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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

A mouth round their cock by someone with the same......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don't want messages from them.

H xx

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Nothing. They just don't want to meet them. Or they prefer to look for them themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A mouth round their cock by someone with the same......"

What's so wrong about that? Or just chatting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why can't you accept that some guys just aren't interested?

Why does it have to be all about you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why can't you accept that some guys just aren't interested?

Why does it have to be all about you ?"

I didn't say it was? I was just curious why guys do it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "

There is nothing to be scared of. Some men here are straight and don't want sex with men, so they block men.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

What a silly question you're probably exactly the reason why lol.

It is annoying when people _iew me that I fancy and I can't message them but that's there choice... Move on....

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By *oungmacladMan
over a year ago

Macclesfield

Some gay/bi guys have this thing for turning straight guys. Its easier to just block them so that you dont have to delete the multiple emails about how they can give you the best bj.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some gay/bi guys have this thing for turning straight guys. Its easier to just block them so that you dont have to delete the multiple emails about how they can give you the best bj. "

Fair enough man. Can see that would be annoying but not all gay guys are like that.. some just like a chat like myself haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some gay/bi guys have this thing for turning straight guys. Its easier to just block them so that you dont have to delete the multiple emails about how they can give you the best bj.

Fair enough man. Can see that would be annoying but not all gay guys are like that.. some just like a chat like myself haha"

I'd guess that the vast majority of messages sent on here, the sender has some level of desire for it to lead towards some form of sexual interaction, they will far outstrip those messages to disect last night's Eastenders

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I block incoming messages of men because I would receive dozens of messages from those who don't read profiles, just the demands of their dicks

Some of them even use fake couple profiles to contact me...

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By *arrasicMan
over a year ago

birmingham

It doesn't bother me. I don't see the need to block them most just chat and go. But do what you have to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I have no interest in Single Guys - why would I want messages from them?

Blocking doesn't take any effort, replying "Not for me" to messages does.

Not hard to work that out, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preferences? We have deleted quite a few pointless messages.

If the sender persists or gets tiresome we block them, and that's our personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Constant messages from guys asking to suck my dick. Fuckin irritating. If they actually listened to the 'straight' part of my profile I wouldn't have to block them lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "

You won't meet 61 year olds. Seems a bit abritrary - what have you got against them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not bi I'm straight but tbh there's got to be a compliment of some sorts if another guy takes a shine to you ....personally each to their own ,sorry I love a hot wet pussy on my face ..best feeling full stop but if your a guy and like cock enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "
maybe because they are straight and not wanting to meet other guys,its personal preference same as some people block couples and have an age preference.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "

I don't think they are 'scared'. I guess straight guys are not interested in gay guys and don't want them writing to them

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By *oveyou2Couple
over a year ago

somewhere Kerry

Let's face it, single guys are 10 a penny. You don't even have to be on a swingers site to meet them. You can walk into most bars and some guy will try it on. It's just human nature. Originally , we didn't have single males blocked, despite explaining in our profile that we had no interest in single males, but still got numerous messages every day from them. How thick and stupid is that. In the end, we blocked single guys and now, we enjoy Fab much better without the pain of single guys.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Let's face it, single guys are 10 a penny. You don't even have to be on a swingers site to meet them. You can walk into most bars and some guy will try it on. It's just human nature. Originally , we didn't have single males blocked, despite explaining in our profile that we had no interest in single males, but still got numerous messages every day from them. How thick and stupid is that. In the end, we blocked single guys and now, we enjoy Fab much better without the pain of single guys. "

About covers it all.

We are not scared of single guys, just totally pissed off with the arsehole ones who just do not seem to have the intelligence or the good manners to read and respect profiles.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Why can't you accept that some guys just aren't interested?

Why does it have to be all about you ?

I didn't say it was? I was just curious why guys do it..."

If you have to ask then you don't get the concept that people use this site as they wish.

If one does not want to meet single men then one blocks them. Just like I block all females and couples.

And as for just chatting, what it the point if you're never going to meet anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get blocked I tell myself it's because they become uncontrollable every time they look at me

Man up & move on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "

I am bi but hate people assuming I will have sex with them at 5 minutes notice before they will even send a face pic.

Typical conversations goes like this.

Them:Where abouts are you.

Me: Centre of Derby

Them: will you suck me off till I cum

Me: Why would I want someone with no picture, profile or character to tell me what to do?

Me - Block them

10 times a week, if only women contacted me at that rate. I only open my profile so that TV's can find me they have much better manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Let's face it, single guys are 10 a penny. You don't even have to be on a swingers site to meet them. You can walk into most bars and some guy will try it on. It's just human nature. Originally , we didn't have single males blocked, despite explaining in our profile that we had no interest in single males, but still got numerous messages every day from them. How thick and stupid is that. In the end, we blocked single guys and now, we enjoy Fab much better without the pain of single guys.

About covers it all.

We are not scared of single guys, just totally pissed off with the arsehole ones who just do not seem to have the intelligence or the good manners to read and respect profiles."

This times 10, though reading profiles is a problem on mobiles that I have reported until I am suck of it. I have even been banned off forums for mentioning it.I am a pro web developer with experience in the adult website business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "

I'm scared of seeing that I have more mail and then excitedly clicking only to find out it's a man with a further stab of a photo of his COCK out asking "what is there to be scared of?" I'm sure I've missed out on some MMF buddies and such but is worth knowing that any mail you get will be from a couple or a woman.

Why are you scared of men who block other single men? Why does that bother you so much? If you want to chat, that's what this forum is for. Oh I get it, you think straight guys should want to speak to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block men as I am straight and don't want to be messaged by bi men who say they are straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why does 'X' block 'Y' ?

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Because 'X' doesn't want to receive messages from 'Y'

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Seems pretty straight forward from our side of the fence ...

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"Why does 'X' block 'Y' ?

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Because 'X' doesn't want to receive messages from 'Y'

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Seems pretty straight forward from our side of the fence ...

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We are on your side of the fence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a widespread discriminatory belief in the gay male community that there's actually no such thing as a straight male and that every straight male either has his price or just needs the right frequency and degree of exposure and harassment to activate the gayness or bisexuality that he's covering up. Would never be accepted from straight guys telling them they really want a woman deep down or a woman harassing them. It's annoying as fuck. That's why I block all men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does 'X' block 'Y' ?

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Because 'X' doesn't want to receive messages from 'Y'

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Seems pretty straight forward from our side of the fence ...

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Actually it is XY blocking XY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why does 'X' block 'Y' ?

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Because 'X' doesn't want to receive messages from 'Y'

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Seems pretty straight forward from our side of the fence ...

Actually it is XY blocking XY "

Nice one!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "

On my previous profile i had an open door policy. I got one guy message me with some serious abuse. I thought well im not looking to meet them so why do i allow them to message me. Im sure you can understand my logic. This time round i think i have all but single ladies blocked. Im not actively looking to meet currently but i still enjoy chatting to ladies hehe.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"Because they don't want messages from them.

H xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got tired of messages from gay/bi guys telling me that they would "give me the best BJ I would ever get", and "Don't knock it till you try it" kind of thing. Some gay/bi guys seem to think they have the god given power to be able to turn any straight guy bi or gay, some being very insistant too. That's why I block single guys, not because I'm scared of anything. Seeing that OP had to ask the question in the first place suggests that he also falls into this band of "I can turn you". This is a swingers site, guys just don't want to "chat" with other single guys. Just my 2p worth.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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because i used to not block them but i don't find any i want to meet and so just keep them blocked all the time. saves me the hassle of having conversations interrupted.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"because i used to not block them but i don't find any i want to meet and so just keep them blocked all the time. saves me the hassle of having conversations interrupted."

Thought he was asking men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy I don't want to fuck men lol

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"because i used to not block them but i don't find any i want to meet and so just keep them blocked all the time. saves me the hassle of having conversations interrupted.

Thought he was asking men "

i'm so bored i didn't notice. thanks clem.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"because i used to not block them but i don't find any i want to meet and so just keep them blocked all the time. saves me the hassle of having conversations interrupted.

Thought he was asking men

i'm so bored i didn't notice. thanks clem. "

How can you be bored with a vagina? Just walk around the house playing "see what fits"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple, if we ever remove the "guys" filter, our messages jump from the odd one per day to 70+.

Do single guys suffer similar problems?

Guy on guy does nothing for us and if we had a single guy profile, guys would be blocked too.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I block men who I think are twats.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"because i used to not block them but i don't find any i want to meet and so just keep them blocked all the time. saves me the hassle of having conversations interrupted.

Thought he was asking men

i'm so bored i didn't notice. thanks clem.

How can you be bored with a vagina? Just walk around the house playing "see what fits" "

my vagina is boring, that's how.

am just tuning out tonight to the forums, no idea why.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"because i used to not block them but i don't find any i want to meet and so just keep them blocked all the time. saves me the hassle of having conversations interrupted.

Thought he was asking men

i'm so bored i didn't notice. thanks clem.

How can you be bored with a vagina? Just walk around the house playing "see what fits"

my vagina is boring, that's how.

am just tuning out tonight to the forums, no idea why."

plus it's so big i know most objects will fit inside it, not tried the washing machine yet though and might give it a go later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We block single guys as not interested in meeting them simple as that. All about choices some people want single guys others don't. Wouldn't lose sleep over it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "

Nothing to be scared of, we sometimes like meeting single guys, however when you have 20+ messages all saying things like "wanna feel my 10 incher in your arse" "I'll cum all over your face after your hubby watches me impregnate you" to name a couple of messages, really quickly gets boring.

Now were fully aware not all single guys are like this but a lot are.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Then there are the ones who won't take no for an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered why a lot of guys block single guys? What is their to be scared of? "

Translation: "I don't believe you're not gay. I don't respect your desire to not be harassed by gay men. Yes, there are plenty of straight guys who haven't blocked men but I'm not satisfied until there's no such thing as a straight man. You see, I thought I was straight and so now I think every straight guy is like me. If you aren't gay, then you shouldn't feel threatened by a gay guy sending you pics of his ass and telling you, you don't know what you're missing, or complimenting you, then continuing to harass you no matter how you respond. The fact that you don't want to flirt with me is evidence that you're actually not straight, because a straight man would be secure enough to fuck me or let me suck his cock."

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I block them for 1 reason im not bi but still get tonnes of messages more than ladies lol

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"because i used to not block them but i don't find any i want to meet and so just keep them blocked all the time. saves me the hassle of having conversations interrupted.

Thought he was asking men

i'm so bored i didn't notice. thanks clem.

How can you be bored with a vagina? Just walk around the house playing "see what fits"

my vagina is boring, that's how.

am just tuning out tonight to the forums, no idea why.

plus it's so big i know most objects will fit inside it, not tried the washing machine yet though and might give it a go later."

That be a site to see lol.

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"As a couple, if we ever remove the "guys" filter, our messages jump from the odd one per day to 70+.

Do single guys suffer similar problems?

Guy on guy does nothing for us and if we had a single guy profile, guys would be blocked too."

Yes definetly pal.

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

I block them as i am here to meet couples single females & ts

Not looking for men & I am Bi .

If i need just to fuck a blokes arse, then there are plenty of other sites for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to block guys who are TV, Bi or wear lingerie. It's just a complete and utter turnoff for us.

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