. But I couldn't post in the first thread and I do it now on this one.

On the other hand, I love good and passionate discussions..

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

Just because I said in your original thread it's not for me doesn't mean I think you're in the wrong. Whatever makes you happy

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

Controversial or not, on this subject people tend to be assertive on their positions. Usually, it is men who start this subject on other threads and they are quite criticized. In my opinion, OP has been brave expressing openly her point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love this passionate threads...

Is that an attempt at bumping?

No, this is a subject that always will be controversial. But I couldn't post in the first thread and I do it now on this one.

On the other hand, I love good and passionate discussions..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Controversial or not, on this subject people tend to be assertive on their positions. Usually, it is men who start this subject on other threads and they are quite criticized. In my opinion, OP has been brave expressing openly her point. "

I'm just not afraid to say what I think. So many others on this site just follow the crowd, that's not me. I'm outspoken, and confident about myself. I don't seek approval for my actions, as I don't need to. I don't have any issues, I'm living my life as I wish, and extremely happy, as are those around me. So many other people plod on through life moaning that things aren't quite right yet don't have the balls to get out there and make changes. Life is for living, it's not a rehearsal. I'm me. If people either like me or hate me on this sex site, I'm not bothered. Well except maybe the ones who I meet, they have to like me, and like me they do

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Check you out being all controversial for a change

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I don't see why anyone would hate you, you just have a different relationship with your partner, that has led you into this lifestyle, nothing wrong with that, some will agree with it and others won't, it's whatever works for you. Some of us have just had experiences where someone being unfaithful has dessimated relationships and families, so I guess we all have to agree to disagree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a married woman willing to meet married men, no emotions or strings attached we're both there for the kinky unbridled sex we don't get at home. We go home satisfied instead of frustrated. I believe some people are polygamist and others monogamous like some are gay and others straight.

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love this passionate threads...

Is that an attempt at bumping?

No, this is a subject that always will be controversial. But I couldn't post in the first thread and I do it now on this one.

On the other hand, I love good and passionate discussions..

Spot on once again m'lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Check you out being all controversial for a change

You know me too well

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm a married woman willing to meet married men, no emotions or strings attached we're both there for the kinky unbridled sex we don't get at home. We go home satisfied instead of frustrated. I believe some people are polygamist and others monogamous like some are gay and others straight.

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say more than that .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Wise words

Thank you

great profile btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Wise words

Thank you

great profile btw "

Post of the day.

everyone is entitled to an opinion but there is never a place for hatred or abuse.

Live and let live.

Enjoy whatever makes you happy.

Happy Friday xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You stick it to them OP.

Screw them if they don't understand, who cares anyway. We want like minded, free spirited fun seekers.

Not everyone has the knowledge or capability to see situations from a different view point, but live and let live I say

Exact to their own, I say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Wise words

Thank you

great profile btw

Post of the day.

everyone is entitled to an opinion but there is never a place for hatred or abuse.

Live and let live.

Enjoy whatever makes you happy.

Happy Friday xxxx

Thank you for the kind post.

Loved your profile as well

outrageous flirting

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I agree with several posters on the last thread - to betray and deceive a loyal partner is bad enough, to crow about it is utterly repugnant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be perfect is absolutely impossible, I'm sure everyone has upset someone during their time on this earth. You who pass judgement should be willing to inform us all of your transgressions and let's see how many do?

I'm betting this will be a very empty space..

....... Judgemental hypocrites

If you don't agree a simple I don't agree or its not for me would suffice but no you have to use stronger more intimidating language.

Well we don't care what you think!

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

No one can speculate on another's relationship, I spent the last 6-8 years of a 22y relationship sexless. I was ratty distracted moody, I think if she had let me off the leash to forfill my lust our relationship would of been so much better

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I think I made my point pretty clear on your previous thread on the same topic!

Most people on fab don't set themselves up as the self appointed moral police (though I'm aware some do!) Some people on fab are (for their own reasons) cheating on partners.

Of those of us who aren't - some of us will play with them - some won't!

Some of those 'cheats' are good friends of mine who I like a hell of a lot! We haven't discussed it, and I wouldn't unless they wanted to, but I think it's unlikely to be a decision that they took easily or lightly!

I think the last thing they'd expect or want is to be praised and applauded for that decision.

I've noticed that none of those people have commented on your thread and I think this is why. Cheating happens - it happens when one partner wants monogamy and the other doesn't - or when sex in a relationship becomes boring/nonexistent!

I accept it but still find your assertion that it is to be applauded in some way extremely distasteful (and you obviously do - you've set two threads up in one day!)

I wonder if your partner will applaud you if/when he finds out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Live and let live.

However I set this thread up to point people in the direction of my 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread, but of course people can write whatever they want in this thread.

Each to their own

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

It's never nice to be cheated on (yes it has been done to me) but the fact is it's hard to find a partner with the same drive as you(thankfully I have now).im not a cheater (as in meeting wen I'm in a closed relationship) but if I didn't chat or play online I'd be a nightmare

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Live and let live.

However I set this thread up to point people in the direction of my 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread, but of course people can write whatever they want in this thread.

Each to their own

Aw cmon Hun!

Snog fuck avoid threads are set up almost daily and work under their own steam very well!

You don't need to set up a thread up about a contentious topic to draw attention to an everyday one!

Nice try though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

People nees to accept that cheating happens, some agree whole heartedly with me, some are against it, and both of those are fine. However, people free to talk about it on here. If it doesn't sit comfortable with someone, they are free to bypass the thread, or I'm totally happy people commenting as long as it's not involving a personal attack on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I made my point pretty clear on your previous thread on the same topic!

Most people on fab don't set themselves up as the self appointed moral police (though I'm aware some do!) Some people on fab are (for their own reasons) cheating on partners.

Of those of us who aren't - some of us will play with them - some won't!

I think the last thing they'd expect or want is to be praised and applauded for that decision.

I accept it but still find your assertion that it is to be applauded in some way extremely distasteful (and you obviously do - you've set two threads up in one day!)

I wonder if your partner will applaud you if/when he finds out? "

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I think I made my point pretty clear on your previous thread on the same topic!

Most people on fab don't set themselves up as the self appointed moral police (though I'm aware some do!) Some people on fab are (for their own reasons) cheating on partners.

Of those of us who aren't - some of us will play with them - some won't!

I think the last thing they'd expect or want is to be praised and applauded for that decision.

I accept it but still find your assertion that it is to be applauded in some way extremely distasteful (and you obviously do - you've set two threads up in one day!)

I wonder if your partner will applaud you if/when he finds out? "

I agree with this. I don't judge people for cheating as I'm sure it's a complex situation and people have many reasons for seeking sex, affection or attention outside their relationship.

But gloating about it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. Live and let live.

However I set this thread up to point people in the direction of my 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread, but of course people can write whatever they want in this thread.

Each to their own

Aw cmon Hun!

Snog fuck avoid threads are set up almost daily and work under their own steam very well!

You don't need to set up a thread up about a contentious topic to draw attention to an everyday one!

Nice try though! "

Well you're still commenting on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I made my point pretty clear on your previous thread on the same topic!

Most people on fab don't set themselves up as the self appointed moral police (though I'm aware some do!) Some people on fab are (for their own reasons) cheating on partners.

Of those of us who aren't - some of us will play with them - some won't!

I think the last thing they'd expect or want is to be praised and applauded for that decision.

I accept it but still find your assertion that it is to be applauded in some way extremely distasteful (and you obviously do - you've set two threads up in one day!)

I wonder if your partner will applaud you if/when he finds out?

I agree with this. I don't judge people for cheating as I'm sure it's a complex situation and people have many reasons for seeking sex, affection or attention outside their relationship.

But gloating about it...

I haven't been gloating. I've simply said in my original thread the excitement I feel seeing marrried people. But as usual, these types of threads always go off on a tangent. But it's all good reading

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

"I think I made my point pretty clear on your previous thread on the same topic!

Most people on fab don't set themselves up as the self appointed moral police (though I'm aware some do!) Some people on fab are (for their own reasons) cheating on partners.

Of those of us who aren't - some of us will play with them - some won't!

I think the last thing they'd expect or want is to be praised and applauded for that decision.

I accept it but still find your assertion that it is to be applauded in some way extremely distasteful (and you obviously do - you've set two threads up in one day!)

I wonder if your partner will applaud you if/when he finds out?

I agree with this. I don't judge people for cheating as I'm sure it's a complex situation and people have many reasons for seeking sex, affection or attention outside their relationship.

But gloating about it...

Well if u ever paid me a visit I'd have trouble turning u down lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

It's an emotive issue

Whichever side of the fence you sit on opinions will be strong willed

No opinion as more or less right to be respected. Especially if said as respectfully as possible. Unfortunately I feel little respect was shown to either side on the last thread.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

hay I do hope this means you haven't given up trolling the trolls

you naughty sexy little minx

People having a difference of opinion in threads does not make them trolls

I agree but it does when they run to admin during the debate to get people a forum ban

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I agree with several posters on the last thread - to betray and deceive a loyal partner is bad enough, to crow about it is utterly repugnant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I made my point pretty clear on your previous thread on the same topic!

Most people on fab don't set themselves up as the self appointed moral police (though I'm aware some do!) Some people on fab are (for their own reasons) cheating on partners.

Of those of us who aren't - some of us will play with them - some won't!

I think the last thing they'd expect or want is to be praised and applauded for that decision.

I accept it but still find your assertion that it is to be applauded in some way extremely distasteful (and you obviously do - you've set two threads up in one day!)

I wonder if your partner will applaud you if/when he finds out?

I agree with this. I don't judge people for cheating as I'm sure it's a complex situation and people have many reasons for seeking sex, affection or attention outside their relationship.

But gloating about it...

Well if u ever paid me a visit I'd have trouble turning u down lol"

You brave man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

hay I do hope this means you haven't given up trolling the trolls

you naughty sexy little minx

People having a difference of opinion in threads does not make them trolls

I agree but it does when they run to admin during the debate to get people a forum ban

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think I made my point pretty clear on your previous thread on the same topic!

Most people on fab don't set themselves up as the self appointed moral police (though I'm aware some do!) Some people on fab are (for their own reasons) cheating on partners.

Of those of us who aren't - some of us will play with them - some won't!

I think the last thing they'd expect or want is to be praised and applauded for that decision.

I accept it but still find your assertion that it is to be applauded in some way extremely distasteful (and you obviously do - you've set two threads up in one day!)

I wonder if your partner will applaud you if/when he finds out?

Who knows how he will react. He may applaud me, he may not. But I certainly don't spend my days worrrying about something that probably will never happen. Life is for living, not dwelling on the negatives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we all just make love not war here.

Just because someone chooses to cheat does not make them a bad individual.

I understand people loathe cheaters and that is just fine.

There are many things in life I don't agree with but I would always remain civil and polite even if I had judged them in my head.

Each to their own wether morally right or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

hay I do hope this means you haven't given up trolling the trolls

you naughty sexy little minx

People having a difference of opinion in threads does not make them trolls

I agree but it does when they run to admin during the debate to get people a forum ban

That still doesn't make them a troll and how do you know they went running to admin in the first place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"part 2"

Part 2456753 more like

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

""part 2"

Part 2456753 more like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is for living..

Vindicated

Not!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I'd start another one but not sure people can cope. People seem to take things so seriously when this site is meant to be all about fun.

So,... I've done a 'snog, fuck, avoid' thread in the lounge instead

hay I do hope this means you haven't given up trolling the trolls

you naughty sexy little minx

People having a difference of opinion in threads does not make them trolls

I agree but it does when they run to admin during the debate to get people a forum ban

That still doesn't make them a troll and how do you know they went running to admin in the first place?"

It's an assumption that fits the narrative of the 'trolls'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Wise words

Thank you

great profile btw

Post of the day.

everyone is entitled to an opinion but there is never a place for hatred or abuse.

Live and let live.

Enjoy whatever makes you happy.

Happy Friday xxxx

Thank you for the kind post.

Loved your profile as well

outrageous flirting

xx"

If that's for me then right back atcha

xxx

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

That's a matter of perspective though to you it's no string fun to some you have a massive string already tied to you in the form of your spouse.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

That's a matter of perspective though to you it's no string fun to some you have a massive string already tied to you in the form of your spouse. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married and I regularly meet a married lady. It works well for all concerned as it is good fun and is in a safe environment. Nothing seedy or naughty just NSA fun. It is sometimes less hassle than meeting up with a singleton and we are not expecting anything else to come out of the set up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

I think the problem for most here is that one partner is monogamous and the other is not. If you wish to be a polygamist would you not be better finding a partner who wants to be too instead of lieing to your current one.

Not really comparable to gay or straight.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Not really comparable to gay or straight."

No - it isn't! But at the end of the day we're not in their relationship so it's not for us to judge!

We may think we know what we'd do in a given set of circumstances - but unless we're party to that relationship then we don't know!

I don't question the decisions of others - I question the need to set up threads which pretty much celebrate infidelity!

I can't, hand on heart, say I'd never be unfaithful in a future relationship (though I can't imagine doing) - but I can certainly say I wouldn't start a thread saying how exciting it is!

That's the part I find highly distasteful!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Not really comparable to gay or straight.

No - it isn't! But at the end of the day we're not in their relationship so it's not for us to judge!

We may think we know what we'd do in a given set of circumstances - but unless we're party to that relationship then we don't know!

I don't question the decisions of others - I question the need to set up threads which pretty much celebrate infidelity!

I can't, hand on heart, say I'd never be unfaithful in a future relationship (though I can't imagine doing) - but I can certainly say I wouldn't start a thread saying how exciting it is!

That's the part I find highly distasteful! "

Everyone is entitled to start a thread on any subject they want. Some people like subjects, some don't. If people don't like it they can simply scroll onto the next thread. Simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Not really comparable to gay or straight.

No - it isn't! But at the end of the day we're not in their relationship so it's not for us to judge!

We may think we know what we'd do in a given set of circumstances - but unless we're party to that relationship then we don't know!

I don't question the decisions of others - I question the need to set up threads which pretty much celebrate infidelity!

I can't, hand on heart, say I'd never be unfaithful in a future relationship (though I can't imagine doing) - but I can certainly say I wouldn't start a thread saying how exciting it is!

That's the part I find highly distasteful!

Everyone is entitled to start a thread on any subject they want. Some people like subjects, some don't. If people don't like it they can simply scroll onto the next thread. Simple as that

The point of a forum is for debate, surely. If the site was full of fluffy "yes" people it would be boring as fuck.

To say something that is highly distasteful to lots of people but then ask for only positive responses is just silly.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Not really comparable to gay or straight.

No - it isn't! But at the end of the day we're not in their relationship so it's not for us to judge!

We may think we know what we'd do in a given set of circumstances - but unless we're party to that relationship then we don't know!

I don't question the decisions of others - I question the need to set up threads which pretty much celebrate infidelity!

I can't, hand on heart, say I'd never be unfaithful in a future relationship (though I can't imagine doing) - but I can certainly say I wouldn't start a thread saying how exciting it is!

That's the part I find highly distasteful!

Everyone is entitled to start a thread on any subject they want. Some people like subjects, some don't. If people don't like it they can simply scroll onto the next thread. Simple as that

The point of a forum is for debate, surely. If the site was full of fluffy "yes" people it would be boring as fuck.

To say something that is highly distasteful to lots of people but then ask for only positive responses is just silly.

Yup. People posting thread after thread solely looking for unopposed affirmation of their choices are often going to be disapppointed here.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

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"I think I made my point pretty clear on your previous thread on the same topic!

Most people on fab don't set themselves up as the self appointed moral police (though I'm aware some do!) Some people on fab are (for their own reasons) cheating on partners.

Of those of us who aren't - some of us will play with them - some won't!

I think the last thing they'd expect or want is to be praised and applauded for that decision.

I accept it but still find your assertion that it is to be applauded in some way extremely distasteful (and you obviously do - you've set two threads up in one day!)

I wonder if your partner will applaud you if/when he finds out?

I agree with this. I don't judge people for cheating as I'm sure it's a complex situation and people have many reasons for seeking sex, affection or attention outside their relationship.

But gloating about it...

Well if u ever paid me a visit I'd have trouble turning u down lol

You brave man

Mmmmmmm haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Not really comparable to gay or straight.

No - it isn't! But at the end of the day we're not in their relationship so it's not for us to judge!

We may think we know what we'd do in a given set of circumstances - but unless we're party to that relationship then we don't know!

I don't question the decisions of others - I question the need to set up threads which pretty much celebrate infidelity!

I can't, hand on heart, say I'd never be unfaithful in a future relationship (though I can't imagine doing) - but I can certainly say I wouldn't start a thread saying how exciting it is!

That's the part I find highly distasteful!

Everyone is entitled to start a thread on any subject they want. Some people like subjects, some don't. If people don't like it they can simply scroll onto the next thread. Simple as that

The point of a forum is for debate, surely. If the site was full of fluffy "yes" people it would be boring as fuck.

To say something that is highly distasteful to lots of people but then ask for only positive responses is just silly.

Yup. People posting thread after thread solely looking for unopposed affirmation of their choices are often going to be disapppointed here."

Why would people do that. I don't need affirmation from anyone about anything. Surely we all line our lives how we choose

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over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Not really comparable to gay or straight.

No - it isn't! But at the end of the day we're not in their relationship so it's not for us to judge!

We may think we know what we'd do in a given set of circumstances - but unless we're party to that relationship then we don't know!

I don't question the decisions of others - I question the need to set up threads which pretty much celebrate infidelity!

I can't, hand on heart, say I'd never be unfaithful in a future relationship (though I can't imagine doing) - but I can certainly say I wouldn't start a thread saying how exciting it is!

That's the part I find highly distasteful!

Everyone is entitled to start a thread on any subject they want. Some people like subjects, some don't. If people don't like it they can simply scroll onto the next thread. Simple as that

The point of a forum is for debate, surely. If the site was full of fluffy "yes" people it would be boring as fuck.

To say something that is highly distasteful to lots of people but then ask for only positive responses is just silly.

Can't beat a good debate. Love it

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over a year ago

I don't care about opinions though. Everyone has one and they are fully entitled to it.

Not really comparable to gay or straight.

No - it isn't! But at the end of the day we're not in their relationship so it's not for us to judge!

We may think we know what we'd do in a given set of circumstances - but unless we're party to that relationship then we don't know!

I don't question the decisions of others - I question the need to set up threads which pretty much celebrate infidelity!

I can't, hand on heart, say I'd never be unfaithful in a future relationship (though I can't imagine doing) - but I can certainly say I wouldn't start a thread saying how exciting it is!

That's the part I find highly distasteful!

Everyone is entitled to start a thread on any subject they want. Some people like subjects, some don't. If people don't like it they can simply scroll onto the next thread. Simple as that

The point of a forum is for debate, surely. If the site was full of fluffy "yes" people it would be boring as fuck.

To say something that is highly distasteful to lots of people but then ask for only positive responses is just silly.

Yup. People posting thread after thread solely looking for unopposed affirmation of their choices are often going to be disapppointed here.

Why would people do that. I don't need affirmation from anyone about anything. Surely we all line our lives how we choose

*live our lives

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