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Couples, I know it's personal choice but.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales

Why do quite a few profiles say "He is allowed to play alone" when few say the lady is, unless hotwifing or cuck scenarios?

What ever happened to equality?

;-)

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do quite a few profiles say "He is allowed to play alone" when few say the lady is, unless hotwifing or cuck scenarios?

What ever happened to equality?

;-)

S"

Most couples wouldn't see the need to say the woman can play alone. Everyone on here knows it only counts as cheating when it's a man doing it.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Maybe coz they are not really couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the lady doesn't want to play alone so they don't specify it but the man does want to play alone?

H xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do quite a few profiles say "He is allowed to play alone" when few say the lady is, unless hotwifing or cuck scenarios?

What ever happened to equality?

;-)

S"

Accounts run by single males maybe?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We used to have this on our profile,as Jack likes 3sums and more sums and so i am happy for him to meet couples on his own.

However he has decided he only wants to meet with me and I was never keen meeting anyone on my own.

Miss

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

A couple meeting without the lady is in fact a single male, whether the lady exists in reality or not

Many couples have single accounts for the male, lady or both where they do meet some to avoid any confusion

The reason profiles often say 'male allowed to play alone' without having a single profile is it enables the male to get around the single male filters many profiles have therefore giving them the advantage to initiate contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually OP, I have found fewer profiles stating that the male half plays alone than I have where the lady plays alone.

I suppose it all depends on which profiles you are looking at and what you're search criteria is.

I would imagine that as I do a search for profiles looking for single men, I am more likely to find profiles where the lady plays alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple meeting without the lady is in fact a single male, whether the lady exists in reality or not

Many couples have single accounts for the male, lady or both where they do meet some to avoid any confusion

The reason profiles often say 'male allowed to play alone' without having a single profile is it enables the male to get around the single male filters many profiles have therefore giving them the advantage to initiate contact "

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we get messages from this sort of profile ,we ask for a picture of them together , yep they vanish . If no picture because there shy lol we ask to speak to the lady and yep they vanish . Single guy profile ,had one today saying he could meet . Just spoils the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do quite a few profiles say "He is allowed to play alone" when few say the lady is, unless hotwifing or cuck scenarios?

What ever happened to equality?

;-)

S"

We are one of these couples, though I have been very careful with my wording: it is not about permission, I am "allowed" to meet on my own also, but it is not something I want to pursue right now.

We both have separate single profiles (mine hidden atm) but I just wanted to a) showcase that he may be available and b) make it clear to those that bother to read that he's up for it while I am not - we get enough propositions directed at me alone.

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By *mmmMaybe OP   Couple
over a year ago

West Wales


" make it clear to those that bother to read that he's up for it while I am not - we get enough propositions directed at me alone."

Annoying isn't it, H has a profile for the forums, that's all it says "For forum use & chatting to ladies". Who messages? Single guys ! Education system has a lot to answer for

I agree many are probably single guys though, I was just coming across a few more than normal today, so thought why?

Thanks for responses peeps

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know more couples where the lady plays alone than the guys. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us play alone but as to say, it's personal choice.

Doesn't mean there's not a few fake profiles about though of course!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" What ever happened to equality?

;-)

S"

Our rules are not equal, but we both had, and continue to have, equal opportunity in setting our own rules for each other, within our own comfort levels. Our rules are different because we are different people with different desires, needs and sensitivities. We both play separately on occasion, but I give my husband more freedom that he gives me. That is my choice - I don't feel jealousy, so there is no need for me to make more rules. My husband has given me freedoms within his confort zone. I won't push him beyond what he's comfortable with.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually OP, I have found fewer profiles stating that the male half plays alone than I have where the lady plays alone.

I suppose it all depends on which profiles you are looking at and what you're search criteria is.

I would imagine that as I do a search for profiles looking for single men, I am more likely to find profiles where the lady plays alone"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we get messages from this sort of profile ,we ask for a picture of them together , yep they vanish . If no picture because there shy lol we ask to speak to the lady and yep they vanish . Single guy profile ,had one today saying he could meet . Just spoils the fun "

Disappearing females ? We have had more than a few of them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" make it clear to those that bother to read that he's up for it while I am not - we get enough propositions directed at me alone.

Annoying isn't it, H has a profile for the forums, that's all it says "For forum use & chatting to ladies". Who messages? Single guys ! Education system has a lot to answer for

I agree many are probably single guys though, I was just coming across a few more than normal today, so thought why?"

It's because it's the weekend

I gotta say though, props to the single guys and TVs. If it wasn't for their dedicated efforts in striking up and maintaining conversations, fabs would be tumble central!

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