FabSwingers.com forum: Married

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree.

Something about it just feels so hot.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame not looking for under 35 as I'm married and would love play

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

No it does nothing for me either. The thought of the hurt, trauma and betrayal involved is a definite passion killer.

I realise of course that many "single" people play on fab. We deliberately don't ask the question.

But to get an extra kick out of meeting someone married or in a relationship seems bizarre to us.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"No it does nothing for me either. The thought of the hurt, trauma and betrayal involved is a definite passion killer.

I realise of course that many "single" people play on fab. We deliberately don't ask the question.

But to get an extra kick out of meeting someone married or in a relationship seems bizarre to us."

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

It's another sexual taboo to break

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"It's another sexual taboo to break

It's not really a taboo on here, I'd say a genuinely single person is.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I like the married ones

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No it does nothing for me either. The thought of the hurt, trauma and betrayal involved is a definite passion killer.

I realise of course that many "single" people play on fab. We deliberately don't ask the question.

But to get an extra kick out of meeting someone married or in a relationship seems bizarre to us."

Maybe it seems bizarre to you because you've never tried it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married is good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through "

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. Respect is key when it comes to swinging. If they can't respect their partner, I can't respect them.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

no i prefer if they are single, i dont want to be thinking about their wife when im with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of am angry husband giving me a kicking adds little to my horniness

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

By married I assume you mean married and cheating.

Nope, never found the thought appealing. I can have plenty of fun without the potential of fucking up some poor unsuspecting persons year.....I just not that self centered I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

The naughtiness factor is a definite turn on, I agree. Some of my hottest meets have been with attached ladies...

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By *iamond dave 18Man
over a year ago

Wigan

Love married women. Such a turn on

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"By married I assume you mean married and cheating.

Nope, never found the thought appealing. I can have plenty of fun without the potential of fucking up some poor unsuspecting persons year.....I just not that self centered I guess."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and knowing she is taken heightens the sexual intercourse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my cup of tea.

I wouldnt feel comfortable being involved with lies and deception etc.

I live a nice quiet uncomplicated life and wish it to stay that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be lying if I said I didn't enjoy a married woman's company but you already know that

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

Like so much in life its the taboo braking of societies rules that adds to the excitement

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

Total agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we talking married or attached as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes...doing something 'wrong' is very very appealing....I completely get it....but then I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By married I assume you mean married and cheating.

Nope, never found the thought appealing. I can have plenty of fun without the potential of fucking up some poor unsuspecting persons year.....I just not that self centered I guess."

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??"

But most of the times you do get caught and why would you want to be part of something that can break someone's heart cause a family to break up etc. Been there as the the heart broken one with clinical depression took years to get myself right. Would never put someone through that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

But what if the other half of the person you are meeting has agreed to it in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet men, their marital status isn't my concern.

If I meet a married man it's because I like him not the fact that he's married, that doesn't add anything to the equation.

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I completely get the appeal on this one - this week I had someone ask me to let him fuck me whilst he called his wife. In theory the naughtiness is appealing and definitely makes me aroused.

In actuality though, my morals always take over. If you are married it should be you and them against the world, and when you stop doing that by cheating on them you are betraying them in a horrible way. I won't condone or be involved in doing that to another person if I can help it.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through "

exactly this for us too. Couldn't stand being part of a deception

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

But what if the other half of the person you are meeting has agreed to it in the first place"

As long as the agreement is made with both playing parties it's all good. The amount of "couples" on here where the mrs is away is incredible. I always say I need to speak to the fem first on the phone and never hear from the "couple" again

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?

Like so much in life its the taboo braking of societies rules that adds to the excitement

Rules are made to be broken

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Met many women and whether married or single, sex is sex, I have never thought of it in any other terms. The buzz is when you get meet and are in front of them when everybody else is enjoying the mundane.

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By *larayCouple
over a year ago

bolton

Makes no difference to us

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?

Like so much in life its the taboo braking of societies rules that adds to the excitement

Rules are made to be broken

Yes they are but only by those who get a buzz from taking risks and sticking it to polite society

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. People don't always get caught. People can cheat for years and never get caught. It's all about discretion. Not everyone who gets cheated on would end up as low as you did either. A lot of it is attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??"

It is incredibly naïve to think that playing safe can prevent any harm being done and clearly that is not what the writer was referring to. Being caught cheating on a spouse doesn't only affect the cheater.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

I understand where you are coming from as I have met a few married couple's and had sex with his wife with him and in front of him as he watch me fuck his wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss"

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

That's your opinion though,just because they don't know doesn't mean they'd be happy with it or that they will never find out.

I try not to do to others what I wouldn't like myself .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually"

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

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By *inglehotchickWoman
over a year ago

blackpool

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

Probably they wouldn't but maybe the partner of the one you had been messing with did end up like that. Doesnt sit right with me.

Oh and the attitude part I got plenty of that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

That's your opinion though,just because they don't know doesn't mean they'd be happy with it or that they will never find out.

I try not to do to others what I wouldn't like myself .

Miss

I know he won't find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

I understand completely it puts a spring in your step.it may also help home life too.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

That's your opinion though,just because they don't know doesn't mean they'd be happy with it or that they will never find out.

I try not to do to others what I wouldn't like myself .

Miss

I know he won't find out. "

Maybe not,but you don't know what the future holds and it's not nice to be smug about cheating .

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you."

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

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By *aynek80Man
over a year ago

Wirral

As a single guy I must admit I enjoy the added thrill of being with a married lady. Everyone has there choice's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me. Respect is key when it comes to swinging. If they can't respect their partner, I can't respect them. "

Well said

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

why do you need to be 'understood'..

just do what you do..

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

"By married I assume you mean married and cheating.

Nope, never found the thought appealing. I can have plenty of fun without the potential of fucking up some poor unsuspecting persons year.....I just not that self centered I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me. Respect is key when it comes to swinging. If they can't respect their partner, I can't respect them.

Well said "

I don't get this respect is the key statement as it all depends on how you are meeting, where you are meeting & with whom.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I'm totally with you. The 'forbidden fruit' of a married woman playing away, is so sweet, juicy, and difficult to resist. The mutual discretion can't be beaten either

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"Not for me. Respect is key when it comes to swinging. If they can't respect their partner, I can't respect them.

Well said

I don't get this respect is the key statement as it all depends on how you are meeting, where you are meeting & with whom.

Bit like why we dont get why people cheat , most people want to be treated like they would treat other peolle. So if your happy to be cheated on...then fill your boots, but its a odd thing to want to be cheated on......

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By *rumsforlifeMan
over a year ago

hull

NEVER .. think this is totally out of line . I've been really hurt before and the thought of someone else having to go throu that is just so wrong . Respect your partner !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me. Respect is key when it comes to swinging. If they can't respect their partner, I can't respect them.

Well said

I don't get this respect is the key statement as it all depends on how you are meeting, where you are meeting & with whom.

I am going on the premise of a guy cheating on his wife with people on here, without her knowlede.

Ive met a married guy many years ago from this site. We met probably 7 or 8 times for sex. Then out of the blue after not hearing from him for a few weeks I had a phone call from the so called ex wife who happened to actually still be married to him and she now had evidence of his cheating ways due to our texts and phone calls. He was adamant he was separated.

I would never want to be cheated on and for me .. and in my opinion a guy who cheats on his wife has no respect for her and I wouldnt entertain this sort of guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the married ones

Great but you need to like the married, slightly older ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

Yes I agree. Esp love it if they wear their ring

I've been cheated on many times, never blamed the girls tho. ALWAYS the husbands fault

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me. Respect is key when it comes to swinging. If they can't respect their partner, I can't respect them.

Well said "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's another sexual taboo to break

Give me a Tom Hardy any day love a bit of taboo. ??

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By *orbi24Man
over a year ago

London

I prefer couples where both are players.

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

This has been a genuinely fascinating topic.

It has identified a number of people for us who are selfish enough to place their own sexual fantasies before the potential hurt and pain caused to others.

Some say there is no place for morality in swinging.

I despise them.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"No it does nothing for me either. The thought of the hurt, trauma and betrayal involved is a definite passion killer.

I realise of course that many "single" people play on fab. We deliberately don't ask the question.

But to get an extra kick out of meeting someone married or in a relationship seems bizarre to us.

Maybe it seems bizarre to you because you've never tried it."

Well no doubt if you have children and it happened to them, you would hardly be able to say anything other than...suck it up....you can hardly say its not right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that probably most guys on fab are married or in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say that probably most guys on fab are married or in a relationship. "

There are a few honest genuine decent truly single guys though if you can manage to locate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Haha spot on miss. If your not getting pleased or reach your full potential due to culture then why not explore everything you have. If ya spouse doesn't meet ya needs and someone else does then jobs a good one. If anyone is interested then let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me if someone is easy meeting was married as long as they were upfront about it.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"This has been a genuinely fascinating topic.

It has identified a number of people for us who are selfish enough to place their own sexual fantasies before the potential hurt and pain caused to others.

Some say there is no place for morality in swinging.

I despise them.

If people want to cheat that is their business. But we would never meet people who are cheating and especially the ones who are smug and bragging about it. Just our opinion. Jack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always makes me smile in these threads about the presumption as to why one party in a marriage might be playing away. Those of you in a couple and clearly enjoy your sex life or you wouldn't be on here. What would you do if your partner suddenly said they don't want sex any more and by implication don't want you to either?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"It always makes me smile in these threads about the presumption as to why one party in a marriage might be playing away. Those of you in a couple and clearly enjoy your sex life or you wouldn't be on here. What would you do if your partner suddenly said they don't want sex any more and by implication don't want you to either?"

You too are assuming no couples have ever been there in the past.

Miss

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

If you know someone was married either make of female we would meet them, adds to the fun of it all

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Not for me. Respect is key when it comes to swinging. If they can't respect their partner, I can't respect them. "

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

The thing I find stomach churning is not that people end up having to seek sexual fulfillment outside of their relationship.

That I can understand.

It is that some sick individuals actual get an additional thrill out of it. The lying and cheating is a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You too are assuming no couples have ever been there in the past.

Miss "

On the contrary, many couples are there at some time or another. The question was what would you do, if it became permanent if that makes it clearer for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

That's your opinion though,just because they don't know doesn't mean they'd be happy with it or that they will never find out.

I try not to do to others what I wouldn't like myself .

Miss

I know he won't find out.

Maybe not,but you don't know what the future holds and it's not nice to be smug about cheating ."

Precisely. I'm not smug at all. No one knows about the future. No one can tell if their marriage will survive the future. That's why I live for now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing I find stomach churning is not that people end up having to seek sexual fulfillment outside of their relationship.

That I can understand.

It is that some sick individuals actual get an additional thrill out of it. The lying and cheating is a bonus!"

No, the thrill I don't understand myself, but it's not my business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex isnt the be all and end all in a relationship.

A good relationship needs more than just sex .

If a relationship is strong enough then you would both work out a way to be together if sex wasnt an option anymore for what ever reason? Medical psychological etc.

My personal view

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

You too are assuming no couples have ever been there in the past.

Miss

On the contrary, many couples are there at some time or another. The question was what would you do, if it became permanent if that makes it clearer for you?"

Personally if I couldn't live without the sex and my partner refused to go to counselling etc then I would end the relationship.I couldn't live with the guilt of a double life .Like others have said,I get affairs happen but people boasting about it,doesn't sit well with me.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly no, I don't really get it. I'm married and meet married men sometimes. I prefer them in some ways, but that's about convenience and discretion rather than me getting off on infidelity because I don't. I'm also never keen on people who are more attracted to me *because* I'm married. It doesn't make it better or worse for me, it just is what it is.

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

Probably best in sit this one out eh chicken.

lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

That's your opinion though,just because they don't know doesn't mean they'd be happy with it or that they will never find out.

I try not to do to others what I wouldn't like myself .

Miss

I know he won't find out.

Maybe not,but you don't know what the future holds and it's not nice to be smug about cheating .

Precisely. I'm not smug at all. No one knows about the future. No one can tell if their marriage will survive the future. That's why I live for now.

Yet you have started a thread about the thrill of meeting married people?,that's what rubs people up the wrong way and why people say the things they do.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

Lies (the repeated lying often hurts more than the sexual cheating I think) devastate people's lives and families on a daily basis! The chances are that right now, somewhere, a family is being torn apart because one of them cheated and lied!

Now - I'm not going to condemn those who choose to come on here when they're in a relationship - I've no idea what's going on in their relationship and it's none of my bloody business! I've met people in relationships but, for my sake and theirs, I wouldn't see them regularly!

Similarly, though, I certainly don't get a rise out of the knowledge that the guy I'm shagging belongs (or she thinks he does) to some poor woman who's probably putting il his kids to bed whilst we're snogging!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism? "

Of course, but I will say again. There is no need to make it personal. By all means, anyone can have their say, it's what makes these forums so interesting but saying things personally about me when people don't know me or my circumstances is not very good practice is it.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

The thing I find stomach churning is not that people end up having to seek sexual fulfillment outside of their relationship.

That I can understand.

It is that some sick individuals actual get an additional thrill out of it. The lying and cheating is a bonus!"

Personally, I couldn't give two hoots what cheaters do with or to each other. I feel sorry for their partners but that too is none of my business

I just wish that these sad men would stay well clear of me; I don't want to be party to their sordid little lives

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

We're married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

Have you been hurt and cheated on by someone you loved deeply?

If so ? Has this affected how you perceive men and yourself?

Has it changed you as a person?

Has it given you a... If you can't beat them join them mentality?

And no ones going to hurt you like that again etc ?

As you show all the signs of someone whos hurting.

Just a thought ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on! "

I'm neither cold, calculating or naive. I am very open minded and know a lot about realationshios. Trust me when I say there are a lot more people on here who are cold, calculating and naive, those whose partners think they have a perfect swinging marriage/relationship, when it fact it couldn't be further from the truth. Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism?

I haven;t got personal. Most people haven;t got personal. But given the nature of your post it was inevitable some would

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

Have you been hurt and cheated on by someone you loved deeply?

If so ? Has this affected how you perceive men and yourself?

Has it changed you as a person?

Has it given you a... If you can't beat them join them mentality?

And no ones going to hurt you like that again etc ?

As you show all the signs of someone whos hurting.

Haha not at all. You aren't good at psychology so please don't try to assess me

Just a thought ??"

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Not for me tried it once and the guilt I felt over the undersudpecting partner sat at home completely killed the fun for me. Do I Honestly can't understand how some get a kick out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism?

I haven;t got personal. Most people haven;t got personal. But given the nature of your post it was inevitable some would"

Some people have got personal, calling me cold/barren and smug is personal at me. Please voice your opinions, by all means, but don't have a go at my personality. No one knows me so it's unfair to comment on me personally.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism? "

Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic."

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism?

Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP."

Exactly, because I find it an interesting topic and causes a good debate. Beats the boring 'snog, fuck, avoid threads'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth . "

I beg to differ.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

Yes, he does think that, and he's happy. That's the same as other marriages on here. What they don't know can't hurt them

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth . "

Must admit when my ex did it I knew long before I could prove it, there was only a subtle change to his personality and I knew him well enough to know what it meant. I always say the biggest mistake all cheats make is underestimating how well their partner knows them

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

Yes, he does think that, and he's happy. That's the same as other marriages on here. What they don't know can't hurt them

You said in previous similar posts that you have shown him fab etc,so maybe he does have an idea.

I don't know how you can think you aren't causing harm,if not to him you certainly could be to a poor wife sat at home whilst you meet her husband etc.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth .

Maybe your ex wasn't very good at hiding things then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me. Respect is key when it comes to swinging. If they can't respect their partner, I can't respect them.

Well said

I don't get this respect is the key statement as it all depends on how you are meeting, where you are meeting & with whom.

Not for me it doesn't. It's probably the most important aspect for me. I've had long term FWBs, FBs, one offs, club partners, gang bangs....and in all instances with all genders and sexualities, I play with people I like. I would never *knowingly* have sex with someone who has so little respect for their life partner, I find it repulsive.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth .

I beg to differ."

So you've been cheated on then ?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I could reply with so much but I'd be wasting my breath. Perfect marriage but cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

Yes, he does think that, and he's happy. That's the same as other marriages on here. What they don't know can't hurt them

You said in previous similar posts that you have shown him fab etc,so maybe he does have an idea.

I don't know how you can think you aren't causing harm,if not to him you certainly could be to a poor wife sat at home whilst you meet her husband etc.

Miss "

Yes I have shown him Fab, but I can guarantee you he doesn't know. The wife at home probably doesn't know either, so she'll be happy too.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Whether someone is married or not makes no difference to me. I meet men because I find them sexy and I like the excitement of meeting new people. That doesn't change if they have a wife!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could reply with so much but I'd be wasting my breath. Perfect marriage but cheating.

Don't be silly, no ones marriage is perfect. Who would be so stupid as to make such a comment. Certainly not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

Have you been hurt and cheated on by someone you loved deeply?

If so ? Has this affected how you perceive men and yourself?

Has it changed you as a person?

Has it given you a... If you can't beat them join them mentality?

And no ones going to hurt you like that again etc ?

As you show all the signs of someone whos hurting.

Haha not at all. You aren't good at psychology so please don't try to assess me

Just a thought ??

You show all the signs of someone who is deeply unhappy inside and portray all the usual symptoms of someone whos been badly hurt and your coping mechanism is to behave like you are devoid of any emotion and create a.... if you can't beat them ? Join them mentality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet men, their marital status isn't my concern.

If I meet a married man it's because I like him not the fact that he's married, that doesn't add anything to the equation."

This but I don't meet men.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

Yes, he does think that, and he's happy. That's the same as other marriages on here. What they don't know can't hurt them

You said in previous similar posts that you have shown him fab etc,so maybe he does have an idea.

I don't know how you can think you aren't causing harm,if not to him you certainly could be to a poor wife sat at home whilst you meet her husband etc.

Miss

Yes I have shown him Fab, but I can guarantee you he doesn't know. The wife at home probably doesn't know either, so she'll be happy too."

Nice attitude

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP.

Exactly, because I find it an interesting topic and causes a good debate. Beats the boring 'snog, fuck, avoid threads'

I'm not too sure about that. These threads always follow the same pattern - an OP is made proclaiming the extra thrill of married, others disagree, emojis are used passive aggressively or to emphasise the lack of aggression, personal attacks are made, the plea not to make it personal happens... There are a few good posts that deal with the OP rationally but they tend to be ignored.

Much like the 'snog, married, avoid' they are formulaic and tend to involve the same posters.

I think part of being open minded should be understanding that not all will agree with it; it doesn't mean they are close minded but more that their personal moral code doesn't agree with it.

I don't understand the 'extra thrill' as I am not married and I don't tend to meet married people but it evidently is quite a 'thing' for some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single people are fantastic, but married people just add that extra level of naughtiness that I find hard to resist.

The buzz of knowing you shouldn't be doing it just heightens the sex that little bit further.

Who understands me?"

I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

Yes, he does think that, and he's happy. That's the same as other marriages on here. What they don't know can't hurt them

Are you honestly laughing that your husband thinks you have the perfect marriage while posting on a thread you started about how you enjoy the thrill of cheating?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

l get no thrill from it. l'm not as concerned with a person's personal life, though l would prefer to not meet married people.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth .

Maybe your ex wasn't very good at hiding things then."

You know someone well enough then trust me you know it's just a case of proving it, that just takes time.

I personally think then it goes 3 ways;

1. they. Go to great lengths to get proof

2. They opt for the ignorance is bliss approach

3. They genuinely don't know, which means they can't have a very strong relationship with their partner anyway, which is likely why the cheating occurred, afterall people rarely do it when they're truely happy in a relationship

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

So have you been the one cheated on by a partner op??

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You are not cold at all. We find the thought of sex with someone in their marital bed a huge turn on. The way we see it is we are not cheating so why should we be bothered and miss a good sex duck just because someone is married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whether someone is married or not makes no difference to me. I meet men because I find them sexy and I like the excitement of meeting new people. That doesn't change if they have a wife!!

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could reply with so much but I'd be wasting my breath. Perfect marriage but cheating.

Don't be silly, no ones marriage is perfect. Who would be so stupid as to make such a comment. Certainly not me.

But you have said you are happily married in previous threads! We dont like you to be honest. Not cos you are cheating but because you boast about it. If he thinks you are happily married and then finds out you are shagging other people, dont you think he would be heartbroken?"

We are happily married , yes. But not perfect. As is noones relationship. I'm certainly not boasting either. Re read my original al post. It's meant to be about who else enjoys the buzz etc . If people want to make it into a debate, then that's fine too

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

Yes, he does think that, and he's happy. That's the same as other marriages on here. What they don't know can't hurt them

You said in previous similar posts that you have shown him fab etc,so maybe he does have an idea.

I don't know how you can think you aren't causing harm,if not to him you certainly could be to a poor wife sat at home whilst you meet her husband etc.

Miss

Yes I have shown him Fab, but I can guarantee you he doesn't know. The wife at home probably doesn't know either, so she'll be happy too."

Wow... what a very cold and selfish attitude to take....

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This escalated quick lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So have you been the one cheated on by a partner op??"

Not as far as I'm aware, definitely not. But then I could of been but not of been aware about it. But surely that just totally backs up my theory of what you don't know can't hurt you.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP.

Exactly, because I find it an interesting topic and causes a good debate. Beats the boring 'snog, fuck, avoid threads'

Much like the 'snog, married, avoid' they are formulaic and tend to involve the same posters.

I think part of being open minded should be understanding that not all will agree with it; it doesn't mean they are close minded but more that their personal moral code doesn't agree with it.

I don't understand the 'extra thrill' as I am not married and I don't tend to meet married people but it evidently is quite a 'thing' for some. "

.....

and the White Knights will grovel with their tongues hanging out thinking they are in with a chance completely forgetting that the women who despise this kind of behaviour have marked them down as undesirables

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol."

Haha can't beat a good debate. Shame the amount of people who are private messaging me don't have the guts to post on here, for fear of being shot down in flames.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for me tried it once and the guilt I felt over the undersudpecting partner sat at home completely killed the fun for me. Do I Honestly can't understand how some get a kick out of it"

We are all different with different tastes. How about simply not analysing it and let people get on with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet what I assume is a single guy. They meet what they assume is a single woman. I don't ask their story and I don't tell mine.

Whether they are or are not married is not my business and it doesn't add anything extra to the meet if they tell me they are. I meet someone because I'm attracted to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Haha can't beat a good debate. Shame the amount of people who are private messaging me don't have the guts to post on here, for fear of being shot down in flames. "

I have the guts and im right there with you.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Not for me tried it once and the guilt I felt over the undersudpecting partner sat at home completely killed the fun for me. Do I Honestly can't understand how some get a kick out of it

We are all different with different tastes. How about simply not analysing it and let people get on with it. "

Where did I say others that wanted to do it couldn't?

Merely said it wasn't for me and why

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

Yes, he does think that, and he's happy. That's the same as other marriages on here. What they don't know can't hurt them

You said in previous similar posts that you have shown him fab etc,so maybe he does have an idea.

I don't know how you can think you aren't causing harm,if not to him you certainly could be to a poor wife sat at home whilst you meet her husband etc.

Miss

Yes I have shown him Fab, but I can guarantee you he doesn't know. The wife at home probably doesn't know either, so she'll be happy too.

Wow... what a very cold and selfish attitude to take....

Logical attitude I'd call it , but of course you're entitled to call it what you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could reply with so much but I'd be wasting my breath. Perfect marriage but cheating.

Don't be silly, no ones marriage is perfect. Who would be so stupid as to make such a comment. Certainly not me.

I disagree...

Some people do have a perfect relationship.

If its perfect for them and thats all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Haha can't beat a good debate. Shame the amount of people who are private messaging me don't have the guts to post on here, for fear of being shot down in flames. "
That is right and yeah, you will alwais get them who does it, you should do a part 2.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Haha can't beat a good debate. Shame the amount of people who are private messaging me don't have the guts to post on here, for fear of being shot down in flames.

I have the guts and im right there with you. "

You brave man, you have my attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like meeting married,as long as they are married to each other and both there when the fun is going on.

Meeting people behind anyone's back holds no thrill for us,feel it for the person at home tbh.

Miss

If the person at home is non the wiser though, then no one is getting hurt. Everyone is happy

Not sure whether you're cold and calculating or just extremely naive!

I think it takes a certain coldness to find that a turn-on!

You mean like maybe ypur husband thinks he has a perfect relationship......

Yes, he does think that, and he's happy. That's the same as other marriages on here. What they don't know can't hurt them

You said in previous similar posts that you have shown him fab etc,so maybe he does have an idea.

I don't know how you can think you aren't causing harm,if not to him you certainly could be to a poor wife sat at home whilst you meet her husband etc.

Miss

Yes I have shown him Fab, but I can guarantee you he doesn't know. The wife at home probably doesn't know either, so she'll be happy too.

Wow... what a very cold and selfish attitude to take....

Logical attitude I'd call it , but of course you're entitled to call it what you like

Messaged you.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

It doesn't bother me someone's marital status however it's not a turn on/thrill either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP.

Exactly, because I find it an interesting topic and causes a good debate. Beats the boring 'snog, fuck, avoid threads'

Much like the 'snog, married, avoid' they are formulaic and tend to involve the same posters.

I think part of being open minded should be understanding that not all will agree with it; it doesn't mean they are close minded but more that their personal moral code doesn't agree with it.

I don't understand the 'extra thrill' as I am not married and I don't tend to meet married people but it evidently is quite a 'thing' for some.

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You speaking from personal experience ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Haha can't beat a good debate. Shame the amount of people who are private messaging me don't have the guts to post on here, for fear of being shot down in flames. That is right and yeah, you will alwais get them who does it, you should do a part 2."

Maybe I should just do a boring "song, fuck avoid" thread and stop being so controversial. People would maybe find that more interesting do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Maybe I should just do a boring "song, fuck avoid" thread and stop being so controversial. People would maybe find that more interesting do you think? "

No way ! I love your posts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I could reply with so much but I'd be wasting my breath. Perfect marriage but cheating.

Don't be silly, no ones marriage is perfect. Who would be so stupid as to make such a comment. Certainly not me.

I disagree...

Some people do have a perfect relationship.

If its perfect for them and thats all that matters."

There is no such thing as perfect. In anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Maybe I should just do a boring "song, fuck avoid" thread and stop being so controversial. People would maybe find that more interesting do you think?

No way ! I love your posts

A lady with good taste

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP.

Exactly, because I find it an interesting topic and causes a good debate. Beats the boring 'snog, fuck, avoid threads'

Much like the 'snog, married, avoid' they are formulaic and tend to involve the same posters.

I think part of being open minded should be understanding that not all will agree with it; it doesn't mean they are close minded but more that their personal moral code doesn't agree with it.

I don't understand the 'extra thrill' as I am not married and I don't tend to meet married people but it evidently is quite a 'thing' for some.

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Just this....which is why some are also provate messiging the op no doubt.......no balls or spine

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

I love fun with married people xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I could reply with so much but I'd be wasting my breath. Perfect marriage but cheating.

Don't be silly, no ones marriage is perfect. Who would be so stupid as to make such a comment. Certainly not me.

I disagree...

Some people do have a perfect relationship.

If its perfect for them and thats all that matters.

There is no such thing as perfect. In anything."

There is if its perfect for them .

You obviously havent experienced that so have no idea what its like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Maybe I should just do a boring "song, fuck avoid" thread and stop being so controversial. People would maybe find that more interesting do you think?

No way ! I love your posts

"
I like your posts and continue to do them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a white knight, nor am I grovelling for a fuck. Im in total agreement with OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Haha can't beat a good debate. Shame the amount of people who are private messaging me don't have the guts to post on here, for fear of being shot down in flames. "

Oh that old chestnut...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth .

Maybe your ex wasn't very good at hiding things then.

You know someone well enough then trust me you know it's just a case of proving it, that just takes time.

I personally think then it goes 3 ways;

1. they. Go to great lengths to get proof

2. They opt for the ignorance is bliss approach

Cheating occurs for all sorts of reasons, something's beyond people's control. It's never black and white

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP.

Exactly, because I find it an interesting topic and causes a good debate. Beats the boring 'snog, fuck, avoid threads'

Much like the 'snog, married, avoid' they are formulaic and tend to involve the same posters.

I think part of being open minded should be understanding that not all will agree with it; it doesn't mean they are close minded but more that their personal moral code doesn't agree with it.

I don't understand the 'extra thrill' as I am not married and I don't tend to meet married people but it evidently is quite a 'thing' for some.

.....

Just this....which is why some are also provate messiging the op no doubt.......no balls or spine"

Now, that would be worth paying for; gawping at a man with no balls or spine

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By *appy _quirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I have spoken to a couple of male friends (not on here) who are in a happy relationship but have cheated as they need that extra thrill once in a while. without this, the relationship with their partner would break down eventually.

I've been in a 10 year relationship before and the thought of other guys didn't even cross my mind but everyone is different and has different needs.

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

"So have you been the one cheated on by a partner op??

Not as far as I'm aware, definitely not. But then I could of been but not of been aware about it. But surely that just totally backs up my theory of what you don't know can't hurt you.

There's been a story in the Daily mail about failed marriages. There's been interviews by couples who've said they turned around their relationship because one of them found sexual satisfaction with another person without their partners knowledge, but found everything else they wanted inside the marriage. In some circumstances they've found that swinging and swapping partners has made it more likely that they will continue to stay married. And it wasn't just the man who was "cheating" either, over 50% of them were the women.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth .

Maybe your ex wasn't very good at hiding things then.

You know someone well enough then trust me you know it's just a case of proving it, that just takes time.

I personally think then it goes 3 ways;

1. they. Go to great lengths to get proof

2. They opt for the ignorance is bliss approach

Cheating occurs for all sorts of reasons, something's beyond people's control. It's never black and white"

Didn't say it was

Just that I haven't yet met anyone thats done it when completely happy with a partner there's always something that triggers it. That could be something black white or multiple shades of grey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a previously miserable and married person I think "cheating" is something personal to the person actually doing the cheating. It could be one of a hundred reasons and we can all get on our moral high horses about it.

But do you know what? I'm happy to admit my libido even at 35 is off the charts and for me life is way too short to be having either no sex or crap sex.

As Michel roux jnr said "a day without chocolate is a day not worth living" I just happen to feel the same way about sex. So judge away!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Oh that old chestnut...

That's what I thought when I saw the title of this thread tbh.

Just wondering OP if you search for guys do you seek out married ones? I'm not going to have a pop I'm just interested because I noticed you posted on another thread about turn offs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a previously miserable and married person I think "cheating" is something personal to the person actually doing the cheating. It could be one of a hundred reasons and we can all get on our moral high horses about it.

But do you know what? I'm happy to admit my libido even at 35 is off the charts and for me life is way too short to be having either no sex or crap sex.

As Michel roux jnr said "a day without chocolate is a day not worth living" I just happen to feel the same way about sex. So judge away!

In total agreement buddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not for me been cheated on too many times by my ex to put someone through what I went through

You wouldn't be putting anyone through anything. Play safe so you don't get caught ??

I disagree. If you don't get caught, then you aren't causing any harm. That's total logic.

So you think just because the cheats not been caught ,that other half doesn't know something is wrong ?? You don't need physical proof to know your other half is up to something.

You may wish to think your hands are clean and no one's getting hurt but I'm afraid nothing is further from the truth .

Maybe your ex wasn't very good at hiding things then.

You know someone well enough then trust me you know it's just a case of proving it, that just takes time.

I personally think then it goes 3 ways;

1. they. Go to great lengths to get proof

2. They opt for the ignorance is bliss approach

Cheating occurs for all sorts of reasons, something's beyond people's control. It's never black and white"

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"So have you been the one cheated on by a partner op??

Not as far as I'm aware, definitely not. But then I could of been but not of been aware about it. But surely that just totally backs up my theory of what you don't know can't hurt you.

No if you had been cheated on you'd know when a partner is acting even a little out of charector . So maybe when you've been on the reviving end of a cheating spouse you may actually realise the angst and devastation it causes . I really hope you aren't unfortunate enough to have your husband do that too you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This escalated quick lol.

Haha can't beat a good debate. Shame the amount of people who are private messaging me don't have the guts to post on here, for fear of being shot down in flames.

Oh that old chestnut...

To be fair I experience this too. Except it's usually men and couples who are vociferously anti-cheating in the forums who then message in private expecting me to want to fuck then. The private notes function is helpful here. Agree, don't agree, I really don't care but I can't abide hypocrisy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But do you know what? I'm happy to admit my libido even at 35 is off the charts and for me life is way too short to be having either no sex or crap sex.

As Michel roux jnr said "a day without chocolate is a day not worth living" I just happen to feel the same way about sex. So judge away!

Theres more important things than just sex that keep alot of people in happy faithful fulfilling relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's not get too distracted from the ops original point. She gets a kick out of fucking married guys behind their partners back

Enough said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being invited into a married couples sex life is such a turn on beyond belief for me!, a fuckbuddy couple is no way the same!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So have you been the one cheated on by a partner op??

Not as far as I'm aware, definitely not. But then I could of been but not of been aware about it. But surely that just totally backs up my theory of what you don't know can't hurt you.

Do you realise the angst and confidence draining devastation being turned down night after night causes? Go on take the piss and say it's me I assure you it wasn't. Hence why I turned to satisfying my needs elsewhere.

Most of us would love perfect partnerships, but simply put, when one or the other stops putting out they are just asking for trouble. People need a sexual pressure release, one way or another it's a needs that doesn't go away I'm afraid and some people on here are far too Niaves to think this type of need can be simply talked through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No it does nothing for me either. The thought of the hurt, trauma and betrayal involved is a definite passion killer.

I realise of course that many "single" people play on fab. We deliberately don't ask the question.

But to get an extra kick out of meeting someone married or in a relationship seems bizarre to us."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So have you been the one cheated on by a partner op??

Not as far as I'm aware, definitely not. But then I could of been but not of been aware about it. But surely that just totally backs up my theory of what you don't know can't hurt you.

I disagree. People can keep things exactly the same at home, even when cheating. It depends on the individual. If my husband did cheat on me, I would deal with it. It wouldn't be the end of the world now would it.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"So have you been the one cheated on by a partner op??

Not as far as I'm aware, definitely not. But then I could of been but not of been aware about it. But surely that just totally backs up my theory of what you don't know can't hurt you.

It could not be......when your doing the same........pit and kettle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let's not get too distracted from the ops original point. She gets a kick out of fucking married guys behind their partners back

Enough said..."

My original point was actually asking who understands me. Think you missed my point

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism?

Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP."

the frequency that the OP starts similar threads as this does make me wonder if there is a need to feel validated in her behaviour and logic..

as to why who knows..

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Nope, I would never knowingly sleep with a woman who was cheating.

I've seen how it affects home life with the innocent partner...even when they don't know...the secretive texting, late evenings at work or trips to "the gym"...all have an effect. Plus in order to do that secretive texting the cheating partner has to distance themselves from their spouse. Someone is always hurt even if the cheating isn't discovered.

Just worth noting that some married people on here actually are genuine swingers and have permission to play away.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south

"OPs coming across kinda cold/barren

Quite sad actually

You can't comment on me as you don't know me or my circumstances so I'd appreciate it if you didn't comment on me personally. Thank you.

You post what you want...and others are also allowed to comment on your thread and state what they think......its called an opinion.....get used to it!!

You come across as exactly as they have said...and very smug with it.....

I'm happy with people posting their opinions. But I do not appreciate personal insults at me. I am neither smug nor cold/barren. Thank you

If a single man had posted this they;d have been destroyed.

Surely you must have realized that your opening post may well attract some criticism?

Of course the OP was aware; it's a variation on a topic that is started semi frequently about it often by the OP.

the frequency that the OP starts similar threads as this does make me wonder if there is a need to feel validated in her behaviour and logic..

as to why who knows..

Issues.....

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"So have you been the one cheated on by a partner op??

Not as far as I'm aware, definitely not. But then I could of been but not of been aware about it. But surely that just totally backs up my theory of what you don't know can't hurt you.

Maybe not for you ...for others it may well seem like it . Maybe you could work through it ..maybe your husband would be one of those who'd not just work through their wife's infidelity. But that's your relationship to just gamble with .

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

the thought that a couple get off on having sex in another couples bed with one of the partners behind the others back is repulsive..

not the meeting another, just do it and crack on but in someone else's married bed is something that smacks of a lack of self respect let alone any common decency for an unaware person..

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

But do you know what? I'm happy to admit my libido even at 35 is off the charts and for me life is way too short to be having either no sex or crap sex.

As Michel roux jnr said "a day without chocolate is a day not worth living" I just happen to feel the same way about sex. So judge away!

In total agreement buddy. "

I think you, the op, and some others are missing the gist of most peoples comments in your bid to be seen as some kind of daring and contentious antiheroes!!

The majority of fab, I think, aren't on here to judge others relationships! We are here to enjoy ourselves. Most of us accept that many 'single' people on here are in relationships, and whilst many of us don't condemn them, neither do we think it's something to be applauded or a 'thrill' to shag someone who's partner is in ignorance of their cheating! It's that in itself that some of us find callous - however dismissive you are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I can't begin to desribe how much I agree with you. Every single thing that you have said on here is bang on in my opinion

We are sexual beings and we need variety. What our partners dont know will never hurt them. Live and let live.

Well done you, keep on, have fun.

Really wish you were closer to me!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

" I think you, the op, and some others are missing the gist of most peoples comments in your bid to be seen as some kind of daring and contentious antiheroes!!

It wasn't even that controversial. What a disappointment.

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By *aptivating2Couple
over a year ago

Belfast

"I completely get the appeal on this one - this week I had someone ask me to let him fuck me whilst he called his wife. In theory the naughtiness is appealing and definitely makes me aroused.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no desire whatsoever to help someone cheat. I am not going to risk being party to another poor woman, guys or children's broken hearts.

A close family member was caught cheating. We also found out who he had been sleeping with. She knew about his wife the whole time. She wasn't innocent. She helped wreck my family members entire life, the lives of their children and her self worth.

I shalln't go in details but we returned the favour. She regretted ever touching him.

If I ever found out that somebody had met my husband and knew about me, I wouldn't play nice.

If you're on here behind your partners back then fair play but don't involve us.

Eve. X

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