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"Awwwwww" That's me being nice, it won't last long so lake the most of it! Ruby | |||
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"I've just been thinking about life on fab, which I enjoy incredibly- and the great times but also the few let downs that we've encountered so far such as; - sending a face pic to a guy and being told I'm not his type - people not turning up to meets - being ghosted after arranging a future meet - generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard Now I'm not the insecure type anyway so none of these have bothered me, a slight irritant at most. However I do think that being part of a couple does help with that, doing this with someone I love means I've always got a backup plan and great sex on the cards, and him being the main focus of my world makes anything else secondary and so I feel it sort of protects me from any feelings of rejection if someone rejects me/us or generally buggers us around. Which then got me thinking, we do have a lot of 'woe is me' threads on here and I'll be the first to admit that I've not been overly sympathetic (and yes some posters really don't do themselves any favours), but... I can understand that if you are dealing with rejection on here over and over again and get messed about over and over again, and are doing it all as a single then it really can't be easy, or good for the soul. Some of us deal with it all wonderfully and with good grace, and some of us struggle with it, (and understandably now I've actually thought about it,). So I apologise to every tut I've made to a woe is me thread and promise to be a little more understanding in future. Well maybe for a while, I've also got a very short memory and fuck all patience!
Ruby"This is an awesome post... yep must admit I have had some very poor meets along the way.. of which I won't put on here lol | |||
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"I've just been thinking about life on fab, which I enjoy incredibly- and the great times but also the few let downs that we've encountered so far such as; - sending a face pic to a guy and being told I'm not his type - people not turning up to meets - being ghosted after arranging a future meet - generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard Now I'm not the insecure type anyway so none of these have bothered me, a slight irritant at most. However I do think that being part of a couple does help with that, doing this with someone I love means I've always got a backup plan and great sex on the cards, and him being the main focus of my world makes anything else secondary and so I feel it sort of protects me from any feelings of rejection if someone rejects me/us or generally buggers us around. Which then got me thinking, we do have a lot of 'woe is me' threads on here and I'll be the first to admit that I've not been overly sympathetic (and yes some posters really don't do themselves any favours), but... I can understand that if you are dealing with rejection on here over and over again and get messed about over and over again, and are doing it all as a single then it really can't be easy, or good for the soul. Some of us deal with it all wonderfully and with good grace, and some of us struggle with it, (and understandably now I've actually thought about it,). So I apologise to every tut I've made to a woe is me thread and promise to be a little more understanding in future. Well maybe for a while, I've also got a very short memory and fuck all patience!
Ruby
This is an awesome post... yep must admit I have had some very poor meets along the way.. of which I won't put on here lol"It must be a miracle to never have a bad meet! Ruby | |||
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"Yep must be impossible but does help with future choices" Well yes all of our shoddy experiences have been learning Experiences for the future! Ruby | |||
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"Yep must be impossible but does help with future choices Well yes all of our shoddy experiences have been learning Experiences for the future! Ruby" I just tried to message but you have guys blocked | |||
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I never feel sorry for myself. I just try mixing it up a bit. Fabs is a weird place at the best of times so you just got to roll with it.  | |||
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" - generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard Ruby" I think some women fail to understand the pressure a man have to perform. | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" " It happens | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens " It really does | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens It really does" Yep, and to say a meet was shit because of it is, well, pretty fucking shit really...... | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens " Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby"Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy "I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't.  | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy
I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't. "to the world to see that he was shit | |||
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I never feel sorry for myself. I just try mixing it up a bit. Fabs is a weird place at the best of times so you just got to roll with it. " | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy
I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't.
to the world to see that he was shit"Allright! chill your beans are you bitter or something? Were you one of them? Ruby | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens It really does Yep, and to say a meet was shit because of it is, well, pretty fucking shit really......" It's shit for both sides though | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy
I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't.
to the world to see that he was shit
Allright! chill your beans are you bitter or something? Were you one of them?
Ruby
"I'll answer your style: 'Yes, don't you remember? we had a shit meet due to the fact that you couldn't give me an hard on' | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens It really does Yep, and to say a meet was shit because of it is, well, pretty fucking shit really...... It's shit for both sides though " Thanks love
Especially when they've spent weeks bigging up the fucking they're going to give you, or the countless people who have approached me in a group situation in a club with a floppy cock that doesn't do anything and expect me to spend hours attending to it when I have numerous other cocks to attend to, just don't bring it over until it's ready for the game please!
That being said ...I've apologised for being a cunt above and accepted that I need to be more understanding but it's clearly easier for folk to jump on the bandwagon of deciding that I'm a bitch!
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy
I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't.
to the world to see that he was shit
Allright! chill your beans are you bitter or something? Were you one of them?
Ruby
I'll answer your style: 'Yes, don't you remember? we had a shit meet due to the fact that you couldn't give me an hard on' "I wouldn't remember - most of my meets have been gangbangs/bukkake sessions and if You can't perform at one of those then don't turn up! There's no time for sensuous caressing! Ruby | |||
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"some of us don't have these problems, had one guy lose his erection when it came to the condom, but mostly it's been good on here as a single, although i whinge about other stuff. i'm more sympathetic to men than when i first joined and can understand their need to vent, if i was male i reckon i'd have stayed a few weeks and just not bothered trying any more so left." Yeah me too, it really can't be good for the soul to have to deal with the cacophony of single male issues on here Ruby | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy
I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't.
to the world to see that he was shit
Allright! chill your beans are you bitter or something? Were you one of them?
Ruby
I'll answer your style: 'Yes, don't you remember? we had a shit meet due to the fact that you couldn't give me an hard on'
I wouldn't remember - most of my meets have been gangbangs/bukkake sessions and if You can't perform at one of those then don't turn up! There's no time for sensuous caressing!
Ruby"Yes, it sort of points your set of mind, and how you see other as sexual commodities. So if they can't perform, they ain't good! Yet you get frustrated when being rejected after sending your face picture. | |||
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"some of us don't have these problems, had one guy lose his erection when it came to the condom, but mostly it's been good on here as a single, although i whinge about other stuff. i'm more sympathetic to men than when i first joined and can understand their need to vent, if i was male i reckon i'd have stayed a few weeks and just not bothered trying any more so left. Yeah me too, it really can't be good for the soul to have to deal with the cacophony of single male issues on here Ruby"
on the other hand it's nice to be in an environment where women hold more control over their own sexuality. | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy
I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't.
to the world to see that he was shit
Allright! chill your beans are you bitter or something? Were you one of them?
Ruby
I'll answer your style: 'Yes, don't you remember? we had a shit meet due to the fact that you couldn't give me an hard on'
I wouldn't remember - most of my meets have been gangbangs/bukkake sessions and if You can't perform at one of those then don't turn up! There's no time for sensuous caressing!
Ruby
Yes, it sort of points your set of mind, and how you see other as sexual commodities. So if they can't perform, they ain't good!
Yet you get frustrated when being rejected after sending your face picture."Seriously, you expect anyone at a bukkake session to see anyone (myself included) as anything other than a sexual commodity? Get a grip Ruby | |||
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"some of us don't have these problems, had one guy lose his erection when it came to the condom, but mostly it's been good on here as a single, although i whinge about other stuff. i'm more sympathetic to men than when i first joined and can understand their need to vent, if i was male i reckon i'd have stayed a few weeks and just not bothered trying any more so left. Yeah me too, it really can't be good for the soul to have to deal with the cacophony of single male issues on here Ruby
on the other hand it's nice to be in an environment where women hold more control over their own sexuality."Very true Ruby | |||
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"The highs make up for the lows xx It does get a bit shit for a single when my time gets wasted, but I'm not here looking for the love of my life and I've learned to take it all in my stride. Finding a reliable regular is a godsend though xxx " Yeah I'm starting to think that regulars are the way forward! Ruby | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy
I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't.
to the world to see that he was shit
Allright! chill your beans are you bitter or something? Were you one of them?
Ruby
I'll answer your style: 'Yes, don't you remember? we had a shit meet due to the fact that you couldn't give me an hard on'
I wouldn't remember - most of my meets have been gangbangs/bukkake sessions and if You can't perform at one of those then don't turn up! There's no time for sensuous caressing!
Ruby
Yes, it sort of points your set of mind, and how you see other as sexual commodities. So if they can't perform, they ain't good!
Yet you get frustrated when being rejected after sending your face picture.
Seriously, you expect anyone at a bukkake session to see anyone (myself included) as anything other than a sexual commodity?
Get a grip
Ruby"The fact you have been rejected after sending your face picture, reveals that some people who attend a bukkake still need to be attracted to the person they will shag. Get a grip, we can't please them all love | |||
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"You lost me when you said; "generally shit meets such as blokes not being able to get hard" It happens Yeah you are right it happens, it just seems to happen more often than not. I think the more people big themselves (or me)up in the build up the more likely they are not to be able to get it up. Sorry for being a cunt (again) I've clearly got something else I need to be more understanding of! Anyway, got a meet with a hot guy out of this post so it's not all bad
Ruby
Hopefully he'll keep his dick hard for you to be happy
I'm sure she'll post about it if he can't.
to the world to see that he was shit
Allright! chill your beans are you bitter or something? Were you one of them?
Ruby
I'll answer your style: 'Yes, don't you remember? we had a shit meet due to the fact that you couldn't give me an hard on'
I wouldn't remember - most of my meets have been gangbangs/bukkake sessions and if You can't perform at one of those then don't turn up! There's no time for sensuous caressing!
Ruby
Yes, it sort of points your set of mind, and how you see other as sexual commodities. So if they can't perform, they ain't good!
Yet you get frustrated when being rejected after sending your face picture.
Seriously, you expect anyone at a bukkake session to see anyone (myself included) as anything other than a sexual commodity?
Get a grip
Ruby
The fact you have been rejected after sending your face picture, reveals that some people who attend a bukkake still need to be attracted to the person they will shag.
Get a grip, we can't please them all love
"The face pic sent wasn't for a bukkake session. It was for a private meet - and I never said it bothered me, (as explained in my post), i was just listing it was one of the things that happens on fab that isn't positive, and that singles often complain about having to deal with on the forums. This however, was meant to be a positive post so please stop trying to turn it into something it's not. I've apologised and really you are making a very big deal out of nothing. Although if you wish to continue advertising that you have trouble getting it up, be my guest. Ruby | |||
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