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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who loves it and what does it mean to you?

Mrs

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

Something I've wanted my wife to do for quite a few years.

Where she gets to have the pleasures of another man and I get to watch or maybe hear about it later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's the biggest turn on. You gets to fuck whoever and I get to eat the cum from her afterwards. Win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself

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By *bhs72Man
over a year ago

witham

I'd have to watch her as that is where the fun is

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself "

sounds about right

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any Hotwives out there? Why do you love it?

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Here lol

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself "

This The exhilaration and anticipation of her getting ready to go out, the emotional roller coaster of whilst she's out and then the intense excitement of the Reconnection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here lol"

Sure are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally into this. I openly encourage her, even telling her what to wear.

So horny watching her at bars from afar. Seeing guys chat to her buying her drinks.

She loves the attention as well, turns her on.

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By *esicupidsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Big supporters of the cause here

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Who loves it and what does it mean to you?

Mrs "

I love it! Nothing better than a prim, proper wife who likes other men while her hubby watches.

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By *esicupidsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Who loves it and what does it mean to you?

Mrs

I love it! Nothing better than a prim, proper wife who likes other men while her hubby watches. "

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

london

Hotwifing for me is something I just am unable to articulate..to many things involved...depends on if it's random and hubby doesn't find out until after..hubby sets it up with no contact from the wife..they both out and spot you...getting horny just thinking about hotwife scenarios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself

This The exhilaration and anticipation of her getting ready to go out, the emotional roller coaster of whilst she's out and then the intense excitement of the Reconnection "

Exactly Watching her get all hotted up but your not going anywhere, then she's gone..for a good night with someone else lol

Then on return knowing she's had cock is hot

It's a strange world we live in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started swinging as a couple and lately l have really enjoyed my time being a hot wife. Personally l prefer regular meets that let the situation develop, hubby enjoys it too and it really adds to our sex life. xx

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I've been a hotwife before they called it hotwifeing,hubby loves me comming home used

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"I've been a hotwife before they called it hotwifeing,hubby loves me comming home used "

Where do find the guys? Online or when out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being a Hotwife but unfortunately there's not been anybody to tickle my fancy in months now! Ideally need somebody local that I can see regularly. Hubby loves hearing about what I get up to. Especially if I come straight home and sit on his face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy meeting hotwife couples. An interesting and different meet to the cuckold couples.

For me the thrill is meeting another mans wife, knowing she is with me for the thrill and for the additional pleasure that brings her and her hubby. Love playing my part in the tri-party pleasure!

Also fun to see wives dress up or do things with me they wouldn't do with hubby.

Eddie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself "

I've been encouraging my gf to do the same. Although sadly not many nights out to try it. I have basically given her a pass on whatever she wants to do, even secret lovers and affairs as long as I get to know about some of the men she meets. Not started yet but hoping soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy a bit of hotwifing, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself

I've been encouraging my gf to do the same. Although sadly not many nights out to try it. I have basically given her a pass on whatever she wants to do, even secret lovers and affairs as long as I get to know about some of the men she meets. Not started yet but hoping soon."

Great idea! I did this with a previous GF who I encouraged to have this freedom. PM me if you want to know more, happy to let you know what worked in that situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filth at it's best. Mixes things up in the most delightful way.

Foxy??

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel


"I've been a hotwife before they called it hotwifeing,hubby loves me comming home used

Where do find the guys? Online or when out?"

usually look for business men in hotel bars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself

I've been encouraging my gf to do the same. Although sadly not many nights out to try it. I have basically given her a pass on whatever she wants to do, even secret lovers and affairs as long as I get to know about some of the men she meets. Not started yet but hoping soon."

I don't encourage her I let her. She's also on a dating site see if she can find a regular (as you can see from my other post we had a 3 way for about a year). It's all good fun. ASLONG AS theres no lies or secrecy and I know where she is.

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By *allenangelcoupleCouple
over a year ago

East Coast Norfolk

Great fun for me watching her having play ..... nothing better than the round bed at Chams!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to do this with a hot wife, but never seem to be any near me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done it numerous times, with hubby watching and without...love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?"

Well he could always try to steal her away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being a Hotwife but unfortunately there's not been anybody to tickle my fancy in months now! Ideally need somebody local that I can see regularly. Hubby loves hearing about what I get up to. Especially if I come straight home and sit on his face!"

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Pics are guy with wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being a Hotwife but unfortunately there's not been anybody to tickle my fancy in months now! Ideally need somebody local that I can see regularly. Hubby loves hearing about what I get up to. Especially if I come straight home and sit on his face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?"

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC "

wining and dining someone's wife

That's like putting new brakes and changing the oil on a rental car..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed but since I actually enjoy cuckolding I'm in it for the long term anyway so its more like a lease than a rental.

The psychological dynamics of the entire process work for me e.g. the anguish the hubby feels wondering what the wife's feeling in his absence or in his presence, the inadequacy he feels when sees the smile on her face upon receiving a bunch of flowers I sent. A bunch of flowers among other things that leads her to totally submit her body and mind to me later that evening in ways she wouldn't for him.

Its chess really... Mentally rewarding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indeed but since I actually enjoy cuckolding I'm in it for the long term anyway so its more like a lease than a rental.

The psychological dynamics of the entire process work for me e.g. the anguish the hubby feels wondering what the wife's feeling in his absence or in his presence, the inadequacy he feels when sees the smile on her face upon receiving a bunch of flowers I sent. A bunch of flowers among other things that leads her to totally submit her body and mind to me later that evening in ways she wouldn't for him.

Its chess really... Mentally rewarding "

Wow I never looked at it that ........ My biggest problem with this scenario was finding time to date and cultivate my own relationships...

How do you find time to date single women and hot wives?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly seek married on here. Had two long term relationships. Once I've found a suitable couple I normally come off fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

wining and dining someone's wife

That's like putting new brakes and changing the oil on a rental car.. "

that made me laugh. I love the analogies you come up with. But to think of myself as a rental car lol. I think if a man has dates someone else's wife, the advantage to that man is that he can enjoy all the benefits of a date, but without the expectations for more. If a man dates a single lady he will have to make time to see her and to phone her and he won't be allowed to see anybody else. Those wont take place with a married lady. Everybody is a winner. And that's without going into the psychological of the experience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Indeed but since I actually enjoy cuckolding I'm in it for the long term anyway so its more like a lease than a rental.

The psychological dynamics of the entire process work for me e.g. the anguish the hubby feels wondering what the wife's feeling in his absence or in his presence, the inadequacy he feels when sees the smile on her face upon receiving a bunch of flowers I sent. A bunch of flowers among other things that leads her to totally submit her body and mind to me later that evening in ways she wouldn't for him.

Its chess really... Mentally rewarding

Wow I never looked at it that ........ My biggest problem with this scenario was finding time to date and cultivate my own relationships...

How do you find time to date single women and hot wives?"

There is ample time to date other women because a married couple won't put any demands on the man's time. Our long term playmate of nearly 2 years we see on average every 2 months. There was a gap once for about 6 months during which time he had a vanilla relationship and we were seeing another man. It's casual, it's drama free, there are no demands. If it happens it's great, but if life gets busy it gets put on hold.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

taking her out dressed to kill watching guys eye her up, seeking out the occasional hot gy to play with her as I watch , pure bliss

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"Who loves it and what does it mean to you?

Mrs "

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We love it. I often go out on the pull with my cuck watching from afar. He is always in chastity while I do it which adds to my excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love it. I often go out on the pull with my cuck watching from afar. He is always in chastity while I do it which adds to my excitement. "

the whole hotwife/cuckold scenario is by far the most satisfying play around, and can be played to so many levels. Nothing better in my eyes than a hotwife dressed for her date, with cuck looking on helpless as the night begins....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC "

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a huge turn on for me!

There is a fine boundary between hotwife grandson and cuckolding and I am yet to decide whether it is the naughtyness of a hotwife or the cuckold element that really makes me hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This only ever happened once to me and I so wish that we could repeat the experience.

We once had a local buddy for years, now moved up North to far away.

I had to go to London for a few days with work. The second night I rang the Wife as usual, chatted and she said in half an hour or so logon to (another Swinging website) using our old profile name and check the web-cams.

I did this and found our current profile active displaying a web-cam. After a few minutes my Wife came in to view, dressed only in stockings and suspenders. Shortly afterwards our buddy appeared and he proceeded to go down on the wife bringing her to a beautiful orgasm.

My wife then proceeded to give him Oral Sex. When he was big and hard she asked him to get behind her. At this point I was bursting because she was teasing the two of them by sliding the tip of his Cock around her entrance which she often did before he put on a condom.

On this occasion however, I was stunned when after several minutes of teasing, she just stared straight in to the camera and pushed her self back on to his naked cock.

She then rode him to orgasm and did this another five times throughout the evening whilst I watched on Web Cam.

I am rarely a repeater and if I do it is usually after a long time. I actually wanked myself four times in quick succession that evening.

It was start of several years of bareback fun with our buddy. Sadly he eventually moved up north and we have never had the pleasure of experiencing it since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

:o just reading that could make me repeat

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Very "hotwife" here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very very

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"We love it. I often go out on the pull with my cuck watching from afar. He is always in chastity while I do it which adds to my excitement. "

wow - this is lovely to hear

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

wining and dining someone's wife

That's like putting new brakes and changing the oil on a rental car..

that made me laugh. I love the analogies you come up with. But to think of myself as a rental car lol. I think if a man has dates someone else's wife, the advantage to that man is that he can enjoy all the benefits of a date, but without the expectations for more. If a man dates a single lady he will have to make time to see her and to phone her and he won't be allowed to see anybody else. Those wont take place with a married lady. Everybody is a winner. And that's without going into the psychological of the experience. "

I agree - I have dated a lovely hotwife for a year or so in the past - never thought of her as a "rental car"! - we went for dinner/cinema and of course lovely sexy nights in. It was great knowing she was someone elses wife and that after she left, hubby was going to reclaim her. the whole scenario was very horny. She had a couple of lovers as well hubby!

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"Indeed but since I actually enjoy cuckolding I'm in it for the long term anyway so its more like a lease than a rental.

The psychological dynamics of the entire process work for me e.g. the anguish the hubby feels wondering what the wife's feeling in his absence or in his presence, the inadequacy he feels when sees the smile on her face upon receiving a bunch of flowers I sent. A bunch of flowers among other things that leads her to totally submit her body and mind to me later that evening in ways she wouldn't for him.

Its chess really... Mentally rewarding

Wow I never looked at it that ........ My biggest problem with this scenario was finding time to date and cultivate my own relationships...

How do you find time to date single women and hot wives?

There is ample time to date other women because a married couple won't put any demands on the man's time. Our long term playmate of nearly 2 years we see on average every 2 months. There was a gap once for about 6 months during which time he had a vanilla relationship and we were seeing another man. It's casual, it's drama free, there are no demands. If it happens it's great, but if life gets busy it gets put on hold.

Mrs"

Well said - I have been seeing a couple for 2/3 years on/off. Meet up every 2/3 months. As you said, its drama free for all of us. I get to meet a very sexy hotwife and she gets the pleasure of putting on a show for hubby!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that? "

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs"

Have you ever had guys get clingy? I'm sure some guys have developed strong feelings for you...

I like having a drink in a hotel bar with a couple , maybe some dancing , public flirting before we go up to the room ...... but going to dinner, movies, or theater just seems like dating to me ..... Regardless of who is paying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs"

The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs

The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife. "

It's not for everyone. Most men probably join this site to get a free 'fuck and go' experience. But there are a few, who don't want a relationship, so seek out something meaningful with a Hotwife. Who pays for what is actually irrelevant. For example we often have our playmates round to our house for dinner - then it just costs them petrol. The added extras though don't remove the NSA element, because when they go home we can all do what we like. There's no obligation. As I said it's not for everyone, and some guys would prefer to stay at home and wank that have to put in the added extras.

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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife. "

Each to his or her own.

Additionally in some hotwife/cuckold arrangements financial abuse can feature where hubby pays for absolutely everything adding to his humiliation which fuels his excitement.

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"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife.

Each to his or her own.

Additionally in some hotwife/cuckold arrangements financial abuse can feature where hubby pays for absolutely everything adding to his humiliation which fuels his excitement."

I've heard of this.... it's very popular in NYC.....

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs"

Well put - I am shocked that men dont find this while situation extremely horny. I have dated couple of married women. In that we have gone out for dinner, cinema, before the sex. Its fantastic. Get the benefits of hanging out with a sexy lady as well as the sex. The thrill is knowing that she is married and being " slutty". Its. Ahuge turn on for her and her hubby and for me. Of course, I pay when we go out - just as i would if i were going out on a vaniila date.

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over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs The idea of nsa for me is so I don't have to pay for dinner etc or date. NSA is best with couples because of no attachment but why would I bother paying etc for a hot wife when I can just fuck another wife from a couple who aren't into it. No thrill of an affair because he knows already. I just can't see the benefit for the guy, just seens win win for husband and wife.

Each to his or her own.

Additionally in some hotwife/cuckold arrangements financial abuse can feature where hubby pays for absolutely everything adding to his humiliation which fuels his excitement.

I've heard of this.... it's very popular in NYC....."

I think many are forgetting the various layers to swinging and the multitude of ways we can enjoy seducing and being seduced.

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over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs

Have you ever had guys get clingy? I'm sure some guys have developed strong feelings for you...

I like having a drink in a hotel bar with a couple , maybe some dancing , public flirting before we go up to the room ...... but going to dinner, movies, or theater just seems like dating to me ..... Regardless of who is paying "

Interesting question. I have had one guy who I believe fell for me. He didn't put any restrictions on my sexual freedom, but I had reason to believe he didn't like it when I saw others, and I suspected towards the end he wanted to me to become his permanent mistress, although it started off as a threesome arrangement. So I have ended it with him. I wouldn't say this but he is no longer on Fab, so his confidentiality is maintained. The have been 4 other regulars in the past 3 years, none of which I had any issues with regarding clinginess. 2 have now left the scene, and 2 we still play with. I agree, dates such as trips to the theatre is a bit over the top, but each to his own. We have been for drinks or dinner with men and typically take it in turns that's pay, because we have manners. But I do find most men want to pay for dinner or drinks the first time. I have only been on a lone date once with a lover. That was to a naturalist club for which he paid entry and then I paid for a round of drinks in the pub afterwards. My husband also has a lover who he sees about three times a year. He doesn't have to, but it suits him to take her to dinner when they meet. It makes it a more fun evening for him, and he has to eat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs

Well put - I am shocked that men dont find this while situation extremely horny. I have dated couple of married women. In that we have gone out for dinner, cinema, before the sex. Its fantastic. Get the benefits of hanging out with a sexy lady as well as the sex. The thrill is knowing that she is married and being " slutty". Its. Ahuge turn on for her and her hubby and for me. Of course, I pay when we go out - just as i would if i were going out on a vaniila date. "

I'm not shocked that most men don't get it. It's a niche market. Most men are naturally possessive and to put any time or effort into a lady, then exclusivity will certainly be expected, even if this is at the expense of their own personal freedom. I do believe it takes an unusual man to take on a Hotwife, who will never offer a real relationship. But there are some men out there who realise the benefits, and appreciate the regular sex and friendship without the commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs

Well put - I am shocked that men dont find this while situation extremely horny. I have dated couple of married women. In that we have gone out for dinner, cinema, before the sex. Its fantastic. Get the benefits of hanging out with a sexy lady as well as the sex. The thrill is knowing that she is married and being " slutty". Its. Ahuge turn on for her and her hubby and for me. Of course, I pay when we go out - just as i would if i were going out on a vaniila date.

I'm not shocked that most men don't get it. It's a niche market. Most men are naturally possessive and to put any time or effort into a lady, then exclusivity will certainly be expected, even if this is at the expense of their own personal freedom. I do believe it takes an unusual man to take on a Hotwife, who will never offer a real relationship. But there are some men out there who realise the benefits, and appreciate the regular sex and friendship without the commitment. "

You guys seem to have worked out what works best for you and it's obvious to all that your both equally comfortable with the way you run your relationship and that in itself is hot! If there were more couples like you the swinging world would be a much better place. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC

I'd say I was a fucker not a dater. No way i pay for somebody's wife im too cheap! Like renting a really nice house that you wont ever own. That is arrogant to say you do better do the husbands know you think like that?

It's a different way of thinking. Some people will prefer to rent a nice house instead of own it and take on all the obligations that come with ownership. Same way there are some men who would rather borrow someone else's wife or girlfriend than have their own. Some men enjoy going out with a sexy woman without having to contend to having to see her every weekend and not see other women, not to mention all the dramas that a 'real' relationship gives. Yes if a man dates a married woman, he has to accept that she will never be his - but he doesn't want his own wife or girlfriend. This way he gets sex, friendship, affection, fantasy. But he maintains his freedom. He would never get that from a girlfriend or a wife. So to some men, it's worth going the extra mile to get the best of both worlds.

Mrs

Well put - I am shocked that men dont find this while situation extremely horny. I have dated couple of married women. In that we have gone out for dinner, cinema, before the sex. Its fantastic. Get the benefits of hanging out with a sexy lady as well as the sex. The thrill is knowing that she is married and being " slutty". Its. Ahuge turn on for her and her hubby and for me. Of course, I pay when we go out - just as i would if i were going out on a vaniila date.

I'm not shocked that most men don't get it. It's a niche market. Most men are naturally possessive and to put any time or effort into a lady, then exclusivity will certainly be expected, even if this is at the expense of their own personal freedom. I do believe it takes an unusual man to take on a Hotwife, who will never offer a real relationship. But there are some men out there who realise the benefits, and appreciate the regular sex and friendship without the commitment.

You guys seem to have worked out what works best for you and it's obvious to all that your both equally comfortable with the way you run your relationship and that in itself is hot! If there were more couples like you the swinging world would be a much better place. X "

Thank you x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a naughty wife!! happily give me services if required

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

My gorgeous hot wife is out right now with a lover ... I'm so excited as she has promised to send a video of her creampie ... he comes like a horse ( the mrs showed me a clip of him coming and he blow 8 huge spurts ) so the video should be good ??

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"My gorgeous hot wife is out right now with a lover ... I'm so excited as she has promised to send a video of her creampie ... he comes like a horse ( the mrs showed me a clip of him coming and he blow 8 huge spurts ) so the video should be good ?? "

Mine is too. She is in a flat with 3 vwe black guys while in sat outside in chastity waiting to hopefully be called in.

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!

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By *eepsouthCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth


"My gorgeous hot wife is out right now with a lover ... I'm so excited as she has promised to send a video of her creampie ... he comes like a horse ( the mrs showed me a clip of him coming and he blow 8 huge spurts ) so the video should be good ??

Mine is too. She is in a flat with 3 vwe black guys while in sat outside in chastity waiting to hopefully be called in. "

I notice you've been sumond .. let us know what you find please

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm in the living room I'm listening to her moaning. It's so hot.

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Pic on profile of her sucking them off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do men with hot wife's like them playing with fems or cpls ??? Just wondering if it had the same excitement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any hotwife couples near the Darlington area?

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"Do men with hot wife's like them playing with fems or cpls ??? Just wondering if it had the same excitement "

I love playing with couples as long as my cuck is there watching and being humiliated.

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By *reamweaversCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Do men with hot wife's like them playing with fems or cpls ??? Just wondering if it had the same excitement "

Mrs Dw only plays with girls or couples alone....always with me if a single guy.

They are all hot scenarios

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

A guy popped round ours yesterday, I stayed downstairs doing the housework while he fucked her hard on our bed.

I could hear them fucking.

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

We meet and play with couples together, single guys is normally her playtime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the comments xx

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"A guy popped round ours yesterday, I stayed downstairs doing the housework while he fucked her hard on our bed.

I could hear them fucking.

"

I can vouch that I did indeed get a good seeing too!

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By *esicupidsCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"A guy popped round ours yesterday, I stayed downstairs doing the housework while he fucked her hard on our bed.

I could hear them fucking.

"

Sounds amazing; can't wait for us to do that soon

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

She's going to be getting some today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a naughty hot wife

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By *heer_sussexcplCouple
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Hotwifing is something we both are increasingly enjoying. Mrs Sheer adores respectful attention of other guys, preferring regular playmates. Loves to be desired. It works for us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love hotwives. Any in the Sheffield area? Message me.

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By *rKentMan
over a year ago

South East


"Very "hotwife" here"

Indeed!

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

london

I agree with the assertion that a few men (small few) overstand what a hotwife actually is...I personally love it..only had the one hotwife experience so far...i believe it be the horniest knowing a husband is going to see/smell/hear the results of what he missed out on...particularly want to try meeting at a normal bar slash club...for the partner to watch myself and a hotwife interact...us to leave; for him to come and walk in on what's going on...

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By *ilk_TrayMan
over a year ago

South

Most of my meets have come from meeting a hotwife and it's something I enjoy doing.

It's thrilling knowing that a couple have invited you into their sexual relationship for the pleasure of seeing the wife have fun.

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin

I like the freedom of being a hotwife if I see a guy on here I like or if I'm out and a guy takes my eye or is flirting with me it's nice knowing as long as I'm letting mr f know that I have the freedom to persue things further if I choose to.

And also the fact that it will turn my hubby on is a turn on itself. It's great knowing as a married women your still desired by others.

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By *smfuncplCouple
over a year ago

WESTON SUPER MARE


"I like the freedom of being a hotwife if I see a guy on here I like or if I'm out and a guy takes my eye or is flirting with me it's nice knowing as long as I'm letting mr f know that I have the freedom to persue things further if I choose to.

And also the fact that it will turn my hubby on is a turn on

itself. It's great knowing as a married women your still desired by others. "

I could not have said it better

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By *oxyukCouple
over a year ago

hitchin


"I like the freedom of being a hotwife if I see a guy on here I like or if I'm out and a guy takes my eye or is flirting with me it's nice knowing as long as I'm letting mr f know that I have the freedom to persue things further if I choose to.

And also the fact that it will turn my hubby on is a turn on

itself. It's great knowing as a married women your still desired by others.

I could not have said it better"

It's a nice feeling!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do men with hot wife's like them playing with fems or cpls ??? Just wondering if it had the same excitement "

One of the 'scenarios ' Mr has on his must do list is to see me share a cock with another woman

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Hell yes , there's a couple I meet and she is one very sexy hot wife and I can't get enough of her , always waiting to be invited around ,, and her hubby is a great guy and enjoys watching us ans joins in to at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually getting a little bored of the term...much like milf,cougar etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm actually getting a little bored of the term...much like milf,cougar etc"

Why?

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura


"Any Hotwives out there? Why do you love it?"

Here

I love B watching whilst I get fucked, I love it even more when he reclaims my pussy after another man/men have been there.

Soooo horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing hotter than watching my wife play with another man. (Or woman) - but I have to be there to share the experience?

She is sexy!!!!!!!!

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura


"Nothing hotter than watching my wife play with another man. (Or woman) - but I have to be there to share the experience?

She is sexy!!!!!!!!"

Ahh yes I forgot women too he loves to watch me with a woman the best of all. Then he becomes a hot husband when he fucks her after me

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By *outh Wales HotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Hobbiton


"Any Hotwives out there? Why do you love it?"

Love the fact that I am giving myself up to to another man as my hubby watches the results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's not to like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my utmost fav things to do....nothing better than pleasuring someone elses wife whilst hes present xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my utmost fav things to do....nothing better than pleasuring someone elses wife whilst hes present xx"

Yes there is... ...

Hubby fucklicking! Mmmmmmmmmmm

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

We enjoy it. Emms had a date last Thurs in a bar. I was sat close to make sure she was safe but far enough away to avoid suspicion. Was very erotic

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Have another chap coming round this afternoon to give her a good seeing too.

I am at work!

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Have another chap coming round this afternoon to give her a good seeing too.

I am at work! "

Lucky you! Hope it's good fun for everyone involved

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Just been sent a video.

He is really giving it to her!

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Just been sent a video.

He is really giving it to her! "

Lucky her. Lucky him! Lucky you!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It was an amazing afternoon very sexy.

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By *isobedient-Bi-BoudoirCouple
over a year ago

Central london

We love the idea off sharing our fantasies and making them real now we love checking fab together and building new fantasies.

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By *az1Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"A right big turn on knowing what shes out doing but you can't see. Then when she comes home stinking of sex and with a wet pussy (Wether it's the same night or next morning) you just wana get in there yourself

This The exhilaration and anticipation of her getting ready to go out, the emotional roller coaster of whilst she's out and then the intense excitement of the Reconnection "

From a guys point of view it's amazing and extremely erotic too. Knowing that the husband knows or help the wife get ready to meet you and he just watches or stays home no seeing what his wife is dowsing with another man or men.

In some meets I've had the husband didn't ask how it was and nor did the wife tell about her eventful time. Xx

I'm looking for a couple for regular meets. I've been in this scene and the swinging lifestyle for a while now so am quite experienced and got plenty of ideas, some of which I've put on my profile if anyone would like to read x

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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago

Wigan, Lancs.

We love the scene dine it many times also love the cuckold scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that too !!! My wife sitting on my face after being out with another man

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Just been sent a video.

He is really giving it to her! "

Sorry I should have said.

I am said wife

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"Just been sent a video.

He is really giving it to her!

Sorry I should have said.

I am said wife "

n hot u are,(especially with that spunky grin)

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I think it is very niche not many men want to to be taking out somebody's wife for dinner etc. Just fucking them is different this seems a whole other level of intimacy which some think is for the husband or bf only. This seems mire likely to create emotions. What else is in it for the guy who would be taking the wife or gf out except for sex?

I'd class myself as being among the guys who enjoy wining and dining another guys wife. A movie or a play etc. Doing EVERYTHING he should do just better, with finesse and the advantages of being a novel experience for her in that it doesn't happen everday as well as the bonus that comes with being a BBC "

Why would you assume you are doing everything better than the husband? Who are you kidding exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot wife meets are great for us. Enjoying ourselves with a lovely lady and with her hubby watching on and usually taking pics is a great thrill ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!"

Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK


"We enjoy it. Emms had a date last Thurs in a bar. I was sat close to make sure she was safe but far enough away to avoid suspicion. Was very erotic"

god - this is such a hot scenario!

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

It certainly was I won't lie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!

Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. "

. I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hot wife meets are great for us. Enjoying ourselves with a lovely lady and with her hubby watching on and usually taking pics is a great thrill ...."
. Agreed. We love doing this !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!

Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. . I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy "

Maybe I should also broaden mine lol.

I do like meeting the hubby too though ...

Is that after you have already met the guy on previous meet or would your hotwife meet alone first date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!

Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. . I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy "

I'm hoping to date Mrs classy and let the horizon become much brighter. J. X

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well she currently has another houseguest this morning.

Currently giving her a good seeing too.

He has been there since 9am! And they still at it.

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Well she currently has another houseguest this morning.

Currently giving her a good seeing too.

He has been there since 9am! And they still at it. "

Sounds fun They sent you any pics?

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London


"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!

Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. . I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy "

We meet guys as a couple initially and if she likes them she then meets them one to one. She now has four regulars who she sees about once a month each. I babysit and get seconds when she gets home. It works for us

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We love it but don't get out often enough, gladly we are going to club on sat night looking for one or two guys to help us have a good night , maybe more ??

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Yes we are always together as I like to watch take pics or film , she has met two guys on several occasions without me being there no together but she could if she wanted , but we know them and I trust them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who loves it and what does it mean to you?

Mrs "

It's a good excuse to mis behave lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife is a 'Hotwife' and I have no complaints and love watching her being looked after. She has met alone but prefers me to be present to watch her!

Agreed i certainly prefer the husband present ( but have had meets separate too ) it's just a good feel of the husband sharing his wife for a short time gives a very sey scenario to the meet. . I have always been present in the past but we are starting to widen our horizons and she is now encouraged to alone date. Mr Classy

We meet guys as a couple initially and if she likes them she then meets them one to one. She now has four regulars who she sees about once a month each. I babysit and get seconds when she gets home. It works for us "

Likewise, but from the guys side. My first meet is with the couple, then once established and all are comfortable I will meet the lady solo. Hubby loves the anticipation and the moment when his wife returns is electric.

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

My biggest turn on.

I'm fine with her going off on her own, so long as she's safe, but she prefers me to watch as she knows how horny I get.

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By *appy_hedonistMan
over a year ago

Islington


"

We meet guys as a couple initially and if she likes them she then meets them one to one. She now has four regulars who she sees about once a month each. I babysit and get seconds when she gets home. It works for us "

Works for me too. When can we meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just been sent a video.

He is really giving it to her!

Sorry I should have said.

I am said wife "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And you like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot wife... stupidly gorgeous women who are married but get shared. Nine times out of ten they're looking for bigger cocks too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand!!!"

Good for you

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By *erts NNCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Starting our journey into this, hope it lives up to the fantasy. I love seeing wifey all dressed up, makes me feel really proud. Her pleasure is my pleasure.

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I love it. From when she is getting ready to a meet or club. To the very end. Love watching her all night from the chatting to the sex. Its in my wank bank. Lol. And it does mean alot to me. Think about it nearly all the time. Gets me very horny n turned on ??

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By *urpurseCouple
over a year ago

North West

Done it a few times. Very horny indeed. Have to meet the guy first for a MMF. If he's sound he gets to take her out

Sometimes give her a video camera to record the session

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I know. I carnt get enough of it. The more she enjoys the other guy the better. When we talking to him befare anything happens. When she gets wet knowing whats going to happen is amazing.

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By *ife4blackCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Love everything about it, getting dressed up to go out, dating, fun in the bar, around the back of the bar, going out on my own, being watched by my hubby, etc etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love this, sending Mrs off for an evening alone while Mr sits at home and works himself up! The sex afterwards is so hot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone mention hotwife..... love it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something we are lookimg to get into later in the year. We have had many mff, MMF and couples, but we want to move more into hotwifing as well.

Initially we meet for a threesome, then if she's comfortable she starts seeing him alone, then giving me all the details after along with photos and video.

Can't think of anything hotter.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

She had her first

Mfm without me last week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it weird that the reason I like the idea of it is that I'm just another toy for the hotwife to use for her pleasure?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It just wouldn't be swinging withour the sexy hotwives

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotwifing or cuckolding is by far the biggest fun to be had in my book.....to be invited into a couples relationship in this way, be it for a night or an ongoing thing, really can be so much fun...but it MUST be fun for all involved....that includes the hotwifes husband.....no cheating ...just mutual fun and good safe times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More importantly, 21 years ago (before fabswinger was even around) Shooter McGavin blew a 4 shot lead on the back 9 to Happy Gilmore to lose the coveted green jacket. #NeverForget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She had her first

Mfm without me last week.

"

I'd love this but hubby doesn't want to miss out on the fun!

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By *iclassyCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Love being a hotwife.

Also love cuckolding hubby with other bisexual beauties. So wrong but feels so so right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very new to the hot wife thing, and perhaps our version isn't true hot wifing, but we had an mmf the other day and watched her fuck the other guy. Wow is all I can say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is about stealing the neighbour's fibre optic Wi-Fi signal?

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Is about stealing the neighbour's fibre optic Wi-Fi signal?"

could be, i know hot wiring was a big thing before cars were fitted with immobilizers lol

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By *woplusmoreMan
over a year ago

Bath

Agree in full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love the scene dine it many times also love the cuckold scene "

Mmm i do like that as well...maybe we should discuss this further..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's not to like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She had her first

Mfm without me last week.

I'd love this but hubby doesn't want to miss out on the fun!"

Phone him during the meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being a Hotwife but unfortunately there's not been anybody to tickle my fancy in months now! Ideally need somebody local that I can see regularly. Hubby loves hearing about what I get up to. Especially if I come straight home and sit on his face!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a complex and hugely exciting element to add to a relationship. It works for us. Allows for variety in a way that causes no jealousy issues and allows her to explore her sexuality. We've found it difficult to get a guy who understands the hotwife dynamic but once we do really looking forward to progressing it. She's really grown into the role of being a hotwife. Just need the right man or men now.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

It's mainly what we do,, just adding a guy to the mix wether it be me going out alone or hubby being there and sharing me,, it's the hottest thing ever!!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Often Garry picks the men and the number of men I will play with on a meet.

After that I choose what I will do and how far I will go with them

At all meets we are both there enjoying the action

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Just to add, if I go out alone I get the guy to video us,, you wouldn't believe how many can't manage that,, even if it's just the facial at the end, last one started shaking just before he was cumming and switched phone off,, that's the part hubby builds up to when watching the vid too x

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge

From my own experiences, when meet a hotwife whilst hubby is in the office, I've found it quite fun to play along and to pose with Ms Wife.

Hubby's up and down the land must be sitting attentatively at their desks with a huge swelling looking at all the naughty images the wife is sending.

Its the fun of the chase!

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

We love it N met up with a guy last Friday while I was at work, it's such a mind fuck not knowing what they are up to I found it so hard to concentrate. The only contact I had with her the entire afternoon was one text I sent to ask if she was ok then nothing until later that evening when she got home with a big smile on her face

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

We love this, but always together. He loves watching almost as much as I enjoy extra cock.

Always wear my HW anklet for weekend shopping trips. Lots of looks but not been chatted up so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We love this, but always together. He loves watching almost as much as I enjoy extra cock.

Always wear my HW anklet for weekend shopping trips. Lots of looks but not been chatted up so far. "

Love the anklet. Where did you yet it? Think we'll get one for holiday.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Very new to the hot wife thing, and perhaps our version isn't true hot wifing, but we had an mmf the other day and watched her fuck the other guy. Wow is all I can say!"

This is how we see it, always together but it can be 3 or more of us or M watching..., a huge turn on for both of us and we have the most incredible sex when we get home!

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