FabSwingers.com forum: 18 to 20 younge men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

18 to 20 year old are just being looked over and never get any fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally i think why r young guys on here when they could b out clubbing and getting laid from there

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"18 to 20 year old are just being looked over and never get any fun"

Have you spoken to every man in that age group to find out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you will find they are getting a fair bit of fun as it goes....no less than anyone else at least!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"personally i think why r young guys on here when they could b out clubbing and getting laid from there"

Because the thrill of going to a swingers club is, so different! It's nerves and excitement at the same time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No i have not but im basing it on what has happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can prove your 18 with id then that's cool but tbh when I've chatted to men in that age bracket I've not been convinced that they are men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im happy to show id if asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two weeks. What were you actually expecting? Not a dig, I am genuinely interested to understand what your expectations on joining actually were OP?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two weeks. What were you actually expecting? Not a dig, I am genuinely interested to understand what your expectations on joining actually were OP? "

Haha ive been on before new account so im not new to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id fuck an 18 year old.

Provided he wasnt immature and had trimmed his pubes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Id fuck an 18 year old.

Provided he wasnt immature and had trimmed his pubes

Haha is that a hint sexy

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Two weeks. What were you actually expecting? Not a dig, I am genuinely interested to understand what your expectations on joining actually were OP?

Haha ive been on before new account so im not new to this "

But you so obviously are. Your OP isn't about why men in your age bracket don't get meets (some do), it's about why you don't get meets. Concentrate on the things you can change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two weeks. What were you actually expecting? Not a dig, I am genuinely interested to understand what your expectations on joining actually were OP?

Haha ive been on before new account so im not new to this "

When? You have to be over 18, so it must have been a) recently and b) briefly. So; back to my other question. What were your expectations on joining?

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By *igzag1Man
over a year ago

hartlepool

I just told him that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Two weeks. What were you actually expecting? Not a dig, I am genuinely interested to understand what your expectations on joining actually were OP?

Haha ive been on before new account so im not new to this

When? You have to be over 18, so it must have been a) recently and b) briefly. So; back to my other question. What were your expectations on joining? "

Im on here looking for friends and fun but how can i do that if people dont give me the chance and yes i know you have to be 18 im 19 in 2 weeks ive been on the site for just under a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two weeks. What were you actually expecting? Not a dig, I am genuinely interested to understand what your expectations on joining actually were OP?

Haha ive been on before new account so im not new to this

When? You have to be over 18, so it must have been a) recently and b) briefly. So; back to my other question. What were your expectations on joining?

Im on here looking for friends and fun but how can i do that if people dont give me the chance and yes i know you have to be 18 im 19 in 2 weeks ive been on the site for just under a year "

All the whining and complaining wont help you. Its tough on here and people will give you a hard time... welcome to fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe have a look for a local organised social OP, it's lots easier to chat with actual people than fire away from a keyboard as unfortunately the stats are against you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks you

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

To young and not enough experience....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Two weeks. What were you actually expecting? Not a dig, I am genuinely interested to understand what your expectations on joining actually were OP?

Haha ive been on before new account so im not new to this

When? You have to be over 18, so it must have been a) recently and b) briefly. So; back to my other question. What were your expectations on joining?

Im on here looking for friends and fun but how can i do that if people dont give me the chance and yes i know you have to be 18 im 19 in 2 weeks ive been on the site for just under a year

All the whining and complaining wont help you. Its tough on here and people will give you a hard time... welcome to fab. "

This!

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By *wjadMan
over a year ago

Port talbot

Gotta go with the young man on this one. Its true, alot of people see your profile age and don't bother to give you the time of day.

If you want to get more and more meets you've got to go to socials meet the women who are on here regular. Prove to them that you're a nice good humoured person in person and soon the meets will start to trickle in.

That being said i don't think posting this in a forum will help you very much even though you do have a very valid point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To young and not enough experience...."

Haha you dont know what i can do but okay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were in the wider swinging community at present, and in you lived closer we'd meet socially, thong is, depending on how that went would depend if we wanted to take it further. We've met some nice younger blokes, but it's never gone beyond the social stage because although they've been nice there wasn't a spark.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of age and how long you've been on the site, people don't choose based on pictures alone. Sometimes it's the message content. When you send a message, ask yourself if you've read that person's profile text and related anything in your message to that. It's also about how appealing your whole profile is. Your profile text should be well thought out, in a logical order and easy to read. Identify something about yourself and what you're looking to achieve from here.

Above all, be yourself, read profile text (it helps) and be patient. Meets don't always happen overnight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry should read if we were in the wider swinging community. Apologies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To young and not enough experience....

Haha you dont know what i can do but okay"

Oh you will find people on here very quick to judge from the warm cosy comfort of a keyboard.

As I said earlier, welcome to fab, this is as good as it gets.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

It has to be tricky. Though we would be skeptical of guys or girls at 18 unless they proved when chatting that they were more mature than their age often suggests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im 23 and struggle, not always about age, remember everyone has to start from some where !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id fuck an 18 year old.

Provided he wasnt immature and had trimmed his pubes

Haha is that a hint sexy"

A little. Haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It has to be tricky. Though we would be skeptical of guys or girls at 18 unless they proved when chatting that they were more mature than their age often suggests

If you give me chance you will see if you like me or not

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By * Kiwis and a BananaMan
over a year ago

Part of your 5 a day

"Maybe have a look for a local organised social OP, it's lots easier to chat with actual people than fire away from a keyboard as unfortunately the stats are against you. "

OP really take this in. Went to a social recently and got my first meet the day after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it hard too, literally everyone says to young!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can get a women any Friday or Saturday your age in a club.

Oh and it may be worth shaving your pubes and trimming more women may be interested jus a tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find most guys, regardless of age, don't read profiles...which leads to an unread deleted message with me...alot of guys make it hard on themselves...but younger guys tend to be less bothered...have only got crap from older guys if I delete or don't respond to their messages....a couple of younger guys have gotten a bit clingy tho...massive turn off!! Just so ya know

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP we all have preferences. For many of us that includes not wanting to play with anyone young enough to be our child.

You state on your profile that you are respectful of peoples preferences yet here you are complaining about people not giving you a chance because you are too young

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Employ a teenager now, whilst they still know everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Employ a teenager now, whilst they still know everything!

Are you into paying young women/couples?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP we all have preferences. For many of us that includes not wanting to play with anyone young enough to be our child.

You state on your profile that you are respectful of peoples preferences yet here you are complaining about people not giving you a chance because you are too young

Yer but a sorry im not into you or something is nice to know

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I think its because many women and couples may have children around the same age.That said,some women love younger men ,but are hih in demand here .

Miss

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By *ild-1Woman
over a year ago

york

"OP we all have preferences. For many of us that includes not wanting to play with anyone young enough to be our child.

You state on your profile that you are respectful of peoples preferences yet here you are complaining about people not giving you a chance because you are too young

Yer but a sorry im not into you or something is nice to know "

I always say thanks but no thanks providing they have read my profile. If you clearly don't fit my preferences you haven't bothered to read it I return the favour and just hit delete!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 to 20 year old are just being looked over and never get any fun"

I suspect a lot of people will say that's not their problem. After all Fab is not a charity. Men tend not to reach full mental maturity until they are well into their twenties, so that makes a huge difference socially. With regards to having fun, it's easy to have fun at your age, just harder on the swing scene, which is probably geared towards older people who are too old to go out on the town and pull the way the youngsters can. On the plus side you won't be young forever. A lot of guys also get overlooked because they are on the other end of the scale. And those older guys are never going to get younger.

Mrs

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"It has to be tricky. Though we would be skeptical of guys or girls at 18 unless they proved when chatting that they were more mature than their age often suggests

If you give me chance you will see if you like me or not"

That's true, though you aren't exactly local lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 to 20 year old are just being looked over and never get any fun"

have you tried swinging before?

if not, I'd get yourself to a vanilla club or pub and find a vanilla girl for a vanilla relationship/one night stand...

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Its not about age ....its about the type that is attracted to you as a person ... some will be .. some wont ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To young and not enough experience...."

yep i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you a smooth operator, with a well put profile & act mature. In theory shld have a chance like any other guy on here

. But pple do have age preferences so don't worry go with the flow

1 day you'll be an oldman & wishing was young again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"18 to 20 year old are just being looked over and never get any fun"

Your assumption that it is age that is holding you back is possibly where you are going wrong

It us all too easy to fixate on what you can't change as the reason you are struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think younger men can't relate to woman the way older men can..just my opinion. It's the porn generation, where you think u only have to flash your cock to get laid...hold on ...all men do that...blast!

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