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Sex versus toys. Question for the ladies. . .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I recently bought a couple new toys. (Rabbit and glass dildo) but I'm feeling a bit disappointed by them. I can never seem to orgasm as easily as I do during sex. I can sometimes even get bored of it. I love my clit vibrators and easily orgasm that way but maybe I'm just being lazy, it's just frustrating because I cum loads during sex where as it seems alot of effort on my own for one orgasm. I would've thought doing it myself would be even easier but clearly not.

So my question is. . Do you orgasm easier through sex or with toys on your own? I know everyone is different but I'm intrigued as I hear lots of women rave about how great their sex toys are. I feel I'm missing out and can only really enjoy orgasms with a man!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No im exactly the same. Toys just don't seem to do it for me. Yet when I'm with my bf I just can't seem to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find toys boring. I much prefer physical contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i probably won't cum with either a man or toys. find just using my fingers on my clit the easiest way and something girthy inside.

do prefer bare cock inside me to sex toys, definitely. with a condom i can't feel much difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my toys on men. They do very little for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever cum when I'm with another person

I make myself cum with toys every time

A combination of both is best though, I can make myself cum while with another person if I have toys to help out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my wand for clitoral stimulation but it can get a bit too intense. Don't really like dildos but love sex. So sex wins everytime

Mrs k

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By *ane dickCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Prefer a person but enjoy both

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I always orgasm easily and much quicker when toys are involved with or without a man around! Thank god for my wand is all I can say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fastest and easiest way for me to cum is with toys on my clit. I don't tend to use toys that get inserted because I can't cum that way unless it's during sex with a man. However, I do often like to have a toy inside me when I'm also playing with my clit. Insertion alone isn't enough unless it's during sex, then it's easy, and feels amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fastest and easiest way for me to cum is with toys on my clit. I don't tend to use toys that get inserted because I can't cum that way unless it's during sex with a man. However, I do often like to have a toy inside me when I'm also playing with my clit. Insertion alone isn't enough unless it's during sex, then it's easy, and feels amazing. "

This! Word for word ha ha.

I love clit stimulation orgasms more than penetrative ones too. Whether that's a toy or a tongue ha ha.

Eve. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The fastest and easiest way for me to cum is with toys on my clit. I don't tend to use toys that get inserted because I can't cum that way unless it's during sex with a man. However, I do often like to have a toy inside me when I'm also playing with my clit. Insertion alone isn't enough unless it's during sex, then it's easy, and feels amazing. "

That's exactly how I am. I'm glad I'm not the only one not enjoying inserted toys. I just assumed as I could cum with a man that I would as easy with a toy inside me. I really thought my new ones would work but frustratingly not. I think I need to accept that sex is far better for me.

Thanks for the replies ladies. Surprised so many are the same or at least similar to me

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

i have spent a fortune on sex toys over the years nearly all of them were no good, only three rabbit vibrators i have tried that made me cum, i have to use lots of lube with them though. The more lube i use the better it feels, its the rabbit ears i like, i dont cum from having intercourse only once i nearly did just recently. I do cum from someone playing with my clit or oral, if not i use my toy.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I definitely cum more from clitoral stimulation accompanied by vaginal stimulation rather than vaginal stimulation alone, I cum just as easily with fingers, tongue or toy on my clit. I'd say my favourite toy is my wand

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


" can only really enjoy orgasms with a man!!"

I bet I could change that for you

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By *entleman of GirthMan
over a year ago

Forest Row

A rabbit doesn't give you a cuddle or make you tea afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of toys, anything vibrating annoys me really....

I just like a nice big cock

Fb

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