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By *ust fun9 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

Hi. I enjoy the build up, anticipation, nervousness before even a social meet. Will they like me, will I like them. Are they good company? Who else enjoys the build up?

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By *ust fun9 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

Anybody?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would if I could get a meet

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By *ust fun9 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

One of the best parts of any meet...great feeling of anticipation, excitement, nerves and discovery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of the best parts of any meet...great feeling of anticipation, excitement, nerves and discovery. "

Completely agree

I also love the feeling after meets!

The meet is the worst bit technically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just about to start a similar post about meet nerves. I think i really enjoy them...the expectation the potential excitement and the thought that will i pleasure them...will they like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was just about to start a similar post about meet nerves. I think i really enjoy them...the expectation the potential excitement and the thought that will i pleasure them...will they like it"

I get the opposite. If a meet is planned my nerves just lately ruin it. If there is no build up and it just happens in a club then fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can def see how spontaneous helps defuse

So have you recently become more nervous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can def see how spontaneous helps defuse

So have you recently become more nervous"

Always found private meets nerve wracking.. but yes.. recently its got to where i get so nervous I just avoid it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no that is a shame .. fingers crossed is a passing thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no that is a shame .. fingers crossed is a passing thing"
its getting considerably worse. I used to get nervous but it would pass... now it just gets worse.

But I sometimes wonder if it's because I always get Mr to do the talking.. and dont get involved.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't get nervous or overly excited. I look forward to meeting someone new to have a coffee with

And if we do decide to meet again I don't get nervous but I might get a bit excited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no that is a shame .. fingers crossed is a passing thing its getting considerably worse. I used to get nervous but it would pass... now it just gets worse.

But I sometimes wonder if it's because I always get Mr to do the talking.. and dont get involved. "

Possibly the reason if you feel like you have no control over what is going on!

Maybe be more assertive as your a good looking lady and should be confident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no that is a shame .. fingers crossed is a passing thing its getting considerably worse. I used to get nervous but it would pass... now it just gets worse.

But I sometimes wonder if it's because I always get Mr to do the talking.. and dont get involved.

Possibly the reason if you feel like you have no control over what is going on!

Maybe be more assertive as your a good looking lady and should be confident "
no its my choice not to as I hate all the flirty rubbish. And if I sort it then it never gets sorted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh no that is a shame .. fingers crossed is a passing thing its getting considerably worse. I used to get nervous but it would pass... now it just gets worse.

But I sometimes wonder if it's because I always get Mr to do the talking.. and dont get involved.

Possibly the reason if you feel like you have no control over what is going on!

Maybe be more assertive as your a good looking lady and should be confident no its my choice not to as I hate all the flirty rubbish. And if I sort it then it never gets sorted x"

Pmsl fair enough in my past life as part of a couple club meets that were not planned were a lot easier all round and like a lucky bag! You never knew what you were going to get

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By *ust fun9 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Swansea

Thankfully we all different...

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