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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke" That's a good one | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke That's a good one " Yep that means yours is certainly real! | |||
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"Well we've all seen them, so let's start a list of things to look out for... 1) They've been on here for a while but are not verified..." that doesn't mean anything... for example... if 2 people meet, and neither is varified.. they still couldn't varify each other..... and we know that sometimes it take a while for people to get meets..... so... crossy that one off.... | |||
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"Well we've all seen them, so let's start a list of things to look out for... 1) They've been on here for a while but are not verified... that doesn't mean anything... for example... if 2 people meet, and neither is varified.. they still couldn't varify each other..... and we know that sometimes it take a while for people to get meets..... so... crossy that one off...." Nope, sorry, not having that one. A YEAR and no veris - screams bogus to me. Just a difference of opinion, not having a go. | |||
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"Well we've all seen them, so let's start a list of things to look out for... 1) They've been on here for a while but are not verified... that doesn't mean anything... for example... if 2 people meet, and neither is varified.. they still couldn't varify each other..... and we know that sometimes it take a while for people to get meets..... so... crossy that one off.... Well said mate i have met some one on here and we meet once every two weeks but im no verfide and nor is she so we cant do anythin about it " You are photo verified so the above doesn't make sense! | |||
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"Well we've all seen them, so let's start a list of things to look out for... 1) They've been on here for a while but are not verified... that doesn't mean anything... for example... if 2 people meet, and neither is varified.. they still couldn't varify each other..... and we know that sometimes it take a while for people to get meets..... so... crossy that one off.... Well said mate i have met some one on here and we meet once every two weeks but im no verfide and nor is she so we cant do anythin about it You are photo verified so the above doesn't make sense! " Not the same thing. | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke" Guess we're false then | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke" There's a couple on the forums with only the male photo and only he posts. As others have met them it proves your theory wrong! | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke There's a couple on the forums with only the male photo and only he posts. As others have met them it proves your theory wrong!" you talking 'bout us? | |||
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"Well we've all seen them, so let's start a list of things to look out for... 1) They've been on here for a while but are not verified... that doesn't mean anything... for example... if 2 people meet, and neither is varified.. they still couldn't varify each other..... and we know that sometimes it take a while for people to get meets..... so... crossy that one off...." Agree! Also not everyone cares about verifications. I've met several men without them: I've yet to encounter a time waster or no show in three years! | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke Guess we're false then " | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke There's a couple on the forums with only the male photo and only he posts. As others have met them it proves your theory wrong! you talking 'bout us? " Yes | |||
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"Well we've all seen them, so let's start a list of things to look out for... 1) They've been on here for a while but are not verified... that doesn't mean anything... for example... if 2 people meet, and neither is varified.. they still couldn't varify each other..... and we know that sometimes it take a while for people to get meets..... so... crossy that one off.... Nope, sorry, not having that one. A YEAR and no veris - screams bogus to me. Just a difference of opinion, not having a go." Thanks heavens for that - I have two so I can't be fake! | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke" And vice versa. I'm tired of seeing couple profiles that only have pictures of the woman. No use to someone wanting to know what the man looks like. | |||
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"Single male who can't accommodate.... oh, hang on, that's me! " Yeah, if that meant fake then 99.99999% of the guys on here are fake. I'm more suspicious of the couples who can't accommodate. | |||
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"Single male who can't accommodate.... oh, hang on, that's me! Yeah, if that meant fake then 99.99999% of the guys on here are fake. I'm more suspicious of the couples who can't accommodate." For curiosity, why? | |||
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"Single male who can't accommodate.... oh, hang on, that's me! Yeah, if that meant fake then 99.99999% of the guys on here are fake. I'm more suspicious of the couples who can't accommodate. For curiosity, why?" Because most the time a guy can't accom, its because he's 'forgotten' to tell me he's married. That shouldn't be a problem with couples, although I should have qualified my statement. I am more suspicious of couples who can't accommodate without a good reason, like kids etc. Obviously there is a story behind every profile which can explain the reasons of everything, but if the people don't give some kind of reason, it usually means the profile is fake or the people are timewasters, and that applies to everybody, not just couples. | |||
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"Single male who can't accommodate.... oh, hang on, that's me! Yeah, if that meant fake then 99.99999% of the guys on here are fake. I'm more suspicious of the couples who can't accommodate. For curiosity, why? Because most the time a guy can't accom, its because he's 'forgotten' to tell me he's married. That shouldn't be a problem with couples, although I should have qualified my statement. I am more suspicious of couples who can't accommodate without a good reason, like kids etc. Obviously there is a story behind every profile which can explain the reasons of everything, but if the people don't give some kind of reason, it usually means the profile is fake or the people are timewasters, and that applies to everybody, not just couples." I can understand everyone has little signs they stick to when figuring out who is real or not, but if I am honest, if someone asked us why we didn't accomodate I wouldn't feel the need to answer as it would be our business not theirs....so we would be classed as fake. | |||
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"The fact is things we assume may well be pointers to a fake are often nothing of the sort. I blocked a couple once after some odd messages as I was convinced it was a single guy.... then I met them both at a club. Exchanging messages and having social meets is the best way to sort them out I reckon. " In your case the exchanging messages didn't help you as you thought they were fake | |||
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"People seem to spend a lot of time worrying about what everyone else is doing. Does no-one rely on their own judgement any more? I would no more decide on whether I'm going to meet someone by a verification from someone else than I would listen to a film review by someone else. Seriously... it does make me wonder some days. Listen to your instincts, do your own homework, have your own conversations, be your own person and stop judging other people when you know half a story from someone else. Verifications are up there with naming and shaming in my book. " Wise words oh wise one. | |||
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"The fact is things we assume may well be pointers to a fake are often nothing of the sort. I blocked a couple once after some odd messages as I was convinced it was a single guy.... then I met them both at a club. Exchanging messages and having social meets is the best way to sort them out I reckon. In your case the exchanging messages didn't help you as you thought they were fake " What can I say? I'm easily confused. | |||
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"People seem to spend a lot of time worrying about what everyone else is doing. Does no-one rely on their own judgement any more? I would no more decide on whether I'm going to meet someone by a verification from someone else than I would listen to a film review by someone else. Seriously... it does make me wonder some days. Listen to your instincts, do your own homework, have your own conversations, be your own person and stop judging other people when you know half a story from someone else. Verifications are up there with naming and shaming in my book. Wise words oh wise one." On reflection I think I just sound a bit crabbit! | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke And vice versa. I'm tired of seeing couple profiles that only have pictures of the woman. No use to someone wanting to know what the man looks like." Why are you tired of looking for male pics in an m/f couple when your profile shouts out that your not interested in meeting them? You have also said the same on the forums!!! | |||
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"I have to come clean......It's true by all the above measures I am fake. I am really a 4'8" bald and fat man with no teeth, fake tanned skin, really bad dress sense and I work as a tax inspector. My plus points are I have a massive 2" cock and I can go for ages, sometimes upto 3 minutes. As you can see i'm a real fake catch " GRRRRR, that's a copy paste of my part of our profile.....j/k | |||
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"Nope, sorry, not having that one. A YEAR and no veris - screams bogus to me. Just a difference of opinion, not having a go." I'd agree that it's a big warning sign. Ignore it at your own volition. There are people who don't want verifications but they should expect to be treated with suspicion. I've heard there are profiles showing up with verifications that are fake. People asking somebody to verify just to help them get meets. I saw one, 22 yr old girl who had the 'total slut' profile and naked pics with verifications from the day she joined. I think it was reported and banned because it disappeared quickly. I can imagine some serial fekers set up sleeper profiles they can dig up in six months to verify. I usally follow a trail to see how verified the verifiers are. | |||
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"People seem to spend a lot of time worrying about what everyone else is doing. Does no-one rely on their own judgement any more? I would no more decide on whether I'm going to meet someone by a verification from someone else than I would listen to a film review by someone else. Seriously... it does make me wonder some days. Listen to your instincts, do your own homework, have your own conversations, be your own person and stop judging other people when you know half a story from someone else. Verifications are up there with naming and shaming in my book. Wise words oh wise one." Unless the film review was by Mark Kermode Very very wise words that should be cut and pasted onto every why do thread | |||
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"They are a "couple" but only have pics of the bloke And vice versa. I'm tired of seeing couple profiles that only have pictures of the woman. No use to someone wanting to know what the man looks like. Why are you tired of looking for male pics in an m/f couple when your profile shouts out that your not interested in meeting them? You have also said the same on the forums!!! " Because I will occasionally play with the male half of a couple separately, that's why (assuming his other half is ok with it). It's not rocket science. And no I don't meet couples but that doesn't mean I can't look at their profiles to see if they play separately as well as together. | |||
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"I've heard there are profiles showing up with verifications that are fake. People asking somebody to verify just to help them get meets. I saw one, 22 yr old girl who had the 'total slut' profile and naked pics with verifications from the day she joined. I think it was reported and banned because it disappeared quickly. I can imagine some serial fekers set up sleeper profiles they can dig up in six months to verify. I usally follow a trail to see how verified the verifiers are." I had lunch with one single man I met on FAB. I liked him a lot but when I suggested a meet it turned out he already had a FB. No problem. Sometime later, he reappeared on here with a brand new profile complete with verifications and asked to meet. I said no as I didn't want to go to the club he suggested or play with the other guy he suggested. No problem. But then, after that, he began regularly deleting his profile after being on here a few weeks and then reappearing a month or so later with a new name, new profile and new verifications. He's not a fake as I've met him and I know for a fact that he's single but he's definitely a FLAKE. I've called him out on this several times and asked why he keeps deleting his profile and reappearing. He's never given me a satisfactory explanation as to why he does this but it made me so uneasy that eventually I told him bluntly I will never meet him because of this and not to contact me again. It's a shame as he does seem to be a nice man but I just don't understand why he constantly deletes and reappears. I do wonder if his new veris are ever real but I guess they might well be as I know he's a regular at a club near me. Very strange. | |||
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"People seem to spend a lot of time worrying about what everyone else is doing. Does no-one rely on their own judgement any more? I would no more decide on whether I'm going to meet someone by a verification from someone else than I would listen to a film review by someone else. Seriously... it does make me wonder some days. Listen to your instincts, do your own homework, have your own conversations, be your own person and stop judging other people when you know half a story from someone else. Verifications are up there with naming and shaming in my book. " A woman after my own heart! | |||
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"I had lunch with one single man I met on FAB. I liked him a lot but when I suggested a meet it turned out he already had a FB. No problem. Sometime later, he reappeared on here with a brand new profile complete with verifications and asked to meet. I said no as I didn't want to go to the club he suggested or play with the other guy he suggested. No problem. But then, after that, he began regularly deleting his profile after being on here a few weeks and then reappearing a month or so later with a new name, new profile and new verifications. He's not a fake as I've met him and I know for a fact that he's single but he's definitely a FLAKE." I met a guy and afterwards he admitted he had a girlfriend. He said he deleted his profile regularly. I think he just set a new one up when he was desperate for a shag, then he'd go back to his gf and avoid temptation for a while. | |||
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"People seem to spend a lot of time worrying about what everyone else is doing. Does no-one rely on their own judgement any more? I would no more decide on whether I'm going to meet someone by a verification from someone else than I would listen to a film review by someone else. Seriously... it does make me wonder some days. Listen to your instincts, do your own homework, have your own conversations, be your own person and stop judging other people when you know half a story from someone else. Verifications are up there with naming and shaming in my book. Wise words oh wise one. On reflection I think I just sound a bit crabbit! " Well, I didn't want to say. :P By all means remove the chisel your toolkit but you won't make as good a wardrobe. Get me and my middle-management-speak. | |||
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"moving slightly off topic on this, what does a guy who is pretending to be a couple expect to gain from arranging a meet if it is only ever going to be him turn up??" I think it's more about getting access to cam and pics. Or they'll show up and say the wife is whatever excuse they can think of for her not being there. | |||
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"I have to come clean......It's true by all the above measures I am fake. I am really a 4'8" bald and fat man with no teeth, fake tanned skin, really bad dress sense and I work as a tax inspector. My plus points are I have a massive 2" cock and I can go for ages, sometimes upto 3 minutes. As you can see i'm a real fake catch " oh god u are the man of my dreams!! | |||
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"People seem to spend a lot of time worrying about what everyone else is doing. Does no-one rely on their own judgement any more? I would no more decide on whether I'm going to meet someone by a verification from someone else than I would listen to a film review by someone else. Seriously... it does make me wonder some days. Listen to your instincts, do your own homework, have your own conversations, be your own person and stop judging other people when you know half a story from someone else. Verifications are up there with naming and shaming in my book. Wise words oh wise one. On reflection I think I just sound a bit crabbit! Well, I didn't want to say. :P By all means remove the chisel your toolkit but you won't make as good a wardrobe. Get me and my middle-management-speak." Well it just shows how much of a pleb I am cause I've no idea what you're talking about you middle manager you! | |||
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"moving slightly off topic on this, what does a guy who is pretending to be a couple expect to gain from arranging a meet if it is only ever going to be him turn up?? i dont understand the reasoning or am i missing some massive sexual turn on here lol.... on an even bigger move away from topic, Game4it2, you are absolutely stunning,,,,,, " We had a meet with a man once who said he had arranged a meet with a woman, he trusted who she said she was and turned up for the meet to find a man there..who admitted he was the "woman" and could the meet still go ahead. So I am guessing they do it in the hope the person will stay and play anyway. Needless to say he did loads of checks for his next meets | |||
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"moving slightly off topic on this, what does a guy who is pretending to be a couple expect to gain from arranging a meet if it is only ever going to be him turn up?? i dont understand the reasoning or am i missing some massive sexual turn on here lol.... on an even bigger move away from topic, Game4it2, you are absolutely stunning,,,,,, " What does he get?...wank fodder | |||
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"I dont think being able to accommodate or not means fake. With todays financial issues, many people are living in places they can afford, however are not proud of, many have moved back in with parents, some have neighbours (that non of us want) I know some single guys living in shared houses (and feel at their age its not suitable) I even know of one, who cares now for his mum at home, because he cant afford nursing home fees. Totally agree we live with disabled parent who we care for so can NEVER accommodate yet met many cpls and singles in clubs/hotels/their houses - and we are NOT FAKE. We agree with no pix on profile and no verifications - we stir clear. Yes alot of us want discretion - so post body pix and few cock / pussy / boobs pix but post something. Personalise ur profile without showing ur face pix. If u can't be bothered doing that much then as a cpl we would avoid such cpl / single profiles. Life happens, some couples wont play at home because of children and not every absent parent has contact... The list is pretty endless. " | |||
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