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By *ushIron OP   Man
over a year ago

a place with the cure for all

How did you come to like BDSM?

What type of kink do you like most?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came to like BDSM because...it turns me on! Must there be more of an explanation!

Top Kinks; submission, degradation, restraint, exhibitionism, experimentalism

Ruby

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

we are slaves to our programing I have always loved being spanked and tied up

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I never thought I would enjoy BDSM...then one day my wife swished a long twig as if it were a whip and something clicked. I wanted to be flogged.

Along the way I eventually discovered I am a switch. I've had a Mistress and owned a sub, tried and enjoyed many things.

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By *ushIron OP   Man
over a year ago

a place with the cure for all


"I came to like BDSM because...it turns me on! Must there be more of an explanation!

Top Kinks; submission, degradation, restraint, exhibitionism, experimentalism

Ruby"

Hi ruby, No, there need not be an explanation. However, as a 'Dominant', it can be difficult to find true like-minded people to share ideas or to establish kinsman ship going forward.

And I appreciate your candor.

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By *ushIron OP   Man
over a year ago

a place with the cure for all


"I never thought I would enjoy BDSM...then one day my wife swished a long twig as if it were a whip and something clicked. I wanted to be flogged.

Along the way I eventually discovered I am a switch. I've had a Mistress and owned a sub, tried and enjoyed many things."

So a light bulb moment occured, and from that a lifetime of blissful enjoyment no doubt ....

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By *ushIron OP   Man
over a year ago

a place with the cure for all


"we are slaves to our programing I have always loved being spanked and tied up "

I find this statement so true, as I've known what I was from an early age, although I did not know exactly how to initialise the programme until My mid-teens ....now

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By *ushIron OP   Man
over a year ago

a place with the cure for all

Thanks for the feedback so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wanted to try everything. So i did.

Specialty is receiving extreme pain.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I wanted to try everything. So i did.

Specialty is receiving extreme pain."

You sound and look delicious.

Everyone is different. And some people love giving or receiving pain.

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By *ushIron OP   Man
over a year ago

a place with the cure for all


"I wanted to try everything. So i did.

Specialty is receiving extreme pain.

You sound and look delicious.

Everyone is different. And some people love giving or receiving pain."

Why thank you, I'm not here fishing, nor am I curious in the slightest. However, if I had been we would started something before now. Nevertheless, I'm willing to verbally engage under the banner of 'Liberty'

I started this forum and many others like it to gauge the temp. for LIKE-MINDED 'BDSM' life-stylers ...I'm seriously encouraged by the sub 'suzy444' and her efforts to drive forward a change to the ethos of the site and to promote a friendly environment, where we all can feel extremely comfortable in our skin, whichever genre that may be.

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By *ushIron OP   Man
over a year ago

a place with the cure for all


"I wanted to try everything. So i did.

Specialty is receiving extreme pain."

Jumped with both feet, blindfolded?

A splendid baptism of fire, and I Love your honesty and openness regarding extreme pain, mmmmm.

Thank you for your feedback, as I said I'm spirited by the efforts of 'suzy444'. Catch a read of blogs on the subject and add your names to the list for change ...

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I wanted to try everything. So i did.

Specialty is receiving extreme pain.

You sound and look delicious.

Everyone is different. And some people love giving or receiving pain.

Why thank you, I'm not here fishing, nor am I curious in the slightest. However, if I had been we would started something before now. Nevertheless, I'm willing to verbally engage under the banner of 'Liberty'

I started this forum and many others like it to gauge the temp. for LIKE-MINDED 'BDSM' life-stylers ...I'm seriously encouraged by the sub 'suzy444' and her efforts to drive forward a change to the ethos of the site and to promote a friendly environment, where we all can feel extremely comfortable in our skin, whichever genre that may be. "

I wasn't aware of any reason to feel uncomfortable

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

It's been there for as long as I can remember, but took me until about 10 years ago to actually go and find fellow kinksters and start exploring.

For example I can remember being about 7, and I'd go to sleep at night dreaming about being captured and tied up on Hordak's ship. I didn't want to be She-Ra, I didn't want to be rescued, I just wanted to be tied up and treated badly. I had an idyllic childhood, was genuinely blessed with an amazing family and friends. Yet this desire has always been there, obviously as I got older it became a sexualised desire, but the core of it hasn't changed.

In terms of what is most important to me, it's the control - if I get that then everything else is generally going to be greeted with a smile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy bdsm

Ropes paddles collars gags blindfolds .im a naughty daddy and like it with naughty daddy's Girls in kink.

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

Iron, you know why..

Because I can....

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley


"It's been there for as long as I can remember, but took me until about 10 years ago to actually go and find fellow kinksters and start exploring.

For example I can remember being about 7, and I'd go to sleep at night dreaming about being captured and tied up on Hordak's ship. I didn't want to be She-Ra, I didn't want to be rescued, I just wanted to be tied up and treated badly. I had an idyllic childhood, was genuinely blessed with an amazing family and friends. Yet this desire has always been there, obviously as I got older it became a sexualised desire, but the core of it hasn't changed.

In terms of what is most important to me, it's the control - if I get that then everything else is generally going to be greeted with a smile!"

it was exactly the same for me I would be naughty just to get spanked

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I was introduced by a lady who saw something in me and released it. Made a whole lot of sense when I stopped repressing the need to control....

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By *ushIron OP   Man
over a year ago

a place with the cure for all


"I was introduced by a lady who saw something in me and released it. Made a whole lot of sense when I stopped repressing the need to control...."
Bump ....

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By *nttake2Couple
over a year ago

South

Because I can and do.

And we did last Thurs, you know because you were there.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex girlfriend 5 years ago switched on my dominant side, started with spanking and hair pulling, lead on to consentual nonconsent.

I'm into forced orgasms, rope bondage, impact play, breast torture. I spent some time living vanilla and I didn't enjoy it so I've come to the conclusion that it is an integral part of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started dating on a site and got talking to a Dom, he told me a lot about the lifestyle, flirted a lot and talked fantasies. Turned me on some of the scenes he described and switched my sub side on.

Main ones for me are submission, bondage. Impact play, breast bondage. Oral degradation. R**e play.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

A mix of porn and cyber when I was younger lol

Pet play spanking slapping name calling collar cuffs just a lot lol

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Interest piqued when I found a book called "The leathermans handbook" as a pre pubescent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Medical fetish, spanking and hitty things, latex, breath play....just to name a few .... the others would see us kicked off the forums

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By *ood times 5666Man
over a year ago

castleford

I found out about BDSM in my youth, but didn't understand it or why it turned me on so much.

It has been a passion for me to meet a sub ever since, but although so many women tick the box on their profile, I'm yet to find one that will let me indulge them...

I love role play, predicament bondage, anything where the woman is having organs after orgasm...

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Always had the interest in being tied up - used to wrap myself in my duvet when I was alot younger and pretend I couldn't escape from there it just developed I love to be in control as it developed sexually after the internet in my youth lol.

My wife now - omg I had kind of suppressed it and slowly introduced her to ideas and now she is having the same submissive fantasies as I want to explore with her without me prompting lol we really want to find fellow kinksters to really take it to the next level id say were high level intermediate but want to go harder and continually push boundaries until they don't exist! - check us out phil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's kinda comes with the territory being a submissive domestic maid tv cleaner lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well since this is a few weeks old i might as well ask anyone in Belfast into Bdsm fun and games with dress up fun as well x

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