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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm very new to this swingers scene but the 1 thing I'm noticing is straight doesn't seem to mean straight, well how I'd use the word anyway.

I get messages from a lot of men (sadly far more than couples or ladies) , they compliment me or just a normal first message and I thank you or message back because I'm a polite guy and I like to chat and exchange stories. But then BANG do you want a BJ to which I reply no thank you I am straight which somehow is always answered with "a BJ doesn't make you gay" or "I've sucked plenty of straight guys cocks"

So my question is am I a prude or am I right, is a one on one bj of a guy not a straight act???

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By *uicyJay1Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Same story with me that, personally I couldn't let it happen I wouldn't be able to live with myself haha.. wouldn't be relaxed whilst it was happening either ha probs wouldn't be able to get it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate this aswell ive had plenty couples message saying

" in the heat of the moment would you let my man play with you"

If so off putting but just block single guys bud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this aswell ive had plenty couples message saying

" in the heat of the moment would you let my man play with you"

If so off putting but just block single guys bud"

After being on here a while, their is no such thing as a straight man ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate this aswell ive had plenty couples message saying

" in the heat of the moment would you let my man play with you"

If so off putting but just block single guys bud"

Ya but I don't want to just block everyone! As a single guy realistically we are here for chats and stories because meets are few and far between so if I block all guys what's the point being here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same story with me that, personally I couldn't let it happen I wouldn't be able to live with myself haha.. wouldn't be relaxed whilst it was happening either ha probs wouldn't be able to get it up "

Haha I know what you mean, I don't care if "it's the best bj you'll ever have" I'm still not interested. The best 1 I'll ever have will be off a hot girl I'm really attracted to who is giving me head

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"So I'm very new to this swingers scene but the 1 thing I'm noticing is straight doesn't seem to mean straight, well how I'd use the word anyway.

I get messages from a lot of men (sadly far more than couples or ladies) , they compliment me or just a normal first message and I thank you or message back because I'm a polite guy and I like to chat and exchange stories. But then BANG do you want a BJ to which I reply no thank you I am straight which somehow is always answered with "a BJ doesn't make you gay" or "I've sucked plenty of straight guys cocks"

So my question is am I a prude or am I right, is a one on one bj of a guy not a straight act???"

Same sex ,sex means your bi or gay fact lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

There is straight then fab straight lol.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is straight then fab straight lol.

Miss"

Lol yes which is actually bi

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I'm very new to this swingers scene but the 1 thing I'm noticing is straight doesn't seem to mean straight, well how I'd use the word anyway.

I get messages from a lot of men (sadly far more than couples or ladies) , they compliment me or just a normal first message and I thank you or message back because I'm a polite guy and I like to chat and exchange stories. But then BANG do you want a BJ to which I reply no thank you I am straight which somehow is always answered with "a BJ doesn't make you gay" or "I've sucked plenty of straight guys cocks"

So my question is am I a prude or am I right, is a one on one bj of a guy not a straight act???

Same sex ,sex means your bi or gay fact lol "

Haha that's how I view it as well but I seem to be in the minority here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is straight then fab straight lol.

Miss"

Oh definitely

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"There is straight then fab straight lol.

Miss"

So how would you classify any same sex act as a heterosexual one ? Me think not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many guys are St till you get them in a pvt room at a club ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Many guys are St till you get them in a pvt room at a club ?? "

But they don't just turn bi because you go into a private room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of guys, both single and in couples, who say they are straight but who aren't. They don't put "bi" on their profile because they don't want to be excluded from meets by people who won't meet bi men. It's dishonest, but its one of the realities of fab.

Then there are men who say they are straight but who would more accurately describe themselves as "orally bi" "bi playful" or those who will meet CDs and TVs but who still consider themselves straight. Again, there is certainly a theoretical argument to be made against calling themselves straight, but it doesn't change the fact that this is a reality of fab.

The only way to stop them from contacting you asking if you want to meet is to block men. Even that won't stop men in couples or men pretending to be women from propositioning you. So, you just have to deal with it. Put thw filters on that you deem appropriate and realize that this is the internet and not everything people say is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many guys are St till you get them in a pvt room at a club ??

But they don't just turn bi because you go into a private room"

What happens in a private room?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are plenty of guys, both single and in couples, who say they are straight but who aren't. They don't put "bi" on their profile because they don't want to be excluded from meets by people who won't meet bi men. It's dishonest, but its one of the realities of fab.

Then there are men who say they are straight but who would more accurately describe themselves as "orally bi" "bi playful" or those who will meet CDs and TVs but who still consider themselves straight. Again, there is certainly a theoretical argument to be made against calling themselves straight, but it doesn't change the fact that this is a reality of fab.

The only way to stop them from contacting you asking if you want to meet is to block men. Even that won't stop men in couples or men pretending to be women from propositioning you. So, you just have to deal with it. Put thw filters on that you deem appropriate and realize that this is the internet and not everything people say is true. "

Ya I get different guys reasons for it but if I was any of the above bi guys and a guy messaged I'd continue it, but I don't get how I can say "thank you but I'm straight" and then ever guy try and convince me I'm not! Buddy the thought of a man sucking my cock makes it shrivel and retreat into my stomach, trust me I know I'm straight hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many guys are St till you get them in a pvt room at a club ??

But they don't just turn bi because you go into a private room"

No ofcourse not but that's when they can let go without others knowing and having to hide things, there is still a stigma against bi playing which isn't there for women.

I know about we've had fun which we expected to be at play then it changed during the play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty common round here. If you don't like it set your filters to stop them mailing

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town


"So I'm very new to this swingers scene but the 1 thing I'm noticing is straight doesn't seem to mean straight, well how I'd use the word anyway.

I get messages from a lot of men (sadly far more than couples or ladies) , they compliment me or just a normal first message and I thank you or message back because I'm a polite guy and I like to chat and exchange stories. But then BANG do you want a BJ to which I reply no thank you I am straight which somehow is always answered with "a BJ doesn't make you gay" or "I've sucked plenty of straight guys cocks"

So my question is am I a prude or am I right, is a one on one bj of a guy not a straight act???"

You can block all men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that can happen, it doesn't to me cos I set my filters to block guys. Must admit tho I was surprised by how many guys are actually bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this aswell ive had plenty couples message saying

" in the heat of the moment would you let my man play with you"

If so off putting but just block single guys bud"

Pass them on to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm very new to this swingers scene but the 1 thing I'm noticing is straight doesn't seem to mean straight, well how I'd use the word anyway.

I get messages from a lot of men (sadly far more than couples or ladies) , they compliment me or just a normal first message and I thank you or message back because I'm a polite guy and I like to chat and exchange stories. But then BANG do you want a BJ to which I reply no thank you I am straight which somehow is always answered with "a BJ doesn't make you gay" or "I've sucked plenty of straight guys cocks"

So my question is am I a prude or am I right, is a one on one bj of a guy not a straight act???"

We wouldnt see it as being straight...i guess a guy would have to at least be curious as dont think a straight guy would ever consider it an option.

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've had a 'straight' bloke turn up to an mmf meet, couldn't get hard at all to the woman and just stared at me... while I basically just ignored him and had fun with the hot lady in front of me.

Just be honest, I'm actually straight and like blokes in a 'spit roast high 5' sort of way meeting/ messaging me will not get you anywhere.

Still happens tho bro, such is Fab. It's still great tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be honest, I'm actually straight and like blokes in a 'spit roast high 5' sort of way meeting/ messaging me will not get you anywhere."

"Spit roast high 5 sort of way." I like this! No ones ever high fived while spitroasting me...now I know what to answer on those "what's on your sexual to-do list" threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should be flattered by whatever sex shows an interest in you obviously you have something which they like you don't have to act on it just a simple thanks but no thanks.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Try being straight for ever and then suddenly turning bi. That's a bit of a mindfuck for sure. I would never have imagined I'd turn bisexual.

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Just be honest, I'm actually straight and like blokes in a 'spit roast high 5' sort of way meeting/ messaging me will not get you anywhere.

"Spit roast high 5 sort of way." I like this! No ones ever high fived while spitroasting me...now I know what to answer on those "what's on your sexual to-do list" threads "

Invite accepted

As longer as Mr doesn't try to fondle my balls while I'm not looking that is...

To Mr Cheesebreville: It did make me feel good, felt alpha as fuck but did feel slightly sorry for him... to an extent he, did lie which is the only issue and I'm pretty sure he licked my ball at one point... gross!! Lol

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By *ixedblkinjectionMan
over a year ago

london

Exactly the same thing.....I just politely end the convo...if I were gay I would have said...so not sure why the pesistence level is still through the roof!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's straight...

And there's fab straight

Lol lol

Just by the sheer vume of straight guys profiles with veris from TVS

Gotta laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do we need labels?

Just enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate this aswell ive had plenty couples message saying

" in the heat of the moment would you let my man play with you"

If so off putting but just block single guys bud

Pass them on to me. "

Send the hot ones my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we need labels?

Just enjoy "

One of the good things about this site are the filters

I'm not into women so have them filtered out and couples too

No offence to them.

I think you secretly like having them message you otherwise you would set your filter

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why do we need labels?

Just enjoy

One of the good things about this site are the filters

I'm not into women so have them filtered out and couples too

No offence to them.

I think you secretly like having them message you otherwise you would set your filter

"

Not really because straight guys can chat to other straight guys and I chat with straight guys with no hint of sexually wankyness. Besides which, a straight guy might arrange for a straight guy to fuck his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do we need labels?

Just enjoy

One of the good things about this site are the filters

I'm not into women so have them filtered out and couples too

No offence to them.

I think you secretly like having them message you otherwise you would set your filter

Not really because straight guys can chat to other straight guys and I chat with straight guys with no hint of sexually wankyness. Besides which, a straight guy might arrange for a straight guy to fuck his wife. "

True I wasn't speaking for myself as I want guys to message me

But if he has a problem and it's offending him then it's easy solved.

I've decided to take my filters off as I might be missing a hot guy from a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be very hard pressed to find "Straight" Guy's here!

A big clue is to visit the "Straight Guy's who suck Cock" room, note all the comments and then take a look at their "Straight" profiles

Frankly I find it rather disturbing to see how many men claim to be straight but have no problem giving a BJ or taking one up the hooter!

Even more disturbing is the lack of honesty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to clarify, we have nothing against any sexual persuasion, we merely ask for honesty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify, we have nothing against any sexual persuasion, we merely ask for honesty!

"

Hey !!! Where's this room ya talking about ????

I think I'm missing something

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If you want to see straight men wanking on cam, go in the bisexual chatroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to see straight men wanking on cam, go in the bisexual chatroom "

#truefact

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By *eyMrJackMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"

Frankly I find it rather disturbing to see how many men claim to be straight but have no problem giving a BJ or taking one up the hooter"

Haha! "I'm totally straight "

"Sorry I couldn't hear what you were saying? Take that cock out of your mouth first"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to see straight men wanking on cam, go in the bisexual chatroom "

To be honest I was joking, don't normally look at cams. If I wanna see cock there's plenty of porn.

I'm looking for something different on this site as my profile says.

I'm taking it on here a bit more tongue in cheek now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to clarify, we have nothing against any sexual persuasion, we merely ask for honesty!

Hey !!! Where's this room ya talking about ????

I think I'm missing something "

Occasionally someone will create a room with that name

It always causes a lot of animosity

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