FabSwingers.com forum: Contacting a couple to ask female to play solo?

By *ewweyagain OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I see a lot of couples profiles that have a statement saying 'don't ask to play solo with just female half'. Surely the reason a man looks at a couple profile is because he wants to play with a 'couple' and not just the female? Do single men actually ask this question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see a lot of couples profiles that have a statement saying 'don't ask to play solo with just female half'. Surely the reason a man looks at a couple profile is because he wants to play with a 'couple' and not just the female? Do single men actually ask this question?"

At least once a day, sometimes more.

It's really bloody annoying.....

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

I find other couples ask that question more than single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find other couples ask that question more than single guys"

Just as bad to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get many messages asking to play solo

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By *ewweyagain OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

At least once a day, sometimes more.

It's really bloody annoying..... "

I guess it's a valid comment then. I suppose there just aren't enough single women on site.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

As I said on the other tread

Yes we get asked if I'd play on my own normally by couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.

Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many times to mention, and sometimes by the male half of other couples x

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.

Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone..."

I wouldn't ask but if that's the way they played I would

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

we have never had anyone ask either of us to play solo.

We're either scary or deeply unattractive

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By *ewweyagain OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.

Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone..."

That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do play solo so is it wrong that people ask ? (Mrs )

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"Too many times to mention, and sometimes by the male half of other couples x "

This

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By *ewweyagain OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"As I said on the other tread

Yes we get asked if I'd play on my own normally by couples "

Seems to be a thread about male halfs of couples. Are they worse than single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.

Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...

That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well."

Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh God yes.

More times then you could imagine.

Some are really ballsy and ask why not even after you tell them no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've already asked this in the lounge....

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By *ewweyagain OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask."

I've seen that before on the forums and I guess it must be hard for a couple as you are trying to please 2 people rather than just yourself. Could there be advantages to being single!!???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have never had anyone ask either of us to play solo.

We're either scary or deeply unattractive

Must be scary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As I said on the other tread

Yes we get asked if I'd play on my own normally by couples

Seems to be a thread about male halfs of couples. Are they worse than single guys?"

Or are they actually single guys?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"we have never had anyone ask either of us to play solo.

We're either scary or deeply unattractive

Must be scary.

better believe it. Thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.

I've seen that before on the forums and I guess it must be hard for a couple as you are trying to please 2 people rather than just yourself. Could there be advantages to being single!!???"

in the sense that attraction only needs to go two or three ways rather than four, yes

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.

Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...

That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.

Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask."

Tbh, We'd rather it was done the other way? ie. unless it actually says on the profile "We will meet seperatly" then don't ask..

Avoncouple we would never approach because your profile does not state you play alone..simple as really..

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"As I said on the other tread

Yes we get asked if I'd play on my own normally by couples

Seems to be a thread about male halfs of couples. Are they worse than single guys?"

Out of all the people that have asked only 1 was a single male...

Just proves not all people that message whether male. Female or couples read the profile.

No group of person is ' worse ' individuals fuck it up for everyone from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.

Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...

That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.

Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.

Tbh, We'd rather it was done the other way? ie. unless it actually says on the profile "We will meet seperatly" then don't ask..

Avoncouple we would never approach because your profile does not state you play alone..simple as really..

Well guys message us all the time . I then explain how we like to meet (sometimes together sometimes just me ) and then we arrange either . Works for us

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By *ewweyagain OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

I've seen that before on the forums and I guess it must be hard for a couple as you are trying to please 2 people rather than just yourself. Could there be advantages to being single!!???

in the sense that attraction only needs to go two or three ways rather than four, yes"

If that's the only benefit then I think the couples probably win that contest.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've seen that before on the forums and I guess it must be hard for a couple as you are trying to please 2 people rather than just yourself. Could there be advantages to being single!!???

in the sense that attraction only needs to go two or three ways rather than four, yes

If that's the only benefit then I think the couples probably win that contest. "

I think there are more factors at play, age being significant among them. On the whole I'd say that you're right though, couples are second on the success list overall.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.

Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...

That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.

Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.

Tbh, We'd rather it was done the other way? ie. unless it actually says on the profile "We will meet seperatly" then don't ask..

Avoncouple we would never approach because your profile does not state you play alone..simple as really..

Well guys message us all the time . I then explain how we like to meet (sometimes together sometimes just me ) and then we arrange either . Works for us "

That's fair and as you play with guys you are probably inundated anyway, but do you not think that by stating the fact on your profile you might get attention from guys who maybe less inclined to contact now as they are for want of a better phrase "More respectful" of preferences..

But as said, you probably have enough attention anyway not to worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have looked at couple's profiles to have a sneaky Perv on the lady half, but I rather meet solo women, hence my account preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno about single men, but I do sometimes.

Sometimes I even ask if the bloke is interested in playing alone...

That's a whole new perspective. As usual being only mindful of my singularly 'man brain' and didn't think that woman asked to play solo as well.

Sometimes I only find one person in the couple to be interesting. So if they don't say that they only meet together on their profile, I just ask.

Tbh, We'd rather it was done the other way? ie. unless it actually says on the profile "We will meet seperatly" then don't ask..

Avoncouple we would never approach because your profile does not state you play alone..simple as really..

Well guys message us all the time . I then explain how we like to meet (sometimes together sometimes just me ) and then we arrange either . Works for us

But as said, you probably have enough attention anyway not to worry about it

Quite possibly ! mr wrote the profile when we first joined and this was all completely new to me

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We only meet together at min and it says this on our profile,so we find it rude if people ask to meet either of us alone.Same when people direct the conversation at just one of us.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the cunt bane of fab.

there will always be a perceived high percentage of cunts from the largest group.

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By *ewweyagain OP Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.

there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group."

You may have just reinforced the myth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.

there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group.

You may have just reinforced the myth?"

OMG...because I said cunt? get a grip ffs.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.

there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group.

You may have just reinforced the myth?

OMG...because I said cunt? get a grip ffs."

Wash your mouth out shorty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.

there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group.

You may have just reinforced the myth?

OMG...because I said cunt? get a grip ffs.

Wash your mouth out shorty

I best not say what I wanna wash it out with Tallyin xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you ever get guys asking about the guy in a couple?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the c*** bane of fab.

there will always be a perceived high percentage of c***s from the largest group.

You may have just reinforced the myth?

OMG...because I said cunt? get a grip ffs.

Wash your mouth out shorty

I best not say what I wanna wash it out with Tallyin xx"

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

"I like threads like these that dispel some of the myths , that single men are the cunt bane of fab.

there will always be a perceived high percentage of cunts from the largest group."

In our experience a large number of couple profiles are run solely by the male, all contact, arrangements, "Your hot woman" "Fucking gorgeous, message me" etc. Come from the male of couples, even some well verified ones, so all you have confirmed is that some cunts manage to find women to marry and some don't

You can add me in the married list if you like, I don't give a rats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ever get guys asking about the guy in a couple? "

We have done in the past. Just directed them to where they could chat with him alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once asked a couple if the male half was interested in playing alone and I got blocked lol. Nevermind

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