FabSwingers.com forum: Flanter

By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Is it too much to ask for a bit flanter before a meet? Does it not add to excitement and anticipation...or is it just me??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it too much to ask for a bit flanter before a meet? Does it not add to excitement and anticipation...or is it just me??"
always good before a meet, nearly a must

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Does nothing for me. I prefer to agree to meet and then do it.

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Yeah suppose it is different people's preferences xx

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By *ekyllandHyde OP Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Is it too much to ask for a bit flanter before a meet? Does it not add to excitement and anticipation...or is it just me?? always good before a meet, nearly a must

Yeah personally for me too I like it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. Having a bit of flanter with a couple now and the anticipation for the meet is very hot x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I like it

Helps build the excitement for me

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I hate the word flanter; banter is a horrid word anyway - why make it worse?

I do like to flirt however and if it stops it's a good indicator of lack of interest for me for whatever reason.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

I rely on it to make up for my other shortcomings lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the word flanter; banter is a horrid word anyway - why make it worse?

I do like to flirt however and if it stops it's a good indicator of lack of interest for me for whatever reason. "

Agree so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate the word flanter; banter is a horrid word anyway - why make it worse?

I do like to flirt however and if it stops it's a good indicator of lack of interest for me for whatever reason. "

Agree. And as a concept banter just seems to be an excuse for generally offensive, disrespectful language.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I hate the word flanter; banter is a horrid word anyway - why make it worse?

Yes! Never heard it before, and only got it after reading a couple of posts.

Flirting yes, 'flanter'...oh no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please don't make flanter a thing. Banter is a horrific enough word on its own. Instant delete.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Does nothing for me. I prefer to agree to meet and then do it."

Me too, sooner the better.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Please don't make flanter a thing. Banter is a horrific enough word on its own. Instant delete. "

Especially spelled 'banta'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ack the word just made me do a bit of sick in my mouth, even more than banter does!

I don't know how to flirt and don't do it. I either take the piss or I'm just purely graphic

That being said, I do like to talk about what we would like to do in the build up. Makes me horny as fuck

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flanter is great. I'd hate to meet someone who couldn't have flirting and friendly banter. It all adds to the whole experience for me. Banter is so much better than boring conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never come across the word flanter before, what's the abbreviation, having a bit of flantz...?

*made me chuckle on typing flantz my auto correct changed it to flange...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never come across the word flanter before, what's the abbreviation, having a bit of flantz...?

*made me chuckle on typing flantz my auto correct changed it to flange...

#cheekyflantz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's essential to exchange notes before hand and get a sense of the person and what they like etc. Play some scenarios out etc. The build up went well in one case and decide to just meet at the hotel room. Turned out to be a big disappointment, so won't be doing that again. My time with Roo is too precious to fucking waste!

Pete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens with some and not so much with others - makes no difference to me realy as you cant tell if its for real until you actually meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flanter!

FFS, whatever next?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flanter!

FFS, whatever next?! "

Beats some of the language used on here

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