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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

interested to hear about how everyone feels about new dress codes at work? i.e woman no longer can be told to wear heels, personally i like staring at a woman in heels...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would u like to be told what to wear ???

Why should women be made to wear them

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Yes, but wouldn't you rather she wanted to wear them, rather than being told she has to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i can see ive made a terrible error here, i didnt even say my opinion on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"interested to hear about how everyone feels about new dress codes at work? i.e woman no longer can be told to wear heels, personally i like staring at a woman in heels... "

So now you'll be able to concentrate on your work rather than perving on women in heels

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"interested to hear about how everyone feels about new dress codes at work? i.e woman no longer can be told to wear heels, personally i like staring at a woman in heels... "

Then you try wearing shoes that fuck with your feet, legs and general posture, hurt like hell and cause crippling bunions if worn regularly. Or just let women wear footwear that is smart if necessary yet personally and healthily appropriate and choose when and if they want to wear heels. Oh, and before the old tie analogy gets trotted out I wore a tie every day for a decade. I never found it so uncomfortable I wanted to cry. Or injured myself as a result of wearing one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm told what to wear at work and I have no say it it at all

-hard hat

-orange Hiviz long sleeve top

-orange Hiviz trousers

-steel toe lace up boots

-gloves

-eye protection

No ifs ands or buts if I don't I'm not allowed to work

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm told what to wear at work and I have no say it it at all

-hard hat

-orange Hiviz long sleeve top

-orange Hiviz trousers

-steel toe lace up boots

-gloves

-eye protection

No ifs ands or buts if I don't I'm not allowed to work "

Those are common sense safety precautions. And I bet women have the same rules. Not an item of clothing that serves no purpose other than to make a gender feel objectified because some people think they look nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm told what to wear at work and I have no say it it at all

-hard hat

-orange Hiviz long sleeve top

-orange Hiviz trousers

-steel toe lace up boots

-gloves

-eye protection

No ifs ands or buts if I don't I'm not allowed to work "

Not quite the same thing, they are worn for your safety. There's absolutely no reason at all for a woman to have to wear heels to do a job.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I'm told what to wear at work and I have no say it it at all

-hard hat

-orange Hiviz long sleeve top

-orange Hiviz trousers

-steel toe lace up boots

-gloves

-eye protection

No ifs ands or buts if I don't I'm not allowed to work "

And in what context is this a complaint may I ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if a work place dress code is coller and tie and a lady wears a suit type outfit what would they wear on there feet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was talking to a lady at work today about this subject and she said nobody tells her what she can or cannot wear for work. It's an office environment and very relaxed dress code as long as folks don't come in dressed scruffily.

The lady said that she dresses as the mood takes her. Today she was wearing a turtle neck top, fairly tight fitting, a knee length skirt, nude stockings (yes I asked her during the conversation) and shoes with 4" heels. She looked very nice, quite sexy really. I complimented her on the way she looked today. She said she always tries to look nice but nobody is going to dictate to her what she wears. I make her right on that.

I wear a suit with shirt and tie for work. I don't have to but that's my choice. I meet my company's Clients and in my opinion if I am wearing a tie it projects a more business like image. I feel better dressed when wearing a tie with my suit. I am comfortable wearing a tie.

Mind you, with me it may be just an age thing! haha

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"So if a work place dress code is coller and tie and a lady wears a suit type outfit what would they wear on there feet ? "

Neat shoes to match the suit I would imagine. Doesn't have to be heels. Last time I wore a trouser suit, shirt and tie I wore flat shoes with it.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"So if a work place dress code is coller and tie and a lady wears a suit type outfit what would they wear on there feet ? "

Shoes??

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"So if a work place dress code is coller and tie and a lady wears a suit type outfit what would they wear on there feet ? "

A business wear workplace, that involves a collar and tie? Yes I work in one and I wear trouser suits with flat shoes, is that a problem? It is still business attire

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By *.1079Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I would like to know what these women were wearing to the interview for the job. Probably not trainers LoL

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"I would like to know what these women were wearing to the interview for the job. Probably not trainers LoL"

No ones suggesting trainers are worn but there is such thing as flat shoes?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would like to know what these women were wearing to the interview for the job. Probably not trainers LoL"

I've never worn heels to a job interview or to work and I work in an office

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I would like to know what these women were wearing to the interview for the job. Probably not trainers LoL"

Do you have flat shows that aren't trainers? Because I sure do. And I have always worn flats to job interviews. Wincing when I stand up or twisting my ankle doesn't imbue me with confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really do think men should have to wear heels for a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind wearing a suit or shirt and blazer personally but I do think women generally have it a bit easier.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"interested to hear about how everyone feels about new dress codes at work? i.e woman no longer can be told to wear heels, personally i like staring at a woman in heels... "

I have always worked somewhere where women aren't told what to wear. Nothing new here

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I would like to know what these women were wearing to the interview for the job. Probably not trainers LoL"

Are some people deliberately thick or are they working hard to prove that they actually are???

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I really do think men should have to wear heels for a day."

I can manage about 1/2 hour in mine. I have no idea how anyone can do a whole day.

There's a world of difference between smart clothes/shoes and sexy clothes/shoes.

The expectation that women should wear sexy clothes rather than smart is such a last Century concept. Unfortunately in many workplaces it's one of those un-written rules, making it hard to take action against.

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