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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I know there's a lot of dry October and dry January in terms of laying off the booze but how the hell do you end up spending the first month of the year sex less? I know there's 9 days left of this month so I'm clinging on in right now but this seems to be an annual problem. I've only had 1 epic January in about a decade!

Any tips or hints to make it a fun filled fuck fest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so many lovely sexy people on here. Choose someone, arrange a meet and go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's so many lovely sexy people on here. Choose someone, arrange a meet and go for it "

easier said than done but worth it when you meet someone.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs? "

Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?

Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ..."

Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"There's so many lovely sexy people on here. Choose someone, arrange a meet and go for it "

Yeah I've been swinging for 10 years. The amount of fakes now on here is unreal. I've put up meets. I've messaged guys/couples after searching and nothing

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?

Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...

Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs? "

If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet the people you've already met for round 2,3,4

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Meet the people you've already met for round 2,3,4"

I would if they were local! My fb is in France....and the others I've met none of us are ever free at same time and that's not for want of trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha for some reason I refused to let January go dry. But I am sure come February it will go downhill.

The only thing I can suggest is u choose one of the lovely guys from here. Yes sometimes it's a needle in a haystack but it's simple enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking at your pics I don't understand why guys would mess you around, you just made my hotlist

If it's any consolation, I'm going without until April

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?

Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...

Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?

If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something. "

When I was actively playing o rarely had a no show. Must must have been lucky.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

Dry month.i have had a dry decade

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Your not the only one if that is any consolation, men chat and you think 'oh hello there, this might become interesting ' then they disappear......so I'm back to square one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?

Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...

Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?

If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something. "

I've only had 1 no show in 4 years. Maybe you should change your criteria when choosing men.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"There's so many lovely sexy people on here. Choose someone, arrange a meet and go for it

Yeah I've been swinging for 10 years. The amount of fakes now on here is unreal. I've put up meets. I've messaged guys/couples after searching and nothing "

Thought it was only men who faced these issues.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?

Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...

Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?

If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something.

I've only had 1 no show in 4 years. Maybe you should change your criteria when choosing men."

Totally Agree

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Looking at your pics I don't understand why guys would mess you around, you just made my hotlist

If it's any consolation, I'm going without until April "

why thank you

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Haha for some reason I refused to let January go dry. But I am sure come February it will go downhill.

The only thing I can suggest is u choose one of the lovely guys from here. Yes sometimes it's a needle in a haystack but it's simple enough "

I'm trying...If one more person (Male usually) tells me to drop my standards I might have implode. You can't fuck what you don't find attractive

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Arrange more meets? Go to clubs?

Meets cancel and I go to clubs. ...

Arrange better meets? Play more when you go to clubs?

If I was attracted to anyone at clubs I would but I won't play for the sake of playing. How on earth do you arrange better meets? You chat, see if there's an attraction, arrange time /place and they either don't appear, cancel last minute or there's always something.

I've only had 1 no show in 4 years. Maybe you should change your criteria when choosing men."

Change it how exactly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain sweetness, December 11th was a long long LONG time ago. However, thank goodness for my little buzzy friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far to many timewasters, fakes and wannabes on fab these days.

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"I feel your pain sweetness, December 11th was a long long LONG time ago. However, thank goodness for my little buzzy friend. "

Oh you aren't joking I'm ever so grateful for the power of the wand

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By *arlo82 OP   Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places


"Far to many timewasters, fakes and wannabes on fab these days. "

Agreed!

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