FabSwingers.com forum: Sexy women a turn off

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably not alone in it but a lot of guys like it if you're confident.

i think they mostly don't like it if you think you're too good looking for them, as is often demonstrated when men complain that fat, ugly women think they are too good for them.

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By *X guyMan
over a year ago

Skegness

"probably not alone in it but a lot of guys like it if you're confident.

i think they mostly don't like it if you think you're too good looking for them, as is often demonstrated when men complain that fat, ugly women think they are too good for them."
i just like a down to earth girl next door kinda girl. Can't be doing with a girl who gets up her arse before I do lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a confident man but not cocky. Cocky is a real turn off for me so I can see where you're coming from. Confidence is sexy though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I like a confident man but not cocky. Cocky is a real turn off for me so I can see where you're coming from. Confidence is sexy though"

Agreed

Confidence is usually endearing

''Tis a fine line

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

One of my ex girlfriends was a model. She had been in one of the top agencies when she was younger and had done shows in Paris and Milan.

She was absolutely stunning. Even aged 35 and after two children she had the body of a pert 18 year old.

She was also deadly boring in bed. It was almost as if she thought that any man who she stripped naked for should feel privileged and no other effort was needed from her.

We lived together for a year before boredom over came me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

I get put off profiles that say anything like good looking or handsome in them. I just think others should decide if they think you're good looking, not you.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

Can't help the way i was made

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I like cocky self assured people. I detest the simpering needy and seeking constant validation types.

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By *ennythelionMan
over a year ago

Derby

beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

I find girls in glasses are best in bed

any one else found this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like cocky self assured people. I detest the simpering needy and seeking constant validation types. "

I like people who come in the middle somewhere of those two spectrums.

Now could you fab a photo or two of me please

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I like cocky self assured people. I detest the simpering needy and seeking constant validation types.

I like people who come in the middle somewhere of those two spectrums.

Now could you fab a photo or two of me please

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't Fab as I have direct debits in place to give to the less fortunates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

Agreed! I tend to avoid these kinds of profiles. Also people who are obsessed with wanting their pictures fabbed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people who over flaunt it are probably not as confidence. Confidence is a self assurance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have to flaunt it.

I exude sexiness, it wafts around me.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

No I'm the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confident on here. It's easy to be so on the internet when your not having direct contact with people. In the outside world it's a totally different story......xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like cocky self assured people. I detest the simpering needy and seeking constant validation types. "

There's a fine line between confidence and cockiness, but I much prefer it to those who put themselves down to fish for compliments - and there's plenty on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like confident women who know they're hot and don't shag anyone because of it. It's called standards.

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind cocky in a cheeky, not being serious kind of way, but outright cockiness is just annoying and I can't be done with it personally.

Confidence is sexy, but over-confidence is a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my ex girlfriends was a model. She had been in one of the top agencies when she was younger and had done shows in Paris and Milan.

She was absolutely stunning. Even aged 35 and after two children she had the body of a pert 18 year old.

She was also deadly boring in bed. It was almost as if she thought that any man who she stripped naked for should feel privileged and no other effort was needed from her.

We lived together for a year before boredom over came me."
The one you got now has a very cute ass

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "
judgement, is a complete turn off too..

are we all supposed to feel unsexy and ugly in the world..and bang on about it, not sure how that would help anyone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a confident man but not cocky. Cocky is a real turn off for me so I can see where you're coming from. Confidence is sexy though"

Absolutely this, it's such a fine line though and I'm sure it works both ways with men feeling the same about women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people who over flaunt it are probably not as confidence. Confidence is a self assurance. "

Definitely. Those that flaunt it are probably so deeply insecure that they need validating. And not just the way they look, but the ones that try to look more intelligent or spiritual or worldly. Laughable.

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"I don't mind cocky in a cheeky, not being serious kind of way, but outright cockiness is just annoying and I can't be done with it personally.

Confidence is sexy, but over-confidence is a turn off."

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ?

I get put off profiles that say anything like good looking or handsome in them. I just think others should decide if they think you're good looking, not you."

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I think there is a difference between confidence and arrogance....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my ex girlfriends was a model. She had been in one of the top agencies when she was younger and had done shows in Paris and Milan.

She was absolutely stunning. Even aged 35 and after two children she had the body of a pert 18 year old.

She was also deadly boring in bed. It was almost as if she thought that any man who she stripped naked for should feel privileged and no other effort was needed from her.

We lived together for a year before boredom over came me."
. Well judging by your pics, your replacement is pretty damn hot too ! And a horny little thing too ! You win ! Lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence is such an appealing feature, can't beat someone who is sexually confident. Unfortunately, some people don't know the difference between confidence and arrogance.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Confidence = turn on

Arrogance = turn off

Thats my barometer

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I like mild arrogance. I like confidence a lot. It's an attractive feature in my opinion.

I don't mind if people are aware of how classically attractive they are but I don't like it when they feel the world owes them as a result of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

In fairness I have the same issue. Being so gorgeous makes me more picky

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Sexi women for me is not a turn off but its the morals, attitude and standards of the person that can be turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

Probably not.

But, i do like a woman who knows they're sexy.

It's just something thats attractive. But if you mean that they'act like you owe them something for it. I agree. It's a big personality turn off.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I'm sexy and I know it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sexy and I know it.

You are, extremely. I have a bit of a girl crush thing going on for you ATM

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm sexy and I know it.

You are, extremely. I have a bit of a girl crush thing going on for you ATM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like mild arrogance. I like confidence a lot. It's an attractive feature in my opinion.

I don't mind if people are aware of how classically attractive they are but I don't like it when they feel the world owes them as a result of that. "

I think that's the difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a confident man but not cocky. Cocky is a real turn off for me so I can see where you're coming from. Confidence is sexy though"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like a confident man but not cocky. Cocky is a real turn off for me so I can see where you're coming from. Confidence is sexy though

This

But in women. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

Sorry I have spent about 5 minutes to try and understand your thought, you get turned off by women that are sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

I find girls in glasses are best in bed

any one else found this?"

Being a glasses wearer I wholeheartedly concur!

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"beauty is in the eye of the beholder!

I find girls in glasses are best in bed

any one else found this?

Being a glasses wearer I wholeheartedly concur!

Ruby"

I never do anything without wearing my glasses, I'm happy to go along with the theory that we are the best in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn, this is obviously why I never pull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn, this is obviously why I never pull. "

Grab your coat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My brother once told me there's only one thing worse than a girl who knows she's really hot. And that's a girl that just thinks she is! I guess I see his point haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I'm sexy. It's convincing others that's the problem

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

"probably not alone in it but a lot of guys like it if you're confident.

i think they mostly don't like it if you think you're too good looking for them, as is often demonstrated when men complain that fat, ugly women think they are too good for them.i just like a down to earth girl next door kinda girl. Can't be doing with a girl who gets up her arse before I do lol. "

This!

Saw a girl on the tube once and fair play she was a stunner but Christ alive it was a wonder that she could see the light.

Huge difference between confidence and cockiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

Nope not alone, but there is a difference between cocky and confident. And women who can't hold a conversation and make no effort. Especially in messages

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I don't care too much about body imperfections. I am not perfect...

What I really cannot endure is.... mediocrity

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

"I don't have to flaunt it.

I exude sexiness, it wafts around me."

Are you saying you fart sex?

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By *4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

N 42.709787, W -84.556222

"probably not alone in it but a lot of guys like it if you're confident.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

I'm very sexy. And can sometimes look great. But I know that I am one of very few people to hold that opinion. So I know it but don't consider it public knowledge or assume it is an opinion shared by anyone else; where that fits into your supposition is beyond my pretty little head to figure out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ?

Nope not alone, but there is a difference between cocky and confident. And women who can't hold a conversation and make no effort. Especially in messages

Some people on here lack the intellectual capability to hold a decent conversation. Not there fault always, I know, but I'm afraid it's a non starter if they can't converse.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Oh well, it was never going to work between us anyway OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ?

Nope not alone, but there is a difference between cocky and confident. And women who can't hold a conversation and make no effort. Especially in messages

Some people on here lack the intellectual capability to hold a decent conversation. Not there fault always, I know, but I'm afraid it's a non starter if they can't converse."

Totally agree with you. If someone can't hold a conversation in messages then it makes me think what they would be like on a meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a girlfriend that honestly was drop dead gorgeous. If she walked into any room , she was in the top 5 of all the women present.

But the world revolved around her..... if I didn't tell her she was beautiful ever half an hour , I didn't love her.

If she got a zit , then we couldn't leave the house until it went away.... the final straw for me was the last time I had the flu...

She came over with soup and some groceries... She sat at my bedside and talked about herself for 2 hours and never asked how I was feeling.....

Deep down she was a good person but just self centered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

Sure,y a sexy woman....confident in herself is a turn on rather than a turn off. A confident woman, who knows what she wants....and sexy/good looking too...what is there not to like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being confident is a very attractive quality, being happy in your own skin and not caring or worrying what other people think about it is to me really sexy ... but cockiness bordering on the verge of arrogance is not... and I can't think of anything worse then to be with someone who needs to have compliments and to be told how pretty, sexy or great they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there's attraction and then not attracted... Just because a lady is sexy, does not mean she is necessarily unattainable or ignorant... Maybe past experiences have bought u to this conclusion? Just go for what u like or are attracted to, without declaring your dislikes... Negativity is very unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being confident is a very attractive quality, being happy in your own skin and not caring or worrying what other people think about it is to me really sexy ... but cockiness bordering on the verge of arrogance is not... and I can't think of anything worse then to be with someone who needs to have compliments and to be told how pretty, sexy or great they are.

That's neither confident, nor cocky.....that's serious insecurity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is normally a good reason for arrogance or being overly confident. Like in my case I'm just a fucking stud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A massive turn off for me is someone who is very sexy, great looking but by Christ do they know it

Am I alone in this ? "

If the "know it" ie. Full of themselves, then yes, agree. But a sexy lady or gentleman who is humble with it, then that IS a turn-on!

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