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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it with a lot of the males on here .......yes yes yes Las minute my cats died my cars broke ..work has called I got a go in ....just go watch porn leave these sort a places for Gen people that want n do nee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's your % of men making excuses after arranging a meeting?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hang on I a get the pie chart out .................bloody loads ....mind you think some just scare easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on I a get the pie chart out .................bloody loads ....mind you think some just scare easily "

Maybe try & be less intimidating then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hang on I a get the pie chart out .................bloody loads ....mind you think some just scare easily "

In 5 weeks?

But if it's loads, can you modify your selection and screening process based on your last mistakes?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I ain't when people know n meet me far from it but with some a the types on here a bit gruff is necessary....As no sorry doesn't sink in with a lot a people ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Today four dwindled to one over night after yes last few days .very up front about time n desires so why say yes n you cool just to bottle last minute ....i been on as a single guy my self and wouldn't do it ...if you say you can you can .....same goes for performing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they were ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today four dwindled to one over night after yes last few days .very up front about time n desires so why say yes n you cool just to bottle last minute ....i been on as a single guy my self and wouldn't do it ...if you say you can you can .....same goes for performing "

So, what I'm asking is how are you going to improve your selection and filtering process?

Because it seems like you're talking to the wrong people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"maybe they were ginger "
pmsl all got our likes n dislikes lol just puts me off my stride lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think its a ass end of UK thing as much as any thing all a bit bottle necked n local local they all get paranoid there mum n wife's might be trying a catch them out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think its a ass end of UK thing as much as any thing all a bit bottle necked n local local they all get paranoid there mum n wife's might be trying a catch them out lol "

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By *accaMan
over a year ago

leicester


"Today four dwindled to one over night after yes last few days .very up front about time n desires so why say yes n you cool just to bottle last minute ....i been on as a single guy my self and wouldn't do it ...if you say you can you can .....same goes for performing "

Finding it hard to understand this language, is French, Hungarian, West of Bristol???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason that they get cold feet or false people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason that they get cold feet or false people

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"What is it with a lot of the males on here .......yes yes yes Las minute my cats died my cars broke ..work has called I got a go in ....just go watch porn leave these sort a places for Gen people that want n do nee "

the male egos a fragile thing once reality sinks in lots of men get to thinking about being compared to those who have gone before not only in looks , cock size , body but also thoughts of how there performance will stack up .

at that point they work themselves into such a state that they then take the option of removing themselves from the stress hence making excuses as why they cant meet .

try to remember it takes great self belief in ones prowess at sex to meet someone who you know has enough experience to evaluate your performance ,

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think it's a completely different ball game when you're on here on your own or as a couple. Maybe you should put yourself into the shoes of a single man and read your own thread. You come across as rather cocky and that might make them think twice.

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By *_and_J99Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

What if his cat was unwell and he was driving to the vet but work had called and he had to pop in for it was an urgent matter. He was a little hesitant as he had issues with his car starting again after short journeys as it sometimes overheats and with the added pressure if his unwell cat will have to wait in the car. He left the car running seeing that the cold weather has kicked in and didn't want his unwell cat getting worse. He goes into work worried about what's going on but also very excited to be seeing a couple for a fuck load of filthy fun.

After 45 mins in work and he hears sirens wailing down the road. Looking out the window he sees his car ablaze. Unbeknown to him as the car over heated it melted a wire with started a small fire and soon after engulfed in flames.

The poor fucker has now,lost his loving cat,his car is a pile of mess and most probably going to lose his job because he was parked next to the bosses new Bentley and his car was written off in the fire.

So maybe give the bloke a break. At least you to still had fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's fab for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really know what you expect when your profile is so hostile and unwelcoming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really know what you expect when your profile is so hostile and unwelcoming."

Are they trying to attract a particular type? If so what ?

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"Hang on I a get the pie chart out .................bloody loads ....mind you think some just scare easily

Maybe try & be less intimidating then... "

Maybe

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By *hynot5642Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"What is it with a lot of the males on here .......yes yes yes Las minute my cats died my cars broke ..work has called I got a go in ....just go watch porn leave these sort a places for Gen people that want n do nee "

At least they have let you know that they could not make it and just not turned as I have had with a woman and a couple, or worst still giving a false address as I had with with another woman.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What if his cat was unwell and he was driving to the vet but work had called and he had to pop in for it was an urgent matter. He was a little hesitant as he had issues with his car starting again after short journeys as it sometimes overheats and with the added pressure if his unwell cat will have to wait in the car. He left the car running seeing that the cold weather has kicked in and didn't want his unwell cat getting worse. He goes into work worried about what's going on but also very excited to be seeing a couple for a fuck load of filthy fun.

After 45 mins in work and he hears sirens wailing down the road. Looking out the window he sees his car ablaze. Unbeknown to him as the car over heated it melted a wire with started a small fire and soon after engulfed in flames.

The poor fucker has now,lost his loving cat,his car is a pile of mess and most probably going to lose his job because he was parked next to the bosses new Bentley and his car was written off in the fire.

So maybe give the bloke a break. At least you to still had fun.

"
....pmsl never thought a that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really know what you expect when your profile is so hostile and unwelcoming."
......if you ain't got a sense of humor or thick skin no point so may as well be straight. Up ....presides cuts out a lot idiots ....if people actually REAd a profile and veris they a quickly see we ain't that harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really know what you expect when your profile is so hostile and unwelcoming.......if you ain't got a sense of humor or thick skin no point so may as well be straight. Up ....presides cuts out a lot idiots ....if people actually REAd a profile and veris they a quickly see we ain't that harsh "

I can read, have a sense of humour and that's still the impression I formed. I'm sure you attract exactly the people you should be attracting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today four dwindled to one over night after yes last few days .very up front about time n desires so why say yes n you cool just to bottle last minute ....i been on as a single guy my self and wouldn't do it ...if you say you can you can .....same goes for performing "

Performing? Are you booking an act?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Today four dwindled to one over night after yes last few days .very up front about time n desires so why say yes n you cool just to bottle last minute ....i been on as a single guy my self and wouldn't do it ...if you say you can you can .....same goes for performing

Performing? Are you booking an act? "

Or a seal....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Time wasters, possibly getting a bigger sexual thrill chatting to you and making you believe that a meet's going to happen, while all the time they know it isn't, and getting massively off on knowing that?

It's the fab equivalent of a dirty phone call.

Block and move on.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I don't really know what you expect when your profile is so hostile and unwelcoming."

Exactly this,if I was a single with your profile the way it is I'd be more inclined to be worried that it would be your fb's car that broke, cat that died etc.

And that you'd tell me once I got there.

Too aggressive..

S

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"I don't really know what you expect when your profile is so hostile and unwelcoming."

Exactly this,if I was a single with your profile the way it is I'd be more inclined to be worried that it would be your fb's car that broke, cat that died etc.

And that you'd tell me once I got there.

Too aggressive..

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its worse if you've actually met them already for a social and then they cancel the meet for sex

Not sure why I'm grinning, actually

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Sorry for double post, nets up & down here atm.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really know what you expect when your profile is so hostile and unwelcoming.......if you ain't got a sense of humor or thick skin no point so may as well be straight. Up ....presides cuts out a lot idiots ....if people actually REAd a profile and veris they a quickly see we ain't that harsh "

I think you need to read it yourself then as I read it as hostile and unwelcoming too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its worse if you've actually met them already for a social and then they cancel the meet for sex

Not sure why I'm grinning, actually "

Simple solution...... next time have sex after the social.... kill 2 birds with 1 stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, suck it up and move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm honest I can't really see a problem with the profile pretty straight forward, you want blokes to play with and help you fuck the missus and have some laughs and fun along the way.

You don't fancy ginger guys no big deal everyone has a preference

Probable get a few guys having a tug earlier in the day over the thought of joint you for fun and tip themselves over the edge cum thier wad and then get cold feet

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Mr C and I have never ever been let down by a single guy or girl. Never. However we HAVE been let down numerous times by couples. About 3 or 4 at last count. Just saying it's not just singles who are let downs and time wasters. Miss C.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really know what you expect when your profile is so hostile and unwelcoming.......if you ain't got a sense of humor or thick skin no point so may as well be straight. Up ....presides cuts out a lot idiots ....if people actually REAd a profile and veris they a quickly see we ain't that harsh "

Frankly your profile is offputting and aggressive.

I wouldn't want to meet you.

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

I love gingers as well! Miss C. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm honest I can't really see a problem with the profile pretty straight forward, you want blokes to play with and help you fuck the missus and have some laughs and fun along the way.

You don't fancy ginger guys no big deal everyone has a preference

Probable get a few guys having a tug earlier in the day over the thought of joint you for fun and tip themselves over the edge cum thier wad and then get cold feet "

its not the missus its the FB

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By *actory funMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

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