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By *ateshead dude OP   Man
over a year ago

durham

Hi folks , in just wondering what people's general opinion is on the ones who themselves don't show any photos , yet say "must include face pic on first message"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can ask for what they like,you don't have to give it to them. Just pass those types of profiles by, they're doing no harm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks , in just wondering what people's general opinion is on the ones who themselves don't show any photos , yet say "must include face pic on first message"

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It annoys me if they message without one aswell

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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"Hi folks , in just wondering what people's general opinion is on the ones who themselves don't show any photos , yet say "must include face pic on first message"

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I don't message them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they probably do in private like your self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cos if they like the look of you they will send one back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks , in just wondering what people's general opinion is on the ones who themselves don't show any photos , yet say "must include face pic on first message"

I don't message them "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks , in just wondering what people's general opinion is on the ones who themselves don't show any photos , yet say "must include face pic on first message"

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Saves a lot of wasted time in the long run

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By *ateshead dude OP   Man
over a year ago

durham

all great points , I'd prefer to be comfortable with the person before sending a photo though

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By *ateshead dude OP   Man
over a year ago

durham

I guess pic collectors and idiots can spoil it for us genuine folks , some profiles leave you wondering if they're real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them"

I don't know if I wanna meet someone until I have seen their face!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them

I don't know if I wanna meet someone until I have seen their face! "

It puts off the picture collectors

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham


"We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them

I don't know if I wanna meet someone until I have seen their face! "

same here, like to get the face pic pretty much straight away, saves wasting anyone's time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them"

I wouldn't arrange anything with someone if that was the case. I can't know if I'm going to meet someone without seeing what they look like. Just the awkward backtracking if you see they are really not your type. Too uncomfortable haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all great points , I'd prefer to be comfortable with the person before sending a photo though "

Then that is fine. I can't see a problem.

We prefer to swap pictures early on. No point in getting into detailed conversations if there is no physical attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi folks , in just wondering what people's general opinion is on the ones who themselves don't show any photos , yet say "must include face pic on first message"

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No one is forcing you or anyone else to do anything they aren't comfortable with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pass them over, probably pic collectors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them

I don't know if I wanna meet someone until I have seen their face!

It puts off the picture collectors "

My pics are pretty tame n most on here anyway lol....and I really don't need more of anyone else lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now insist on pic as in a prior forum I went to a meet not knowing who I was meeting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them

I don't know if I wanna meet someone until I have seen their face!

It puts off the picture collectors

My pics are pretty tame n most on here anyway lol....and I really don't need more of anyone else lol "
nice pics lovely smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them

I don't know if I wanna meet someone until I have seen their face!

same here, like to get the face pic pretty much straight away, saves wasting anyone's time "

Exactly! Don't like having to tell someone I get on perfectly well with that I am not interested in playing with them...feels mean lol....if there is no face on the profile or in the first message, I delete it without reading it....including ones that ask if I want a face pic...it quite clearly says on my profile so...is frustrating sometimes too as have deleted messages from some beautiful bodies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I now insist on pic as in a prior forum I went to a meet not knowing who I was meeting ."

There's a story behind that... I can feel it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I now insist on pic as in a prior forum I went to a meet not knowing who I was meeting .

There's a story behind that... I can feel it "

You can feel me if you like

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By *tmmCouple
over a year ago

harlow

Dont mind a few messages back and forth first and then face pics but sooner rather than later.

We're not into blind dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"all great points , I'd prefer to be comfortable with the person before sending a photo though "

Are you able to get comfortable with someone, when you don't know what they look like?

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"cos if they like the look of you they will send one back?"

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By *emplarWarriorMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I find people funny that say they will show face pictures after we get to know each other, I cant think of anything worst, imagine speaking and getting along for weeks then you send a face picture and receive a message back saying "No Thanks"

Id be devastated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people funny that say they will show face pictures after we get to know each other, I cant think of anything worst, imagine speaking and getting along for weeks then you send a face picture and receive a message back saying "No Thanks"

Id be devastated "

I got to that place once. I was a complete coward about it. I really, really don't have a type but I just couldn't.

I ask much earlier now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people funny that say they will show face pictures after we get to know each other, I cant think of anything worst, imagine speaking and getting along for weeks then you send a face picture and receive a message back saying "No Thanks"

Id be devastated "
happens all the time you speak for ages they get curious and ask for a pic then say those dreaded words not for me sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find people funny that say they will show face pictures after we get to know each other, I cant think of anything worst, imagine speaking and getting along for weeks then you send a face picture and receive a message back saying "No Thanks"

Id be devastated "
happens all the time you speak for ages they get curious and ask for a pic then say those dreaded words not for me sorry

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By *ateshead dude OP   Man
over a year ago

durham


"all great points , I'd prefer to be comfortable with the person before sending a photo though

Are you able to get comfortable with someone, when you don't know what they look like?"
ok what I mean is make sure they don't live next door or something, as I like to keep myself discreet

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By *illupMan
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"People can ask for what they like,you don't have to give it to them. Just pass those types of profiles by, they're doing no harm."

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"We tell them we will send them one if we are going to meet with them

I don't know if I wanna meet someone until I have seen their face! "
its good to know wot ul b sitting on after all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a very strict rule. Irrespective of what pictures people show on their public pictures, whoever initiates contact there must be a face pic with first message. We do not ask of anybody anything we don't do ourselves. Getting pictures out of the way in the first message saves a hell of a lot of time being wasted later. We also don't wish to have the embarrassment of sharing face pics after chatting for some time and finding someone doesn't like what they see. We wish people, who are not prepared to disclose what they look like to us at first communication, would respect our position on this and not message us. We are very discreet people, but at the end of the day, if we go to a club we know that hundreds of people will see our faces.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really pisses me off that u send your pic as per their profile burn or at their request but they don't reciprocate or make excuse like I've got a very public job or haven't had time to take one ,bollocks like people are going to tell everyone in public i fucked them they're on fab and no chance to take a pic rubbish there's always time it takes a few minutes tops

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We have had this many times now dont even bother if they have no pics on profile

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By *ateshead dude OP   Man
over a year ago

durham


"We have a very strict rule. Irrespective of what pictures people show on their public pictures, whoever initiates contact there must be a face pic with first message. We do not ask of anybody anything we don't do ourselves. Getting pictures out of the way in the first message saves a hell of a lot of time being wasted later. We also don't wish to have the embarrassment of sharing face pics after chatting for some time and finding someone doesn't like what they see. We wish people, who are not prepared to disclose what they look like to us at first communication, would respect our position on this and not message us. We are very discreet people, but at the end of the day, if we go to a club we know that hundreds of people will see our faces.

Mrs"
I totally get your point and agree with everything you've said , however one thing I'd like to say as a single lad , I still want to remain as discreet as the rest on here and don't want to send my photo to every single profile that asks , If I take the time to send a message , I'd like at least one response before sending my photo , now I know some receive hundreds , maybe thousands of messages , but I only send to people within 10/20 mile of me , so for that reason I'd like to have a reply before sharing my face .. I'm happy to send first , but I think some sort of acknowledgement is justified .

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