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"I don't see it as a dating site, why do you see it that way? " | |||
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"I always think people who say its a dating site,get a strop on when people want to chat a bit or to have a social meet. People can use fab in what ever way they want,as long as up front about it. Miss" Exactly. I don't think it's a dating site, far from it however it people do end up dating following successful meets | |||
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"My Mum met my Dad on here so works for some. " Aww and then they made you | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? " Are you getting a lot of requests for dates then? | |||
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"My Mum met my Dad on here so works for some. Aww and then they made you " Conceived on a deckchair in a caravan, classic swinger. | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? " It is a dating site | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? It is a dating site" Wrong it's a sex site | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? " Can you explain how you've come to that conclusion? I've had three shags off Fab in 2017. Fab 3. Tinder 0. | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? It is a dating site Wrong it's a sex site " But, but, but, I don't get any here; so it must be a dating site | |||
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"Does it matter? People can use it however they feel, surely " | |||
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"I thought it was just a site for moaning about things and slagging off people that don't agree with you, or behave as you want them to? Can't be a dating site because hardly anyone wants to actually meet up and those that do, don't turn up; timewasters! So it can't really be a sex site, either as that would involve meeting and intercourse. Maybe it is just a site for smart arses, with their tongues firmly in their cheeks, to post responses to random topics in forums?" it's all these things for me. seriously though i'm not a swinger in the way the OP thinks. trying to become part of the social side of it and it's going alright. i also don't meet much, because most guys i have met think like the OP, and that's on dating sites too. | |||
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"I always think people who say its a dating site,get a strop on when people want to chat a bit or to have a social meet. People can use fab in what ever way they want,as long as up front about it. Miss Exactly. I don't think it's a dating site, far from it however it people do end up dating following successful meets" Spot on ! And let's face it most on here are on all the other 'sex sites' that flower it up as 'dating sites' If you are lucky to find love wherever or unexpected it may be then high five !! | |||
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"I thought it was just a site for moaning about things and slagging off people that don't agree with you, or behave as you want them to? Can't be a dating site because hardly anyone wants to actually meet up and those that do, don't turn up; timewasters! So it can't really be a sex site, either as that would involve meeting and intercourse. Maybe it is just a site for smart arses, with their tongues firmly in their cheeks, to post responses to random topics in forums?" I guess that might be the experience of some. From our experience is definately a swingers site/sex site. We've had no difficulty get sex via this site, and people always turn up for us. But there are too many men to go round, so many won't have such a good experience. But that doesn't make it less of a swingers/sex site. Mrs | |||
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"I thought it was just a site for moaning about things and slagging off people that don't agree with you, or behave as you want them to? Can't be a dating site because hardly anyone wants to actually meet up and those that do, don't turn up; timewasters! So it can't really be a sex site, either as that would involve meeting and intercourse. Maybe it is just a site for smart arses, with their tongues firmly in their cheeks, to post responses to random topics in forums? it's all these things for me. seriously though i'm not a swinger in the way the OP thinks. trying to become part of the social side of it and it's going alright. i also don't meet much, because most guys i have met think like the OP, and that's on dating sites too." I guess people can only speak to their own experience so for us it is just another place to feel rejected and ignored. Want to be social but no one else is. Facebook for perverts who are happy to use it as just another space to show us all how judgemental and shallow we all are. I suppose it is easier in a couple at least I wake up every morning next to the one person in this world that shows me that I am worth a damn. | |||
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"I thought it was just a site for moaning about things and slagging off people that don't agree with you, or behave as you want them to? Can't be a dating site because hardly anyone wants to actually meet up and those that do, don't turn up; timewasters! So it can't really be a sex site, either as that would involve meeting and intercourse. Maybe it is just a site for smart arses, with their tongues firmly in their cheeks, to post responses to random topics in forums? it's all these things for me. seriously though i'm not a swinger in the way the OP thinks. trying to become part of the social side of it and it's going alright. i also don't meet much, because most guys i have met think like the OP, and that's on dating sites too. I guess people can only speak to their own experience so for us it is just another place to feel rejected and ignored. Want to be social but no one else is. Facebook for perverts who are happy to use it as just another space to show us all how judgemental and shallow we all are. I suppose it is easier in a couple at least I wake up every morning next to the one person in this world that shows me that I am worth a damn." yeah. i like that you have someone who loves you and enjoy hearing about that. hopefully you make some friends through the forums. everyone says don't take it too seriously but i do alright and i am serious a lot. maybe a bit too deep but so long as i can find the people the same as me and i'm happy with that. | |||
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" yeah. i like that you have someone who loves you and enjoy hearing about that. hopefully you make some friends through the forums. everyone says don't take it too seriously but i do alright and i am serious a lot. maybe a bit too deep but so long as i can find the people the same as me and i'm happy with that." I like being a thinker and I am sure other thinkers would agree that the world would be a bit more fun if more people did. But when it is all said and done it is the rest that are missing out on what we are willing to offer. | |||
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"My Mum met my Dad on here so works for some. " 'maybe put it in your student magazine' | |||
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"I always think people who say its a dating site,get a strop on when people want to chat a bit or to have a social meet. People can use fab in what ever way they want,as long as up front about it. Miss" Completely agree!! | |||
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" yeah. i like that you have someone who loves you and enjoy hearing about that. hopefully you make some friends through the forums. everyone says don't take it too seriously but i do alright and i am serious a lot. maybe a bit too deep but so long as i can find the people the same as me and i'm happy with that. I like being a thinker and I am sure other thinkers would agree that the world would be a bit more fun if more people did. But when it is all said and done it is the rest that are missing out on what we are willing to offer." But you guys are only looking for single women or female only couples. That demographic is very small compared to the number of couples looking for this. And that demographic will be even smaller when you home in on those wonen who are looking for an MF couple. Do you really feel that they are missing out on what you have to offer? There are hundreds of couples offering similar to you. We personally wouldn't even attempt to search for a single lady or female couple, because we know we are unlikely to get that. Mrs | |||
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" yeah. i like that you have someone who loves you and enjoy hearing about that. hopefully you make some friends through the forums. everyone says don't take it too seriously but i do alright and i am serious a lot. maybe a bit too deep but so long as i can find the people the same as me and i'm happy with that. I like being a thinker and I am sure other thinkers would agree that the world would be a bit more fun if more people did. But when it is all said and done it is the rest that are missing out on what we are willing to offer." i'm too emotionally deep i meant. i can see how shallow a lot of things are on here, even the 'pleasantries' are often attention seeking actions. i like how things have changed on here and moved away from that tbh. this isn't an attack on you at all. but really when people are pretty much only offering up their bodies and sexual titilation nobody is missing out coz almost everyone on here offers that. | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? " Yes. | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? Yes. " Yes you're wrong. | |||
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"Actually we were looking for nice people didn't much care about the rest. The sexual preference was more to not lead people on and yes what we are offering is our personalities. Of course there are plenty of bodies on here but is there more than one you. It has got to the point where a decent person best leave this social media crap behind because no matter what is said about personal feelings there is always some power hungry entity ready to shit all over your feelings. Thank you for pointing out our short comings. I hope you enjoyed your little buzz of dopamine. P.s. This is the female by the way. D won't entertain anyone's opinion anymore." I'm sorry to hear you feel this way. There are people on Fab who are not nice, but there are plenty who are super. I never pointed out your shortcomings though - as I don't know you I've no idea what your shortcomings are, if any. | |||
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"My Mum met my Dad on here so works for some. " Wow. Fabswingers was around in 1983! Well before the invention of the internet. | |||
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"Actually we were looking for nice people didn't much care about the rest. The sexual preference was more to not lead people on and yes what we are offering is our personalities. Of course there are plenty of bodies on here but is there more than one you. It has got to the point where a decent person best leave this social media crap behind because no matter what is said about personal feelings there is always some power hungry entity ready to shit all over your feelings. Thank you for pointing out our short comings. I hope you enjoyed your little buzz of dopamine. P.s. This is the female by the way. D won't entertain anyone's opinion anymore. I'm sorry to hear you feel this way. There are people on Fab who are not nice, but there are plenty who are super. I never pointed out your shortcomings though - as I don't know you I've no idea what your shortcomings are, if any. " Read you comment again. I'm really sorry that I offended you. I can assure you that I was by no means trying to put you down or get a buzz out of saying what I said. I was simply trying to present a different point of _iew. Again I apologise. | |||
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"Actually we were looking for nice people didn't much care about the rest. The sexual preference was more to not lead people on and yes what we are offering is our personalities. Of course there are plenty of bodies on here but is there more than one you. It has got to the point where a decent person best leave this social media crap behind because no matter what is said about personal feelings there is always some power hungry entity ready to shit all over your feelings. Thank you for pointing out our short comings. I hope you enjoyed your little buzz of dopamine. P.s. This is the female by the way. D won't entertain anyone's opinion anymore. I'm sorry to hear you feel this way. There are people on Fab who are not nice, but there are plenty who are super. I never pointed out your shortcomings though - as I don't know you I've no idea what your shortcomings are, if any. Read you comment again. I'm really sorry that I offended you. I can assure you that I was by no means trying to put you down or get a buzz out of saying what I said. I was simply trying to present a different point of _iew. Again I apologise. " No need, I feel I was over sensitive in my reaction and had no right to use it as a conduit to other frustrations. It is I that own you an apology, I ask to be judged by my character and then show none. | |||
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"Actually we were looking for nice people didn't much care about the rest. The sexual preference was more to not lead people on and yes what we are offering is our personalities. Of course there are plenty of bodies on here but is there more than one you. It has got to the point where a decent person best leave this social media crap behind because no matter what is said about personal feelings there is always some power hungry entity ready to shit all over your feelings. Thank you for pointing out our short comings. I hope you enjoyed your little buzz of dopamine. P.s. This is the female by the way. D won't entertain anyone's opinion anymore. I'm sorry to hear you feel this way. There are people on Fab who are not nice, but there are plenty who are super. I never pointed out your shortcomings though - as I don't know you I've no idea what your shortcomings are, if any. Read you comment again. I'm really sorry that I offended you. I can assure you that I was by no means trying to put you down or get a buzz out of saying what I said. I was simply trying to present a different point of _iew. Again I apologise. No need, I feel I was over sensitive in my reaction and had no right to use it as a conduit to other frustrations. It is I that own you an apology, I ask to be judged by my character and then show none. " There's a lot of unpleasantness on the internet. It's easy to get down sometimes x | |||
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"It's where all the dating site rejects end up " Is that your experience then? | |||
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"I thought it was just a site for moaning about things and slagging off people that don't agree with you, or behave as you want them to? Can't be a dating site because hardly anyone wants to actually meet up and those that do, don't turn up; timewasters! So it can't really be a sex site, either as that would involve meeting and intercourse. Maybe it is just a site for smart arses, with their tongues firmly in their cheeks, to post responses to random topics in forums?" | |||
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"It's an anything you like site...a platform to meet, share interests, have sex? I met my partner on here and we are moving in together plus we have sex with people on here. Sex/dating/swinging? Who cares, as longs as it's fun and safe. " | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? " Couldn't agree more. It's loosing it's fun | |||
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"I thought it was just a site for moaning about things and slagging off people that don't agree with you, or behave as you want them to? Can't be a dating site because hardly anyone wants to actually meet up and those that do, don't turn up; timewasters! So it can't really be a sex site, either as that would involve meeting and intercourse. Maybe it is just a site for smart arses, with their tongues firmly in their cheeks, to post responses to random topics in forums?" lol you could be right but then no cos we dont agree with each other on here either lol | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? " Another social media site ? | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? Another social media site ?" With added benefits though | |||
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"Does it matter? People can use it however they feel, surely " its whatever you want to make it full of naughty people | |||
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"Swingers site and some people end up dating from it " Some people even get married | |||
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"Swingers site and some people end up dating from it Some people even get married " Yes, it is a prerequisite to a divorce | |||
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"Swingers site and some people end up dating from it Some people even get married " Yes, are you proposing to me | |||
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"Swingers site and some people end up dating from it Some people even get married Yes, are you proposing to me " I like you too much to do that...... I would be a terrible husband... I want my wife home barefoot and pregnant | |||
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"Swingers site and some people end up dating from it Some people even get married Yes, it is a prerequisite to a divorce " | |||
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"Is this a dating site or a swinging site. Its getting more and more like a dating site every day. Am i wrong ? " yes you are wrong.. | |||
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"Swingers site and some people end up dating from it Some people even get married Yes, are you proposing to me I like you too much to do that...... I would be a terrible husband... I want my wife home barefoot and pregnant " I do like barefoot | |||
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"I always think people who say its a dating site,get a strop on when people want to chat a bit or to have a social meet. People can use fab in what ever way they want,as long as up front about it. Miss" I agree . With time we all evolve and our likes change. We all have personal likes . I pay subscription and have many friends in swinging lifestyle but they all know as a single woman that is not my preference and they all respect that even when we go to clubs . | |||
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