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By *evilwolf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Obviously this varies depending...

...but how long roughly did it take you to get known on the site and how chiefly do you reckon it was by... was it through long chatroom sessions treading water around those others more established and trying to join in and swim.. or by posting on the forums and joining in on the banter to get established that way... or maybe just setting up shop and waiting for victims to roll up and make themselves known...? I'm sure as anything curious and reckon some newcomers would like to lessen that setup tume too

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were here nearly a year before we even got anyone to reply to our messages, although we did quite well on another site.

Then I started posting in the forums and we went to a few socials, then it started to flow.

We do ok now

We've got a good circle of friends that we see from time to time, we get party invites and we also visit Chameleons in the West Midlands

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"Obviously this varies depending...

...but how long roughly did it take you to get known on the site and how chiefly do you reckon it was by... was it through long chatroom sessions treading water around those others more established and trying to join in and swim.. or by posting on the forums and joining in on the banter to get established that way... or maybe just setting up shop and waiting for victims to roll up and make themselves known...? I'm sure as anything curious and reckon some newcomers would like to lessen that setup tume too

Wolf"

About 3 weeks I reckon, mainly by posting on here. The chatrooms do my head in it seems like the last place its possible to chat like trying to have a conversation across a crowded noisy bar. Also sent a lot of messages to people I thought looked compatible but do less of thaat now.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Going to socials for me. I dont post here much but Ive met quite a few of the people that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that long was using chams long before I joined fabs. So new a few but love coming into the forums and putting names to faces when meeting socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me it was a combination of keep commenting on forums and spending endless hours in chat before i strted to get recognised, and yeah as soonas i joined i got 100's of shag messhaes but to get the good friends i have now it was mainly the scottish chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking bollocks on the forums & meeting people at socials did it mainly for us.

We like to get to know people we play with.

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By *ricky_DickyMan
over a year ago

Mirfield

I've been on Fab since the very early days, yet I'm still a relatively unknown amongst the members. I've had a few meets and done a few socials and I'm generally happy with the way Fab works for me, but then I'm not the sort that likes a lot off attention.

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

We were doing Chams for over a year and we were not that well known,as we're quite shy. But since starting to do home meets, we seem to have become much better known (at least in Worcestershire ) . Finding a lot of great people through this site.

We find it quite poor when people diss this site. It's the best we've used so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive found better or should i say real people on the forums who meet.

the chat rooms are just full of teasers and people who say one thing and do another.

others will of course say different.but for me the forums work.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

we were members for a year ,but didnt really use,however discovered that ads here got a response ,unlike the pay site we were on.So we didnt renew our membership elsewhere.

Around November i started popping into the forum,December started using chat,now i apparently belong to cliques so i assume i am known!

i felt totally welcome at both from the start,and camp and the pussy party proved most ppl are as fab in real life!

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Not long really we put up decent pics, a good profile and it worked pretty quick. We never use the chat on this site but we do post in the forums and enjoy socials as well as partys. You get out what you put in I guess

xx

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

Agree 100% with last post. You need to work at it, you can't just stick up a profile and wait!

To make friends, you need to network the same way you would in any other area.

Don't just write a one line profile with a pussy and cock pic. We like to have some fun with pix.

Also avoid a negative profile. Don't waste 10 paragraphs telling people what you don't like. concentrate on the good stuff. Works for us both ways

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i'm still waiting to find out if i am in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i'm still waiting to find out if i am in "

Yes, you're through to the next round.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"i'm still waiting to find out if i am in

Yes, you're through to the next round."

OMG OMG OMG!!

my mum will be so proud

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

chatroom and by braving it and attending a few socials. get to meet people face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it was a combination of keep commenting on forums and spending endless hours in chat before i strted to get recognised, and yeah as soonas i joined i got 100's of shag messhaes but to get the good friends i have now it was mainly the scottish chat room "

I agree 100% with this one...I originally joined the site 3 years but have been back and forth quite a few times in that period.....First thing I do is hit the Forums and the Chat Rooms....Get myself known and hey presto got myself a cracking group of friends....not all of which is sexual may I remind you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nobody knows us

we are a figment of others imagination

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By *oantrimcpl2010Couple
over a year ago

Lisburn

we use chatrooms and forums, i prefare the forums as mr a prefares the chatrooms. also socials are very good have been to a few.

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By *evilwolf OP   Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

thanks guys n gals... really good to see such diversity in all the answers. must admit to posting ribald comments on the forum... but then I'm just a giggler anyway.. a cheeky smile's never far off me chops anyway hehehe

We get a lot of covert interest... people who read the forums, rarely post... but check out the posters and if they like message 'em... works great

Don't want to slate it but the chatroom is really hard work. We go on general and theres that many on its hard to get any convo going other than being washed away on the main one...and another room we went in we were flatly ignored despite hellos and stuff... shades of other sites weve been members on where you might get someone talk after doing you apprenticeship of the silent treatment for a couple of years... lol

when some post the 'whats up with me' threads I can understand that they'd get that impression. I also know that a lot find newbies a threat and think that by helping em onboard it'll sink the lifeboat and spoil their little arrangement... when exactly the opposite woud be the more likely outcome. So really it should be a 'whats up with them ' post ... there being no difference between that person and a well known face at all - other than given half a chance being allowed to become known;)

Keep 'em coming

Wolf

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

how long is a peace of string its how much time and effort you put in you can post on the forums all the time and get known on here but for the main site thats just a drop in the ocean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tweaked our profile over time and now leave it as it is as it seems to work.

Think profile is key. People need to feel what you are about. If it's wishy washy they will just move on.

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