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Who should send face pictures first?

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By *ex-a-frolics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brizzle

I know there's no rules just wondered what others think. We have a new couple messaging us today who seem interested. They have one public pic & no friends pictures. They have sent us a friends invite but have no friends pictures so only they would benefit. Also if we accept they would see our faces & could reject us, it would have been nice to have seen theirs & felt the same if that makes sense. Now we can take rejection that's not the issue but think face pics should be a two way thing, or very least we should see theirs first after all they made the initial contact.

Shall we say if they send us face pics we'll accept their invite. What do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always send one first otherwise I'd get no replies at all!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whoever instigates the chat. Whoever messages first

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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Put all your face pictures to private,

Then ask them would they send you a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask the other person to send me a face picture first, but that's because of my personal circumstances.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Put all your face pictures to private,

Then ask them would they send you a face pic"

Do this. They don't know your friends pics include a face pic. Then if they want to see them they can ask in a message whilst sending theirs.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We have asked people to attach face pics with their first message. We state this on our profile, due to the fact ours can be seen on profile. So, fairs, fair in our opinion.

Any messages with silhouettes don't get opened and left ignored.

We never accept friend requests unless we are going to meet at some point. Or we have already met. Xxxx Suzi

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By *irtycpl7980Couple
over a year ago

Northumberland


"Whoever instigates the chat. Whoever messages first"

This

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Whoever asks first sends their face pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Put all your face pictures to private,

Then ask them would they send you a face pic"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send face pics first after I've read their profile and they've been here for a good few months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the man first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think whoever makes first contact should send the photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think whoever makes first contact should send the photo."

If it's couples messaging couples i agree, but in all other cases it should always be the man first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think whoever wants to see the face should send one first when they ask.

i'm chatting to guys who can see my face and i've not seen theirs. i don't really care any more though, am not as shallow as i used to be but if anyone asked to see my face i would expect that person to send pics with that request.

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

Face pics don't really bother me, I'd rather meet people who I can get on with but Mrs is the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh, when it gets like the stalemate in Reservoir Dogs - everyone nervously waiting to see who will make the first move...

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By *ex-a-frolics OP   Couple
over a year ago

Brizzle


"We have asked people to attach face pics with their first message. We state this on our profile, due to the fact ours can be seen on profile. So, fairs, fair in our opinion.

Any messages with silhouettes don't get opened and left ignored.

We never accept friend requests unless we are going to meet at some point. Or we have already met. Xxxx Suzi "

Yes completely get this, but having faces on show isn't the norm, at least you know they're not messaging you blind & wouldn't have contacted you if there was no attraction. If everybody had public face pics this Fab would be a whole lot easier. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am sort off now not setting up meetings or long chats unless I trust people and see a face as well. As now am in a submissive role to a couple who's looking for play Friends. Every one mailing me now. I have photos provide so some back be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whoever instigates the chat. Whoever messages first"
this for us too. If we message first we always send ours out x

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By *uietlyBohemianCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

We usually send first, saves time that way, rather than that long negotiation. Having said that, we only tend to follow up when the profiles suggest a reasonably good match anyway.

Sometimes works out great, sometimes works out with a scream you can hear from 40 miles away followed by an UNLOS. Either way, result!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown


"Whoever instigates the chat. Whoever messages first"

This

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

we only ever send face pictures if we're likely to meet regardless of what the other people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have made our rules about pictures and friends invite and asked hubby to put on our profile. Might put a few off but we end up with real swingers not picture collectors xxxxxx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If we message someone we attach our pics ,so would expect the same.I moved our face pics from friends to private,as i got fed up of accepting a friend req and them not having any face pics.

Miss

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