FabSwingers.com forum: A little shocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just wondering we have a meet on for the weekend, this profile is run by the female half of the couple.

Any way a couple messages us and says they might be free ok I send clear face pictures and a nice message, get a message back and a friend invite which I accept. Now pictures are good except the one of the male half which seems to be taken from miles away, so I ask for a clear picture of him, bearing in mind I'm the female and bi so would play with both parties so want a clearer picture of him.

Message back after a day of waiting saying "if you need a better picture we are not for you" and then blocked us.

Am I wrong in asking for a better picture?

Does there not need for the female half of a couple not to want to like the other male half of the other couple?

Surly there needs to be a attraction on all parties involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly reasonable in my view.

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I look better on pics taken a few hundred yards away

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Definately not wrong,I am also the female and get frustrated with lack of male pics on profiles.I mean if they want a couple,we need clear pics of both of them,there are plenty of us on our profile.

I would say there is a reason they didnt want you to see Mr close up,sorry but thats been my experience .

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I look better on pics taken a few hundred yards away

May be but if you are a couple then a picture of you both clear to view would help.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definately not wrong,I am also the female and get frustrated with lack of male pics on profiles.I mean if they want a couple,we need clear pics of both of them,there are plenty of us on our profile.

I would say there is a reason they didnt want you to see Mr close up,sorry but thats been my experience .

Miss"

Yes I'm the same come on couple profiles get the male half on some pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a very reasonable request

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By *i-shoptonMan
over a year ago

bishopton

You've just dodged a bullet.

A sad teenager or similar bedroom loser.

I've had my share!......swapping mobile numbers usually always flushes them out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not wrong at all..

think you dodged a bullet there OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You've just dodged a bullet.

A sad teenager or similar bedroom loser.

I've had my share!......swapping mobile numbers usually always flushes them out.

Maybe yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they have a long distance relationship?

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"I just wondering we have a meet on for the weekend, this profile is run by the female half of the couple.

Message back after a day of waiting saying "if you need a better picture we are not for you" and then blocked us.

Am I wrong in asking for a better picture?

Does there not need for the female half of a couple not to want to like the other male half of the other couple?

Surly there needs to be a attraction on all parties involved?"

We have a pic of hubby on profile. And a together pic in friends only. Xxxxxx

Suzi

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"not wrong at all..

think you dodged a bullet there OP

You may be right. The hunt continues for a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just wondering we have a meet on for the weekend, this profile is run by the female half of the couple.

Message back after a day of waiting saying "if you need a better picture we are not for you" and then blocked us.

Am I wrong in asking for a better picture?

Does there not need for the female half of a couple not to want to like the other male half of the other couple?

Surly there needs to be a attraction on all parties involved?

We have a pic of hubby on profile. And a together pic in friends only. Xxxxxx

Suzi "

Only got me on profile but 4 of him in friends and of us together.

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

It always amazes me how shy men are. Not only with face pics but body shots. Yes I want to know who I will be potentially playing with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think you are fully within your rights to ask for clearer pictures. Even here as a Single Guy when meeting couples I would want to see clear pictures of them both including faces.

I want to see pics of Fem for obvious reasons as I want to play with here but I also want to see pic of Male so that at least I know what he looks like prior to meeting..and of course there is the added fact that we also already know each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I think you are fully within your rights to ask for clearer pictures. Even here as a Single Guy when meeting couples I would want to see clear pictures of them both including faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe its not a genuine couple if they if can't show a clear photo of the male partner in all fairness.

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By *atureandhornyCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

You're quite right. We once got a picture off a guy and when we met him he was at least 20 years older than his pics. We said thanks but no thanks and left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're not wrong to ask.

i don't they did anything wrong either though. their pics are shit but he might wanna be discreet.

and if they didn't even ask for your pics in the first place then they might be swingers who do not care about looks and don't want to meet people like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Perhaps they have a long distance relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes I think you are fully within your rights to ask for clearer pictures. Even here as a Single Guy when meeting couples I would want to see clear pictures of them both including faces.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wondering we have a meet on for the weekend, this profile is run by the female half of the couple.

Message back after a day of waiting saying "if you need a better picture we are not for you" and then blocked us.

Am I wrong in asking for a better picture?

Does there not need for the female half of a couple not to want to like the other male half of the other couple?

Surly there needs to be a attraction on all parties involved?"

I would say you're in your right to ask? I'd take that as them being a bit dodge to be honest x

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

To be honest its probably some ugly arsed, hairy dude with no partner just getting you to send pictures. When it got too real and awkward he's done one.. I wouldn't think too hard about it if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To be honest its probably some ugly arsed, hairy dude with no partner just getting you to send pictures. When it got too real and awkward he's done one.. I wouldn't think too hard about it if I'm honest."

Thank you.

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By *ysnomiaMan
over a year ago

Preston

" Now pictures are good except the one of the male half which seems to be taken from miles away, so I ask for a clear picture of him, bearing in mind I'm the female and bi so would play with both parties so want a clearer picture of him.

Message back after a day of waiting saying "if you need a better picture we are not for you" and then blocked us.

Am I wrong in asking for a better picture? "

Not wrong at all, If they get antsy I'd think allarm bells should start ringing in your head.

Are you miffed they beat you to the block? (joke) I think chalk it up to good fortune as no more time was wasted on them.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

You did nothing wrong, we got blocked by someone contacting is as they had no newer pics than 2012..We want to know what you look like now, not then i'm not DrFuckingWho

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"You did nothing wrong, we got blocked by someone contacting is as they had no newer pics than 2012..We want to know what you look like now, not then i'm not DrFuckingWho

Who

xxxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wondering we have a meet on for the weekend, this profile is run by the female half of the couple.

Message back after a day of waiting saying "if you need a better picture we are not for you" and then blocked us.

Am I wrong in asking for a better picture?

Does there not need for the female half of a couple not to want to like the other male half of the other couple?

Surly there needs to be a attraction on all parties involved?"

Absolutely nothing wrong with what you did. Clear pictures are a must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we have met the same guy OP. After considering the best course of action we decided to be grown up about it.

So we called him a poo head and ran away blowing raspberries x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our philosophy is to never ask for pictures, and I feel uncomfortable asking for pic. We are always forthcoming with what we look like, and if someone is not willing to do the same, then we let the conversation slide. We certainly wouldn't entertain a discussion about a meet if we don't know they look like.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly this is very common. They request a pic but think you are being unreasonable asking for one in return.

One couple said I should take them at their profile.value since they had more verifications than me.

Either that or they send a photo that is such poor quality or focus, it could be the queen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with asking for a clear face picture. I don't understand why people send pictures of themselves miles away from the camera , face covered with either a hat or sunglasses and sometimes even both

All my face pics are crystal clear and I want to see the same before I arrange anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with asking for a clear face picture. I don't understand why people send pictures of themselves miles away from the camera , face covered with either a hat or sunglasses and sometimes even both

All my face pics are crystal clear and I want to see the same before I arrange anything. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think we have met the same guy OP. After considering the best course of action we decided to be grown up about it.

So we called him a poo head and ran away blowing raspberries x"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Our philosophy is to never ask for pictures, and I feel uncomfortable asking for pic. We are always forthcoming with what we look like, and if someone is not willing to do the same, then we let the conversation slide. We certainly wouldn't entertain a discussion about a meet if we don't know they look like.

Mrs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we have met the same guy OP. After considering the best course of action we decided to be grown up about it.

So we called him a poo head and ran away blowing raspberries x"

That made me 'lol'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They isn't anything wrong with that I think some people don't like having the picture taken like me but I still do it for the site or you wouldn't get anywhere

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By *liceandandyCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Nothing wrong at all with requesting decent pics.

It still amazes us that people get arsey when asked. Can understand if you are wanting to maintain a certain level of anonymity, but we are not going to meet anyone without first seeing What they look like??

People should be up front early on about face pics etc. Yes or no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I look better on pics taken a few hundred yards away

I look better on pics taken a few hundred yards away, through a lens smothered in vaseline and shot through a brick wall

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly this is very common. They request a pic but think you are being unreasonable asking for one in return.

One couple said I should take them at their profile.value since they had more verifications than me.

Either that or they send a photo that is such poor quality or focus, it could be the queen

while I understand that I'd a meeting is still on the cards, if anyone sends us a face picture and they're not for us, we'd never send one back as it would be pointless to do so as we'd rather someone we were never going to meet didn't have our face pictures if that makes sense...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Perfectly reasonable.

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