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By *on and Tammy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

How long would you say it took from the moment you decided to dive into 'the lifestyle' to actually going full swing? Did you know you would go full swing straight away or was it a gradual process where you gently edged past set boundaries before resetting them?

Interested to hear people's thoughts

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It kinda just happened

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

chatted about it for about 18 months, then ventured into it slowly. Didn't set goals as in just soft or just oral or straight into full, just kept communicating and experimenting as we went..

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Our first swinging experience was a visit to a club about a month after we decided we were "up for it".

We did a full swap that first time.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took our time and the boundaries are constantly changing to this day x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How long would you say it took from the moment you decided to dive into 'the lifestyle' to actually going full swing? Did you know you would go full swing straight away or was it a gradual process where you gently edged past set boundaries before resetting them?

Interested to hear people's thoughts "

we were a soft swing cpl when myself and husband started as I know once we went full there was no going back...so took our time so we were comfortable with what we were doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours just happened!

It waseems maybe a month after we joined the lifestyle and was our second meet.

We went from girl on girl with our first meet to full swap with our second.

We had originally gone to a club to socialise and met a couple that we really got on with! It just flowed.

Eve. X

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By *at1sevCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We joined 3 weeks ago,went to a club twice and met couple at theirs. No point to waste the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once we arrived at Cap D'Agde it took us 24 hours from never having swung to our first ever experience - a six-some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we joined we always intended to do full swap.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we intended to full swop from day one. Oddly we have gone the other way and prefer soft swop now.

Its a funny old game

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

Our first experience was 4 years ago in Gran Canaria, we dove straight in head first, with no arm bands lol. Our boundaries are still changing, we chat regulary to make sure we are both still on the same page, so to speak. That's how we continue to keep it fun and successful xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight away

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By *on and Tammy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Thanks peeps, appreciate the comments

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By *eegMan
over a year ago

taunton

just did it I think its just in you or not lol

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By *ullanonCouple
over a year ago

Hull

We went to our first meet expecting it to just be a soft swap. Safe to say - it didn't stay that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were jumped on at our very first visit to a club and had a soft swap. Afterwards, when we chatted, we both felt it was quite tame and that we were totally happy to full swap.

After several full swaps we've now decided we prefer to start with a soft swap first and build up to it. This isn't anything to do with boundaries, quite the opposite. We find full swap on a first meet just lacks something... a sense of connection... a sense of desire... a sense of anticipation... something like that. It's all about finding what works for you

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Our second time. 6 couple orgy in one of the rooms at a club. Never looked back since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Immediately. We cannot see the point of being intimate with someone and not having sex. If we like you enough for us to get naked with you we want to have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We were jumped on at our very first visit to a club and had a soft swap. Afterwards, when we chatted, we both felt it was quite tame and that we were totally happy to full swap.

After several full swaps we've now decided we prefer to start with a soft swap first and build up to it. This isn't anything to do with boundaries, quite the opposite. We find full swap on a first meet just lacks something... a sense of connection... a sense of desire... a sense of anticipation... something like that. It's all about finding what works for you "

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