FabSwingers.com forum: New classification

By *anonal523 OP Couple
over a year ago

eastwood

My good lady wife is not bi and not quite straight either. In a mixed group she will play with other women but would never consider having a long term sexual relationship with another woman. So on her profile the choice of either straight or bi curious doesn't fit.

Its just a thought but what about another grouping of bi-playfull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My good lady wife is not bi and not quite straight either. In a mixed group she will play with other women but would never consider having a long term sexual relationship with another woman. So on her profile the choice of either straight or bi curious doesn't fit.

Its just a thought but what about another grouping of bi-playfull."
I wish there was that option.. as I dont fancy women but find it hot and sexy to play with another woman during group play ans totally love exploring another lady as part of a 3sum but I have no interest in just a woman. Despite me actually enjoying kissing ladies and especially sharing a cum filled kiss..

I always say im straight with a kink.

just sometimes the kink is almost a circle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either that or you could just put it in your profile that she's inbetweeny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. She's not bi but is never entirely straight - especially with a nice pair of boobs nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other good one on other sites is hetro-flexible.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"Either that or you could just put it in your profile that she's inbetweeny"

Inbi-tweeny surely?

If your lady only wants to receive attention from a female then bi-selfish is a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I'm like that. I don't fancy women. I have no desire to play with a pussy, though I have done. The thought of licking a pussy turns my stomach. Kissing a woman - it's ok in the moment, but the skin is just too soft. But give me a nice big pair of breasts on a slim woman (the type that look too big for the body) and I am never more turned on. Can't be arsed with average size boobs like mine however hot the lady is. Yes I'm weird. And it's me that Fabs all the big boob pics not hubby. He thinks I'm obsessed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bendy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great obsession to have.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Bi-ifcockisaroundtoo? Bit of a mouthful though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bi-ifcockisaroundtoo? Bit of a mouthful though."

Pun intended?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bi on ours... As thought more true than straight... I love kissing and playing with other fems.... But has to be real attraction far fussier with a fem than a male... Don't know why... could never see myself in a relationship with a fem though... I adore cock and cum to much

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Bi-ifcockisaroundtoo? Bit of a mouthful though.

Pun intended?"

Genuinely not. It just seems to be the one that fits most of the descriptions so far.

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By *addy Bears KittenCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Isn't that bi-curious, which already is a classification?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't that bi-curious, which already is a classification?

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see i dont think so. As outside of play i have no interest and actually if i were a single lady id have straight.

as id not play with women as a single lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Isn't that bi-curious, which already is a classification?

see i dont think so. As outside of play i have no interest and actually if i were a single lady id have straight.

as id not play with women as a single lady. "

exactly

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The problem with any sort of bi classification is that its just so variable. It's a spectrum from what you've described of a little bit if same sex play in a group situation, all the way to fully bi would have proper relationships with either gender, and out the other side to almost totally gay.

Pick bi or bi curious and make sure your play partners know what you're comfortable with.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Isn't that bi-curious, which already is a classification?

I would say so,i am totally straight and wouldn't play with another woman during any scenario.So I think you have to be slightly Bi curious to want to.

Miss

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By *anonal523 OP Couple
over a year ago

eastwood

So it would seem that people who take a look at our profile would all read every word before forming an impression. That's ok but there is a lot of difference between still exploring sexual boundaries and already knowing where those boundaries are. Curious says still exploring. Bi is a definitive statement. We need a term for that grey area in between that can be understood at a glance on all our profiles. "Mixed group bi"? fem perspective.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Situationally Bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it would seem that people who take a look at our profile would all read every word before forming an impression. That's ok but there is a lot of difference between still exploring sexual boundaries and already knowing where those boundaries are. Curious says still exploring. Bi is a definitive statement. We need a term for that grey area in between that can be understood at a glance on all our profiles. "Mixed group bi"? fem perspective."

bicurious signifies an unknown level of interest (and an intention to quantify it), not a low level of interest. Biplayful, or hetero flexible/homoflexible would be the correct options. (Cf. Situationally bi refers to "settling" for the gender of second choice when first choice is not available, typically the people (men) who indulge in this don't want to advertise it here).

Thread belongs to "site feedback" subforum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The other good one on other sites is hetro-flexible. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I knew a chap on here who, when a non bi, but willing to play bi woman raised the same question coined the phrase 'bi-useful'. I thought it was spot on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have as bi curious and explain, a lot of ladies only play in the right occasion and would not like one-one female etc and also the ladies who don't mind a kiss and a lady down on them but personally have no desire to give oral.

I'm fully bi and play with ladies alone but would not want a relationship. I know we prefer to know the boundaries and always ask when it say curious as I feel this covers a wide spectrum. Sometimes people stick to having as straight and explain once chatting etc.

Hope you find what works for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about using 'Spaghetti'

Straight until hot and wet?? Miss C has always said she is more situational Bi as really enjoys the moment but would never consider a relationship.

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near

We just put on our profile write up that we are fun sexual as neither of us are interested in playing with the opposite sex by ourselves only as part of group play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just a thought but what about another grouping of bi-playfull."

Bi-curious without is doubt, at least in our opinion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just pop on your profile "play-bi". That should help.

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"The other good one on other sites is hetro-flexible.

I use this on other sites as it is the correct descriptor for me. Until fab catches up, bi curious will have to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very much the same so we have ticked Bi-Curious , but defined it a bit in our profile .

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By *anillaguyMan
over a year ago

Kingston

Have a lady friend with similar feelings. She refers to it as bi-selfish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its just a thought but what about another grouping of bi-playfull."

This is us exactly, she isn't bi curious because she has played with many a lady, but she isn't bisexual as she wouldn't have a relationship with a woman and the bi thing is very situational so we would say bi playful

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By *anonal523 OP Couple
over a year ago

eastwood

Bi playfull. It rolls off the tongue. Lets try using it and see if it catches on. Bi-Playfull. Bi- Playfull

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