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By *ittleAcorn OP   Man
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think personally depending on your situation I.e if your single then I think it's nice to have that NSA sex and play, but also show that side that your not just after free sex and have a bit of that. Not for everyone, but again depends on your situations.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Yeah I would take one of those

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Cuddling for a bit after sex yes but an evening of it? No thanks

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I have met friends off here for chat and cuddle in rough times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddling for a bit after sex yes but an evening of it? No thanks "

How about if one of your regular FB said hey come around to mine, I'll cook you a nice dinner watch a film of your choice, cuddle up few glasses of wine and maybe get naughty later, totally NSA.

?

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."

I've had lots of cuddle only meets

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Cuddling for a bit after sex yes but an evening of it? No thanks

How about if one of your regular FB said hey come around to mine, I'll cook you a nice dinner watch a film of your choice, cuddle up few glasses of wine and maybe get naughty later, totally NSA.

?"

Yes why not

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'd quite like one of those currently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah. I get my cuddles from the man I love. ...he won't get turned on by me meeting another guy for a hug

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."

Nice idea. I have done that sometimes with my regular FWBs, but unlikely to do that with a one-off meet on Fabs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It works if you're not in the mood but need some company. Surprisingly guys want that too sometimes. Just a chilling out meet.

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By *uilder506Man
over a year ago

bognor


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."

I think this an excellent idea tbh.

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be quite happy to stay in with a regular friend but all the cuddling with someone I fancied would lead to more & if it didn't I'd be feeling a tad frustrated.

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Single blokes need cuddles too...

I don't always feel like Godzilla on viagra.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes why not

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Everyone needs a cuddle sometimes. Xx

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Da fuq?!!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Da fuq?!!

"

Fuckin' heard it all now

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Cuddling for a bit after sex yes but an evening of it? No thanks

How about if one of your regular FB said hey come around to mine, I'll cook you a nice dinner watch a film of your choice, cuddle up few glasses of wine and maybe get naughty later, totally NSA.

?"

Well yes but that's not what the thread is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd quite like one of those currently."

Hey after reading your profile , I've got great arms that give a great cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be quite happy to stay in with a regular friend but all the cuddling with someone I fancied would lead to more & if it didn't I'd be feeling a tad frustrated."

Well this is kinda what's getting me scratching my head as I only meet those whose clothes I want to rip off and do filthy things with. ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is such a thing as a cuddle party. Like a huggly pygama party.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Da fuq?!!

"

Come on sweetheart, cuddle into me whilst we look at all the pretty boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Throw in a good movie and plenty snacks and I'm all in

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

booby cuddles are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't but that's because I'm married and get all my cuddles from him.

If I were single I don't think I could just cuddle with a guy off here though. I only meet guys I fancy and if I fancy you I'm wanting a lot more than a cuddle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddle meets sound awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever comes to join us will enjoy plenty of cuddles should they so desire.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

I do good snuggles, just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do often wake up cuddling strangers or bottles. JS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do good snuggles, just saying "

We'll save you some for your visit

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I do good snuggles, just saying

We'll save you some for your visit "

Delighted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddling is NEVER just cuddling.

If you kiss then can guarantee a tiny spark happens and next thing you know his hand is on your boob and his dick is in your chuff.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Cuddling is NEVER just cuddling.

If you kiss then can guarantee a tiny spark happens and next thing you know his hand is on your boob and his dick is in your chuff.

"

Oh! Your posts are just!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I can definitely see where you are coming from OP.

I have been single for most of the last 7 years. Whilst I find no shortage of naughty fun I do sometimes miss the quiet evenings snuggled up on the sofa together.

I'm not sure I would want that from a fab meet though. Unless its someone I have had repeated meets with before I don't think it would feel right.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."
always have cuddle time with my meets, yeah i've watched films and listened to music...usually end up playing too, but plenty of affection goes on..just dont choose fuck and go meets..nsa can mean different things to different people x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give good cwtches

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could do with a big cuddle at the minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only the Welsh know how to cwtch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for that, and I give great cuddles

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Throw in a good movie and plenty snacks and I'm all in "

Exactly this, we've always said if we had a regular fwb & we or they were down we'd meet just to try & raise spirits etc.

But not for a one off meet..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to have a cuddle buddy

We would sit and watch movies chat shit etc

We would call on each other if we was going through bad times

Sadly he has moved away. But I do miss it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go for it.I miss close (non sexual) physical affection more than I do sex!

But it has to be with someone you have an attraction to, as well as knowing well , so couldn't really imagine doing it with someone from Fab on an initial meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

What a great idea x just cuddling up chilling listening to music or watching tv , great idea

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."

Yes. Done it and would do again

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Cuddling for a bit after sex yes but an evening of it? No thanks "

How about a nice game of 'just the tip'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time."

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I used to cuddle one of my fb's. We'd sit n chat n watch a film or something having a cuddle before we went to bed n played - sometimes we would just cuddle n sleep but play in the morning

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By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

Yes love the sound of it, although I am quite affectionate on my meets

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I used to cuddle one of my fb's. We'd sit n chat n watch a film or something having a cuddle before we went to bed n played - sometimes we would just cuddle n sleep but play in the morning "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did one of those last week XXX

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By *ittleAcorn OP   Man
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Thanks for all the input, glad I wasn't laughed out of town!

Yes, I didn't really think it would fit a first meet. That would be a bit odd probably.

But, with someone you have met previously and had a nice time with.

Obviously cuddles can always turn into something else. But it's not a given.

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By *ittleAcorn OP   Man
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all."

I agree with you on the whole, and I think most people would put the sex as a number one requirement.

However, for an evening of cuddles, you need a bit of skin in the game (usually), and if one is not looking for a relationship that can be difficult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be up for a only cuddle (cutch) meet can't beat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.

I agree with you on the whole, and I think most people would put the sex as a number one requirement.

However, for an evening of cuddles, you need a bit of skin in the game (usually), and if one is not looking for a relationship that can be difficult.

"

POF gives you the option of....

Wants to date but nothing serious

That should cover all your bases.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"I give good cwtches "

Yes, yes you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the input, glad I wasn't laughed out of town!

Yes, I didn't really think it would fit a first meet. That would be a bit odd probably.

But, with someone you have met previously and had a nice time with.

Obviously cuddles can always turn into something else. But it's not a given.

"

ah....but that doesn't fit with your title of cuddle only meets. You've changed the goalposts.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

Sounds great to me, I miss cuddles

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all."
actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo"

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle.

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By *ittleAcorn OP   Man
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Thanks for all the input, glad I wasn't laughed out of town!

Yes, I didn't really think it would fit a first meet. That would be a bit odd probably.

But, with someone you have met previously and had a nice time with.

Obviously cuddles can always turn into something else. But it's not a given.

ah....but that doesn't fit with your title of cuddle only meets. You've changed the goalposts. "

True, but unless you agreed it was only a "cuddle meet" and nothing else. The mood could take you, not saying it would, just that it could.

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By *ittleAcorn OP   Man
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"Sounds great to me, I miss cuddles "

I'm starting to think there may be a gap in the market for FABCuddlers.com

Better go squat on that domain quick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm inclined to take this theory/question a little further and propose this.

What about a cuddle event. one where you go down with the intention of spreading cuddles to unknowns. You can trade and all payments are in timed cuddles of varying degrees. the social is followed by a screening of a movie where you have to have a cuddle partner or more. no loan watchers and cuddles have to include at least one person you've met for the first time that night.

I think that would be an interesting social experiment. and a laugh of a night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may seem weird, but cuddles are reserved for those I'm close with. Fucking is first, then the cuddles come when we're fully comfortable with each other. How quickly we reach the cuddle stage depends on our connection.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. "
thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?"

This is a swingers site where people join look for sex with other like minded people.

If you are looking for someone to cuddle with then a swingers site isnt the place for that .

If company and cuddles is all your looking for then you need to be on a dating site.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"This may seem weird, but cuddles are reserved for those I'm close with. Fucking is first, then the cuddles come when we're fully comfortable with each other. How quickly we reach the cuddle stage depends on our connection. "

Haha, yes, there has to be 'cuddle chemistry'. Some people I am happy to cuddle from the get go - others it just doesn't feel right, but I far prefer it when there is a LOT of cuddling!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

This is a swingers site where people join look for sex with other like minded people.

If you are looking for someone to cuddle with then a swingers site isnt the place for that .

If company and cuddles is all your looking for then you need to be on a dating site."

Nah, they only want sex on those....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

This is a swingers site where people join look for sex with other like minded people.

If you are looking for someone to cuddle with then a swingers site isnt the place for that .

If company and cuddles is all your looking for then you need to be on a dating site.

Nah, they only want sex on those.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pay for cuddles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why pay.. I give them for free. I love cuddles.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

This is a swingers site where people join look for sex with other like minded people.

If you are looking for someone to cuddle with then a swingers site isnt the place for that .

If company and cuddles is all your looking for then you need to be on a dating site."
well youre not meeting by having your profile hidden so i guess you shouldnt be here either as you arent looking for sex this instant..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?"

I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles"

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By *elshman52Man
over a year ago

North Wales

I miss cuddling more than sex since being single. In some ways it can be more intimate and is certainly more relaxing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles""

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Da fuq?!!

Come on sweetheart, cuddle into me whilst we look at all the pretty boys "

I am not a huggy person

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ri5S4Hcq0nY

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles""
yeah but what they get and what they want, may not actually be the same thing..

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

If I'm being absolutely honest op - yes and no!

Sounds great and would love an evening of snuggling up in front of a film/takeaway etc!

In reality though, if I find him sexually attractive, at some stage I'm going to be after his cock!

How about 80%snuggles 20% sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They should add cuddles to the list of interests

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By *iz78Woman
over a year ago

wirral

Oh i do miss having a pair of strong arms to snuggle into.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles""

Yeah, but who gives a damn lol, let people ask for what they want - there seem to be plenty of 'swingers' who feel the same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may seem weird, but cuddles are reserved for those I'm close with. Fucking is first, then the cuddles come when we're fully comfortable with each other. How quickly we reach the cuddle stage depends on our connection.

Haha, yes, there has to be 'cuddle chemistry'. Some people I am happy to cuddle from the get go - others it just doesn't feel right, but I far prefer it when there is a LOT of cuddling! "

I totally agree, it's so good when the chemistry is there and you want to be cuddling during and after sex...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...


"Da fuq?!!

Come on sweetheart, cuddle into me whilst we look at all the pretty boys

I am not a huggy person

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ri5S4Hcq0nY"

You would look divine in that outfit though. Ok let's just look at the pretties then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to have cuddles on a meet, but I wouldn't have a meet just for cuddles only.

I have a husband at home for that. I'm on here to get the fun that I can't elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This may seem weird, but cuddles are reserved for those I'm close with. Fucking is first, then the cuddles come when we're fully comfortable with each other. How quickly we reach the cuddle stage depends on our connection.

Haha, yes, there has to be 'cuddle chemistry'. Some people I am happy to cuddle from the get go - others it just doesn't feel right, but I far prefer it when there is a LOT of cuddling!

I totally agree, it's so good when the chemistry is there and you want to be cuddling during and after sex... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why pay.. I give them for free. I love cuddles."

I'd prefer something else as well as cuddles, all for free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very arousing and pleasant as long as naked spooning was involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles"

Yeah, but who gives a damn lol, let people ask for what they want - there seem to be plenty of 'swingers' who feel the same!"

I wonder if this is unique to those that use the forum? I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god!

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles"

Yeah, but who gives a damn lol, let people ask for what they want - there seem to be plenty of 'swingers' who feel the same!

I wonder if this is unique to those that use the forum? I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! "
better than a faf message imo...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of guys in here will say any old shit to try and gain favour from the women in hope of getting a meet.

Its like when when a women says to a guy just before hes sticks his cock in her..

Her.. your not just using me for sex are you ? And I am going to see you again ?

Him...No of course I'm not using you for Sex. I really like you and I'll take you out next week somewhere nice.

After hes shot his muck hes up dressed and off! Never to be seen again. Unless he needs his sack emptying again and no one else is available.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've just looked at a guys profile, it says he's looking for a cuddle buddy. It takes all sorts on here and that's what I like about it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I am curious about whether anyone here thinks there is room for the above in the "Swinging", "NSA" itinerary?

I guess probably more relevant if you have a regular FWB either through here or elsewhere.

But would you just meet for a nice evening of watching telly and cuddling?

I think it would be a pleasant alternative once in a while. But do realise that a) it's probably not what most people are looking for b) time is a problem for many, so it may be seen as a waste of time.

Why would someone who only wants a cuddle and company join a swingers site ??

Theres plenty of dating sites around if thats what your predominantly looking for.

This is a swingers site which is mainly sex focused thats why people join.. To meet people to have sex with.

If its cuddling and company your looking for I suggest a dating site not a sexually focused site like FAB.

My personal opinion on your topic thats all.actually swinging..is predominantly social, with the intention of finding compatible people with the possibility of sexual activity...i dont think a lot of people get the difference, between sex sites and the swinging lifestyle/ sites...imo

neither is swinging singles meeting up to watch a film and have a cuddle. thats not the same as a social?? social activities can include many things..surely up to people what they do socially and or sexually..what about soft swapping?..is that swinging then? surely cuddling would come under soft play?

I can guarantee if you were to survey 100 totally random people and ask them what swinging is, none of them will say "meeting people for cuddles"

Yeah, but who gives a damn lol, let people ask for what they want - there seem to be plenty of 'swingers' who feel the same!

I wonder if this is unique to those that use the forum? I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! "

Me neither but don't worry, I'm sure it wont hurt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting for just cuddles would be like a a cheeseburger without the burger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! better than a faf message imo..."

both would get equally ignored by me

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Alot of guys in here will say any old shit to try and gain favour from the women in hope of getting a meet.

Its like when when a women says to a guy just before hes sticks his cock in her..

Her.. your not just using me for sex are you ? And I am going to see you again ?

Him...No of course I'm not using you for Sex. I really like you and I'll take you out next week somewhere nice.

After hes shot his muck hes up dressed and off! Never to be seen again. Unless he needs his sack emptying again and no one else is available.

"
you have a poor opinion of your species...muck..how derogatory to your own bodily fluids..glad i dont have your outlook on men..,,

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"Alot of guys in here will say any old shit to try and gain favour from the women in hope of getting a meet.

Its like when when a women says to a guy just before hes sticks his cock in her..

Her.. your not just using me for sex are you ? And I am going to see you again ?

Him...No of course I'm not using you for Sex. I really like you and I'll take you out next week somewhere nice.

After hes shot his muck hes up dressed and off! Never to be seen again. Unless he needs his sack emptying again and no one else is available.

"

Never happened to me

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


" I've never had a message asking if we can meet for a cuddle. Ever....thank god! better than a faf message imo...

both would get equally ignored by me "
yeah i can see that..x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes I enjoy them

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

I'd love one I really miss my partner and cuddles since we broke up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a lot of ladies in this thread I would love to cuddle...

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

No. That is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why pay.. I give them for free. I love cuddles."

Ok sign me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd honestly love that lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I put a thread up last year ....I found an article on line for people to pay for a cuddle buddy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddling is NEVER just cuddling.

If you kiss then can guarantee a tiny spark happens and next thing you know his hand is on your boob and his dick is in your chuff."

I disagree - we guys aren't all the same.

I was pleasantly surprised by an invitation to cuddle, from a very nice lady - and it made a lovely change, drifting happily off to sleep, with a warm snuggle buddy.

Not even a hint of dick-in-chuff.

I love the concept of a cuddle party... sounds like great fun. (I prefer a friendly cwtch, to a cold, random fuck).

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By *T_3Man
over a year ago

Leatherhead

Not my usual modus operandi but hey, why not? A cuddle, a bottle of wine and a movie might be nice. Count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles did someone mention cuddles. I love them. I meet a guy off here at his place, walk into his bedroom get undressed and hop straight into his bed with him, put a movie on and we just cuddle up and watch it. It's not always about the sex each time we meet.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

I'm naturally a warm and cuddly person

Have done this on regular meets. Nice to enjoy each others bodies but beware, spooning leads to forking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cuddles did someone mention cuddles. I love them. I meet a guy off here at his place, walk into his bedroom get undressed and hop straight into his bed with him, put a movie on and we just cuddle up and watch it. It's not always about the sex each time we meet."

Sounds perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about if your the big spoon. hahaha

But i agree a good hug/spoon is really sexy.

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Cuddling after sex- yes.

Cuddling with fuck buddies - depends.

That being said, I was on a meet with a friend from here at a club and we both fell asleep in the porn cinema cuddling lol

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By *aptivatingWoman
over a year ago

Chester

If I were happy that we both knew where we stood, then these would be blissful! I just wouldn't want to be getting things confused, my fuck buddies are special people who I have a very specific dynamic with and I wouldn't want to damage that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore cuddles. I would be happy to meet someone just for a cuddle...and a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in need of a hug today

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