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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog" Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is??? 
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine? "Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched! | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!"Precisely! Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread! | |||
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"I'm an equal opportunities perv, I do prefer curvy women, larger women but there are also slim women who are hot, I also find some fitness models with muscles hot. I don't like it when people rule out a whole race the same as I don't like it when people slag off body types. " If I get a sense someone is into a particular type and that's not me, then I don't go there. I don't want to be the exception to their rule, or some kind of fall back when they can't get what they actually want. I would never message someone called "slimlover" or "petitelover". So if someone goes to the trouble of using their profile name or profile text to emphasise a particular attribute they're attracted to then I don't think it's surprising that others might be put off by it. | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine? "Every bloody time this comment raises its ugly head doesn't it? Come on folks let think of a new way to insult slim women, and keep it original and funny please  | |||
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"Not BBW but curvy here x"I wouldn't say u wer curvy..... yes u have curves but ther deco in the right places mmmmmmm lol | |||
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"Not BBW but curvy here x
I wouldn't say u wer curvy..... yes u have curves but ther deco in the right places mmmmmmm lol"32dd on size 8 is quite curvy? | |||
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"Not BBW but curvy here x
I wouldn't say u wer curvy..... yes u have curves but ther deco in the right places mmmmmmm lol
32dd on size 8 is quite curvy?"Yea........ the RIGHT places lol, I'm a boob and bum man and if I click with a girl it doesn't matter what's between them lol | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread! "I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos! | |||
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"I really hate it when people say shit like meat is for men or curvy is how it should be . Love something all you want . But praise it by praising it . Not being negative towards something else . You wouldn't walk up to a woman in a bar and rather than say 'you are beautiful ' say ' you're much prettier than your mate '" 
But given some of the messages I get on here I think some might do just that, but it wouldn't get them very far! | |||
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"I really hate it when people say shit like meat is for men or curvy is how it should be . Love something all you want . But praise it by praising it . Not being negative towards something else . You wouldn't walk up to a woman in a bar and rather than say 'you are beautiful ' say ' you're much prettier than your mate '" That would probably work round my way lol | |||
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"I really hate it when people say shit like meat is for men or curvy is how it should be . Love something all you want . But praise it by praising it . Not being negative towards something else . You wouldn't walk up to a woman in a bar and rather than say 'you are beautiful ' say ' you're much prettier than your mate '
But given some of the messages I get on here I think some might do just that, but it wouldn't get them very far! "That's very true - instant delete | |||
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"I really hate it when people say shit like meat is for men or curvy is how it should be . Love something all you want . But praise it by praising it . Not being negative towards something else . You wouldn't walk up to a woman in a bar and rather than say 'you are beautiful ' say ' you're much prettier than your mate '
But given some of the messages I get on here I think some might do just that, but it wouldn't get them very far! "Yeah, the argument of saying on here what you'd say in real life doesn't resonate sometimes... Some are such cunts, they'd call you skinny or fat to your face! | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
"I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone! There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread! Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim! I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say! Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name! | |||
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"I really hate it when people say shit like meat is for men or curvy is how it should be . Love something all you want . But praise it by praising it . Not being negative towards something else . You wouldn't walk up to a woman in a bar and rather than say 'you are beautiful ' say ' you're much prettier than your mate '
But given some of the messages I get on here I think some might do just that, but it wouldn't get them very far!
Yeah, the argument of saying on here what you'd say in real life doesn't resonate sometimes... Some are such cunts, they'd call you skinny or fat to your face! "TBH I prefer the people who are out and out rude to the snide passive-aggressive insults dressed up as something else. | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name! "I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv! You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy! | |||
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"I really hate it when people say shit like meat is for men or curvy is how it should be . Love something all you want . But praise it by praising it . Not being negative towards something else . You wouldn't walk up to a woman in a bar and rather than say 'you are beautiful ' say ' you're much prettier than your mate '
But given some of the messages I get on here I think some might do just that, but it wouldn't get them very far!
Yeah, the argument of saying on here what you'd say in real life doesn't resonate sometimes... Some are such cunts, they'd call you skinny or fat to your face!
TBH I prefer the people who are out and out rude to the snide passive-aggressive insults dressed up as something else. "I'd prefer people to not mention anything about my body to my face. Passive aggressive or otherwise. I always remember someone asking me if me and my Sister were really related because I was so much bigger!? I was mortified! | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy! "The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world. | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog" Sometimes dogs are better company | |||
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"I really hate it when people say shit like meat is for men or curvy is how it should be . Love something all you want . But praise it by praising it . Not being negative towards something else . You wouldn't walk up to a woman in a bar and rather than say 'you are beautiful ' say ' you're much prettier than your mate '
But given some of the messages I get on here I think some might do just that, but it wouldn't get them very far!
Yeah, the argument of saying on here what you'd say in real life doesn't resonate sometimes... Some are such cunts, they'd call you skinny or fat to your face!
TBH I prefer the people who are out and out rude to the snide passive-aggressive insults dressed up as something else.
I'd prefer people to not mention anything about my body to my face. Passive aggressive or otherwise. I always remember someone asking me if me and my Sister were really related because I was so much bigger!? I was mortified! "Ugh. People are fuckwits. | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy! "What about couples? | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world. "I remember that thread. Now there seems to be an abundance of appreciation threads, so hopefully no one can moan, although it's gonna happen! | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog" Really?!!
Are you telling me you're incapable of expressing a preference without insulting others?!! | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world. "I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though! A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type! On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark! I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend) Jelly bellies (me!) Stretch marks Cellulite Thread veins (me - thousands of em!) Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!) We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection! I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true! My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does! You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being? | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world.
I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though!
A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type!
On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark!
I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend)
Jelly bellies (me!)
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Thread veins (me - thousands of em!)
Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!)
We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection!
I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true!
My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does!
You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being? "Absolutely spot on | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world.
I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though!
A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type!
On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark!
I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend)
Jelly bellies (me!)
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Thread veins (me - thousands of em!)
Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!)
We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection!
I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true!
My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does!
You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being? "Nope, but I don't plan on getting upset when that praise or admiration is afforded to others who don't look like me. | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world.
I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though!
A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type!
On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark!
I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend)
Jelly bellies (me!)
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Thread veins (me - thousands of em!)
Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!)
We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection!
I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true!
My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does!
You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being?
Nope, but I don't plan on getting upset when that praise or admiration is afforded to others who don't look like me. "So why point out on every thread for slim or athletic ladies that there's no need for it as society/the media already tells us we're the ideal? Many might view that as getting upset - and it certainly de-rails every thread whether that's your intention or not! And incidentally - this thread was running perfectly well until someone felt the need to bring out the usual insult about 'meat is for men - bones are for dogs!' | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world.
I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though!
A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type!
On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark!
I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend)
Jelly bellies (me!)
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Thread veins (me - thousands of em!)
Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!)
We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection!
I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true!
My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does!
You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being?
Nope, but I don't plan on getting upset when that praise or admiration is afforded to others who don't look like me.
So why point out on every thread for slim or athletic ladies that there's no need for it as society/the media already tells us we're the ideal?
Many might view that as getting upset - and it certainly de-rails every thread whether that's your intention or not!
And incidentally - this thread was running perfectly well until someone felt the need to bring out the usual insult about 'meat is for men - bones are for dogs!'
"In fairness last time I saw an athletic bodies thread ( I was having a perve ) it derailed because someone did the same as on this one . Praised the subject by slagging off the opposite . | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world.
I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though!
A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type!
On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark!
I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend)
Jelly bellies (me!)
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Thread veins (me - thousands of em!)
Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!)
We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection!
I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true!
My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does!
You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being?
Nope, but I don't plan on getting upset when that praise or admiration is afforded to others who don't look like me.
So why point out on every thread for slim or athletic ladies that there's no need for it as society/the media already tells us we're the ideal?
Many might view that as getting upset - and it certainly de-rails every thread whether that's your intention or not!
And incidentally - this thread was running perfectly well until someone felt the need to bring out the usual insult about 'meat is for men - bones are for dogs!'
""Every thread"? A quick forum search has just showed me a number of recent threads about slim, gym fit or athletic women that I went nowhere near, never mind de-railing them. I usually read them because, as I've said before, I do my own messaging and like to know who I'd be wasting my time contacting because they find slim, gym fit or athletic women attractive. If I'd been prompted to post it's because someone had made a horrible comment about fat women and it had therefore already been derailed by that. I might take this criticism from someone else but given that you're currently posting on a thread about curvy women complaining that there aren't enough threads about you, I won't. | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world.
I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though!
A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type!
On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark!
I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend)
Jelly bellies (me!)
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Thread veins (me - thousands of em!)
Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!)
We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection!
I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true!
My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does!
You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being?
Nope, but I don't plan on getting upset when that praise or admiration is afforded to others who don't look like me.
So why point out on every thread for slim or athletic ladies that there's no need for it as society/the media already tells us we're the ideal?
Many might view that as getting upset - and it certainly de-rails every thread whether that's your intention or not!
And incidentally - this thread was running perfectly well until someone felt the need to bring out the usual insult about 'meat is for men - bones are for dogs!'
In fairness last time I saw an athletic bodies thread ( I was having a perve ) it derailed because someone did the same as on this one . Praised the subject by slagging off the opposite . "Yep - fully admit that happens too and I think it's pathetic and unacceptable - hence my comment about expressing a preference for red wine by slagging off white (or vice versa!). I do wonder if these people are genuinely trying to (badly) express a preference or just trying to start a forum row! I suspect it's the latter! | |||
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I watched SING the new movie ....
a virtual
xFactor/ The Voice/Animal Farm ....
Whilst watching I thought ......
All shapes and
All sizes and
All personalities and
All different clothes and
All different abodes and
All different voices and
All different styles
There was no optimum ideal ....no physical or financial benchmark .... no segregation ...... yet there was a love of singing even though different styles were liked...
I wondered what a pity we just don't see ourselves as elephants. mice, gorillas, KOALAS, lizards, pigs, echidnas or porcupines or even squid ..... it's nice to appreciate all different voices or one style of voice .......and some are more liked than others ...... appreciating more curves or a pillowy woman is almost seen as a guilty pleasure for the vanilla world ...... just like admitting you like Opera at a rock concert ....
It is what it is ..... unless the general population decided to embrace their guilty pleasures and make them known ...it will remain as it is ....
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world.
I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though!
A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type!
On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark!
I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend)
Jelly bellies (me!)
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Thread veins (me - thousands of em!)
Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!)
We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection!
I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true!
My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does!
You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being?
Nope, but I don't plan on getting upset when that praise or admiration is afforded to others who don't look like me.
So why point out on every thread for slim or athletic ladies that there's no need for it as society/the media already tells us we're the ideal?
Many might view that as getting upset - and it certainly de-rails every thread whether that's your intention or not!
And incidentally - this thread was running perfectly well until someone felt the need to bring out the usual insult about 'meat is for men - bones are for dogs!'
"Every thread"? A quick forum search has just showed me a number of recent threads about slim, gym fit or athletic women that I went nowhere near, never mind de-railing them. I usually read them because, as I've said before, I do my own messaging and like to know who I'd be wasting my time contacting because they find slim, gym fit or athletic women attractive.
If I'd been prompted to post it's because someone had made a horrible comment about fat women and it had therefore already been derailed by that.
I might take this criticism from someone else but given that you're currently posting on a thread about curvy women complaining that there aren't enough threads about you, I won't.
"Not at any point did I complain that 'there weren't enough posts about me!' The title of the post was 'curvy women'. I came on the thread because I believe myself to be a curvy woman! I have curves - lots of them! Had the poster made it clear in the title that he only meant larger curvy ladies then I doubt I'd have visited the thread! The latter remarks I made were in response to an insult someone made which I responded to - entirely within my rights I believe? I believe I've made my point and doubt anything further can be constructively added to either side! If you choose to believe that I have a problem with other body types receiving admiration or praise I can only assure you that you're wrong - but of course you're as entitled to your opinions as I am to mine! Have a good day Ruby! | |||
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"Give me a curvy lady anytime. Meat is for the man and a bone is for the dog Have you REALLY no idea how insulting this phrase is???
I had NO idea until I joined fab that being a healthy body weight was seen as a bad thing by so many people!
If you prefer larger ladies that's entirely your choice, but there is NO NEED to insult other body types in the process!
If you preferred red wine, would you highlight your preference by insulting white wine?
Exactly right. Why is it ok to insult someone slim? If you insulted someone overweight on here you would get lynched!
Precisely!
Which is why we're on about BBWchat no 170 and a 'slimchat' group would be crucified by the end of the first thread!
I think the BBW chat does so well because it's just a handful of people posting. The other appreciation threads, like this one, always has to have some stupid comment berating the other body types, which is usually why it descends into chaos!
I think it's also done well because non-bbw's and admirers have had the decency and respect to leave it alone!
There is not a cat in hell's chance of that happening with a slim or athletic chat thread!
Incidentally - I'm saying that as someone who doesn't call myself slim!
I'd say I'm definitely curvy! My boobs and bum stick out quite a lot - and my waist go in and hips go out! Definitely curvy I'd say!
Most people on the thread seem to mean 'large and curvy' rather than simply curvy though - so essentially it's another bbw thread but with a different name!
I don't know, I usually see some of the slimmer ladies on the threads meant for the larger ones. My preference is slim and athletic so I always comment on them. Oh, and perv!
You're right! I think it's safe to say that every single person is curvy!
The last slim women thread I was castigated from posting on, I'd posted on because it was just full of people whinging about the lack of appreciation threads for them, posted by conventionally attractive women who have the "recognition" and "appreciation" of literally the entire outside world.
I take your point about some people on those threads coming on to say that there are few of those type of threads - and that others will come on to complain about such threads - in effect it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy! Your use of 'whinging' was interesting though!
A simple forum search will show easily enough that there are many times more appreciation threads for larger ladies than there are for any other body type!
On every slim, athletic etc etc body type thread I can remember since joining fab, you've posted to state that there's no need to have such threads as the outside world loves us etc - or some such remark!
I've met many of the slim ladies on here in real life. Most are mothers. As such they/we have some/all of the following: squidgy tits (wire is my best friend)
Jelly bellies (me!)
Stretch marks
Cellulite
Thread veins (me - thousands of em!)
Wrinkles (again me - I'm an old fart!)
We are NOT society's/the media's (a phrase you use continually) view of perfection!
I've been a larger lady, many slim ladies on here have, and I completely understand the misconception that larger ladies (particularly those dieting or trying and failing to lose weight!) have that slimmer women 'have it all' and therefore never need praise or recognition - but it simply isn't true!
My body looks fuck all like it did before I had my first daughter, and though I know I look ok for an old fart, that sure as hell doesn't mean I don't get just as uncertain/unsure about myself as any other woman does!
You, for instance, Ruby, have what many of us consider to be a great figure (to the extent that you won 'best body on fab' award - a hell of an accolade!) and yet you've said yourself you're currently on a (obviously successful from your posts!) diet! Do you really think that, once you've got to your goal weight, your confidence and self esteem will be so high that you'll never need praise or admiration from another human being?
Nope, but I don't plan on getting upset when that praise or admiration is afforded to others who don't look like me.
So why point out on every thread for slim or athletic ladies that there's no need for it as society/the media already tells us we're the ideal?
Many might view that as getting upset - and it certainly de-rails every thread whether that's your intention or not!
And incidentally - this thread was running perfectly well until someone felt the need to bring out the usual insult about 'meat is for men - bones are for dogs!'
"Every thread"? A quick forum search has just showed me a number of recent threads about slim, gym fit or athletic women that I went nowhere near, never mind de-railing them. I usually read them because, as I've said before, I do my own messaging and like to know who I'd be wasting my time contacting because they find slim, gym fit or athletic women attractive.
If I'd been prompted to post it's because someone had made a horrible comment about fat women and it had therefore already been derailed by that.
I might take this criticism from someone else but given that you're currently posting on a thread about curvy women complaining that there aren't enough threads about you, I won't.
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"Fat ass bird here
You can bend over for me anyday
Hope that's sexual and not cause you dropped something! "My jaw dropped when i saw that ass | |||
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"Fat ass bird here
You can bend over for me anyday
Hope that's sexual and not cause you dropped something!
My jaw dropped when i saw that ass"I know it's a big bugger lol | |||
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"Fat ass bird here
You can bend over for me anyday
Hope that's sexual and not cause you dropped something!
My jaw dropped when i saw that ass
I know it's a big bugger lol"Thats the best kind. I like something to get lost in | |||
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"Fat ass bird here
You can bend over for me anyday
Hope that's sexual and not cause you dropped something!
My jaw dropped when i saw that ass
I know it's a big bugger lol
Thats the best kind. I like something to get lost in"Long as it's your face getting lost in it and nowt else | |||
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"Fat ass bird here
You can bend over for me anyday
Hope that's sexual and not cause you dropped something!
My jaw dropped when i saw that ass
I know it's a big bugger lol
Thats the best kind. I like something to get lost in
Long as it's your face getting lost in it and nowt else "Haha whatever you wanted. Prefer to see bouncing whilst bent over though | |||
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