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By *r Mojo Risin OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Why do so many people delete messages sent to them without reading or looking at the senders profile first??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many people delete messages sent to them without reading or looking at the senders profile first??"

Because they aren't interested... simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We delete if it's clear someone hasn't read our profile or the message is really rubbish.

H xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They've looked, they're just looking in stealth mode. Your profile probably did nothing for them so they chose not to take it further.

Delete your sent box. You'll get no joy from it.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why do so many people delete messages sent to them without reading or looking at the senders profile first??"

Don't bother looking. No point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't, i just leave them unread to stop guys asking this question.

people will reply if interested.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

We tend to look, you just won't know.

And we can tell if you're read our profiles or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know they do?

You can hide who u look at and set messages to unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are always in stealth mode and always check out a profile before messaging back or deleting

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I look in stealth mode and I only read messages from people who have read my profile.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I only read messages that have the code phrase in it anyway which is "Steve ya shaggable hunk, me wife wants ya" so if the message doesn't say that, I know they haven't read my profile and they get an instant delete (after I've sent a rather terse message back advising them to bloody read and not just gawp at the pics)

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By *r Mojo Risin OP   Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Thanks guys. I was totally unaware of stealth mode. Happy swinging folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget about your sent mail box. It'll save you oodles of angst in the long run. Delete it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We delete if it's clear someone hasn't read our profile or the message is really rubbish.

H xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys. I was totally unaware of stealth mode. Happy swinging folks."

It is in your account settings. Familiarise yourself with them.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

No reply = No interest

Its in the FAQS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasionally you'll also get a bulk delete ..but yeah dint worry about it, be a sure supporter and when / if they reply you'll know what you said.

Key to fab....relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are always in stealth mode and always check out a profile before messaging back or deleting "

We are normally in stealth mode too, unless we want some particularly sexy couple or lady know we have looked not just fabbed a pic, or sometimes for other reasons too.

Him (the remover of stealth mode)

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I look at the profile before I read/delete a message, but I do so in stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do so many people delete messages sent to them without reading or looking at the senders profile first??"

probably because they looked at the profile in stealth mode and then decided you weren't for them so deleted the message? or alternatively if it is a woman, they get alot of messages so just mass delete all their messages to clear their inbox and see who bothers to write back?

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