FabSwingers.com forum: Scars!

By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Anyone find scars a problem or turn on?? My partner has heavy scars from a number of operations! She is paranoid to play with other women as worries about the reaction. I tell her they are sexy and she should wear them with pride, it's a tough nut to crack so just seeing if I'm giving her good advice?

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By *X guyMan
over a year ago

Skegness

Scars are just a part of who she is. I have a big one across my chest down to underneath my ribs and I had a large blue coal mining one on my back but covered it with a tattoo so if they repulse anyone they should be ashamed of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they are not from me ,,,, I don't have a problem with them

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By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

"Scars are just a part of who she is. I have a big one across my chest down to underneath my ribs and I had a large blue coal mining one on my back but covered it with a tattoo so if they repulse anyone they should be ashamed of themselves "

Totally agree, it's exactly what I tell her

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Your secret partner should not worry, scars tell a story

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By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

"As long as they are not from me ,,,, I don't have a problem with them"

I'll tell her , and show her your cock pics! It will put a smile on her face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanna know how I got these scars?

My father was a drinker, and a fiend!

In all honestly I can understand her worry. But scars are part of who you are. I've only got one or two small ones. But I find it quite interesting to hear about people with scars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are part of life, I don't think anyone would have an issue with them. I have them all over my stomach from various operations and now, they're just a part of me!

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By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

"Your secret partner should not worry, scars tell a story

Lol, she may not be so secret when I tell her the positive replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I, Poppy, have a rather large scar on my arm, had it since I was 12, so guess I'm used to it and it's a part of me now. I often just turn it into a talking point. Certainly wouldn't let scars put me off playing with someone.

Poppy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All my scars tell a story and they're part of who I am.

I'm not particularly body confident, but what others may think of them doesn't phase me.

Tell her to wear them with pride any if people do judge her, they're the ones with the problem and not people you want to be around

Mrs x

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By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

"Wanna know how I got these scars?

My father was a drinker, and a fiend!

In all honestly I can understand her worry. But scars are part of who you are. I've only got one or two small ones. But I find it quite interesting to hear about people with scars.

Again I agree, I find them sexy and a reminder of her courage, and definitely interesting to hear the stories all scars come from.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've got loads of scars

They don't effect me and others seem happy enough with them

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By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

"All my scars tell a story and they're part of who I am.

I'm not particularly body confident, but what others may think of them doesn't phase me.

Tell her to wear them with pride any if people do judge her, they're the ones with the problem and not people you want to be around

Thank you, il tell her your kind advice

Mrs x"

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'm fairly confident that none of us are in "as new" condition... as said above, scars are just part of the story of each of us.

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By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

"I, Poppy, have a rather large scar on my arm, had it since I was 12, so guess I'm used to it and it's a part of me now. I often just turn it into a talking point. Certainly wouldn't let scars put me off playing with someone.

Poppy"

thank you

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By *aughtybooy OP Man
over a year ago

maidstone

"I've got loads of scars

They don't effect me and others seem happy enough with them "

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I have psoriasis which makes me really self conscious, but it doesn't seem to put other people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definetely would not put me off! Scars and stretchmarks are a normal part of the body, no airbrushing for real life

K xx

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't find scars a turn on but they are definitely not a turn off. They are just there, a part of you.

I have some heavy scarring in places due to a rare skin condition and i can be a bit self conscious about it.

The people I've met off fab and in clubs are too polite to say anything or it really doesn't matter. Either way i am becoming less bothered by them myself.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I have psoriasis which makes me really self conscious, but it doesn't seem to put other people off. "

have you tried pure cocoa butter on it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stretch marks aaaall over. Nothing I can do about them so sod them.

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

I have a condition called hidradenitis suppurativa, and I have several operations each year. It's nothing major, but it has left me looking like I shave with a lawnmower. I mention it on my profile as some people are squeamish, and it can be an issue for them.

I am completely body confident though, it's not like I got these for being a bad person, or from having bad hygiene, I got them because I've been a tad unlucky with my health. They are my war wounds, they tell a story of how strong I am each day, they are a beautiful part of me, even when they are angry and red and not particularly attractive, because on the whole I believe I am a beautiful person and those who see that in me are the people I want to surround myself with.

I hope your friend realises that worrying about her scars really is just crazy, if someone is squeamish, it doesn't make them a bad person, just means they aren't right to play with her, but it certainly isn't something to worry about.

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By *anther and gothic angelCouple
over a year ago

fairy land

Scars and stretch marks are the maps of our lives and should be a mark of pride not shame!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have psoriasis which makes me really self conscious, but it doesn't seem to put other people off. "

You look like you're doing alright

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By *eavy Metal BallzMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have a 4/5 inch facial scar from a few years back, it doesn't really bother me except when it's cold then it aches like a bitch...

I don't really think it's put anybody off from meeting me, the rest of my face does that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this convo a few weeks ago as I gained a few new scars from heart surgery x but as I say to a friend scars are not the be all and end all they are you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our Scars, lumps, bumps etc is part of our life story. It's part of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i have a knife scar on my neck which was not my doing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i have a knife scar on my neck which was not my doing..."

Fighting at the pub?

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By *X guyMan
over a year ago

Skegness

"Scars are part of life, I don't think anyone would have an issue with them. I have them all over my stomach from various operations and now, they're just a part of me!

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Scars are the badge of a winner!

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By *at1sevCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I have a scar from heart operation and this isn't bothering me at all.

People should be ashamed, its part of them and this makes them unique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The things that make people unique are one of their most attractive facets to me

Ruby

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By *at1sevCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I have a scar from heart operation and this isn't bothering me at all.

People should be ashamed, its part of them and this makes them unique

Shouldn't!!

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