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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do many people on do a soft swing meet! Right now, i am into more teasing, foreplay and not too fussed about the sex! With this being a swinging site, i thought it would hard to find many people who want this

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

some do, us included. Hope you find what you're after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex"

Most men on probably would want full sex! I want to try a soft swing for the experience, if i find anyone is another matter

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex"

yes or they say they want soft swing...but then forget they said it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex

yes or they say they want soft swing...but then forget they said it"

That's a very good point I can why this is a problem now

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex

yes or they say they want soft swing...but then forget they said it

That's a very good point I can why this is a problem now"

its not impossible

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I won't do soft swing meets, I find them lacking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer soft swing, leads to awesome sex at home after all the teasing and playing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't do soft swing meets, I find them lacking."

I suppose it depends what you like, ive never got any pleasure from penatrive sex so when i do do it i tend to just be going through the motions for their pleasure, given the choice id rather go without, but i suppse sex isnt always just about what we want, on here it is but when in a relationship you have to consider their needs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only looking for soft swing from now on.....not sure how easy it will be to find though!

I do get quite a few messages saying they'd be happy with just soft though x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex

yes or they say they want soft swing...but then forget they said it"

commonly referred to as the erectile memory default..

penis gets stiff and causes erasure of previous conversations..

allegedly..

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By *anillaguyMan
over a year ago

Kingston

It's what I do! Enjoy the foreplay and seeing how we turn each other on. All the ladies I have played with have seemed happy without it going further, although when they have I let someone else do the fucking and I just continue to play with the lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only looking for soft swing from now on.....not sure how easy it will be to find though!

I do get quite a few messages saying they'd be happy with just soft though x"

We may be just what you're looking for, if you're seeking couples that is xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm only looking for soft swing from now on.....not sure how easy it will be to find though!

I do get quite a few messages saying they'd be happy with just soft though x

We may be just what you're looking for, if you're seeking couples that is xx "

At least this post has helped someone gain something

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex

yes or they say they want soft swing...but then forget they said it

commonly referred to as the erectile memory default..

penis gets stiff and causes erasure of previous conversations..

allegedly.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't do soft swing meets, I find them lacking."

We're the opposite. For us the mind is the main sexual organ. As such, we find the mindless physicality of orgies and full swaps a bit lacking. We much prefer the tease of building up to a full swap through several soft swaps

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Do many people on do a soft swing meet! Right now, i am into more teasing, foreplay and not too fussed about the sex! With this being a swinging site, i thought it would hard to find many people who want this "

We only soft swing....we're more swayers than swingers

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Do many people on do a soft swing meet! Right now, i am into more teasing, foreplay and not too fussed about the sex! With this being a swinging site, i thought it would hard to find many people who want this

We only soft swing....we're more swayers than swingers "

sweaters, I like that

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By *9pussylicker4u2Man
over a year ago

Gatwick


"I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex

yes or they say they want soft swing...but then forget they said it

commonly referred to as the erectile memory default..

penis gets stiff and causes erasure of previous conversations..

allegedly..

"

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

We love soft swing and are very happy with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy to soft swing with you Alabama. We are close.

I've had meets in the past where I've satisfied my fellow Fabber orally & then left without the penetration. To be fair, she was a little disappointed that we came to the end of the session, but I found it very satisfying.


"I'm only looking for soft swing from now on.....not sure how easy it will be to find though!

I do get quite a few messages saying they'd be happy with just soft though x"

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By *urreynudistMan
over a year ago

staines

enjoy soft swing meets also. have had meets ranging from just watching, taking photos for them and mutaul playing and oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we enjoy soft swing very much.....lots of watching, teasing, stroking, kissing, oral.....lovely! We usually save the full sex part for own partner. m x

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r


"we enjoy soft swing very much.....lots of watching, teasing, stroking, kissing, oral.....lovely! We usually save the full sex part for own partner. m x"

I'm in heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are a soft swing couple and we enjoy every minute of our play times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do many people on do a soft swing meet! Right now, i am into more teasing, foreplay and not too fussed about the sex! With this being a swinging site, i thought it would hard to find many people who want this

We only soft swing....we're more swayers than swingers "

Ooh I like that! I think I'm a swayer too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer soft swing meets

I find it very hard to find meets because of this, most men i talk to would sooner not meet than meet without full sex"

I'm guessing different people have different definitions of soft swing. Sex can be exciting in many different ways. In fact, difference is often the very key to excitement in my mind

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

We're soft swing can honestly say that it has been great soooo glad we have never done more with others. But have been asked to stop making others cum during our sexual encounters. Agreed with other our love making afterwards are amazing has reduced our meets but any one missed truly missed out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we are up for soft swing meets,love the electrical atmosphere from slow touching, licking,and nibbling find that the Mrs cums more from this type of play than penetrated sex plus she loves to use her mini magic wand on willing victims.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are softies too. We love the build up, sensual kissing, gently stroking, teasing and caressing aroused flesh. Being intuitive to your play mates responses sparks lust, passion and yearning.

We love it X

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By *oger ThatMan
over a year ago

essex

What is soft swing.... does it just mean no penetration but still cumming??? ie. loads of blow jobs etc?

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"What is soft swing.... does it just mean no penetration but still cumming??? ie. loads of blow jobs etc?"

Everyone has their own likes but that's about it with us yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is soft swing.... does it just mean no penetration but still cumming??? ie. loads of blow jobs etc?"

Use your imagination. There are a million and one ways of being naughty with someone without fucking them

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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it's pretty much all i'm doing. love foreplay and prefer it to sex so skipping the sex altogether.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soft swings fine by me too

much rather a bit of teasing , flashing , upskirt views , etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We did, we still do a bit within the safety of our party group. We aren't always at it like bunnies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all about the soft swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far we've only soft swapped with couples but I play fully when on my own with a guy or in an MMF situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I need to find some local people who are willing to do this

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"What is soft swing.... does it just mean no penetration but still cumming??? ie. loads of blow jobs etc?

Use your imagination. There are a million and one ways of being naughty with someone without fucking them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is soft swing.... does it just mean no penetration but still cumming??? ie. loads of blow jobs etc?"

it's much more than "loads of blowjobs etc" the teasing and playing builds up to a great orgasm and when you get back and have full sex with your own partner the feeling is intense. Amazing.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We want to start out with soft swing like you OP it the teasing and tantalising that is the the turn on.

Problem is finding a couple that arent bi and want the same thing and all are attracted to each other. .. you never know. One day.....kaz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a soft swing when I was with my ex bf at a club. It was amazing! Would happily do that again.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"What is soft swing.... does it just mean no penetration but still cumming??? ie. loads of blow jobs etc?"

If you want to give loads of bj's that's entirely within your gift.

Last time we went out, we did soft swinging last time we were out.

Played for 2 to 3 hours. Bj's probably did not start until about half way through.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We enjoy soft swing too although the times it has happened has been more due to us running out of hours in clubs, we don't do FFF (Fumble,Fumble,Fuck) meets and don't like being rushed.

We are far more into tactile pursuits anyway & a fuck isn't the be all and end all for either of us when meeting. Although saying that H would like to use her array of toys on someone at some point in the future.

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"What is soft swing.... does it just mean no penetration but still cumming??? ie. loads of blow jobs etc?

If you want to give loads of bj's that's entirely within your gift.

Last time we went out, we did soft swinging last time we were out.

Played for 2 to 3 hours. Bj's probably did not start until about half way through. "

Same as us, five of us on a bed in an open room for a few hours.

S

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley


"We enjoy soft swing too although the times it has happened has been more due to us running out of hours in clubs, we don't do FFF (Fumble,Fumble,Fuck) meets and don't like being rushed.

We are far more into tactile pursuits anyway & a fuck isn't the be all and end all for either of us when meeting. Although saying that H would like to use her array of toys on someone at some point in the future.

S"

We have had just as much fun with soft swap as with fun swap.....the main thing is that everyone is happy and feels comfortable.J much more prefers

the sexy build up,kissing,stroking,wanking sucking....loves soft swap with her being able to enjoy another lady with the guys joining in but knowing that she's not going to get one from behind ....unless she asks of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were soft swing and always will be our soft swing includes kissing ,oral toys etc everything except actual penetration only with your own partner also vouyerism and taking pics and making videos couples only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as others have said , we are soft only , we love the teasing and foreplay, we find it very erotic, starting from fully clothed and slowly removeing items giving glimpses of sexy underwear. we have prolems finding meets with cples but we have found plenty of guys willing to play this way, and our sex after is awsome

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We're easy...

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love soft swing and its our preference at the moment although very little interest lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We love soft swing and its our preference at the moment although very little interest lol"

Yes, it is hard to find anyone to do this with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Soft swing couple here

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