FabSwingers.com forum: Fun

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do any women or couples actually have cam or phone fun with single guys??

Seems to be very rare. I've had a couple who play every now and again but not many. Especially considering so many say that they do on their profile! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont am not into all the cyber/phone stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont am not into all the cyber/phone stuff"

Yeah I hear a lot of that. It's understandable. Just don't think people should put Web cams and phone sex under interests if they aren't! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rarely, and it tends to be guys i've already met or one offs.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Do any women or couples actually have cam or phone fun with single guys??

Seems to be very rare. I've had a couple who play every now and again but not many. Especially considering so many say that they do on their profile! Lol"

I think many people are on here because they actually want to have sex with other people.

Cam / phone sex does nothing for me.

As for interests... I suspect people might tick stuff at random or because they might want to try it.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and, OP, some people have their interests in their profile but that's not really a tick list they are trying to fulfil every time they are on fab. and neither does it mean they are looking for that when they are online.

some people are saying they are up for this with people they are interested in.

i can guarantee that most people you approach, with a view to fulfilling yourself exactly at the moment you approach them, will find this off putting.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP and maybe they do like to do that, with people they know not random strangers.

Just because an interest is on someone's list doesn't mean they have to do it with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do any women or couples actually have cam or phone fun with single guys??

Seems to be very rare. I've had a couple who play every now and again but not many. Especially considering so many say that they do on their profile! Lol"

I think some people just blindly tick what they like. Although on saying that some women prefer to only have cyber sex with somebody they have had real sex with so that is why they tick it.

Some women are not visual. Teachers and hypnotherapists will know this. When it comes to our learning we are all auditory, visual or kinaesthetic people. Auditory learners prefer the teacher speaking, visual learners prefer things like PowerPoint, kinaesthetic learners prefer learning by actually doing it. Most people will be dominant in one area but will generally be a mixture of two out of the three.

If a woman is a kinaesthetic learner/person then erotic stories, sex chat, etc will do nothing for her. If woman is a visual person she will (I think) love erotic stories. As she reads the story she will be visualising it and maybe picturing herself as the woman in the story (or one of the women if the story has more than one woman). Auditory women will like sex talk, cyber phone fun. Of course that is a generalisation but also true.

OP some women need to know you before they can engage in sex chat some don’t. I have emailed women in the past who have on their profile they are only looking for sex chat and had my email just deleted without reply. That’s not a complaint by the way the women have every right to do that. I don’t expect a reply. The best thing you can do OP is state you on your profile like cyber sex.

When done right cyber sex, erotic stories etc can be fun. They can be very erotic and a good build up to the meet. It can also be a good way to find out each other’s sexual like and dislikes. I have used sexy/cyber talk, erotic stories in the past as good way to build up to a meet. I got into erotic writing by accident. I got talking to woman from Birmingham in Yahoo chat. This progressed to chatting on MSN messenger. We used to have a laugh and would flirt with each other a little bit. We had never discussed anything like our sexual likes and dislikes. Totally out of the blue one night as we finished chatting she typed "If we were to meet in real life in a Hotel what would you do to me sexually? Type me an email telling me what me and you get up to at the Hotel". As I have a form of dyslexia the thought horrified me lol. Also I didn't have a clue what to write and I was worried about writing about something that she finds a sexual turn off. What if I wrote I was kissing her neck and found out she hates her neck being kissed and finds it a big turn off? The next day I got an email asking me if I was going to tell her what I would do to her in the Hotel. Luckily she said in the email to help you out these are my turn ons and turn offs. Knowing what she did and didn't like sexually spurred me on a bit. I just thought it would a bit of harmless fun. To my surprise she loved it. At first I was unsure if she was just being nice. Then she emailed me a set of pictures. It was her at her works Xmas party. She was dressed casually and nothing revealing. She asked me to write a story about what she got up to at her Xmas party. I sort of wrote a picture story. For example in one photo she was simply talking to two colleagues. In my story the two of them were chatting her up. As I wrote about a certain picture I would include it in the story. The story was a mixture of word and pictures. Again to my amazement she loved it. This continued for a while. She would send me a set of pictures and I would write about what she got up to. The pictures were never sexual they were always photos from parties, conferences, on holiday etc. The reason I mention this really is I will always be grateful to that woman from Birmingham. She taught me a few things such as how powerful words can be when used right, how if you turn on the mind first the body will always follow, if the mind is turned on as well as the body the sex is so much better, how words can be used to tease in the build up to a meet, using role play properly etc. Role play can be fun when done right. I once met a couple where one of their fantasies/role play was for them to go to a Hotel bar, pick a man up and go back to his Hotel room. Their role play was they would go into the bar and get some drinks. I would be in the bar. We would get seats where she could flash her naked pussy at me. I would then go over and get chatting to them and they would invite me to have a threesome with them. Before I met the woman in Birmingham I had never thought about role play, cyber sex or erotic stories much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ever cam, for one, my internet wouldn't support it and two, it would do nothing for me. Much prefer the real meets.

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