FabSwingers.com forum: Seeing people you know

By *aveyw OP Man
over a year ago

tramore

Been covered before but have many people seen relations/friends/workmates on here or in clubs. I met a close friend of my sister in a club in Germany. Thought it was gonna be awkward but she bit the bullet and approached me and said "look let's not spoil each other's night. Just do your own thing and never speak of this again ??". We avoided each other as best we could but I did spot her in a room being roasted by a rather large German man and her husband. Met her in a bar about six months later and we just carried on as normal. I could think of a few people that if it happened with it would have been a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

A friend text me a few days ago to tell me that one of our mutual friends had been to her house and shown her our profile on here. She won't tell me who it is, I'll be out for his blood if I find out though.

Eve. X

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By *aveyw OP Man
over a year ago

tramore

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

A friend text me a few days ago to tell me that one of our mutual friends had been to her house and shown her our profile on here. She won't tell me who it is, I'll be out for his blood if I find out

though.

That's not nice at all

Eve. X"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X"

Bloomin eck you have some bad luck with people showing your profile. I guess he outed himself at the same time though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X"

Bloody hell guys. Why do people even want to do that to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I know one person on here who was a workmate, I always fancied her too. But she doesn't know I know she's on here, nor will I tell her I know, because I respect her very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a good friend of mine on here. Haven't gone into his profile but it's basically his name anyway and he's shaved a few years off lol

I've suspected that he might be into this kind of lifestyle for a while but haven't brought it up with him.

Also saw the site's web address when he was typing in facebook

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I have seen a couple of people from fab out in town on a weekend,never approached them and never would either.

A school friends brother was on fab,I blocked him save any akwardness.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Other than one client the company I worked for had I've never seen or to my knowledge been seen by anyone other than one friend of my ex who had no pictures etc but felt compelled to send me a message telling my what a disposable person I was for being on here (a month after it ended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^^despicable

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X"

That "mutual friend" of yours is probably one of those petty men or women who see a gorgeous honest and open couple like you two (who're not afraid to show their faces) and can't stand how fortunate you two are to have each other. So he/she does what he/she does best - tries to screw things up for you. Good he/she didn't succeed. I'm not at all as lovely as you but have been outed a few times by shitheads and my answer has become a casual "yes, I swing and fuck different partners" and move on. My sister thought I was a sinner going straight to hell when she was first told. A few coworkers were told about me and gave me a few glances at work before confronting me. Their jaws dropped open when I said the above line casually. Life's too short to worry about others.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I know of at least 5/6 friends that I have bumped into on here, 2 of them being females, and know we are friends on here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X

Bloomin eck you have some bad luck with people showing your profile. I guess he outed himself at the same time though."

I know! I'm pretty sure he will be the same person who threatened to send pictures to our family.

The friend he told is also good friends with Adams parents.

Luckily, she already knew and would never tell anyone.

She wouldn't tell me who he was though which is frustrating.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X

Aww thank you gorgeous! I wasn't bothered that they had seen us, just that they were showing people because it's a dick move.

He made her promise not to tell me who it was though as he doesn't want his girlfriend knowing he was on here!!

What a bloody cheek? It's OK for him to be telling the local area about us though.

My friend already knew and had already told me she doesn't agree with it blah blah blah. She's a good friend though.

I'm glad you are so confident and happy in your own skin and lifestyle doll.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X

Bloody hell guys. Why do people even want to do that to you?

He apparently wanted to check it was really us and not a fake profile. Why not just ask us? It doesn't look fake.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did a "who's near" in the office a couple of weeks ago and it came up with someone within a quarter mile, which could only be in our office. I think I know who it is but I'm obviously not going to say anything.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"He made her promise not to tell me who it was though as he doesn't want his girlfriend knowing he was on here!!

Promise or not, your friend should tell you who it was. If he's shown it to her, he's probably shown it to other people and will do so again in the future.

Whoever it is needs to be confronted and warned off before it gets messy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He made her promise not to tell me who it was though as he doesn't want his girlfriend knowing he was on here!!

Promise or not, your friend should tell you who it was. If he's shown it to her, he's probably shown it to other people and will do so again in the future.

Whoever it is needs to be confronted and warned off before it gets messy."

That's what I've said to her and she still refuses to tell me.

She said she made him promise not to show anyone to which I replied with a scoff ha ha. I don't for a second believe he won't show others.

We will find out eventually.

My friend clearly values him more than me which leads me to believe he is a close family friend. I see why she won't tell us as she knows Adam won't be happy.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw my older sister and her partner on here. It wasn't really a shock though as they had already let the cat out of the bag, when they gave me there old laptop and had forgotten to erase pictures of a meet they had

Still to this day have never mentioned anything to them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He made her promise not to tell me who it was though as he doesn't want his girlfriend knowing he was on here!!

Promise or not, your friend should tell you who it was. If he's shown it to her, he's probably shown it to other people and will do so again in the future.

Whoever it is needs to be confronted and warned off before it gets messy."

I wouldn't let them bother you. You're a happily married couple with nothing to hide or be ashamed off. I wouldn't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't seen anyone I know nor, to my knowledge, has anyone who knows me seen me. But they wouldn't recognise me anyway from what I display here.

There's no point relying on other people to be discreet because they probably won't. If you don't want people knowing about this aspect of your life, make yourself unrecognisable.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X

Bloomin eck you have some bad luck with people showing your profile. I guess he outed himself at the same time though.

I know! I'm pretty sure he will be the same person who threatened to send pictures to our family.

The friend he told is also good friends with Adams parents.

Luckily, she already knew and would never tell anyone.

She wouldn't tell me who he was though which is frustrating.

Eve. X "

I just don't understand this type of thing. Why tell you if they refuse to say who it is? It's like the play ground "I've got a secret but I'm not telling you what it is". Someone's playing power games here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think theres a girl I work with on here.Not all the profile text fits but the pictures make me about 90% sure, even without her face being shown!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parents of our son's classmate are in Fab.. whilst doing the local area search we came across their profile - though she has hidden her face- it was quite obivious from the distinctive tatoo, hairstyle and body shape... however, we didn't approach them as it was their private life - though hubby was quite interested in sending the wink but I have restrained him on the context of them being the parents of sons best friend.

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I haven't seen anyone I know nor, to my knowledge, has anyone who knows me seen me. But they wouldn't recognise me anyway from what I display here.

There's no point relying on other people to be discreet because they probably won't. If you don't want people knowing about this aspect of your life, make yourself unrecognisable. "

So you don't look like your pictures ??

Gutted

Youve ruined my fantasy

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By *un4usCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

We went to a house party a couple of years ago. Walked into the kitchen of the house and there stood our neighbour who we had lived across the road from for 25 years. which maybe not that uncommon but the village we live in only has 180 people total living here. We had a chat and a laugh about it. Still get on fine saw her in the town the other day and she was telling us about her new wand. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We walked in to amours once and a girl l went to school with was in with her husband, l walked over and said look we don't want people on know you don't want people to let's just get over it and move on

We are now firm swinging friends have even played together, and use each other has excuses all the time

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No, thankfully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been covered before but have many people seen relations/friends/workmates on here or in clubs. I met a close friend of my sister in a club in Germany. Thought it was gonna be awkward but she bit the bullet and approached me and said "look let's not spoil each other's night. Just do your own thing and never speak of this again ??". We avoided each other as best we could but I did spot her in a room being roasted by a rather large German man and her husband. Met her in a bar about six months later and we just carried on as normal. I could think of a few people that if it happened with it would have been a nightmare "

Had a few. We went on a meet and it turned out the guy was a lad male half hung around with at school. Also we've walked into a club and numbed into a couple who are family cant say much as there on here

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't seen anyone I know nor, to my knowledge, has anyone who knows me seen me. But they wouldn't recognise me anyway from what I display here.

There's no point relying on other people to be discreet because they probably won't. If you don't want people knowing about this aspect of your life, make yourself unrecognisable.

So you don't look like your pictures ??

Gutted

Youve ruined my fantasy

Nothing whatsoever. I'm really a small 50 year old blonde.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one would recognise me from my pictures. I've never seen anyone I know nor have I ever been recognised. I take my discretion seriously, it's paramount to me.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We've been to three Fab socials in Bristol now, and at every one we've bumped into someone we know from the vanilla world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did see someone we know on here but within an hour she was "unlos". Whether that means we got blocked or she just deleted i dont know. But wouldnt have mentioned anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X

Bloomin eck you have some bad luck with people showing your profile. I guess he outed himself at the same time though.

I know! I'm pretty sure he will be the same person who threatened to send pictures to our family.

The friend he told is also good friends with Adams parents.

Luckily, she already knew and would never tell anyone.

She wouldn't tell me who he was though which is frustrating.

Eve. X

Indeed! She said she wanted to warn me that someone local had seen me, that she worries about me and maybe I shouldn't have face pictures on.

Whomever it is would have recognised us without face pictures. Adam is covered, he would be one big blur, I have plenty too and most friends have seen me in a bikini from the locals beach party so body shape would be obvious too.

She's a strange one but I love her ha ha. She is desperate for me to stop.

Eve. X

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By *haneleviMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

I've seen a fair few I wouldn't expect to of seen!

Loads of lads I know of also looking for Tv/Ts which was a little shocking!

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

We once saw my OHs sister-in-law and brother on a site. Being that she was shy and quiet as a mouse, we thought it strange.

My OH went round to check if it was actually them. Turned out they'd done it previously but weren't anymore as it wasn't for them, but that profile wasn't theirs. They'd been on here and others but never heard of the site in question.

She got really upset, started crying uncontrollably and begged him to not tell anyone.

He just gave her a hug, and said "And how exactly would we explain what WE were doing on that site?" She laughed realising that it'd 'out' us as well.

I promised I'd tell the site it was a fake, and get it deleted. Which I did.

I told her not to worry about it and joked that it's always the bloody quiet ones!

We've never spoken of it since.

My OH said its the longest he's ever stared at a tattoo... (The pics weren't great so it was difficult to be sure it was her!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been to three Fab socials in Bristol now, and at every one we've bumped into someone we know from the vanilla world.

Oh no, don't say that. I'm off to my first Fab social next Friday, I'll die if that happens !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been to three Fab socials in Bristol now, and at every one we've bumped into someone we know from the vanilla world.

Oh no, don't say that. I'm off to my first Fab social next Friday, I'll die if that happens !!"

This is also somethings thats making us think twice about socials...just know we'd see someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been to three Fab socials in Bristol now, and at every one we've bumped into someone we know from the vanilla world.

Oh no, don't say that. I'm off to my first Fab social next Friday, I'll die if that happens !!

This is also somethings thats making us think twice about socials...just know we'd see someone "

Well I'm going totally out of my home area so I'm hoping it won't happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met my old md in chams jacuzzi!! We got on well but never played x I was pulled into the office and we just said keep it separate x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've been to three Fab socials in Bristol now, and at every one we've bumped into someone we know from the vanilla world.

Oh no, don't say that. I'm off to my first Fab social next Friday, I'll die if that happens !!

This is also somethings thats making us think twice about socials...just know we'd see someone

Well I'm going totally out of my home area so I'm hoping it won't happen."

As long as the locals dont think the same thing too haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only recently have I been messaged by someone I know, it really through me as he was using the same profile pic for Fabs & FB.

Block, block, blockety block...

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"We've been to three Fab socials in Bristol now, and at every one we've bumped into someone we know from the vanilla world.

Oh no, don't say that. I'm off to my first Fab social next Friday, I'll die if that happens !!"

It was a bit of a shock the first time, now we expect it.

Us filthy degenerates are everywhere!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found out one of my cousins was in the scene via the venomous family rumour mill (bunch of backward thinking neanderthals), my partner and I decided it was better to be discrete and keep our activities to ourselves.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

An old fuck buddy messaged me via fab, he didn't know it was me. I recognised his lovely torso

(no tattoos, just not easily forgotten)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been recognised loads. The other week me and a fab friend and another friend not on fab went to the pub. As we was at the bar my non fab mate got chatting to some bloke about some sort of gin and he was very chatty and nice I may have said a word or 2 to him and the next day he messaged me, and I thought he had seen my profile and recognised me from the pub. But he was like no i recognised you as soon as you walked in lol I said he should have said I wouldn't have minded. Also I got messaged by a bloke saying he was sitting to me in the hairdressers earlier that day lol

But what does creep me out is people who recognise me on here and send endless creepy messages saying they know me my name saying where I live etc but don't reveal who they are. I just tell them well done I'm not ashamed to be on here or I wouldn't have my face plastered all over my profile I'm not hurting anyonew they obviously have something to hide or think they can blackmail me..this has happened a couple of times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends completely on the individuals circumstances as to where her they would mind being recognised. I'm guessing for singles it's not as much as an issue at all, as it would be for someone who is married and on here without their partners knowledge. Totally different consequences associated with being recognised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a friend from years back message me the other day. It was a lovely surprise as we'd lost touch. He didn't hide who he is, which is the only thing that worries me, when I guy messages to say he knows me, but won't give away who he is.

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

We know a few people on here have bumped into some at party's and at club even plated with two , but they have been Descrete as us mainly because they are married like us and want to keep our private life's private , or they are playing away from home and don't want to be caught out . I'd be more worried if it were a work colleague as I am a truck driver and wouldn't want them to know I like watching wife being fucked by other guys . And all us lorry drivers always eying up women or looking at porn ,don't get me wrong I would be ok with friend fucking the wife but they would have to be really really trust worthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of our neighbours attend the same parties we do.

It was a bit odd at first seeing someone from say a local shop or business getting raunchy, but now we don't even think about it.

Biggest thrill was seeing what some of them looked like unclothed.

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By *issnwtyWoman
over a year ago

manchester

I got seen her n here he messaged me said who it was but never told any 1 else close call but all ended well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ex colleagues, odd friend ie one of wifes friends and folk we see around town.

We find it a turn on cammed with a few met one etc.

Not club types so possibly would bump in to some there but that's more awkward than getting a wink, chat then FR

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Years ago i went on webcam with a guy and we both realised we worked in the same place. The next day he had to come to the dept i work in. Both of us were nervous about each other telling work mates but it was all ok and after that we met many times for fun (not in work time). I still see him at work and we chat, he's a nice guy

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

Just remembered an incident from a few years ago. I was at my local Asda when a couple walked right out in front of my car from behind a van (i.e. I couldn't see them, they just appeared, didn't look where they were going).

I slammed on my brakes but luckily being in a car park I was only going a few mph. They then started shouting at me. Me being me, I rolled down my window and called them simpletons.

As I did I recognised them as a couple local to us. They are quite distinctive looking and I'm 100% sure it was them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to see someone I know on here, and find out that they're into this sort of thing too

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By *9MuppetMan
over a year ago

Bath...ish area

Saw a bloke in a local shop I recognised from a club - he saw me and virtually ran out of the shop.

First time at a new club and the bloke who followed me in was a bloke I was, at the time, serving with in the Forces.

Seen a couple of profiles of people I recognised.

Worst though was when someone saw my profile, recognised me and sent a copy of the profile to my mother and grandmother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is how it should be

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Never seen anyone out and about. I have seen a few on here but Abe just blocked and carried on as normal.

Eve. X

Aww thank you gorgeous! I wasn't bothered that they had seen us, just that they were showing people because it's a dick move.

He made her promise not to tell me who it was though as he doesn't want his girlfriend knowing he was on here!!

What a bloody cheek? It's OK for him to be telling the local area about us though.

My friend already knew and had already told me she doesn't agree with it blah blah blah. She's a good friend though.

I'm glad you are so confident and happy in your own skin and lifestyle doll.

Eve. X "

If she is such a good friend why don't she tell you who he is?

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