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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just had to giggle at the abuse i got from a couple on here as i suggested a social.... i mean really....

Whats the best line of abuse you have received and why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake "

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

We've actually never had any abuse on here.

Once had a couple be a bit snotty when we said we don't do bareback, but they were just off with us, never abusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had to giggle at the abuse i got from a couple on here as i suggested a social.... i mean really....

Whats the best line of abuse you have received and why?

"

Just on Fab? Whenever l get abuse it's usually a message that's stemmed from a heated debate. But l remember this guy of a couple would message me insulting my physique because he was bigger than me.

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff

Not long after I joined I had some crap off a guy who didn't believe I was transgender, no idea why. He even contacted me a few weeks after to try to arrange a meet with me and denied that he had given me hassle before when I pointed out that was the reason I wasn't interested and I thought I was a weird one!

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By *huckzMan
over a year ago

spalding

A couple messaged me out of the blue and attached 4 pics of the wife butt naked . She wasn't the ahem nicest looking lady so I politely declined only to then receive a message that I was a c**t and they wasn't offering me sex anyway lol

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake " "

How charming

Well, whoever said that to you is obviously a numpty. We'd verify your brains out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had to giggle at the abuse i got from a couple on here as i suggested a social.... i mean really....

Whats the best line of abuse you have received and why?

"

'who the fuck do you think you are to turn us down! Arrogant little prick' that was a memorable 1.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake " "

What...... hot hot hot id say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a guy threaten to send Satan's slaves round to rape L, i asked if they were better looking than him because we are looking for a gang bang, he wasn't impressed, needless to say he got reported and blocked

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake " "

We have had similar when we have turned guys down in the past... It's funny how things change, one moment Jayne is sexy etc, next moment they wouldn't touch her with a bargepole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't get messages back lol

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake "

What...... hot hot hot id say "

I think the phrase you're looking for is "Hummana hummana hummana"

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Abuse on Fab seems to come from the guys - yes just guys in my experience that get told no or realise there's f.a. chance of me ever wanting to meet, let alone play with them.

Cue abuse from forum lurkers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had something along the lines of...."you are asking too many questions and wanting too many details,you are clearly a timewaster!"

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I've had isolated incidents where people have been very personal/nasty on threads, but I rarely if ever get abused by pm! Guess I'm lucky! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake "

What...... hot hot hot id say

I think the phrase you're looking for is "Hummana hummana hummana" "

Well in that case, hummana hummana hummana

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So this was the last message i got after suggesting a social then i got blocked...

And i quote

"Lol did u no this is a sex site people come in to have sex not a chat"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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The only abuse I seem to get would be from lurkers who are unhappy with what I've posted in response to some bullcrappery.

I don't give too much of fuck about it. More often than not it makes me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not had really nastly messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had to giggle at the abuse i got from a couple on here as i suggested a social.... i mean really....

Whats the best line of abuse you have received and why?

"

All tediously lame tbh, original abuse is hard to come by these days.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just had to giggle at the abuse i got from a couple on here as i suggested a social.... i mean really....

Whats the best line of abuse you have received and why?

All tediously lame tbh, original abuse is hard to come by these days."

Haha

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"I've had something along the lines of...."you are asking too many questions and wanting too many details,you are clearly a timewaster!" "

How the hell does that work? All the messages we've had from timewasters have no questions in. Most of them aren't even longer than a few words!

We'd expect single women would ask a lot of questions and get to know the people who they might be meeting!

Some people eh? x

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By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"Not long after I joined I had some crap off a guy who didn't believe I was transgender, no idea why. He even contacted me a few weeks after to try to arrange a meet with me and denied that he had given me hassle before when I pointed out that was the reason I wasn't interested and I thought I was a weird one! "

Interesting no idea why he did not think your not transgender. Amazing really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Havnt had any thankfully lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told a "femalel I wasn't interested in meeting her because she wouldn't send a photo or phone me.

She replied her cunt wasn't as big as mine as a fist wouldn't fit up it! X

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Abuse on Fab seems to come from the guys - yes just guys in my experience that get told no or realise there's f.a. chance of me ever wanting to meet, let alone play with them.

Cue abuse from forum lurkers "

Nope, Have to agree, single guys & the males of couples with the same single guy attitude.

S

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Haven't had any here. I'm actually a bit disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake " "

how could they say that you don't have any face pics so can't say your ugly, only joking look at my pic if I don't get a reply I know it's scared you off fab for life lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had something along the lines of...."you are asking too many questions and wanting too many details,you are clearly a timewaster!"

How the hell does that work? All the messages we've had from timewasters have no questions in. Most of them aren't even longer than a few words!

We'd expect single women would ask a lot of questions and get to know the people who they might be meeting!

Some people eh? x"

And most of them are copy and paste questions as we had one saying. Great profile you sound like fun fancy a meet,we didn't have pics then but still same info sad people indeed.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Haven't had any here. I'm actually a bit disappointed "

You need to be more cuntish and blunt in your posts. That'll do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had one abusive message and that was from a forum post because they didn't get my joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Abuse on Fab seems to come from the guys - yes just guys in my experience that get told no or realise there's f.a. chance of me ever wanting to meet, let alone play with them.

Cue abuse from forum lurkers "

I had abuse from the lady half of a couple once. I'd been chatting with the male half but wasn't really feeling it. He was cool about it but several hours later I got a message from the lady saying I was ugly anyway and there's guys queuing up to fuck her etc etc.

Was very strange...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Haven't had any here. I'm actually a bit disappointed

You need to be more cuntish and blunt in your posts. That'll do it."

just this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got abuse last night because I was online but not free to meet !!

I've had a few abusive messages today too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stokie chav

Nonce

Dick

But I don't care I know I'm adorably cute

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Question is, when you report abuse to admin, what is actually done ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't had any here. I'm actually a bit disappointed

You need to be more cuntish and blunt in your posts. That'll do it."

You aren't cuntish though.

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By *axandbooCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Gave advice to someone who inboxed as less than a sentence, the initial message was quite derogatory

The response showed arrogance, followed by anger and aggression and then followed by calling boo various derogratory terms (fat bitch, slag, whore) , called me a bunch of interesting names too (cunt, wanker, ect, ect)

The response quite simply pointed out that is why he has soooooooo many verifications (none) and how jealous we should be before reported and blocked

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By *ransGuyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Not long after I joined I had some crap off a guy who didn't believe I was transgender, no idea why. He even contacted me a few weeks after to try to arrange a meet with me and denied that he had given me hassle before when I pointed out that was the reason I wasn't interested and I thought I was a weird one!

Interesting no idea why he did not think your not transgender. Amazing really "

It was strange, why he thought I would lie about being trans, why would anyone lie about being trans? I wish it was just "bullshit" as he put it.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Haven't had any here. I'm actually a bit disappointed

You need to be more cuntish and blunt in your posts. That'll do it.

You aren't cuntish though."

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake " "

Haha!

I've had that too but old was also added!

I laughed and blocked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some couple got nasty with me cos I don't meet couple.

Their response was to tell me I was far too fat and they wouldn't even consider lowering their standards.

That's good then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only gotten a few nasty messages,and they were all from forum users off the back of a forum post. We're a lovely bunch, eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only gotten a few nasty messages,and they were all from forum users off the back of a forum post. We're a lovely bunch, eh? "

Eh? Are you Canadian now? Has Trump got anything to do with it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven't had any here. I'm actually a bit disappointed

You need to be more cuntish and blunt in your posts. That'll do it.

You aren't cuntish though.

Thank you."

Yeah you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake "

Haha!

I've had that too but old was also added!

I laughed and blocked x"

Whats age got to do with it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only gotten a few nasty messages,and they were all from forum users off the back of a forum post. We're a lovely bunch, eh?

Eh? Are you Canadian now? Has Trump got anything to do with it ?"

I only talk to people with a Canadian accent, now. If anyone asks, I'm from Quebec.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Haven't had any here. I'm actually a bit disappointed

You need to be more cuntish and blunt in your posts. That'll do it.

You aren't cuntish though.

Thank you.

Yeah you are."

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's not that bad here.

Seen far worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only gotten a few nasty messages,and they were all from forum users off the back of a forum post. We're a lovely bunch, eh? "

Ditto.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Haven't had any here. I'm actually a bit disappointed

You need to be more cuntish and blunt in your posts. That'll do it."

Well fuck you then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone has ever come up with anything more creative than fat, fat bitch, fat slag, or some other variation on fat. Apparently I'm supposed to be surprised by that insightful revelation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get abuse.

Could someone kindly abuse me so I feel more included.

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get abuse.

Could someone kindly abuse me so I feel more included.

Thank you "

I wrote you a nasty pm, but I deleted it before I sent it. I'm weak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get abuse.

Could someone kindly abuse me so I feel more included.

Thank you

I wrote you a nasty pm, but I deleted it before I sent it. I'm weak. "

If you could hold back a little with me that would be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get abuse.

Could someone kindly abuse me so I feel more included.

Thank you

I wrote you a nasty pm, but I deleted it before I sent it. I'm weak. "

Meanie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it was Mr replying and saying no because he was jealous ( this made me laugh a lot )

And when I pointed out it was me responding I was told that guys on here were only using me (oh the heartache) and that I should get to a gym .

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake "

What...... hot hot hot id say

I think the phrase you're looking for is "Hummana hummana hummana"

Well in that case, hummana hummana hummana "

Sorry to seem ignorant, but what does hummana mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got abuse last night because I was online but not free to meet !!

I've had a few abusive messages today too "

You meant you didn't rush straight out the door to meet them there and then..what you playing at lady

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Apart from the usual toys throwing on being declined, I was once accused of being a man. I said I was more of a man than he was.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I got accused of being a TV by a couple, years ago now. They put it in their status and in their profile for a while.

I published a verification soon after from a guy (who went on to become my boyfriend) that said I'd obviously had a great surgeon

I didn't have many sleepless nights. Well perhaps none at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got abuse last night because I was online but not free to meet !!

I've had a few abusive messages today too

You meant you didn't rush straight out the door to meet them there and then..what you playing at lady "

I know , I will go to hell for not being available when wanted

On another note I've just had someone suggest I leave my kids home alone so I can please him in his hotel room tonight. He says he's worth it .... I won't put what I replied but it was followed up with the block button

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

Am I doing something wrong? I've never received any abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That I'm a fat ugly cow that will never get laid.

I replied with "yes I agree, my verifications are all fake " "

Well they were obviously completely wrong about the never getting laid part

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

A couple messaged me a cpl of months ago asking if i could meet there and then.explained i mainly meet during the weekk as i have my daughter here most weekkends for witch i was called a timewastin cunt. Charming lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got abuse last night because I was online but not free to meet !!

I've had a few abusive messages today too

You meant you didn't rush straight out the door to meet them there and then..what you playing at lady

I know , I will go to hell for not being available when wanted

On another note I've just had someone suggest I leave my kids home alone so I can please him in his hotel room tonight. He says he's worth it .... I won't put what I replied but it was followed up with the block button "

Some men's brains really are in their trousers !

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By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

I once got a message calling me a narcissistic prick with a little cock

So I promptly became a site supporter and filled up my profile full of me and my knob, no blocking involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got messages from a lady who said I was handsome would I like to meet, I declined and got "well your a fat ugly timewasting cunt then arent you, go fuck yourself"

Then another message saying "I'm going to tell everyone your a cunt"

Then another message "Your a fucking time waster and I've told everyone on my status"

Then another saying "do you like my status it's funny"

Reported and blocked, she then went UNLOS within a couple of hours

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"Sorry to seem ignorant, but what does hummana mean?"

It basically another daft 90s way of saying someone is ridiculously hot:

https://youtu.be/Ghk3WnqhjY0

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not abusive but made me laugh earlier .

Message 1 - long message asking to meet , I look amazing etc etc

I wasn't interested so deleted

Message 2 (10 minutes later )- Saying they'd like to rescind their offer as they'd changed their mind , I wasn't their type

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get many abusive messages but if I do they're usually along the lines of being stuck up my own arse.

Well you know what I'm pretty content up there.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

The biggest positive I can draw from this site, is that I have never received any abusive mail.

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By *illnatMan
over a year ago

wherever i need to be

I very rarely get responses so no weird and unpleasant messages so far but still got plenty time.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I turned down a meet with someone who didn't rock my boat..

Then she replied I didn't want to meet you anyway as your a tart...

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"I don't get many abusive messages but if I do they're usually along the lines of being stuck up my own arse.

Well you know what I'm pretty content up there."

That's quite a skill! If you are indeed able to stick yourself up your own arse, you could join a very pervy circus

Just be sure to use plenty of lube!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've received plenty and some men I have never spoken to before never mind rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any abusive messages.

Yet ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a corker this morning following a polite 'no thanks' reply.

Apparently my preferences make me narcissistic. Go figure.

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By *961_lizzieWoman
over a year ago

cheshire

I love a good argument on here. Normally if I politely say no thanks.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Did get a message from a male half of couple before, told me 'to look in the mirror, who was I kidding'

Never been able to look in a mirror since

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

I'm too nice to get abuse

Unfortunately women want bad boys so I'm on a hiding to nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some people on here who think they much better than everyone else... get a grip!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"I don't get many abusive messages but if I do they're usually along the lines of being stuck up my own arse.

Well you know what I'm pretty content up there.

That's quite a skill! If you are indeed able to stick yourself up your own arse, you could join a very pervy circus

Just be sure to use plenty of lube! "

Stop nicking my lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had any, I just get sent to Coventry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had a couple of them in over 4 years.

The funniest was being told the men who lick my hairy pussy must have AIDS. He kept calling me a little piggy too. I thought that was funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a mad couple last night come over all hypocritical, said I was a time waster despite the fact I didn't meet their criteria hence I didn't message them lol

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"I don't get many abusive messages but if I do they're usually along the lines of being stuck up my own arse.

Well you know what I'm pretty content up there.

That's quite a skill! If you are indeed able to stick yourself up your own arse, you could join a very pervy circus

Just be sure to use plenty of lube!

Stop nicking my lines "

Great minds eh?

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Apparently we're fakes and time wasters who shouldn't be on the site as we've not had a veri for a few months.........we didn't know that leaving and receiving veris was now compulsory lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had to giggle at the abuse i got from a couple on here as i suggested a social.... i mean really....

Whats the best line of abuse you have received and why?

"

I was asked for a face pic and was told I was an ugly fucker and blocked. Mmm

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Just the usual fat and ugly. It's the go to from the little pocket book after abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently we're fakes and time wasters who shouldn't be on the site as we've not had a veri for a few months.........we didn't know that leaving and receiving veris was now compulsory lol"

Veris arnt worth the txt used in my opinion as they can be very misleading and no ones is going to publish bad veris are they ??

So whats the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one from a couple at 00:05 on 1st Jan 2016. Obviously the first person I spoke to of the year after working and missing out and my gf had fallen asleep waiting for me.

They offered me a meet, which I accepted but added that I thought I recognised them from a swingers/fet club and had they ever attended? I thought I was being polite, but must of offended because the response was "you look like a lady but are obviously a docker in a frock" then blocked me.

Either they didn't read I was trans before sending the message or it was a pic of somebody else?

I have never worked on the docks, but if it pays better then my current job I am happy to swap roles. I am pretty sure there are lots of trans people in this career path across the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After i had the temerity to message a localish lady's profile, i got a sharp reply just saying fuck off,and that i looked like a bag of shit tied up with string.

Was most put out,was my best Sunday string too!

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"There are some people on here who think they much better than everyone else... get a grip! "

Yes I've had that one said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After i had the temerity to message a localish lady's profile, i got a sharp reply just saying fuck off,and that i looked like a bag of shit tied up with string.

Was most put out,was my best Sunday string too!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really abusive but we once had a couple in there late 50's ask for a meet, I politely said and I quote thankyou for your interest but your not our type happy fabbing ... to then recieve another message why what's wrong with us? So I said again your just not our type sorry, next message was but you haven't given us a chance! Needless to say my reply then was straight to the point! ...

We have an age range on our profile for a reason your too old felt awful but my god accept the polite not for us and I wouldn't of had to be so blunt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a message saying i was a fat ugly cow after i said i wouldnt meet him, as he just wanted a blow job. I said theres other sites for that, im not a hooker. He got really nasty! Said he hates blondes anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got abuse from a non kissing couple where I said I would find it difficult to respect their wishes as I like to kiss, so therefore it wasn't a good idea to meet them. She replied back saying that she would punch me in the face and I was a disrespectful, arrogant bitch.

They are the only couple we have on our block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We got abuse from a non kissing couple where I said I would find it difficult to respect their wishes as I like to kiss, so therefore it wasn't a good idea to meet them. She replied back saying that she would punch me in the face and I was a disrespectful, arrogant bitch.

Never understood this. I cant not kiss someone but have sex.

They are the only couple we have on our block list "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Reading all these posts it amazes me how some of us treat each other. Total lack of respect to other human beings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had plenty

Just report and block ...much easier

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Ages ago I took pics for a girl on here & she got to the top of most fab'd for a day. I then got messages from women who are regularly on that list accusing me of being a sad lonely guy who made a fake girls profile & put pics on just to get likes. I hadn't even spoken to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading all these posts it amazes me how some of us treat each other. Total lack of respect to other human beings "

Sad but true........... people are too quick to get on the defensive and actually want confrontation. I blame the soaps lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading all these posts it amazes me how some of us treat each other. Total lack of respect to other human beings

Sad but true........... people are too quick to get on the defensive and actually want confrontation. I blame the soaps lol. "

Soaps such as dove and imperial leather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading all these posts it amazes me how some of us treat each other. Total lack of respect to other human beings

Sad but true........... people are too quick to get on the defensive and actually want confrontation. I blame the soaps lol. "

But I like eastenders...can't help it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aside from the obvious single guys posing as couples, I seem to get lots of married men wanting to cheat on their wives.

They then get shitty when they can't understand why I wouldn't trust them with anything. Lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

None for us, feeling a bit left out now

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone threatened to name and shame me for being rude...Just because I said 'sorry,not for me'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does begged belief at times.

I could list off a ton of examples of nasty messages I've received, but what would be the point.

If someone wants to be mean, then I'm glad I found out via a message rather than in person, wasting a couple of mins on a message is much better than wasting time traveling, etc just to want to leave.

Why people can't just be nice is beyond me. Someone told me that some just aren't nice people, I don't know that I believe that, everyone has it in them to be a decent human being.

What is it they say, be the change you want to see. So be nice, ignore the idiots and don't let them get you down.

Hugs and peace you sexy bunch.

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We were contacted by a tv yesterday who wanted my wife to fuck a dog in front of him.

When I said no he than asked if she would enjoy the sight of him fucking me!

When I said no to that he then stormed back with abuse calling us fakes and claiming our profile said I was bi. He had managed to mis-read that as its actually my wife.

We have been on fab for about 10 years and that is the most revolting individual we have yet encountered.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Nothing here. We are too unappealing to get abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're feeling a bit left out here

If we don't hear from many cranks does that mean WE ARE the cranks ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my photos reported for not being me, from a man who lives 300 miles away from me, never messaged me let alone met me. He reported them and sent me a few messages of abuse about how fake I was. Jealousy is an evil emotion, far too much of it present on here in a lot of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had abuse from single guys....usually when we refuse to meet them ...they then start being nasty....they usually feel that because we are not married we should meet separately...not happening as we have been clear about that in our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One woman said "sorry, you're not for me"

What an evil bitch.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Worst reply we had after a polite no thank you was "i hope you get aids and die". Luckily, just to spite him we are refusing to comply.

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

On a different site to this, I (female) exchanged several messages with a guy, who after sent an unsolicited face pic of himself, decided that he wasn't for me. Although I had begun to think that anyway. Instead of going off radar, I did the decent thing to tell him politely. His reply wasn't as kind as mine: saying that it was a badly taken pic, and then proceeded calling me a liar, probably a bigger figure than I claimed and I was just like the other women on there - he even baited me to send a pic to prove otherwise. Furthermore, accused me of having a poor relationship, because I was seeking extra sex outside my relationship. Needless to say, I didn't respond again. Partner thought it was terrible and so rude of him. I think I had a lucky escape and just goes to show what kind of person they are!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Never had any abuse on here, have always found people to be very polite.

The 'worst' we have experienced is a lady sending us the message '???' when we politely refused her offer, so can't complain.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Was told by a Cpl once that they only did manly men.

Kinda broke me a bit

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Too much abuse on the forums and much of it is very personal. Really puts me off posting these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turned down, politely a 4ft 5 bloke (ok that's an exaggeration). He asked why, and I said I prefer a taller man.

Got told that tall men probably don't like me and that a fat bitch should be grateful for all offers as they are clearly rare!

Such a sweet heart!

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