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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when you meet a couple and 1 party is more willing than the other how do you react ?

there must be some couples out there where 1 party is going along with it for fear of losing the other or wants to be there so they have some 'control' over their partners sexual antics

has anyone been in that situation with a couple and if so, how do you react to it ?

i must imagine it is extremely awkward

i think i'd pick up on 1 parties sadness and call it quits but that's just a gut instinct

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I'd leave well alone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have had this experience and did end up not meeting them because of it.

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

ive been in the situation when my ex had total control over fabs account he wouldnt show me msgs just arranged things, thank god HE IS NOW MY EX its not nice and not funny x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We would walk away, no way do we want to play with anyone who wasnt happy being there.!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd apologise and run!!

If its a case of not everyone being relaxed and entirely happy its a no go.

The very last thing I want is someone giving me daggers during a meet! It's supposed to be fun...

And if I sensed an atmostphere then again I would make my excuses and leave..

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"when you meet a couple and 1 party is more willing than the other how do you react ?

there must be some couples out there where 1 party is going along with it for fear of losing the other or wants to be there so they have some 'control' over their partners sexual antics

I always sit and chat before any fun, and I explain that that all parties must feel comfortable or else no play. Only once, it's happened where I didn't feel comfortable, so nothing happened and we parted with no hard feelings

has anyone been in that situation with a couple and if so, how do you react to it ?

i must imagine it is extremely awkward

i think i'd pick up on 1 parties sadness and call it quits but that's just a gut instinct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me of a disastrous mff where the woman was obviously just going along with it to please the guy. Never again!! Avoid. Ms

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

If possible talk to the unwilling partner, i have several times in clubs.

If not possible leave,the other word for non consensual sex is rape.

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

i used to have a man i was friends with emailing me some very nice pics of is wife ( open leg pics on bed topless on hols etc )and talking all time about 3 some there wanted us to have one day i phoned him about something and got his wife i made a joke about when this 3 some was goin to happen, she new nothing of it and nothing of pics he had sent me ,i bet he got nothing for a long time

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By *rs Sugar Mr SpiceCouple
over a year ago

We are about 15 mins outa Pontypridd and we do go to Crawley in west sussex 2-3 times a year so get in touch !!

All parties have to be ready willing and able and deffo not pushed into any situation ,this is suppose to be fun for all not just for 1

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We would walk or run away.....if everyone is not happy then it's a big no for us.

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

we had this at a party recently, noticed the hubby of a cpl telling his wife do this do that etc, basically forcing her, so we left, didnt want to be a part of that

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Unless everyone is comfortable and in agreement its a bad experience, bought the Tshirt on that one! Simple advice is avoid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the reason i opened the forum was i have a male friend who's wife is forcing him arm to try swinging.

he's isn't keen on the idea of his wife with another man (or his wife seeing him with another woman for that matter)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had this happen at a daytime party where the lady appeared a little upset. Dave being the caring type went over to see if she was ok and on asking he found it was because she hadn't been aware they were coming to a party as hubby had done it as a surprise. The reason she was so shy was that being unaware of coming she didn't have matching underwear. After going to a more private area to undress she turned into a complete vamp. Just goes to show that it just takes a bit of talking to see what any issues may be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a similar problem where a couple approached me regarding BDSM as she had come out of a 15 year marriage to the missionary man and this was her new partner...

We arranged to meet at a local pub for a drink and chat first...

After 5 mins I completely went cold on the guy and concentrated my conversation with the lady....turns out she was unaware of a lot of what hubby had told me and wasn't comfortable with a lot of his plans....

She did however like the sound of cuckolding....and we arranged a 40th birthday present for her......but thats another story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this has happened to us on a social meet with a cpl...... she obviously didnt want to be ther so after about 30 mins i apolgised to her and got up and walked out fo the pub...... followed quickly by my hubby. the guy came running after us and said we will be in touch for a meet.... i turned around and said dont bother, and best you now go inside and apologise to your wife

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