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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it to find a genuine female to take part in a couples threesome FFM?? Obviously they can take their pick of the bunch but it's ridiculous how hard to catch they play...even women we would consider not that good looking turn you down as if they can find better!! Anyone else find this?? "

Now you share the same as us single males trying to get a meet with someone off here!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"even women we would consider not that good looking turn you down as if they can find better!!"

Yes, it is very difficult finding a woman who would like an FFM with a couple.

But if you think some of these women aren't that good looking, why bother messaging them? Genuine question....

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"How hard is it to find a genuine female to take part in a couples threesome FFM?? Obviously they can take their pick of the bunch but it's ridiculous how hard to catch they play...even women we would consider not that good looking turn you down as if they can find better!! Anyone else find this??"

Nope. I've had a few. As a couple, as a single and with two other singles. Best way to start off is a good old MFMF swap. Then if everyone gets on further combinations can occur. Mind you, my advice might not be warranted since I don't consider myself that good looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling it's the male half of the couple posting this....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard indeed

For every FFM we've had, we've had a dozen or so FMFM.

So it stands to reason you could make things about ten times easier by including a couple. There are some where the male half will most likely just watch, or have minimal input. Or where it's just girl-girl and own-partner play only.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

FFM - no way do I want to share cock. MMF - MMMMMMM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only once met a couple for FFM. Most of the time the approaches I get from couples are abysmal, like I'm going to be some kind of performing seal for their pleasure. That's why I turn them down. Obviously I'm a complete munter and should be grateful to all these wonderful couples deigning to lower themselves to my level.

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

I don't think this post is going to win the op any female admirers

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"It's hard indeed

For every FFM we've had, we've had a dozen or so FMFM.

So it stands to reason you could make things about ten times easier by including a couple. There are some where the male half will most likely just watch, or have minimal input. Or where it's just girl-girl and own-partner play only."

see we prefer single girls to find us and our pref is couples as we are full swap.....

we find it hard to get meets as lots of couples compromise and play with couples because they cant find a single girl ....

then all that ends up happening is its almost pretend play... using the fem thats part of another couple

i wont be another couples 3sum ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive unicorns are a myth aren't they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard indeed

For every FFM we've had, we've had a dozen or so FMFM.

So it stands to reason you could make things about ten times easier by including a couple. There are some where the male half will most likely just watch, or have minimal input. Or where it's just girl-girl and own-partner play only.

see we prefer single girls to find us and our pref is couples as we are full swap.....

we find it hard to get meets as lots of couples compromise and play with couples because they cant find a single girl ....

then all that ends up happening is its almost pretend play... using the fem thats part of another couple

i wont be another couples 3sum .. "

Especially the last line!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Oh dear OP. I'm not that good looking but I don't want you deigning to fuck me.

Why message the fuggers?

I've had lots of mffs but not with anyone who thinks I should be grateful for their attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attractive unicorns are a myth aren't they "

Not in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFM - no way do I want to share cock. MMF - MMMMMMM"

Is that not called being selfish?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have only once met a couple for FFM. Most of the time the approaches I get from couples are abysmal, like I'm going to be some kind of performing seal for their pleasure. That's why I turn them down. Obviously I'm a complete munter and should be grateful to all these wonderful couples deigning to lower themselves to my level."

My munterishness verges on the full-on gopping. Fancy teaming up as the FF and finding an attractive fella without a pervading sense of entitlement as the M?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attractive unicorns are a myth aren't they "

Not at all, just rare. We have one currently. The key was just confidence I think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your profile is very confusing ..

Are you married or bf and gf?

And is it just girl on girl you want whilst he watches?

If that's the case not many fems would be up for that

When I play with a couple I play with both not with her whilst he watches..

get rid of him or let him join in and it will look less like she is trying to put on a show with added extras

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attractive unicorns are a myth aren't they

Not in my experience. "
I know I'm joking I've met a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're profile OP certainly wouldn't attract me to join you. You sound demanding and like the female would be there for your pleasures only, as a sex toy. Totally not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only once met a couple for FFM. Most of the time the approaches I get from couples are abysmal, like I'm going to be some kind of performing seal for their pleasure. That's why I turn them down. Obviously I'm a complete munter and should be grateful to all these wonderful couples deigning to lower themselves to my level.

My munterishness verges on the full-on gopping. Fancy teaming up as the FF and finding an attractive fella without a pervading sense of entitlement as the M?"

Sure None of this only the females play malarkey though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Attractive unicorns are a myth aren't they "

We do exist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it to find a genuine female to take part in a couples threesome FFM?? Obviously they can take their pick of the bunch but it's ridiculous how hard to catch they play...even women we would consider not that good looking turn you down as if they can find better!! Anyone else find this??

Now you share the same as us single males trying to get a meet with someone off here!!!"

Hell yeah. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had the pleasure of a few ffm meets and we would only ever play with a mutual attraction. Even harder for the single F as she would need to like and be comfy with both people. Maybe posts like this have been seen to. I used to play as a single fem, respect and not feeling like she would be just there to please you're fantasy would be a start.

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By *exatooCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth/ Fuerteventura


"Attractive unicorns are a myth aren't they "

Nope

We can confirm one is alive and cumin in Bournemouth

We were approached by her and had a wonderful horny meet with her last Sunday. It was something we weren't expecting, but now we've tried we want more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had the pleasure of a few ffm meets and we would only ever play with a mutual attraction. Even harder for the single F as she would need to like and be comfy with both people. Maybe posts like this have been seen to. I used to play as a single fem, respect and not feeling like she would be just there to please you're fantasy would be a start. "

This a million times x

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I have only once met a couple for FFM. Most of the time the approaches I get from couples are abysmal, like I'm going to be some kind of performing seal for their pleasure. That's why I turn them down. Obviously I'm a complete munter and should be grateful to all these wonderful couples deigning to lower themselves to my level.

My munterishness verges on the full-on gopping. Fancy teaming up as the FF and finding an attractive fella without a pervading sense of entitlement as the M?

Sure None of this only the females play malarkey though "

Oh God no. Otherwise it's an FF plus a voyeur. Has to be some cock for me. Even if it's just fluffing prior to a 70.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its all involved or happy to have gay and bi females. Apologies to fab ladies and gents if offensive probably came out the wrong way...I mean yes we contact those who we find attractive otherwise we wouldn't have bothered. But what can you do when she hides behind fake pics or out dated ones?! We are not desperate but exploring - happy to only have one if ever as long as it's worth it! Happy swinging ladies and gents.

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I have only once met a couple for FFM. Most of the time the approaches I get from couples are abysmal, like I'm going to be some kind of performing seal for their pleasure. That's why I turn them down. Obviously I'm a complete munter and should be grateful to all these wonderful couples deigning to lower themselves to my level.

My munterishness verges on the full-on gopping. Fancy teaming up as the FF and finding an attractive fella without a pervading sense of entitlement as the M?"

*falls off chair*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its all involved or happy to have gay and bi females. Apologies to fab ladies and gents if offensive probably came out the wrong way...I mean yes we contact those who we find attractive otherwise we wouldn't have bothered. But what can you do when she hides behind fake pics or out dated ones?! We are not desperate but exploring - happy to only have one if ever as long as it's worth it! Happy swinging ladies and gents.

"
try a couple friendly escort?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"FFM - no way do I want to share cock. MMF - MMMMMMM

Is that not called being selfish?"

I see it as being straight, and funnily enough some of us are

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

If you aren't having any success with the ladies, maybe its your approach?

Or maybe its that the ladies here in Wales are more up for it?

Anyway, no problems here!

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo


"How hard is it to find a genuine female to take part in a couples threesome FFM?? Obviously they can take their pick of the bunch but it's ridiculous how hard to catch they play...even women we would consider not that good looking turn you down as if they can find better!! Anyone else find this??

"

How bloody rude

Maybe you should consider that by approaching women you think are 'not that good looking' you may be giving off vibes expecting them to be 'grateful' for your act of charity ... small wonder they then reject you ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The FFM dynamic is a delicate balance - it's not just about the couple! Can't speak for all women but for me, I'm not a toy and I'm not there JUST for your pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it to find a genuine female to take part in a couples threesome FFM?? Obviously they can take their pick of the bunch but it's ridiculous how hard to catch they play...even women we would consider not that good looking turn you down as if they can find better!! Anyone else find this??

How bloody rude

Maybe you should consider that by approaching women you think are 'not that good looking' you may be giving off vibes expecting them to be 'grateful' for your act of charity ... small wonder they then reject you ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FFM - no way do I want to share cock. MMF - MMMMMMM

Is that not called being selfish?

I see it as being straight, and funnily enough some of us are "

Fair enough. As long as her partner is happy that he has to share her, then all is good

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"We have had the pleasure of a few ffm meets and we would only ever play with a mutual attraction. Even harder for the single F as she would need to like and be comfy with both people. Maybe posts like this have been seen to. I used to play as a single fem, respect and not feeling like she would be just there to please you're fantasy would be a start. "

This very statement is one of the reasons we do not play with couples as using the above one would assume it should be even harder to get an mfmf meet but it isn't, why not?

Yes a large part of it is sheer numbers but there seem far too much "People playing for the sake of it" "Going along" "I did it because he/she really fancied her/him".

We just don't want to ever go there or even risk being in the position of someone "Hanging back" during play..

So we sit patiently and wait for a single female to occasionally discover us because as you say they need to be attracted to two, we only need to be attracted to one. So let them contact you & that part is already sorted, but of course that only works if you have an OK profile.

Oh & they do exist OP and they are not as rare as you think.

S&H

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"You're profile OP certainly wouldn't attract me to join you. You sound demanding and like the female would be there for your pleasures only, as a sex toy. Totally not for me. "

This!!! ^^^^

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I've had a few! Quite partial to. I just have to be attracted to both

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

the nice thing about a ffm is that my john can watch ..lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single ladies playing with couples is happening, most single ladies who fancy playing with a couple choose to play with those that have NO hang ups or issues and in our experience couples looking for a single female only, generally have issues! So it's a vicious circle for those couples, so those searching FFM meets why not try a MFMF meet and properly swap? Live a little, do something different! If not why not......

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I have a feeling it's the male half of the couple posting this.... "

I have a feeling that the female half of the couple may be absent in its entirety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a feeling it's the male half of the couple posting this....

I have a feeling that the female half of the couple may be absent in its entirety "

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I have a feeling it's the male half of the couple posting this....

I have a feeling that the female half of the couple may be absent in its entirety "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How hard is it to find a genuine female to take part in a couples threesome FFM?? Obviously they can take their pick of the bunch but it's ridiculous how hard to catch they play...even women we would consider not that good looking turn you down as if they can find better!! Anyone else find this?? "

Maybe it's your attitude? Reading this made me cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had more fun outside of fab just picking girls up in bars than on fab.

Despite being a sex website where single women are a dominant user it's quite rare for girls to meet. Luckily we've found a couple on here. And even more lucky is that Chelsea is smoking hot on a night so ends up pulling girls and taking them back to ours. It's a hard life, my life.

Matt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had more fun outside of fab just picking girls up in bars than on fab.

Despite being a sex website where single women are a dominant user it's quite rare for girls to meet. Luckily we've found a couple on here. And even more lucky is that Chelsea is smoking hot on a night so ends up pulling girls and taking them back to ours. It's a hard life, my life.

Matt"

As we say in America...... play on playa

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