FabSwingers.com forum: Meeting Couple

By *ippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Munstrer IRE

Hi Couples,

Just wondering??? What is the best why to go about meeting couple for social meet with possibility of moving next step or No pressure to go further if you dont went to. ie dont click ...

Thanks for your inputs.

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We prefer a pub and go from there or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them you booked a nice room and you want to meet in the hotel bar for no pressure drinks..

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

My advice is to go to a club - there is plenty of chance to meet couples and chat to them without any pressure or commitment to play unless everyone is happy - and importantly no embarrassment or feeling of rejection if your answer is "No thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer a pub and go from there or not"

my round

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

As long as your intentions of social only are clear then it shouldn't be a problem. We would never commit to playing with a couple without having met them first. You just can't be sure everybody will click

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By *inkyCouple1927Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Of course there's always a chance that it becomes more, but best not to make any promises

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Hi Couples,

Just wondering??? What is the best why to go about meeting couple for social meet with possibility of moving next step or No pressure to go further if you dont went to. ie dont click ...

Thanks for your inputs.

We personally goto clubs, as if you don't hit it off np, it's social and plenty of other choices

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By *ippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Munstrer IRE

"Hi Couples,

Just wondering??? What is the best why to go about meeting couple for social meet with possibility of moving next step or No pressure to go further if you dont went to. ie dont click ...

Thanks for your inputs.

We personally goto clubs, as if you don't hit it off np, it's social and plenty of other choices"

We dont have much swingers club in Ireland so a bit hard to travel to far away one. But thanks for advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure you can get flights from Ireland to Birmigham for about £15 each way.

Iv not been to Chameleon club in Birmingham

I have read that its really good there if you famcy flying

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By *ippcpl OP Couple
over a year ago

Munstrer IRE

"Im sure you can get flights from Ireland to Birmigham for about £15 each way.

Iv not been to Chameleon club in Birmingham

I have read that its really good there if you famcy flying

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Moving things on from a social to play time can be awkward depending on everyone's experience and their boundaries. If you're new to it then the prospect of sharing a hotel room with a couple you've just met can be daunting and put a lot of pressure to play on.

Club socials are by far our favorite way to meet people, usually after a quick drink in a near by bar. As others have said, it leaves the door open to wonder off and do your own thing if you don't click and you don't have a wasted trip out.

If you don't have a club to hand then establishing what you all are comfortable with early on is key to avoid over pressure. Have a hotel room nearby and suggest you move on there for some drinks and some same-room same-couple fun and then maybe to see where it leads.

Of course if the other couple are more experienced and confident then you can be more direct if you all feel a spark. 'do you want to come back to ours for some fun?' is probably enough. It then leaves them open to turn you down.

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