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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met a guy on here that isn't obsessed with giving oral.

Maybe you're picking wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

Oral first for the ladies every time.

Once they are satisfied then I move on.

I love it - and so do they.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stone loves to give

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By *UFC9Man
over a year ago

Whitley Bay & Tamworth


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

Personally I prefer to give oral to a female than receive oral form a female, you must meeting the wrong blokes! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

I don't see it as foreplay... it's an essential part of sex, before and after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What people say and then what they do are often different. Every man on Fab seems to be a well hung cunnilingus expert according to their profiles

It looks like you've been a bit unlucky in your meets.

Don't let that put you of though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral and receiving obviously. It's all part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thought it was a real turn on for guys, don't get me wrong I have had that are really good at it but others aren't. As for picking the wrong ones, not sure that guys would say they don't do it, it's really sort of expected particular if l do it with them. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought it was a real turn on for guys, don't get me wrong I have had that are really good at it but others aren't. As for picking the wrong ones, not sure that guys would say they don't do it, it's really sort of expected particular if l do it with them. x"

For me it is a mega turn on - Feeling a woman cum and tasting her juice whilst my tongue is still inside - Pure Gold.

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By *ill74Man
over a year ago

New forest area


"Thought it was a real turn on for guys, don't get me wrong I have had that are really good at it but others aren't. As for picking the wrong ones, not sure that guys would say they don't do it, it's really sort of expected particular if l do it with them. x"

I enjoy performing oral sex on a lady. And I genuinely find it a turn on. Am I good at it? That's not for me to say, every lady is different. But I try and react to how a lady responds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive surprise to me - I love giving oral - and lots of it too. I assumed all blokes would?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it varies from man to man, same as some women don't like giving oral. Personally I find nothing more sexy than tasting a woman's delicious body everywhere with special attention to wherever she likes.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london

I love giving oral/69 , my only worry is the Health issues. A man can wear a condom but a dental dam is a bit of an insult n a mood killer lol

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By *icenick1966Man
over a year ago

clowne

I love giving it. Am not that far away either

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By *aughtyman45Man
over a year ago

lincoln

Giving oral, for me, is probably one of the biggest turn ons. When you see and feel the reaction you get from your lady it's an immediate turn on.

In fact it spurs me on to make it even better and give her more pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

Oral is the ace up my sleeve!

I'd rather give oral for hours than use my fingers or even penetration.

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By *ainaldoMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

I'm the opposite, really don't like blow jobs but love licking and sucking a beautiful sweet tasting lady garden

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I really love it too when it's been done by an experienced guy, not had any problems until lately so will have to pick better.x

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Ive been quite lucky that most meets have and Jack loves it,but I love to return the favour.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you guys are using condoms etc for oral!! Just thought I would mention it before the fab police get involved again

Sorry just getting a little fed up with certain people on here chatting poo

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My fwb had jelly legs for the rest of the day Monday this week, after I'd finished eating her pussy, trying to keep up with her squirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope you guys are using condoms etc for oral!! Just thought I would mention it before the fab police get involved again

Sorry just getting a little fed up with certain people on here chatting poo"

Never have.. never will... I prefer to give oral unless its my partner.. same as kissing I dont really enjoy it with other men.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Hope you guys are using condoms etc for oral!! Just thought I would mention it before the fab police get involved again

Sorry just getting a little fed up with certain people on here chatting poo"

Yea I know the feeling

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

Not in my experience

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

Iv always gave oral to a woman.i love .id still give even if they didnt do oral .as some woman iv met didnt like giving bjs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's different I can live without it

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By *ndiansexguruMan
over a year ago

Surbiton, Germany

I love to give and receive oral from women. In fact a great oral lover who can play for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weirdly prefer to give than recieve when it comes to oral.

Nothing better than pinning down a pair of thighs and having a lick and a nibble..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving blow jobs and and while I love receiving too I'd prefer them to use their hands to play

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral, especially a fresh clean smooth pussy. I love to feel the woman wriggle and hear her enjoying herself, but of course im a man and i enjoy receiving too... unlucky picks i guess this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving blow jobs and and while I love receiving too I'd prefer them to use their hands to play

Mrs "

Will bear that in mind, local, Mrs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What people say and then what they do are often different. Every man on Fab seems to be a well hung cunnilingus expert according to their profiles

It looks like you've been a bit unlucky in your meets.

Don't let that put you of though."

Yeah they all can't be like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving blow jobs and and while I love receiving too I'd prefer them to use their hands to play

Mrs

Will bear that in mind, local, Mrs.. "

Haha keep us in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

I'm the absolute opposite.

I won't meet a woman that won't let me.

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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago

Northumberland

I love pleasuring ladies with oral, it's all part of the build up to .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love giving and receiving oral. Its always part of our love making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it's a mixed bag. Some guys seem to be afraid of a pussy! where as some can't get enough.

I enjoy giving and totally love receiving, it's one thing that really does it for me. I can't get enough of a guy who loves to please with his tongue and fingers. I would let someone do it for hours.

I've experienced guys who just pop down there, have a quick lick around and that's oral!!! No re meet for me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought it was a real turn on for guys, don't get me wrong I have had that are really good at it but others aren't. As for picking the wrong ones, not sure that guys would say they don't do it, it's really sort of expected particular if l do it with them. x"

Your right...inconsiderate and very bad manners!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Think it's a mixed bag. Some guys seem to be afraid of a pussy! where as some can't get enough.

I enjoy giving and totally love receiving, it's one thing that really does it for me. I can't get enough of a guy who loves to please with his tongue and fingers. I would let someone do it for hours.

I've experienced guys who just pop down there, have a quick lick around and that's oral!!! No re meet for me!! "

That's the thing with the interests list in here; putting a tick in the 'Oral sex' box can just mean 'I enjoy receiving oral', and not necessarily; 'I enjoy giving and receiving oral'

On the experience note; I have met women who just pop down there, have a quick suck and lick, and there's your bj mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't a guy want to do it?!

It's so, so much fun. The teasing, the long, slow, hot kisses, feeling her getting more and more turned on with each languid stroke of your tongue..... it's SO good!

And when you finally get there, the sex is oh, so much better!

What's not to love about a purring, well pleasured, well fucked woman squirming beautifully beneath your lips?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

It's probably those Jamaican men ..... they are not into the bow cat business

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By *osforthMan
over a year ago

newcastle on tyne

I would rather give than receive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

Well you're definitely picking the wrong guys then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

I love giving.. Could stay down there all day/night.

One of the great joys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think what guys usually do and what they do with women off here are different

I too have experienced many guys off here who just want a blow job and a shag, but i think for many men that's all they see woman off here for, because its only sex i think many just want their pleasure

Its ok people saying your picking the wrong men but when all the guys you talk to claim they put your pleasure before theirs how do you know which ones really do and which are just saying what they think you want to hear to get a meet? you don't till you meet

Of course i've met many guys who are give and take but there seems to be a hell of a lot who aren't, I've actually started leaving meets during a session with selfish guys i got that fed up of feeling like a free hooker, they want to fuck your arse, cum in your mouth and all sorts but refuse to give oral even thought they loved doing it in their messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally think what guys usually do and what they do with women off here are different

I too have experienced many guys off here who just want a blow job and a shag, but i think for many men that's all they see woman off here for, because its only sex i think many just want their pleasure

Its ok people saying your picking the wrong men but when all the guys you talk to claim they put your pleasure before theirs how do you know which ones really do and which are just saying what they think you want to hear to get a meet? you don't till you meet

Of course i've met many guys who are give and take but there seems to be a hell of a lot who aren't, I've actually started leaving meets during a session with selfish guys i got that fed up of feeling like a free hooker, they want to fuck your arse, cum in your mouth and all sorts but refuse to give oral even thought they loved doing it in their messages "

Hate the game and not the player

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I personally think what guys usually do and what they do with women off here are different

I too have experienced many guys off here who just want a blow job and a shag, but i think for many men that's all they see woman off here for, because its only sex i think many just want their pleasure

Its ok people saying your picking the wrong men but when all the guys you talk to claim they put your pleasure before theirs how do you know which ones really do and which are just saying what they think you want to hear to get a meet? you don't till you meet

Of course i've met many guys who are give and take but there seems to be a hell of a lot who aren't, I've actually started leaving meets during a session with selfish guys i got that fed up of feeling like a free hooker, they want to fuck your arse, cum in your mouth and all sorts but refuse to give oral even thought they loved doing it in their messages "

I'm sorry to hear you've been so wronged, but not all blokes are as selfish and two-faced as you describe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral for the lady not bothered if she gives me oral (mr) as long as she's pleasured.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"I personally think what guys usually do and what they do with women off here are different

I too have experienced many guys off here who just want a blow job and a shag, but i think for many men that's all they see woman off here for, because its only sex i think many just want their pleasure

Its ok people saying your picking the wrong men but when all the guys you talk to claim they put your pleasure before theirs how do you know which ones really do and which are just saying what they think you want to hear to get a meet? you don't till you meet

Of course i've met many guys who are give and take but there seems to be a hell of a lot who aren't, I've actually started leaving meets during a session with selfish guys i got that fed up of feeling like a free hooker, they want to fuck your arse, cum in your mouth and all sorts but refuse to give oral even thought they loved doing it in their messages "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its great that a few on here agree, I normally have a good eye for a guy but to be honest it isn't always the case. I have never had a guy not wanting oral from me but what I don't get is how they lie there just expecting it.

Please guys just consider us girls when playing and the meets will be all the better for it. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have always loved giving the ladies oral, it's one of the sexiest things I can think of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, oral is the only thing I can give ....

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley

Played with a girl in a club she insisted on using a condom, but went ballistic when i said yes to going her, but with wanted to use a dental damm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Played with a girl in a club she insisted on using a condom, but went ballistic when i said yes to going her, but with wanted to use a dental damm."

do you take dental damms to clubs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its great that a few on here agree, I normally have a good eye for a guy but to be honest it isn't always the case. I have never had a guy not wanting oral from me but what I don't get is how they lie there just expecting it.

Please guys just consider us girls when playing and the meets will be all the better for it. xx"

I think it's an essential part of sex not just foreplay. I like to go back for repeat visits between Penetration.

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By *on4funxxxMan
over a year ago

Great Barr North Birmingham

Im a big fan of oral and I've gotta say I would of put money on the fact that most guys live to give oral...... I even say when messaging someone that's got wanting oral in their profile that I bet all the blokes say they love oral as I would of thought that's what all blokes like lmfao....Thank god for my verifications as they prove I totally and utterly live giving oral...... Thought I'd big myself up lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no problem here

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Why is it that all guys want oral from a woman but most don't want to do it in return. Probably about half of the guys l have met recently just want to play with there fingers, thought that it was one of the things guys were keen on."

As I'm not hung I make up for by trying hard in the oral stakes. I don't think I'm brilliant at it but I can make DG cum and she enjoys it. And as she has moaned about it in these forums I do prefer making sure she is satisfied before she can start on me.

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By *issy and GingeCouple
over a year ago

Poole

I adore giving oral, I don't think anything is as intimate really.

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Played with a girl in a club she insisted on using a condom, but went ballistic when i said yes to going her, but with wanted to use a dental damm.

do you take dental damms to clubs?"

Obviously!

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