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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My gf has been getting close to a guy she works with.

She said all they have done is kiss ... but they meet for drinks quite alot.

Can this be true?..

Should i let it run its course or stop it?

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By *oodles948Man
over a year ago

Stoke on trent

Let it happen

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

... time to kick her to the kerb ...shes making a fool out of you ..

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Is the "occasional playmate" mentioned on your profile your gf or someone else?

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is obviously playing you mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My gf has been getting close to a guy she works with.

She said all they have done is kiss ... but they meet for drinks quite alot.

Can this be true?..

Should i let it run its course or stop it?"

get in the quick mate, resolve this. Kissing then drinks! Only thing left is f___

Oh oh

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By *rSlim92Man
over a year ago

York

Regardless of what has happened up to this point, the fact that they continue to keep going for drinks indicates that they want more to come of this. Unless it's something you and your gf want to happen you need to let her go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit of me wants it to happen ..bit not ..we have swung before but only together..

Do u think a girl who swings is more likely to cheat? ..

I asked if she is gonna fuck and she said no..we dont live together ..only see each other at the weekends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My gf has been getting close to a guy she works with.

She said all they have done is kiss ... but they meet for drinks quite alot.

Can this be true?..

Should i let it run its course or stop it?"

Walk away now... unless youse have an open relationship...

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre


"My gf has been getting close to a guy she works with.

She said all they have done is kiss ... but they meet for drinks quite alot.

Can this be true?..

Should i let it run its course or stop it?

Walk away now... unless youse have an open relationship... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of me wants it to happen ..bit not ..we have swung before but only together..

Do u think a girl who swings is more likely to cheat? ..

I asked if she is gonna fuck and she said no..we dont live together ..only see each other at the weekends"

Do you think she can be trusted ?

Trust is good but checking is better

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I asked her if it has only been kissing she said yes .. she just likes the flirt and attention..and says she wouldn't go furter cos they work together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked her if it has only been kissing she said yes .. she just likes the flirt and attention..and says she wouldn't go furter cos they work together "

She is playing you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I asked her if it has only been kissing she said yes .. she just likes the flirt and attention..and says she wouldn't go furter cos they work together "

Mate, looking at you, he's either mental or has got a death wish. Seriously though, if it's not something you both agreed on,I can see why you're concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only kissed ? Am I being really dense or is that still not something she's done behind your back ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only kissed ? Am I being really dense or is that still not something she's done behind your back ?"

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If they are both on here and it is all part of the games you might play and enjoy from being on here then let it continue but I am guessing that this is a friendship that has grown from a working relationship and has nothing to do with swinging in which case it is time to consider your options and either speak to her about stopping it or get rid of her this has all the makings of ending in tears.

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By *istyblue1967Man
over a year ago

manchester

swingers dont work together

they are work mates you say ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me and her are dating ...he is just a guy from her work not here...

My gut feeling is no she hasn't fucked only kissed like she said. .cos i said she can be honest and tell the truth its ok

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

You look like you can handle your self.

Givd the guy a smack and bin her off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dump her so she sleeps with other people then try to get her back ...

Oh wait that's your other thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dump her so she sleeps with other people then try to get her back ...

Oh wait that's your other thread "

You're very cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dump her so she sleeps with other people then try to get her back ...

Oh wait that's your other thread

You're very cheeky "

Simple mistake to make

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"My gf has been getting close to a guy she works with.

She said all they have done is kiss ... but they meet for drinks quite alot.

Can this be true?..

Should i let it run its course or stop it?"

Fuck her off and then open another thread how you should dump her and try and win her back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My gf has been getting close to a guy she works with.

She said all they have done is kiss ... but they meet for drinks quite alot.

Can this be true?..

Should i let it run its course or stop it?"

If love to see what this bloke looks like? You have a pretty athletic and chissled body fella. What does your gf see with this other guy from work? .

I don't get it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My gf has been getting close to a guy she works with.

She said all they have done is kiss ... but they meet for drinks quite alot.

Can this be true?..

Should i let it run its course or stop it?

If love to see what this bloke looks like? You have a pretty athletic and chissled body fella. What does your gf see with this other guy from work? .

I don't get it... "

Perhaps the bloke from work doesn't start thread with strangers about dumping her ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A green arrow delight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My gf has been getting close to a guy she works with.

She said all they have done is kiss ... but they meet for drinks quite alot.

Can this be true?..

Should i let it run its course or stop it?

If love to see what this bloke looks like? You have a pretty athletic and chissled body fella. What does your gf see with this other guy from work? .

I don't get it... "
lol maybe he should dump her n you two get together????Enjoy some chizzled n athletic fun? Lol if that's the only quality's some one has,ain't much,!

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield


".and says she wouldn't go furter cos they work together "

It's all about the wording. If this is the ONLY reason then you have issues mate.

Unless it's a thing that you're happy with not just "part of you" then put a stop cos if the part of you that doesn't want it to happen turns out to be bigger than the part that does, it can never be undone!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... time to kick her to the kerb ...shes making a fool out of you .. "

I couldn't agree more.

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