FabSwingers.com forum: Birthday treat

By *kus2 OP Couple
over a year ago

west malling

So last year for Mrs Uk's birthday treat I arranged a FFM. Despite her huge nerves It was great for us (new experience) and Mrs UK got thoroughly spoilt. (I did get some fun as well as the huge enjoyment of watching Mrs UK have a great time)

So its fast approaching my birthday and I would like to try a MMf. Mrs Uk is keen but worried about how "unfaithful" she would feel afterwards (despite my desire for this to happen)

I know she wouldn't organise anything so should I go ahead with organising a MMF (on the understanding that on the night Mrs Uk has the final say) or should I play "safe" and go for a FFM?

what do you think?

By *adrMan
over a year ago

Near Bedford

I reckon the sensible thing is to arrange a meeting with another couple. You can then "share the cake" which ever way things work out on the date. Happy Birthday !

By *kus2 OP Couple
over a year ago

west malling

that is an idea we have considered but then it becomes slightly off focus. maybe soon though

By *kus2 OP Couple
over a year ago

west malling

so no hordes of people making offers lol

By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

To be honest mate, anything more than a pair of socks and a dodgy CD means you're doing better than most.